It's called "Sex tracker & calendar" here's the link for Android in the Google Play store
https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.wolftooth.sxtrack
I'm not sure if it's available for iPhone
You sound like you are trying to save money.
Buy Klube on Amazon and be amazed at how 1-2tsp mixed with 20oz of water makes the best water based buttstuff lube.
It may cost more initially, however the savings are incredible given the quantity you can make.
My last bottle lasted over 3 years.
Do you think some of your tightness is based on your fears of being messy?
Fear not, there is a solution!
Best lube is Klube, it's pricey initially but when you consider a tsp+ 12oz of water makes 12oz of lube, I'm sure you can see the massive savings overall. It also washes off easy.
Lastly, play with YOURSELF. You have a magic key (your finger) to get inside that with time, he can earn as he shows you that he isn't there to hurt you. Be open to that and breathe.
They sell Nuru massage oil on Amazon. Make sure you get some kind of inflatable bed to have ur fun in
Magic Gel Nuru Massage Therapy Gel | Naturally Stain, Flavor and Fragrance Free | Ideal for Massage, Sore Muscles, Dry Skin | 33.8 Oz https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00C6SKSLK/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_5EJVCE23W9D6YKCN765E?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
Netflix just made a Chrome extension called “Netflix Party”. The extension enables multiple users to watch the same content at the same time. I’ve been using it a lot with my best friend to watch some shows. I call her up on FaceTime and we mute each other, so that way we can see each other’s reaction and the extension itself has a chart room as well, which is what we use to talk.
Where I’m going with this is that you and your gf can look at what Netflix has to offer and see if you can find a romantic/erotic show or movie that you two could watch together. I’m not entirely sure if Netflix offers any erotic shows/movies, but that’s something you guys can look into. That may open up a new way to turn you both on for phone sex and whatever you guys are looking to do. :)
Helpful links:
Netflix Party Extension: (https://www.netflixparty.com)
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07NQTNCBK/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_glt_fabc_K867K9TSBA5C1PVDFC45
My husband has a really big dick, and this chair was life changing for our relationship. I don't know what it is, but it is just perfect ergonomically so nothing hurts. It is expensive, but it was worth it too.
Check out these rings they're made to control depth of penetration. https://www.amazon.com/Calexotics-Stopper-Comfort-Penetration-Accessory/dp/B07G26J9ZR
Also I'd ask you to focus on getting her more comfortable and wet and use lots of lube or if you're doing bareback, coconut oil works wonders. Hope this works.
passion tropical paradise sensual massage oil (best lube / massage oil it's a 2 in 1) https://www.amazon.com/Intimate-Enhanced-Stimulation-Tropical-Paradise/dp/B0739K29YF/
Honestly I like love the stuff
I bought this one for my wife and its been great. It's pretty cheap and discreet too. You could always say you bought it for your neck or something haha.
Check this out at Amazon.com Mini Halo,"The Original" Compact Power Wand Massager, Wireless, 20X Multi-Speed Vibrations (Black) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B010GLYPW6/ref=cm_sw_r_other_apa_i_nXxuFbEZVVMVT
I love hearing about how she bought her first toy, which was a "rabbit" style vibrator. She's not a very sexual person, but when she talks about it she gets all excited and says "the ears!"
Haha. Liberate yourself and learn how your body works.