I definitely agree that link to the Old Post should be read and understood first and foremost however after doing that....
Learn some basics such as meditation, doing positive and/or defensive Magic such as increasing focus or protecting yourself or someone else for example. Once you've done several different spells and you have honed your abilities and feel confident then I would recommend the book Lucifer and the Hidden Demons by Theodore Rose. It's a great book for people you don't have a whole lot of experience, it deals with path working which I didn't put a lot of faith in until this book which proved to me on several different occasions to be very powerful and efficient. In fact I would recommend getting it even if you weren't going to curse because it's got lots of magic and it doesn't require any sacrificing or anything beyond visualization and pathworking.
Buy a few hex books read through them figure out what hex fits and do it. Follow instructions and don't take short cuts.
Personally I'm a fan and have used the book Lucifer and the Hidden Demons. It has many different spells cursed and also spells to help yourself. It's pathworking with Demons. It's just one of several that I have had good results with.
There are many books out there.
You might be jumping to conclusions here, even with a curse much of your life success or failure is due to your own effort, beliefs, and other factors.
If you still think it's a curse, do the master protection ritual from this book. If it's still a problem it's probably an internal factor that's affecting you.
Freeze it. Put your name and everything you want it to stop doing to you in simple, imperative sentences in a small glass. Then fold that paper THREE TIMES, place it at the bottom of the glass and pour salt over the paper about two fingers. Then pour vinegar over it, until the paper is completely covered and the salt is in the vinegar. Put it in the freezer and wait for it to freeze. Check the next day that it has frozen well. Leave it there, give it time for the magic to work. This works.
PS: The salt has to be sea salt or Himalayan pink salt, not common salt.
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You shouldn't consult anyone for black magic removal, you'll probably get scammed, I haven't seen anyone who's actually trustworthy on the internet with that stuff. Chances are, they'll take your money and you will be none the better for it.
From what you've said it may be likely that you or your family's been seriously cursed. The best way to stop this is to clear the energy in your house through banishing and create a field of general protection around you.
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It should be pretty easy to completely solve all these problems yourself. Use the money that would be wasted on someone who claims to do black magic removal and buy this book. Use the sword banishing from it twice a day on your house and also do the master protection ritual from the book. If this doesn't clear up the curse, use the ritual to repel a curse from that book too.
The sword banishing will clear any negative energy in your house and in your energy field if you do it twice a day, this prevents the curse from doing any more damage. The master protection ritual should eliminate the curse completely and stop the bad luck and unfortunate occurrences. It will also make your life generally better and establish very powerful magickal protection around you.
I'm relatively new to magick so I hope that other more experienced practitioners will comment on this and correct me if I'm wrong.
If I were you, I would read Magickal Protection by Damon Brand and do the "cancel a curse or supernatural attack" spell.
https://www.amazon.com/-/de/dp/0913896012/ref=sr_1_1?__mk_de_DE=ÅMÅŽÕÑ&crid=2AE7QLLX7W8ES&keywords=Al+Azif%3A+The+Necronomicon+%28arabic%29&qid=1661855599&sprefix=al+azif+the+necronomicon+arabic+h+1.+januar+1973%2Caps%2C168&sr=8-1 This is the facsimile edition. There are also other "Necronomicons" out there, some are prop books like this one, others describe actual rituals. None of them were written in 738, though ;)
Report him to the police.
Be present for your children (emotionally and physically).
Learn about the effects of sexual abuse on children, especially when it comes to incest. Learn how to talk to children about their perpetrators in a way that lessens shame.
Take accountability for even the not knowing. In my opinion (experience) creating a smear campaign against this person without taking your children's mental health needs into consideration may make it worse for them. Keep your revenge shit to yourself or at least not a spectacle.
Beyond that, the world is your oyster.
In my opinion the safest way to go about this kind of revenge is deity work or spirit work based justice. I say "safe" in the sense of not to get yourself in trouble with the law, and to not have negative blow backs to your sense of self.
Torturing rapists, while you'd think is cathartic.. also often comes with a price. It can open things up that you wish you hadn't opened in yourself. Speaking from experience here. Don't get me wrong I'm not the forgiving type but be mindful of what you do next and where you put your focus and energy.
Your kids need to feel safe again, not to have you go bat shit crazy beating up some fucking asshole. That's all I'm saying. Be present... because it's not about you, it's about your kids.
And yes, I'm a survivor of incest (speaking from experience).
The wards you can either make or purchase like a horseshoe, necklace, bracelet etc. If you want to make them I’d get a bracelet or anything you like and would wear at all times and recite psalm 109 (https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Psalm%20109&version=KJV&interface=amp) and the reversal candle will look something like this but you don’t have to purchase it online you can find them at any spiritual store and some will have triple reversal and 7 times reversal to send any curse or hex back to the sender. You can write a petition on a piece of paper and either tape it to the candle or put it underneath the candle. You can also take a spiritual bath with protection herbs or a bath from the spiritual store. If you want more info there is videos online on how to prepare the reversal candle and a spiritual bath based on your religion/ beliefs (Santeria, brujeria, hoodoo, voodoo etc)
A traditional familiar is a spirit bound to protect a witch from attacks. I was taught you could bind a spirit to an animal to have a physical familiar, but often they are bound to inanimate objects of importance to the witch.
Books for further study:
The Witch's Familiar: Spiritual Partnership for Successful Magic https://www.amazon.com/dp/0738703397/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_i_1QWV9GVGP9S6W91K9G7S
Familiars in Witchcraft: Supernatural Guardians in the Magical Traditions of the World https://www.amazon.com/dp/1620558467/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_i_1HYDKRYGCPPCS6DHZQR9
I was clinically dead for about 15 minutes and was brought back to life. I went through a severe depression or dark night of the soul for over four years and for the last year now, I have managed to lift my head and be much more positive and upbeat. I was helped a lot by my dog, who gave me unconditional Love. I was left alone, in a wheelchair, unable to walk and without friends. Four years of depression, without the desire to live, but I leaned on my dog and my Passion, which is the military collection of World War II. In my opinion a hobby could help you a lot, but, what will help you most is what they told me when I was at my worst: this too shall pass. Everything is temporary and I am sure that in a few years you will laugh at how you are now, because you are already happy. Everything passes, everything is temporary and a dark night of the soul or depression, even if you do not see it now, helps to appreciate and value life. Take courage and try to make introspection without judging yourself severely for what you did wrong in the past; take what you have done wrong as something that under no circumstances will you repeat and you will come out a better person, more mature, cultured and happy. GOOD! you will come out of this.
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King Solomon's keys and king Solomon's lesser keys
The Key of Solomon the King https://www.amazon.ca/dp/0998136433/ref=cm_sw_r_awdo_navT_g_34TDZFB4HR4R1T0FEYRB
The Lesser Key of Solomon: Lemegeton Clavicula Salomonis https://www.amazon.ca/dp/157863220X/ref=cm_sw_r_awdo_navT_g_KP7WQ1N0T9M3XGRX1FR1
Psychic Vampire Codex on Amazon explains it.
But you don't need to steal, and stealing energy seems to make people dependent on stealing energy. There will be people wandering around that have the type energy you want, which they themselves don't value, and will exchange it for that which you don't value. It's more sustainable.