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How to talk so little kids will listen.
Mine is 2.5 so some if this might not work but this is what I do:
If it's something she wants that we are not buying I tell her I will put it on the list for her birthday. I then write it down for her so she can see it.
I try to set expectations. Such as "we are going to the shop to buy milk. We will not be buying toys. After this we can go to the park".
give warnings for transitions. In 5 minutes we will pack up our toys then go out. That way it's not an abrupt "stop playing now".
Accept her feelings and help label them. "You're really upset about not having the toy." Sometimes helps her understand and makes her feel heard.
Sometimes it's best to control the situation. I know she's not her best in the afternoon so we never try to go to the shop then, it ends badly.
As /u/himit said be positive. Say what you do want not what you don't want. Say "walk" instead of "don't run" or "we touch gently" instead of "don't hit". Stops you feeling like they're not listening and helps them understand what you do want them to do.
Those things and a lot of sitting nearby and being there for when she calms down really. We've had some absolutely huge meltdowns in the middle of Tesco where I have just sat on the floor next to her while people walked by. It's hard but it does tend to be over pretty quick.
It might be worth looking up baby led weaning, i know he's not a baby but theres great info about different textures/approaches for different ages. By nearly 2 my kids was eating nearly the same meals as us (mostly just spice that was different)
This book is great https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/1615195580/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_glt_fabc_7MFB3776XV6A6KTZWE85
But I also think that a chat with the gp or health visitor might be a good plan
We have blackout curtains for all year use and the Tommee Tippee blackout blinds for summer time. They have both suckers and velcro for resizing the blind (if your window is smaller than the blind, which comes in a pretty big size) to stop light coming in. They're great for taking with you on holiday if needed and also means you don't need to do anything to your windows (aside from having to clean off the sucker marks if you need to use water to make them stick).
https://smile.amazon.co.uk/dp/B08BD8YCC7/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_glt_fabc_T8GDW5SFY2X142M0BZ31
That's basically just 3 year olds. Is she busy doing something? They honestly can't hear you when they are. I usually ask my now 4 year old to turn her listening ears on, then when she pretends to do it or says they are I know she has actually heard me.
Another thing to try is giving her choice and some control over her life. For example " would you like to take your nappy off now or in 10 minutes?" Or if you absolutely need it done now "would you like me to take your nappy off or do it yourself?". Then no isn't an option but she can chose something which makes her feel more in control.
Check out How to talk so little kids will listen. It's helped me rephrase how I'm asking for things and I'm more likely to get the result I want.
Finally, pick your battles. Some things are more important than others. For example for us I've had issues with mine running too far after school and I lose sight of her. Together we've decided on where is a safe place to do it (down a straight path and she can wait at the end for me) and where she can't (round the corner by the woods as I can't see her). So it's not so much a ban but more finding something that works for both of us.
I found watercolour paints the best. Washable, a little goes a long way and cheap!
You need to work on the dipping in water, then in the paint, then draw, then repeat, but once they get it you are sorted.
Swap your DNS settings on the router for something ad-blocking. I have and the internet is like a different beast. Apps with ads don’t load the ads and websites that are ad-heavy (like local newspapers) are completely ad-free.
I use the adult settings on: https://adguard.com/en/adguard-dns/overview.html
If you just want the DNS they are:
For "Family protection" servers: 94.140.14.15 94.140.15.16
https://www.amazon.co.uk/little-tikes-Press-Go-Cat/dp/B00EPE5QHY
absolutely fascinated my kids whilst they were that age you press it and it rolls away and then you chase it and repeat ad nauseum
We got these for our little ones 1st birthday, she still plays with them now and she's just over two. Stacking animals
I've got a Gro Clock which we're long past needing. You're welcome to it if you pay for postage. I was only going to take it to the charity shop. We have no box or instructions, but the instructions can be found online, I'm sure. Let me know.
Edited to also recommend this, if you wanted to buy brand new. I have it in my bedroom and for the price it's pretty excellent.
>That's basically just 3 year olds.
Phew!!
> Is she busy doing something?
Sometimes but most of the time it's when she's just with us not concentrating on anything.
> I usually ask my now 4 year old to turn her listening ears on
Us too!!! Stopped working.
> >Another thing to try is giving her choice and some control over her life. For example " would you like to take your nappy off now or in 10 minutes?"
Yep usual answer is 'erm none of those'. She's wised up to that tactic.
>Or if you absolutely need it done now "would you like me to take your nappy off or do it yourself?".
This can work actually because she likes to be in control. Usually takes 3/4 times if threatening to do it ourselves tho.
> Then no isn't an option but she can chose something which makes her feel more in control. > >Check out How to talk so little kids will listen. It's helped me rephrase how I'm asking for things and I'm more likely to get the result I want.
We've got this and I need to read it asap. > >Finally, pick your battles. Some things are more important than others. For example for us I've had issues with mine running too far after school and I lose sight of her. Together we've decided on where is a safe place to do it (down a straight path and she can wait at the end for me) and where she can't (round the corner by the woods as I can't see her). So it's not so much a ban but more finding something that works for both of us.
Awesome thank you thank you
My daughter is 6 with ASD and learning disability and still can't open these ones we have: https://www.amazon.co.uk/BabyDan-8247-1-6-Multi-Lock/dp/B000MLMGE0/ref=sr_1_126?dchild=1&keywords=BabyDan&qid=1600002929&sr=8-126
No damage to anything we've used them on.
Our 2 year old loves these CRAYOLA 54-1070-E-000 6ct Sticks, Less Mess Washable Paint https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B07T16F586/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_fttgFb4771MAS
They’re easier than holding a brush and chunkier than a pen. They’re his favourite crafting option
We got way more use out of these than I expected. Months of fun. At one point one of the wrist things was her BFF (actually something similar but I can’t find the exact one in my receipts right now). 4pcs Sozzy Baby Infant Soft Toy Wrist Rattles Foots Finders Developmental https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B00O05SYHW/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_tai_uRKKCbXJH984S
These are the only CDs that don’t drive me mad after almost 5 years of constant listening, in fact I still very much enjoy listening to them :-)
From the description: “traditional songs recreated by the voice of Zero 7, singer Sophie Barker and producer KK who has worked with many famous artists including Bjork and Brian Eno. Together they have created quality music for young children, that both children and parents alike could enjoy time and time again”
This one is pretty decent too: 40 Favourite Nursery Rhymes
My mum picked up a book for my Dad from my son. It is one where you give it to the grown up and they complete the different sections and give it back to the child to act as a repository of information when the child is older.
The one my mum got she found blank in the charity shop she works in but looking on Amazon you can still buy them -
There are loads of different ones you can get from different places.
We got this Fisher Price gym when my little one was 6 months and it still gets played with now at 2.5.
You can still add something like this .https://www.amazon.co.uk/Sliding-Stainless-Latches-Bathroom-Furniture/dp/B07BCG7Q8L/ref=sr_1_5
The metal multi locking system the locksmith refers to would stop you adding an addition lock inside the door. Nothing to stop you putting something like this at the top of the door where kiddo can't reach it. We also have a multipoint locking system on our door and this is what we use to stop them escaping.
All children go through hitting phases, usually it's just an expression of big feelings. In the example you gave, I would just ignore it until you've got him somewhere safe where you can describe what happened and the actions you took. At home, I just catch my son's hands (gently but firmly) and say, "I can't let you hit me." That's the advice given in this excellent book that's solved a lot of conflicts for us with our 4-year-old.
One thing I will say is don't try to reason with a 3-year-old, they can only really understand consequences after taking an action, they're far too impulsive to think about what they're doing. They might have a good enough memory to tell you what the consequence is if asked directly, but you have to catch them before the impulsive need to do takes over. I find it really hard to remember that sometimes because by 3 children start to have language skills that can make you forget how old they actually are.
I did this too but then I found this on Amazon https://www.amazon.co.uk/FireAngels-Urinal-Emergency-Camping-Training/dp/B0721FPC1M/ref=mp_s_a_1_6_sspa?crid=GCVEPEIT48ED&keywords=kids+wee+bottle&qid=1665431694&qu=eyJxc2MiOiIzLjc1IiwicXNhIjoiMy4zNiIsInFzcCI6IjMuMDkifQ%3D%3D&spref... and it is a game changer! When I actually remember to take it with us that is! You still have to find a discreet bush though which I find to be the hardest part!
The “You Choose” books are great, my son especially loves the space one, we always make sure we have a couple packed for long car trips.
There's little nature sticker books which are quite cheap, especially if you can get combined postage/find them out in the wild.
A little colouring book and pack of crayons would also be not tat and probably used.
I've just purchased this amazing year 3 Maths workbook (my daughter is in year 4 but still very useful) that's paired with an AR app. My daughter has never been so excited about learning Math before. She used the app to project 3D characters onto the book which really brought it to life! Below is the amazon link
I bought Colin the intern, he is a good little lad, very thin so goes under furniture and not too noisy. We have two dogs and he manages better than our Shark. He's also very reasonable.
We got the mop attachment which basically just wets the floor so thats not exactly what I was after but if I go round after with a dry mop (or leave it overnight) it does work.
We used this in a few locations around our open plan lounge to contain our twins and keep them safe..
It's fully modular and you can buy smaller segments to shorten / lengthen it as required. It works great.
Nothing, just teach him to traverse the kitchen safely. My house is such that I can't block access to the kitchen, so I got a lock for the cooker so he couldn't pull the door of the cooker open (https://www.amazon.co.uk/gp/product/B07JMJSK2C/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o01_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1), and locks for the doors of the cupboards with things I really didn't want him to touch (alcohol and cleaning stuff) and then I just let him come into the kitchen. He's almost four now and he can pour himself water from the tap, get his own snacks and fruit, and get me bowls and plates etc, and he learned that from being safely allowed access to the kitchen so he can watch me.
You can get playpens that open up into room dividers, there’s a few variants online. Or something like this
Huggies drinights for up to 15 years. You can get them in Tesco.
Alternatively, get some mats for her bed. These work well and are inexpensive.
https://smile.amazon.co.uk/Drylife-Super-Absorbent-Washable-Protector/dp/B07NDCKN88/
We have this one (https://www.amazon.co.uk/gp/product/B01M8M07V0/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&th=1) although paid less than that at the time. My son is pretty small for his age so a stool wouldn't have been tall enough for him at 1. He uses it every day and we sometimes use it to reach things on high shelves, although he also uses a little stool sometimes for hand washing as that's easier for him to move independently. The tower works well and feels more secure than the stool. We tried to pick a less bulky model but it still takes up a significant amount of space in the kitchen.
My 4 year old is on day 2, shes pretty miserable. I've ordered https://www.amazon.co.uk/gp/product/B003HCCB8M/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o00_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1, bit pricey but hoping it helps. Pharmacist also recommended Piriton, will also help them sleep a bit (you can get it as a syrup for kids). And apparently sodium bicarb in the bath can help (pharmacists advice and also what I've read others say).
I have seen people who are selling up their soft play business on FB market place so might be worth keeping an eye there.
I also think that Etsy is worth looking at for piklers.
Alternatively what about one of these Little Tike plastic climbing frames with slide, I know it's less aesthetic but suitable inside and outside https://www.amazon.co.uk/Little-Tikes-Junior-Activity-Gym/dp/B000AOETDU/ref=asc\_df\_B000AOETDU/?tag=googshopuk-21&linkCode=df0&hvadid=215328844946&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=12128784837972826886&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&...
Bugs to Spot (Usborne Minis) https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/1474952178?
These little books are great, especially paired with some children's binoculars. They have a sticker for every species and a chart to put it on when you've spotted it. They have separate books for birds, trees, flowers, bugs, etc. and they're only £4 each.
Not available as a flap book that I can see but I highly recommend The singing mermaid by Julia Donaldson. It includes Silver Sands beach which thrilled my daughter when we went there.
My son loved this at that age (good series in general apart from the odd factual mistake), there's a page on rockpools!
You can chill it out on a night a bit with decent air purifiers, depending on the size of the room something like this might help or one of the bigger Vax etc ones will cover a larger area, we have a Vax ACAMV101 which is fantastic but the filters cost a fortune.
We use them throughout the house because of respiratory problems and found they help with hayfever too. If you buy one, make sure to grab at least 2 spare filters and restock when you use one, they go out of stock even on the big brands and take ages to come back.
Cetirizine and Loratidine (non drowsy) are the two main ingredients in hayfever remedies, they're a lot cheaper if you buy generics and just as effective. I've found I have to switch from one to the other monthly to stay effective and I have to take Cetirizine at night or I'm monged throughout the day. Unfortunately they're the only effective thing I've found for outside.
Brica by Munchkin Travel Booster Seat With Underseat Storage And Strap To Convert Into Handy Portable Carry Bag For Dining On-The-Go, Wipe Clean, For Children Up To 15 kg/33.1 lbs, Blue/Grey https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B01M6XGKV1/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_YAS2KBFN0APP2CKQA5G3?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
We have this and even use it at home sometimes. It has a compartment for plates etc.
My 1 year old was breastfed and it took ages for me to get a dummy she liked. I needed up and am still using the tommee tippee closer to nature ones. They look a little odd and are hollow but they are ment to mimic a nipple.
Tommee Tippee Breast-Like Soother Night, 0-6m, 4 Pack, Glow in the Dark, Skin-Like Texture, Symmetrical Orthodontic Design, Blue and Yellow https://smile.amazon.co.uk/dp/B0817F429C/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_i_60BBQ08WQXA8KSS4TYJB?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
Summer Infant Pop N Sit Aqua, 1 Count (Pack of 1) https://smile.amazon.co.uk/dp/B08MZQ8LF5/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_i_BCA3VYGAN5B03QKWHJJR
We got this for our little one, we loved it and its pretty stable, has a tray and if you go somewhere it can be attached to a chair
Electric nail files. Not gonna use scissors or clippers on a newborn!
Electric Nail File Drill for Baby No Sharp Claws Hurt, 6 in 1 Safety Cutter Trimmer Clipper for Toes and Fingers (Blue) https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B07MXNVLMD/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_GTVMXXW3F3PWTET8V5D9?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
Hape Battery Powered Train Engine No. 1 Red and Black for Ages 3+ https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B01FH04300/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_i_NQDM9WSFQCTZ7PYSBVKK We have this one and use it with rechargeable IKEA batteries. Works well powerful enough to pull a very very long train and is only £8
The absolute cheapest way of doing nappies is to use reusable ones, but go for old school terry squares rather than the new fangled fancy ones. We do this and I thought it would be much more faff than it actually turned out to be. You can get them for about a quid each here: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Girlie-Percent-Cotton-Nappies-12-Piece/dp/B01MRBJY38/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=terry+nappies&qid=1652346101&sr=8-1
Then you need liners (either disposable or reusable) and waterproof wraps, and you're away.
We use aldi disposables when we're out, and these at home. I think this is by far the most economical way of doing things. If you're interested and have any questions do drop me a pm!
These ones are expensive but omg they are great. Write on anything, wash off easily and nice colours. My kids love them. I just checked and I bought our last set a year ago and they’re still going so they last a long time.
My husband picked up these for our daughter and they’re actually pretty good…and she’s so pleased with them (age 4). I groaned when they arrived but she’s so damn happy using them that I got over it. https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B07HL29N3N?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_ZMVFXVNWWATWMY4T4ARW
If you ever have chickenpox I strongly suggest you get Virasoothe spray the moment spots appear. It really helped cool the itching.
Care Virasoothe Chicken Pox Relief Spray Gel 60ml https://smile.amazon.co.uk/dp/B009RP9C1C/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_80YQVNG5A42TCGN10MHQ
Pro tip- put a swim nappy on, swimming costume and then normal nappy over the top. Swim napped don’t hold any liquids and just catch poo.
I did the opposite of everyone here and dressed myself first, but stripped baby naked and wrapped him in a huge adult bath towel so he was warm.
I also have one of these which was AMAZING for swimming
Vivida Lifestyle - Essential Hooded Poncho Towel-Dry Changing Robe - Towelling Robe with Hood, Quickdry Fabric, Large Pocket, for Beach, Surf, Swimming & Triathlon https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B07ND2BZ2F/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_ZWZR2G3D00E3HVBY11EY?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
I’d pop this over myself whilst I got baby stripped and wrapped, then change underneath this until I could focus on baby.
So, for one you want to remove the caps, they aren't needed in UK plugs and they are actually a safety hazard. More on that here https://www.nurseryworld.co.uk/news/article/doh-guidance-highlights-dangers-of-plug-socket-covers
My kid was also obsessed with turning switches on and off, so the first thing I tried was a bit of masking tape over the switches themselves to kind of hide them from view. That worked for most of them. For the ones that I couldn't risk him switching off (the one that powered the internet router) and that were most exposed to him I got these, because after he got wise to the masking tape, and then got bored of the switches themselves he graduated to being able to pull out the plugs instead 🤪 https://www.amazon.co.uk/gp/product/B003TFCB6E/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o06_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1
I did two things.
If you need access to the sockets, you can get a complete cover like this https://www.amazon.co.uk/Clippasafe-Electrical-Plug-Socket-Protector/dp/B003TFCB6E - although shop around you might find one cheaper. This was useful in the lounge for where I needed the plugs on, to prevent them being turned off by curious fingers.
Like you I had a 2 gang socket near the cot and so I just blanked it off: https://www.screwfix.com/p/2-gang-blanking-plate-white/9920d
There's a box you can get to cover sockets completely, link on mobile: BabySecurity Electric Plug Socket Cover (1 Pack, Double) Proofing Electrical Plug Socket for Home and School - White UK Plug https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B00GD7AXFG/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_AE6ES2SADTTW4A0G17D6?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
My kid got a diagnosis with this too, obviously to a much lesser extent as we were given no options for correction. Did anyone recommend the Otovent balloon thing? We found it to be a little helpful and at worst you've spent £8 on a weird gadget.
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Otovent-Autoinflation-Clinically-Effective-Treatment/dp/B00308F9O6
Obviously you need to be super careful with a kid that young and balloons though.
We’ve literally just been through this phase (4 yo boy)
1) Try the book hands are not for hitting with him and use the phrase (calmly) when putting him on time out or when he lashes out, say it in a rhyming way and bring it up as practise “hey xxxx, what are hands not for?” and say good boy that’s right when he says “hitting”.
2) Proactive positive reinforcement (I’m certain there’s a better term for this). Anyway, instead of “no hitting xxx!”, “stop being naughty” or “naughty boy, say sorry” - instead use a calm tone and reinforce a positive message “good boys don’t hit, do they xxxx, and your a good boy”.
Both of these tactics seemed to have worked well for us.
We moved across country recently, where we were before, the pre-school he went to was literally in an infant school, he had to wear uniform and everything. Whilst he was here he was very well behaved. Though out of necessity, where he is now is essentially a church hall, and to be honest not as well organised and has a “90’s playgroup” vibe to it.
We think he’s just ready for school now and starts in September.
My nearly five-year-old still plays with the wooden blocks that we bought when he was only one. He has also kept playing with little wooden cars like these ones since he was a baby. Simple musical instruments have also always gone down well, though they can be a bit noisy!
Mine is also a young one (July birthday) and is similar. I would start by asking the teacher what she's like at school. They usually try and get kids who seem to be on their own to join in with the others. They've all missed so much school they sometimes don't quite know how to say "can I play?" and need some help getting started.
We try to go to the playground after school to meet other children from school and her class. She's in clubs where there are children from other schools to mix with. It's done wonders for her confidence at talking to other children and making friends. Are there any after school clubs your daughter might be interested in?
How to talk so little kids will listen has lots of great tips for talking to children. Big Little Feelings also has lots of useful tips. Making time to play together usually helps my daughter open up a bit, when we're having fun she's more likely to talk to me about her day. If she's had a hard day I try to empathise "oh that sounds like a hard day. I can see that's made you feel sad" and not necessarily try and fix it for her. Sometimes she just wants to tell me and let it go which is fine, I can't always fix everything and she doesn't always need me to.
We have one, it's a toddler one with a net around, we love it! And so does every other kid that comes to play, one at a time :) https://www.amazon.co.uk/AOKCOS-4-5Ft-Trampoline-Safety-Enclosure/dp/B08P1DRQ12/ref=mp_s_a_1_4?crid=36EZ4L7JEOPXX&keywords=trampoline+small&qid=1645992568&sprefix=trampoline+small+%2Caps%2C103&sr=8-4
You could try a nursing cover like this. I found this v useful for getting the hang of things, or for the odd occasion (e.g. wedding) where I wanted to wear a dress that was accessible but I didn't want to flop a whole boob out. In my experience family (well, the male members) took a little while to get used to me feeding (my brother found it super awkward), and I think this also helps. Once you (and the baby) get the hang of it it's easier to feed them without showing anything, + you stop caring!
https://www.mustela.co.uk/cradle-cap-cream combined with Pourty Cradle Cap Massage Brush Blue https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B00VKAVAAS/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_i_8V1HMAV9ZN7C7D7HY4M1
Was great for us after I had exhausted so many other options
Otherwise a spray coconut oil to keep it moistened and slick so his nails can’t grip skin
This magic spray completely got rid of the smell of sick when I had too much wine one night before we had LO and I vomited all over my partner’s car… we have kept the bottle in the event our daughter ends up as messy as her mother 😳 albeit minus the wine.
Ok this is my jam because my 3.5 year old son LOVES any media about superheroes.
Action Pack on Netflix is a good one. Reminds me a bit of PJ Masks but better/less repetitive.
The various Lego Marvel and DC movies (also on Netflix) are generally fun and more appropriate for kids than the regular cartoons.
The Rocketeer series on Disney+ is great.
StarBeam (Netflix)
Also if your daughter loves Spidey and his Amazing Friends I have to recommend the Duplo set, my son got it for Christmas and absolutely loves it. I’ve also got this ”My First Comic” preordered and am hoping he enjoys it.
My son is 27 months and sits in this at our table: Nuby Travel Booster Seat, Folds Into A Handy Bag https://smile.amazon.co.uk/dp/B07R6JVT5H/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_glt_i_5VZQ1V9ZZZZ4QPTYHPXQ
He's been in it since we got rid of the high chair and weighs about 16kg.
We’re going through something very similar now. Our daughter is going through a big mummy phase and hates Daddy. But it flip flops and changes so much i know it’s just her emotions getting the better of her.
If you like to read books I highly recommend this, it talks about your little ones emotional rollercoaster and how you fit in it
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Emotional-Life-Toddler-Alicia-Lieberman-ebook/dp/B074ZVYW8V/ref=nodl_
The 3+ gummies are only that due to potential choking risk. If your kid doesn't gobble you can use them if your comfortable.
However, we use these - https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B06Y34ND19?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share and my 2year old likes them. There a bit like love hearts in texture
I flew easyjet loads with my son when he was under 2 and he had his own seat. At that time easyjet required that they either travelled in a car seat or you used a CARES 5 point harness https://www.amazon.co.uk/Cares-Child-Airplane-Safety-Harness/dp/B0012E4FV8 . I purchased the CARES harness as it was cheaper than the car seat and much more portable. I would definitely recommend them to anyone that intends to fly a fair amount with their children. My son used his up until he was 4 even though it wasn't required past 2.
I've just looked on their website and it seems that is still the case
> - On the parent/guardian’s lap with the use of an extension seat belt. - In a suitable child car seat (age/weight/height in accordance with manufacturers guidelines). - In their own seat with a CARES harness (aged 1-4 years approximately and for weight between 10 and 20kg).
Ultimately it's up to you which device you choose to use. I would say that the reason that they say to only use in accordance with manufacturer's guidelines is for your child's safety. If you wouldn't put your child on a booster seat in a car then don't do it on a plane either. It's not really about whether the staff will notice or not. But again completely up to you if you want to take the risk.
We've got 2 of these. They aren't perfect, I find the head rest/back bit slips down easily if you are moving it between cars or something but it stays in place otherwise and has never moved when either of the know ds has been using it. The belt guide is in the head rest so does sit in the correct position across their chest. It's got 2 loops coming out the base of it which attach to isofix points but these are really only for keeping it located when the child is getting in and out rather than safety which is dealt with but your car's seat belt.
So yeah, they do us but there are certainly better out there. We got these in 2018 for £36 each. Unfortunately I'm not made of money as I'd probably get ones without the niggles.
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I got most of those off library genesis, plus a couple elsewhere. I could find more if I searched deeper, but that's a pretty decent set.
This has proper hip positioning and lasts until they're about 3.
It is different than what you asked for but this one was loved by everyone so far: https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B009SLBH36/ref=cm_sw_r_fm_api_glt_fabc_FXBYHEEMJ885Q2H300MG?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
We bought it for our toddler, our friends' kids, everyone loved it. Don't give them all as the water will slowly degrade them all, give them only 2-3 at once and the crayons will last for really long.
Habebe Glider Rocking Nursing Maternity Breastfeeding Recliner Chair with footstool WITH WASHABLE COVERS https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B004QN3TUA/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_glt_fabc_ZXXHQ085H6MK0RH7BMSW?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
I had this one, it was super comfy and the pockets were really handy, but the price has gone way up since we bought it! Also, once baby was weaned we didn't really have space for it so we have just sold it. I guess it depends how long you would use it if it's worth the money. There are lots secondhand on Facebook marketplace
I can’t pretend to be much better at this, but we sometimes do indoors dates. So one of us plans something to do as a ‘date’ like a floor picnic with a film, a fancy meal delivered, or a game like these unsolved case files .
We use to live over 2.5+ hours away from family and friends and would make the trip back regularly to see them with two under 3.
The usual “set list” was as follows
- “Eye spy” (without the guessing part)
- Spotify playlist with songs to all sing along to
- Make sure they have snacks and fluids
- Toilet/coffee stop halfway
Like clockwork they would start going mental into the last hour of the journey, so we would then bust out the tablet on a headrest mount the mount could be angled so they can both see.
This connected to Bluetooth so they both could hear would get us through the rest of the journey. If returning at night we would put something relaxing on like moon and me.
A crucial top tip! We use to do this trip in all kinds of weather. For the driver, who is trying to concentrate, especially in torrential rain on the M6! If it got too much, with the kids going nuts, the driver could put some headphones on and listen to something and concentrate.
This trips were never fun, they were stressful especially when the older one was potty training . But had we not done them, we’d never seen any family or friends and missed out on a lot of special occasions - so in hindsight I don’t regret doing them.
Nobody wants their kids glued to screens, but we treat them as smashing the emergency glass, and 99% time is a good distraction.
Duplo is the best. Lasts for ever (my mum still has mine from over 25 years ago), great for creative play and she’ll be playing with it for years. There are farm or zoo animal sets, vehicles like trains, fire engines or planes, more dollhouse type stuff, just the classic building bricks and all sorts so no matter what she’s into you can find something that will appeal to her. There’s also a big range of sizes/prices so you can spend anywhere from £10 to £100 depending on your budget.
My son got his first set (this numbers train) for his 2nd birthday and his collection’s just kept growing since then. He’s now 3 and a half and still plays with it every day.
That’s such a great scenario!
My son (same age) likes to do rescues and escapes. Eg: the house is under attack by a giant octopus (his grabby 5 month old sister in her bouncer), a daddy monster, crocodiles, etc and everyone needs to evacuate and escape in his truck.
Another one he likes is hosting a birthday party (he’s obsess with birthdays). Nominate one of her dolls to have a birthday, your daughter can make a banner and some other paper decorations to stick up. My son likes to wrap up some little toys to be presents and put out some snacks (raisins, crackers and things like that) and then do a full birthday party with singing, blowing out the candles, unwrapping presents and such.
Or there’s the classic “what’s wrong with this picture”: bed in the bathroom, person asleep in the kitchen, etc and she needs to figure out where everything’s meant to go.
We got my son this simple Octonauts figures set for his birthday and he LOVES acting out and coming up with scenarios for them.
I feel the pain, my lad's always been massive. We had to get one of the playpen/travel cot type, without the raised sleeping part. It's been a while, but I think this was the one.
It fit fine in the back of a Corsa, so you should be fine.
I'm a big fan of the Playmobil 123 sets that are aimed at toddlers. I know they're not as fun themes but they're really good quality and have no small parts that are choking hazards. My 2 year old can generally be trusted not to mouth things now but anything with lots of small parts risks getting lost.
Playmobil 123 is compatible with the regular stuff - the figures are the same size (but the 123 ones are only jointed at the waist) so they could be used together. It also has pretty good re-sale value on eBay.
Comparing similar 123 and Playmobil sets, my 2 year old has this bin waggon. It's small but holds up to rough play. https://smile.amazon.co.uk/dp/B004LM3BJK/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_glt_fabc_XNFBGBP9NNMR101YACW5 I'd consider this 4+ set https://smile.amazon.co.uk/dp/B07P583QGM/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_glt_fabc_X0C1461Z8T60WSR96PRT for him turning 3 but first removing the tiny bits. I think 18 months would be too young.
I used Oasis brand in the past, but it looks like you might have trouble finding some now. I bought them from boots but it was a fair few years back now. They might still stock them in store but I was struggling to find some online. If you’re struggling to find any, maybe these would still be better than a microwave steriliser?
I picked up a skip hop lunch bag cheap on alidi. They currently have some other insulated bags going cheap.
My favourite lunch box is the Yumbox. Just the right size and the seal works brilliantly. No leaks yet.
https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B07JLNHVCX/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_glc_fabc_VYJJX9S3KJETSQC76J6H
That is the one we are using just now and I just bought a large net bag to put inside. The catch is a bit flimsy not sure how long it will last though.
It is quite big but I dont mind as I then manage to use up almost a full load of clean ones and just throw them in the washing machine then resoak them while they are still wet.
Try not to stress. The toilets at nursery will be appropriately sized for her, so most likely a lot less intimidating than at home. In my teaching experience, a lot of children are excited and fascinated by the little toilets there. There's also the peer pressure factor that all the other kids will be using them too.
I would keep offering the toilet as an option every time and let her see you use the toilet. Lots of people use these little step ladders to help encourage independence and so the child feels more secure on the big toilet https://www.amazon.co.uk/Training-Adjustable-Cushion-Non-Slip-Suitable/dp/B08LQHLTCJ/
My 10yo is currently in early puberty, so I borrowed this book from my niece who really got a lot from it. My daughter is yet to look at it, but after having look through it myself I thought it was bang on.
I bought the refillable ones special on Amazon. :-) I was in the US at the time but they were rather like this sort of thing.
We got an electric one. We were recommended it by the dentist who says even when they chew, it's still cleaning due to the rotating.
It wasn't expensive. From Amazon.
A decent fan, while you can still get one, or better cooling if you can afford it, cold you can deal with, a hot summer with a baby is miserable. A soft or adjustable light, indirect lamp or something that won't wake your baby when you do your 115th check of the night. I'd recommend something pink or red.
We just used a D-link IP cam as a baby monitor, hooks upto the phones with Tinycam Monitor, you can use it as audio only and have it run in the background. Still working after 6 years :)
Not wooden blocks, but our daughter loved "nesting boxes". She played with then for years:
Like this:
https://smile.amazon.co.uk/dp/B07VT83M7S/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_fab_E-kEFbB4AGPAS
Super cheap, super light and can't hurt if they fall, but let's them build nice tall towers to knock down. Surprisingly durable too.
Get a lil daVinci frame link here - they look great and also store a good bundle of the pics, you can photo them for a book in lots. Theres some phone apps that will store the pics and put into a photo book for you also. Good luck!
I quite like the How to talk so kids will listen books. It'll give you something while you wait for a spot on any courses. I found it helped me empathise with my daughter a lot better as we were going through a terrible tantrum time when she was younger.
Quite often schools have parenting classes, it's worth seeing if they can help. Also local children's centres can probably help you. Well done for you all realising he has a problem and working to fix it. I promise they won't take your child away, they want to help you not separate families.
Counselling (for all of you) is also probably a good idea. He went through something awful when he was a child and he needs help to work through that.
Are you wanting to buy Medela brand teats to use with your Medela bottles? The bottles should have come with the yellow collar as a lid. Or you can buy some replacement ?Medela collars from Amazon.
https://smile.amazon.co.uk/dp/B002VLGD2A/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_AK7uFbPFP0DBM
We did it around 2.5. I went out with her a few days before for her to pick pants, she could pick whichever ones she liked (then a bought a load of them). We then planned in 5 days at home before she would have to try and do it at nursery. That way we could just concentrate on it without distractions.
First day we went bottomless. That way we could get her on the potty when we saw her doing a wee/poo. It was a long day as we watched her like a hawk so we started to better learn her signals for needing to go. We planned another day of bottomless but she was doing well so we moved on to trousers (no pants). Did 2 days of that then moved to pants and trousers and a short trip out for a walk.
We kept nappies for nap time and night time but in the day we said byebye. We didn't use bribery (although that can work) we stuck with cheering and positive comments "wow you did a huge poo in the potty" or "well done for going potty when you felt you needed to". Whatever works for you really.
Poos are tricky. Have you got a step she can rest her feet on? They need their knees above their hips in a more squat position to help it come out. Potties are great as they can have their feet on the floor but toilets you need a step for them to put their feet on. A warm bath can help and also check her diet. Make sure she's drinking lots of water and eating things like pears to help.
We mostly used Gentle Potty Training as a guide for us.
It is too big for a stocking, but one of those retro play mats with roads on it. It can be used to save your carpet from vomit while they are 4 months as well as being visually stimulating. As they get older they can play with toy cars, duplo etc on it. It can also be used for family picnics.
Ours went the same for a short time but it didn't last, now it's me that hates giving baths, just takes so bloody long and its the fight to get her out and into bed.
One thing we did try that appeared to make a difference was new bath toys, one of which was this toy rocket. It gets filled with water then it comes out the bottom like it's taking off. Used to "fly" it over her head. She soon got used to it.
St John Ambulance will send you a pocket first aid guide (adult first aid) for free. Then there's this one on Amazon for kids - pretty sure it's A5 size. There's also a free Red Cross app for both paediatric and adult first aid.