If you like to read, have time and also have like $20, Dr. Debra Soh talks about topics related to this in her book "The End of Gender: Debunking the Myths About Sex and Identity in Our Society."
I really enjoyed the book.
https://www.amazon.com/End-Gender-Debunking-Identity-Society/dp/1982132515
I would suggest after a few messages, that you ask for a video session though Kosmi or Zoom. https://kosmi.io/ is really cool because you can watch movies, play games, or just talk to one another via video(or texting) but the goal is video. You don't have to download or install anything, or even sign in.
Then after one video session or two ask for a meet up. Personally, I need to know the person is who they say they are prior to meeting.
>Some people can't tell the difference between a butch lesbian and a bloody man somehow jfc
Unfortunately, that's been happening forever. "Lesbians will harass women in bathrooms/lockers" was a big talking point in the 90s, especially in my country. It was all over the news when a tennis star came out as a lesbian, and all of a sudden conservatives got real worried about lesbians in sport, and straight women's safety.
The book "Female Masculinity" is a really good read on the subject of being a butch lesbian and the unique problems we face.
Oooh, I know what you mean! I have strong nails too and that bendy feeling when I clip them back does not feel nice. Most of the time I keep mine naturally long and painted anyway (and the people I date tend to really like them that way so it works out). However, when I do trim them, I find softening them by soaking them in water (especially with a long bubble bath) works really well, and then I use cuticle oil on my nails and let that soak in for about 10 minutes before doing any trimming. A big part of what's going on here with the ricocheting is that your nails are pretty dry when you try to clip them. Give them a bit of moisture to soften them up and see how that goes.
Also, Czech glass nail files. I've found they've made the biggest difference. Premium clippers do help a little bit (in my opinion) because they tend to be sharper but for me, regular maintenance with a glass file helps much more to keep them at the length I want. Plus, they're available in a bunch of cute colours and cases and, at least for me, I'm much less likely to lose them!
Yeah they do give off a military-ish vibe. Theres also the classic black bar Necklace, or silver bar with engravings...uh something like this https://www.amazon.in/dp/B094FY8D5L/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_glt_fabc_SXNWX0PCDSFRKY3BJ3S1
Personally, I didn't like it...I too felt like it wasn't very well written and I didn't think it changed well throughout. What is a good book is the Logic series. Personally, I think the creators of Avatar: The Last Airbender was heavily inspired by this book because there's so many similarities.
It starts with this one, Stjepan joins later as the artist. I enjoy it but it won't get gay until way later. The Angelus I previously linked comes after Witchblade vol 8 (I just checked my bookshelf)
The lightweight "stove" I have uses fuel tabs. Not the most versatile, getting a wood stove would be a good idea, but I've only used it to heat up water for drinks and freeze-dried meals like Mountain House. I know Mountain House is a little expensive for food prepping but I get them on sale and take them camping. Unfortunately with an apartment I don't have a lot of room for storage so I try to get stuff that I know I'll use and rotate/replace instead of just letting it collect dust.
I'm adding all your links to my Amazon list, though!