I'm married, but I just heard about Bristlr. Never tried it. Not endorsing it. Just sayin'. It's there.
That said, shaving can be cathartic. I lopped off a two-yeard with a strop razor barber shave on my wedding day as a sort of new-beginnings thing. So, I can see how keeping or shaving it could both be fun decisions. Just make sure whatever you end up doing is your decision and not out of some sense of obligation or mourning or "who's going to want me now?" pity party.
Beard, like strength, comes from within.
There's /r/Datemybeard but it's pretty deserted...perhaps this is a resource we should be looking into.
There's also Bristlr for hooking up beard strokers with strokees. The Internet is beautiful.
Name: Bristlr
Pitch: Connecting those with beards to those who want to stroke beards.
Current status: Launched as a bare-bones service just a few weeks ago (mid October), now with hundreds of people signed up. Currently privately funded.
Looking for: Beards! And people who like beards! And feedback (and feedback about beards. Seriously though, what beard oils would you recommend?). Looking to grow the team organically, mainly looking for JavaScript/NodeJS developers and anyone who loves UI.
Name: Bristlr
Pitch: Connecting those with beards to those who want to stroke beards.
Current status: Working out if this idea is too ridiculous or not and testing the waters without investing too heavily. Soon to be launching a beta to test our assumptions. Update Now launched!
Looking for: Beards! As far as investment goes, we've got as much as we need. Same goes for the development team. Right now it's a case of guestimating what percentage of people who love the idea of the app would actually use it.
Discount: It'll launch as a free service, so we can't offer a discount, but can offer early access codes to those who want them. Personally, I can also offer advice on beard oils.