It might surprise you, but loads of businesses have been using employee monitoring software over the years. They do it because it works and its cheap. But not all monitoring apps are created equal. Some offer more services and features than others. I recommend checking out XNSPY.
It is a real-time employee monitoring application that assists corporations and enterprises in protecting their data against employee exploitation and abuse. It allows a company to keep track of everything that happens on its workers' devices. It offers a wide range of remote employee monitoring features as low as $4.9 per month. You can read more about it here:
https://xnspy.com/monitor-employee-android-phone-legally.html
There’s a reason why these parental control apps were created. Drastic times calls for drastic measures. Most of us parents are not aware of lurking dangers of this online world. Online gaming and friendships, adults portraying as teens, dark web, drugs, online bullying to name a few. How these people lure kids and create a cobweb around them is unbelievable. I was reading a thread the other day where these predators were imitating as teenagers and were posting suggestions on how to by-pass their router settings and parental apps.
Yes, I want them to have their privacy and want them to learn from their own mistakes but not at the cost of their safety. And remember they are the “kids” knowing a little about what’s right and what’s wrong. I’ve been using Xnspy for over a year and been very happy with its results. With it, I can monitor their unwanted online activities and also track their location in real time in case of emergency. And the thing that I love the most is its ability to lock the phone remotely when you see their communication going over the top.
If being a concerned parent and using a parental monitoring app makes me “invasive” or “over-protective”, then let it be. At least I wouldn’t regret later for not being cautious enough.
Could use some apps like this on her phone to see. Atleast it will help for you to figure out WTH may be going on. Wouldn't even ask if she's the one cheating because then she'll just start tryna cover up stuff more. Best thing to do is observe. People end up slipping up eventually. Better safe then sorry.
You've been dealt with a s#it sandwich my friend. I would say the first three steps if there is any chance of reconciliation would be.
1- She should tell his wife as proof of her commitment to Reconciliation, if not you should definitely do it.
2- Quit here job.
3- You should have open access to all her txts, etc. Installing a secret key-logger should do the trick https://xnspy.com
Remember kids are no reason to stay together, and moving forward you should take care of yourself, stop drinking and go for a run instead.
Good luck.
Sounds more like your understanding of technology is obsolete. My base command keeps telling me how unsecured communications like civilian phones could be tapped to retrieve or view information without the user's knowledge, especially by accessing the camera. Not to mention our data is unsecured as companies sell our data all the time. I'm from Singapore, so maybe my army experience is different from yours, but I can show you examples of what I mean;
https://xnspy.com/install-spyware-on-android-remotely.html https://topspyingapps.com/how-to-tell-if-your-phone-is-tapped-by-police/