No contest. Once you learn how to use it and experience it, it will seem like the best money you've ever spent. I've tried hundreds of toys, but the Pure Wand is the only one that is life-altering, no hyperbole. Don't take my word for it, read the nearly 700 reviews on Amazon saying the same exact thing. Nothing. Comes. Close.
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00FEKPCTU/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&psc=1
BEFORE YOU BUY! And lessons learned.
Flaccid is flaccid, I'm about 7.5" reg girth, but I'm a grower not a shower, so the standard is actually 2 sizes too be for me. I have to much room to grow, you want flaccid, to be honest I don't know if I had ever seen my dick completely flaccid before.
If you look a related products, rhe v4 is there as well. That's the newer ones I don't know what is better, but I would have prob gone v4 if I did it again.
THIS MOTHERFUCKER HAS FANGS!!! So, I don't know what moron put this thing together but when you slide the rings on, there is razor sharp plastic, YOU HAVE TO SAND THEM DOWN, YES, SAND THEM DOWN....the kit has a piece of sandpaper in it. It takes a minute and I would recommend, I didn't the first time, it wasn't great.
Start big and go smaller with the rings, I ended up in the big dawg, but my ball kept popping out, so I ended up swapping to the next size down (it comes with 4 sizes), well that was great for running in (did 6miles and 1500 vertical yesterday in the cage, no problem.
Glad to answer any other questions
FYJENNICC Lightweight Premium Chastity Device Medical Grade Resin Male Briefs V3 Transparent (Small) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07QW2H7QC/ref=cm_sw_r_u_apa_glt_fabc_57WT34QB72FT2AEHMZBR?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
Yes, Rimmers rimming plugs are quite good - https://amazon.com/dp/B07P5ZTD25/ (the comparison of different models is in the description). Good vibes and very nice rimming action.
The "Slim" variations don't have that much difference between thickest part and the stem. The "Thick" variations have larger difference and are easy to hold inside, but they may be more than what you can comfortably take in.
I have one of "slim" and one of "thick" ones. Rimming action on both is similar (very pleasurable). The vibrations of the "thick" one feel better, probably because it gives more full sensation thanks to its size.
I've used a TENS unit before....wasn't pleasurable IME and didn't result in a climax...YMMV though.
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You can buy the specific plugs on Amazon now that will hook up to most TENS units.
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For example:
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https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B08D6D1YD5/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o08_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1
That's the toy I used, the pulse settings took some getting used to when I first got it, and this toy also took some time specifically to get inside ( had to use some other ones to work up to one of this size). This toy rested perfectly against my P-spot so whenever it pulsed it would a muscle contraction and it would push itself at me in the right way. The urge to pee starts building almost from the start. After learning that that is supposed to happen ( the first few times I tried with anal toys I kept thinking I had had to much water and kept stopping and going to the bathroom, wich was quite counterproductive). When the urge built it self up alot I tried to relax the rest of my body and then it happened. Felt awesome. All in all it was 3 hours from setup to orgasm.
Most notable things I learned from this sub: 1) keep things clean ( should be obvious but I dont think this can be understated) 2.) How to find a compatible lube with your toy. (Original reason I found this sub was that some toys got discolored ( i.e no silicone lube with silicone toys) 3.) The urge to pee is what you are aiming for, not a sudden ejaculation (Should have done more research before starting, but I honestly thought it was a simple process. 4.) How to not hurt myself while doing this. (Flared base toys, proper sanitation, move slowly at the beginning, hard to use too much lube, etc.) If you have any more questions ask away, I will answer
You must have a stronger one than mine. I had two: one was a butterfly design and spread apart just inside your sphincter. this was very difficult to get in (doing it myself) but had good shock characteristics because the electrodes were far apart in my butt. Another great thing about it was IT WOULD STAY IN !! LOL .... (and has a remote control. )
The other one was much smaller diameter and didn't really have much power. here is the butterfly one:
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0897QCXXB?psc=1&ref=ppx\_yo2\_dt\_b\_product\_details
Use a toy. This one works for me and is inexpensive:
I've got one and I like it. I put it in with lots of lube and then sit on a chair. (put a towel underneath you in case you cum.)
The handle is much better than an Njoy and you don't have to reach down to get hold of it. I like that, when I hit the spot just right, I can move the handle from side to side. I bought mine from amazon. I kind of wish the handle was a bit longer but it's still pretty good. I have this one.
I think you nailed the two most recommended things.
I have the Aneros prograsm and it was worth every penny. I do understand not wanting to waste the money in case you don't like it (I did the same thing as you and wasted money on a dildo and a vibratory that I didn't like and threw away), but I don't know any specific aneros knockoffs to suggest.
I have a knock off NJoy and it has been fantastic. As stated by another user if you get one that is made with the same grade of stainless steel it should be just fine. This is the one I got from Amazon:
I have a small and a large set. I love the large set, quite frankly I like the feeling of putting them in more than pulling them out.
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B071VTFN3N/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o06_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1
Added link.
The glass dildo is this this one on Amazon
The Triple Ripple plug is also available on Amazon
Looks like the 12 inch one isn't on Amazon anymore.
I would also like to mention the lube I use for all of this stuff, boy butter it's the best, coconut oil and silicone it's so smooth water based lube just isn't even comparable to it.
Is this one from Amazon legit? It seems much more affordable than some of the other recommendations I've gotten
K LUBE POWDER https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01LOSRJEQ/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_glt_fabc_EY507EW3FM95JNYBMEMR
This is my fav:
https://www.amazon.com/Stainless-Steel-Solid-Organization-Lifting/dp/B08FX15ZZQ/ref=pd_ybh_a_6?
You can get a chair in the shower and sit on it. With the handle in front of you you litterally have a Joystick. My P spot seems to be deep thou. SO: YMMV
I also had problems with the aneros. but if you criticize that brand the aneros police will call you names.
Unfortunately no. Still chasing either wet or dry Although there is a silicone "tool" that I enjoy using but it's really designed for women. It's stiff enough and I've been trying it out and having fun but no O as of yet.
I bought mine on Ebay for less but I do enjoy it. 😉
Well I will give you a link to the one I started with and keep going back to:
I have this. But like I said. the rotating head and estim doesn't last long.
I have this one. It's cheap but I like the way it presses and then backs off. I just wish it would just STAY IN !! LOL
how about prostate massagers? They have a flared base with buttons on it that can add pressure on the tip and some have vibe and some have both. They are angled so they lean forward. Like this:
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I like to lube everything up, then insert, And sit down on a flat surface like a chair in the shower (in case I cum) and use the remote to turn the vibe on or off. It also has e stim and a pusher to vary the pressure on your spot, (if you can find it and hit it.) Sitting down and leaning back or forward moves the thing around inside you. You don'[t have to get this model, there are many others and I like the ones that have a stronger forward leaning angle.
I have the one below. It has two flairs that sit in your buttcrack and if you sit down on a hard chair you can rock back and forth and those flairs will make the tip move against your P spot. Many of them have vibes or some other stimulus that helps:
Kinda, this is the machine I have (https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B08KTFX1DT/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&psc=1)
Because it doesn't have legs I actually use the box it shipped with to get it at the right height(when I'm on my hands and knees) and have the box up against a flat surface. But when I get a strong contraction it will push it up and back so I am probably going to make something more sturdy and heavier that I can secure the machine to.
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08FX15ZZQ?psc=1&ref=ppx_yo2_dt_b_product_details
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I sit in a chair in the shower, with the handle right in front of me and move the handle around like a joystick. lean forward, lean back and you can move the ball side to side as well.
Only after I poo. Not before !! no.! (i'm a clean freak)
I have a "washlet" which is a toilet seat that sprays water and cleans my butthole. Even gets some water up there a bit further so even gets some of my insides clean. I love it !
So I after wiping the water off and checking to see of any poo is left and I'm nice and clean. I usually finger some aloe vera with vitamin C in it. in and around my hole. Sometimes I take my anal hook and push it up there to rub against my prostate. Then use the washer to clean me again. I LOVE a toilet seat that washes my ass for me !! (it really does a great job and the water jet feels nice when it hits my hole.)
It looks like this
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08H21P7GH?psc=1&ref=ppx_yo2_dt_b_product_details
There is a cheap g spot inflatable vibrator on amazon that is very good for the money. I have used over 200 dollar vibrators and this comes pretty close in terms of power, and you can make it the size you want with the remote.
This isn't right. It should be solid. I don't know what's in that bottle.
Coconut oil does not damage my aneros. Years of play...
https://www.amazon.com/Dr-Bronners-Organic-Coconut-Unrefined/dp/B00CJ8IHR4
That's in my fridge now. See how the jar has a wide mouth? You gotta spoon it out.
I have a silicon ice tray with small round 'cubes' that I melt coconut oil into and then refrigerate. Once solid, I put them in a sandwich bag. When I want to play, I grab two or three drops and pop them in while solid. It makes sure lots of lube gets inside because they melt inside.
https://www.amazon.com/Aibrisk-Flexible-Removable-Stackable-Dishwasher/dp/B07Q6PDWC3
It's called Kegel Trainer. Here is the android link. https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.jsdev.pfei
The free version has some adds but basically it just reminds you to do them. I do them 3 times a day and have noticed a big difference in a month in a half.
Oh you can definitely hit the prostate with the 11 inch glass dildo I posted. Check my post history, I made a pretty good post about my first hand free wet orgasm with that toy. The 12 inch dildo I use is this one on Amazon it's very big and extremely filling, I do use a condom with it because I'm not sure of the materials it's made with. I also like to use a very big Doc Johnson butt plug before I use the 12 inch dildo, this butt plug stretches me out like crazy and feels amazing, it took me a while to be able to fit the whole plug but it's worth it imo sometimes I havep orgasms from just using this plug.
Also I might recommend you try poppers of you're getting into bigger toys, it makes it easier to stretch your hole and it makes orgasms feel even more amazing.
Edit: also worth mentioning check out the other Doc Johnson anal plugs and prostate toys, they have a pretty wide selection of plugs, prostate toys, and dildos available on their website and Amazon.
So this type of thing is entirely up to your personal preference do you want a smaller sized toy or something bigger?
I would definitely recommend the Aneros Vice 2 if you think you like vibrating toys, it's kind of expensive but worth it. If you want a good cheap dildo look at the "lynx" brand dildos on Amazon. ~~If you're interested in a larger dildo then look at my profile for a link to the glass dildo in one of my older posts.~~
I personally have an Aneros Vice 2 and a 11 inch glass dildo that I like to use sometimes but here recently I've been using poppers and a slightly larger (more girth than the 11 inch) 12 inch dildo and it's been great I cum 100% of the time.
Here's the link for the glass dildo if you're interested: https://www.amazon.com/T-explorer-Transparent-Masturbation-Stimulator-Stimulation/dp/B00OWPU0W2
The T.O.M. comes to mind. Unfortunately Amazon doesn't sell it where I live and I'm on the fence if I should import it from the U.S.
https://www.amazon.com/TOM-Other-Suction-Dildo-Mount/dp/B00A52GCJG
I just received a shipment from Amazon. I got a new wifi router (who cares) and this toy. I hope I can give it it's maiden voyage tonight. I'll let you know how it is.
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B085P1L8XT/ref=cm_sw_r_apa_i_8oDNEbZ6726AK
Im commenting here mostly so I can follow this post and see if anyone has a good answer because Im in need of a new toy myself. I bought a relatively cheaper prostate vibe on amazon and it was absolutely amazing before it broke... It was my first vibe and wow theres no going back after using one lol. But unfortunately the battery stopped working after its initial charge and wont recharge now. Anyways, if anyone was considering this one I would recommend trying something else https://www.amazon.com/PHANXY-Wave-Motion-Vibrating-Prostate-Controlled/dp/B07GKXF8YR
Seems like everything that people recommend costs $100+ and its hard for me to justify spending that much but it seems like I might have to give in and drop some money
I just got: https://www.amazon.com/PIPEDREAM-Icicles-Glass-Suction-G-Spot/dp/B094F2SSVW
Not a PO... but wow... after lots and lots of play with it i rubbed just a little and tipped over a WO, but i was still in the mood and still played with it in shower clean up. Used the icicle and shower massage setting aimed at that underneath spot just below the head... my second WO still shot passed my head (layed down on back in shower) and i saw stars. My body just didnt didnt want to respond to my mind saying i should get up without seriously forcing myself. I was just melted there.
Definitely recommend that toy. Probably one of my more significant orgasms with prostate play, still working on HFDPO
Spit isn't the problem per se, but it's not going to help you to use ineffective lube. If you live with your parents and you don't want to get something that looks too obvious, there are a lot of products marketed as aloe gel or aloe gelly. I can't vouch for all of them, but I've used this product, and it works quite well as an anal lube. Maybe see if you can find a product with similar ingredients or order it online.
Only after buying this toy, I was able to locate and stimulate my prostate:
https://www.amazon.de/gp/product/B074PR2JF6
Still I didn't achive HFO from prostate play. What I'd recommend to you is eStim! Have a look into r/estim
Have fun :-)
I recently found its improved version, Adjustable Cock Ring + Prostate Massager 2.0, this time they increased the intensity of the vibrations and the clasp design is new and solid!
how long do you expect lube to last?
i generally use a water-based lube and have generally been fine.
in my experience, and even when i have left toys in for hours, although the lube has mostly, for lack of a better word, "vanished"... there still tends to be enough around to facilitate a smooth exit.
i have tried boy butter, like /u/TsuNaru suggested, but, as i recall, i would rarely see any difference when things are "kept in place" for longer periods of time over just using my standard, go-to, toy-safe, and water-based bulk lubricant. also, it's probably worth noting that boy butter seems to "expire" or 'go bad" after a period of time. mine turned colors and changed consistency, so i stopped using it. this was after a few months, however, but not longer than a year.
here is the lube i use the most https://www.amazon.com/Passion-Lubes-Natural-Water-Based-Lubricant/dp/B006JR1N72 like i said, i don't mind re-applying a little here or there, when required, especially when rewarded with easy clean-up and a safer-ish more natural-ish product.
also, from time to time, i do use a silicone-based lube. it does tend to last a little longer under heavy usage, but, depending on the toys being used, may or may not be safe. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01JARYB76
regardless, 97.69420% of the time, i am using water-based!
heck to the motha fuckin yeah ,houston insertion was succesfull , did all the stuff we talked about AND changed lube , previously I was using one of those dumb "super sensation" type of lube that makes you kinda feel hot and cold which really made my brain focus on how weird that felt instead of being relaxed , this time both using the massager combined with peen stimulation & more breathing exercises I was able to get it in sideways eventually and left it there to stretch out a little and slowsly pulled it out , did like 8 or 10 reps of that slow in then breathe relax and then slow out in like 20 second intervals in between to the point that I got to being able to go in and out in intervals of 1 or 2 seconds.
wasnt able to have a hands free O because to me what I achieved deserved a pat on the back or at least a head pat from a cute mommy (lol) , was getting tired so I just finished with peen stimulation with the toy inside . TBH my super competitive self couldnt let the toy beat me hahah.
P.S. for reference , this is the toy https://www.amazon.com.mx/gp/product/B07G43PFHC/ref=ppx\_yo\_dt\_b\_asin\_image\_o00\_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1
My experience has been similar, once the prostate learns how to experience pleasure it just keeps getting better and better. My first real prostate orgasm was about 1.5 years ago, and it's still getting better. I've had some lulls in progress, but then I'll hit another breakthrough and keep progressing.
I use THC for most of my sessions. It's much faster for the prostate orgasms to start, and they're way more intense than without. Getting into the right mental state for prostate orgasms without THC/cannabinoids is much more difficult for me. I can do it sometimes, but it takes much longer, and the results are not as intense as with THC (usually some nice p-waves, rarely a dry orgasm).
With THC, my prostate is so sensitive once aroused now, that most of my sessions are primarily a-less. Even an aneros Eupho creates too much pressure once things take off. I usually start with the small end of the njoy wand or a pelvic floor massage tool that I have, and usually after anywhere from 15-45 minutes it will become too much and I'll switch to a-less. Sometimes I just go straight to a-less if my prostate is feeling particularly aroused or I just don't want to mess with prep/cleaning for insertion. So far I've only had Super-O's a-less.
Tracy's Dog is the brand. Amazon hasn't had it in stock for a while. I had to order from AliExpress when mine stopped working.
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This demands an elaborate answer. I tried putting them the regular way (curve is up) and the upside-down way (curve is down), and I get pleasure from both. Imagine you are having anal sex with your SO. Your Penis goes up, and when you are going in and out, in and out - it is the bulb that's rubbing against the sensitive spots that's giving pleasure. Personally, I feel that I get more pleasure if it is upside down (standing doggy) but I feel more comfortable if it is curve upwards when getting it in and out. I am yet to try the upside down for doggy, definitely in experiment list.
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Never used fist lube. For X lube, I tried very dilute (too much water) and it does not feel good. Maybe good for people who are into slight friction, but not for me. For XLube, I go for the recommended ratio, 1.5 cups for around 500/600 ml. I use a soap dispenser that has a thin nozzle (something like this: https://www.amazon.com/JASAI-Dispenser-Stainless-Refillable-Bathroom/dp/B07Q8Y8GWN) . I take out the lube shooter piston, cover the tip of lube shooter using my left index finger while holding it downwards (i.e., tip facing ground) and then keep pressing the dispenser (the tip of nozzle is slightly inside the lube shooter from the bottom. You got to keep track of how many times you are pressing because the lube is thick, and most of it is slowly gliding towards the tip, so you won't visibly see how much you inserted in the lube shooter until they all fall down. Next, I just take the piston and put it in, and hold it upwards (tip facing sky), and slowly push the piston upwards to get rid of excess air. You don't want to introduce air with your lube unless you like farting.
I know this somewhat feels convoluted. Trust me, this is way easier than it reads!
Its just one that came with it seen in the picture here: https://www.amazon.com/Booster-Pro-Percussion-Massage-Therapy/dp/B07NMRLWJ2/ref=sr\_1\_5?crid=28Q4GK1UMDK3F&keywords=booster+2+massage+gun&qid=1669516571&sprefix=booster+2+massage+gun%2Caps%2C87&sr=8-5&ufe=app\_do%3Aamzn1.fos.f...
Cheap, only intend to use it a few times. Hoping the thrusting works, and the heating doesn’t get too hot.
Do you have the links for the suggested TENS unit and anal (I assume) probe you have had success with?
I bought a ~$30 TENS unit off of Amazon, https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07D5ML4HM/ref=ppx\_yo\_dt\_b\_search\_asin\_title?ie=UTF8&psc=1 , for trying to get my nipples sensitive (no joy after 8 months) but not sure it's a good one or not.
Thanks, and...congrats on your achievement and appreciate your taking the time to post!!
I pretty much only use dildos, as I find they give me the most stimulation that I need to get off. If you want that feeling of "fullness" while also getting good prostate stimulation, this thing will blow your mind (it has mine at least). I have had some orgasms I didn't think possible while using it.
One of these makes a lot more options available then the suction cup or quick air provide.
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B3MX1J78?psc=1&ref=ppx\_yo2ov\_dt\_b\_product\_details
Ive been a fan of the Vixin models listed above and a cheaper option (try a cheap one, if its good spend some money on something good) is the "Whoppers" series of dildos / vibrators. They have a pronounced curve that you can position just so and adjustable vibes if thats your thing.
It is this. I have never thought of using something like it but I'd bet that it's effective. I wouldn't be putting it in my butt though without knowing that it is safe to use.
I got this one https://www.amazon.com/TERNENCE-Chastity-Device-Stainless-Comfortable/dp/B07F7TFPN5
I got it out of curiosity. I’ve seen a lot of people say it makes your prostate orgasm more intense so I wanted to try it and see.
My bad. I didn't know that. Thank you for clarifying. Here is the full link everyone. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08H26YR3P/ref=cm_sw_r_apa_i_X3T8A02ZRDWBS5YPJ8CR_1?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1&pldnSite=1
The chair is a key piece to the puzzle. After buying the machine, I tried doggy, lying on my stomach, and on my back alone. Laying on my back was good, but I had to figure out a way to be more comfortable when doing a multi hour session. I use a chair similar to this Zero Gravity Chair and unlaced the edges from the foot/leg area up to about half way though the seating section, then folded the material underneath and tied it off very snug. This allows me to sit on the remaining seat section, ass just hanging over the edge while the chair is in recline position. The Hismith can be angled up and sit under the foot frame area, giving perfect access. Takes a little effort, but the results are incredible.
I have been looking at this one which looks like it could work nicely!
It's pretty common, but I'm not a fan of KY personally. You didn't do any permanent damage (and I doubt that it truly dried up or was absorbed inside you) but you inadvertently discovered the dark side of inserting lube up your butt.
Many lubes contain ingredients such as Glycerin that irritate the lining of the bowels and stimulate a bowel movement. Glycerin is actually used in suppository form as a laxative. KY Jelly contains: Water, Glycerin, Hydroxyethylcellulose, Chlorhexidine, Gluconate, Gluconolactone, Methylparaben, Sodium Hydroxide.
Glycerin is the second ingredient in KY, so it's no wonder your gut was angry. 10 ml is quite a bit just to find your prostate. Most of those suppositories contain about 2-5 ml.
Next time try a lube WITHOUT glycerin. This is my current favorite...Ignore the "frequently out of stock" warning. It's pretty popular stuff, but I've never had an issue ordering it. You can also get it directly from the manufacturer.
I use this toy. I can leave it in while way hing porn and the vibrations/ slight inflation will get me off all over myself
UTIMI Anal Vibrator Sex Toy...
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B086ST7NCC?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share
Luckily I did not order that. I went with this one instead:
https://www.amazon.de/-/en/ESSERE-Kumo-Prostate-Vibration-Stimulation/dp/B09Q2G7CP6
The size and shape look ideal to me. I checked out some videos to see what the action looks like and I can't wait to try it myself!
www.Amazon.com/dp/B01L38J116/ Same size shape weight and packaging except for the label and the price. I dropped mine rather catastrophic way and it took a deep scratch which I sanded out and then polished and this was deeper than any chrome plating I’ve ever seen so I assume given the exact same size weight and shape and shine that it’s exactly the same material all the way through and just as a different label because some people will pay for the name NJoy But the company wants to be sure they have a product for tightwads like myself who will look for a quality knock off
Interesting. I have something like this https://www.amazon.co.uk/Prostate-Milking-Stick-by-UberKinky/dp/B013L1WW46
But I never know how far to insert to know I'm getting the right feeling. Also can be a bit awkward as it's not curved.
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0773GTR7C/ref=redir_mobile_desktop?_encoding=UTF8&%2AVersion%2A=1&%2Aentries%2A=0 "Romi Massage G-spot Stimulate Fetish Plug Bedroom Sleeping Restraint Neutral Masturbation "
Nitrile gloves are better than latex. They're far less irritating and don't need powder to get on. I clean out thoroughly before getting fisted but I still prefer my partner wear a nitrile glove because of both the nails and the rough spots on his hands... plus black gloves on his alabaster skin looks hot.
They're also good for chopping onions and garlic so your hands don't smell after.
I agree, lube shooters are a real game changer.
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B085Y11PGG
I have this small size lube shooters. I fill it anywhere between 1/4 and 1/2 depending on how long a session I’m planning or how big the toy. Any more and it tends to just leak out.
Oil based lube is my favorite, works best for the longest time. Either straight up regular coconut oil, and/or Boy Butter. Be aware oil based lube will degrade latex condoms so don’t go the oil route if you think you’ll rely on a condom in the near future.
Silicone lube is next best but I find it a little messy, so use less of it. And silicone lube will degrade the surface of silicone toys, so it’s only compatible with metal/plastic/glass toys. But it’s good with condoms.
Amazon has an anal training set (hate the name) that is three different sized curved anal plugs. The medium size (for me) really hits the prostate well and stays in during PIV sex with no problem.
And the set is like $16.
This thing is my favorite for her to use to actually reach it and get behind it:
I know youre sick of buying more and more toys but offering up one toy I’ve had good success with. Like you, I’ve had almost zero success with all the same toys as you (aneros, wand, etc), but this one seems to do wonders for me: https://www.amazon.com/Tantus-P-Spot-Ultra-Premium-Silicone-Prostate/dp/B000PHJBLM
It’s not what gives me the dry/wet orgasms (most of the time), but I just feel like it “wakes up” my prostate so I can start going to town with my other toys. Other toys can feel good/fine, but when I remember to pop this one in, the rest of the toys give me 2-5x the pleasure. Hard to explain. This coupled with a small hitachi wand (that’s now broken) my suburban neighbors may think I may be possessed by a demon.
Obligatory, “everyone is different” and “remember to relax” and “you have to be in the mood”.
Don't use laxatives. You don't need to clear out your entire digestive tract, just the bottom... in my case... 2 feet or so. I can bottom out on my 24 inch slinks. 😂😂😂😂😂
My routine is pretty simple... and these are things that are just generally healthy for you anyway. I take 4 generic psyllium husk capsules every morning with my coffee then 4 more in the afternoon or evening prior to my main meal. I avoid fast food and minimize gas producing foods.
When I clean out, I use an 8 inch long shower shot. First I rinse the rectum to get the major chunks out. Then I push the tube up past my sigmoid, clench to hold in the water for a few 2-3 seconds, let it out, spray any additional material down the drain and then push the hose back up and let the water just run in and right back out for maybe 30 seconds. I repeat that until the water runs clean.
I can be ready for deep fisting in about 15 minutes but I generally wait 30 so that any remaining water has a chance to reabsorb.
The key to making this work is to use as little water as possible and do it as quickly as possible so you don't fuck up your gut biome.
It it doesn't happen quickly. Just stop. It's not happening that day.
Not really. You're thinking of a product called Dermabond, which is used my medics and ER's.
From njoy? No. Not for me anyway. I bought their largest plug and it was still too small and would fall right out. But I'm a big fisting bottom.
When I want that heavy metal feeling, I go with these. I have them at various sizes. I know you're not suppose to put anything up there that doesn't have a flared base but these things are so heavy that simple gravity prevents loss. If I can't push it out, I just have to stand up... and then try to buff the dent out of the floor.
Thisis pretty helpful! I have also found sticking it on the wall of my bathtub is a new favorite position. I put the dildo in and then bend over to hold on to the edge of the tub, and push back until the suction cup attaches. I like to attach the dildo a little higher on the wall, so it is angled down. This feels great and will have me leaking quickly!
My fat, stubby, fingers can only reach the close end of my prostate and they don't give me much pleasure. When I use my njoy wand, I like to push it past my prostate while relaxed and then use it like a lever to press against the prostate and drag it from the back to the front. Repeating that motion of only applying pressure from back to front, very, very slowly.
The pre cum just starts flowing in a constant stream so I get a tasty treat while I play.
Well I use this type, can’t remember where I bought them but found a cheaper deal than this. I use a water based lube and put a full shooter in every 10-15 mins for dildo play as well as applying some directly to the toy.
I like my Tantus p-spot, it’s a dildo with a bend or two that feel just right. You can use it with a bullet vibe too.😎
I like "hybrid" lubricants for anal play. A blend of water and silicone that is still safe on silicone toys. My current favorite is "Tush Cush" from Cake...
I bought this one...I figured why not? It's now or never! I'll be sure to report back. Hoping this can give me some good HFWO and HFDO action! 😁
For a REALLY fun time, maybe I'll combine it with my Venus 2000 milker and I'll turn into a total pile of orgasmic jelly!
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$14 after coupon, probably the same thing just not marketed the same, ordered one.
https://www.amazon.es/gp/product/B09HXLSY7T/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o00_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1
The brand has a different name depending on the country. I struggles to find one I could purchase.
I wish I could find it...I bought it in a random adult shop one time and can't even remember what it was called. Closest I can find is this...
Here’s the device. Be warned, mine crapped out recently after I’d been using it since around January. I bought it when I wasn’t very familiar with the importance of body safe toys and all that, and I know it’s not great to buy stuff from odd vendors on Amazon, but boy I had some fun with that toy haha.
As other reviewers note, people have had issues with it. Mine only stopped working when I hadnt recharged it in one busy session where I inflated and deflated a few times and ran the motors hard until the battery died. I assumed I could recharge it fine but it never came back to life. I could hear the vibrator winding down and released some air out of caution. Luckily I did because when it died I was no longer able to open the air release valve, so I couldn’t deflate it. Reviewers on Amazon show how to manually deflate it (you have to cut into an exposed part) if you get “stuck” but it may be best to find a better product haha
Sharing the link requires me to share some caveats such as be safe! This device is not intended to perform any task beyond it's original design.
It does not replace the fucking action provided by your young hunk, your pegging spouse and/or fucking machine!
It is plastic and could cause injury by sitting upon it or any other accidental event. Would it be safe while I experienced a full body prostate orgasm???
I use it at my own risk to ever so slightly and infrequently nudge my prostate. An Aneros would be safest if it reached my prostate as directly. It's like a meditation training device which I use to focus upon the many sensations and where they are occurring. It's still a very early use training device which I'm anxious to allocate time for and presume that I'll move onto some other safer device as my training progresses.
Please be safe and use common sense as I hope to do as well.
Sounds fun! I've wanted to try this as well. You might try the "ice cube" trick, or magnetic restraints on a timer. With the ice cube method, you're stuck until it melts. With magnetic, cutting the power is the failsafe.
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this is what I could find on Amazon. Good luck!
I have this one and it’s phenomenal, best toy I’ve ever bough, super cheap and gets the job done every time
Side note: is there a big difference between the njoy Wand and the knockoffs you can get on Amazon.
There are videos where guys are cumming from external massage gun like this : Limited-time deal: TOLOCO Massage Gun, Upgrade Percussion Muscle Massage Gun for Athletes, Handheld Deep Tissue Massager, Fathers Day and Mothers Day Gifts for Women, Men, Black https://www.amazon.com/dp/B083L8RNJR/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_dl_Y24QMPP7JREQMNWYB6QB
I bought one and tried to replicate it … for research… it felt nice but not orgasmic for me. YMMV.
So would you say something like this is bullshit?
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Sounds amazing. Which of these did you use?
https://www.amazon.com/PHANXY-Wave-Motion-Vibrating-Prostate-Controlled/dp/B07GKXF8YR
https://www.amazon.com/Vibrating-Prostate-Controlled-Rechargable-Waterproof/dp/B08D37KRT9
So I've gone past pissing myself once and it was really nice but I have roommates and it's not something I try to do often and it doesn't really do it's job until you get that point on my opinion. this is my personal favorite toy and have a similar appeal without the weight
Again, that's difficult to answer since everyone's preferences and sensations will be slightly different. There are SO MANY different styles out there. Best to just play around and find what works for you. That said, one of the best I currently own is the Lelo Hugo. It isn't cheap, but it definitely hits the spot every time! The Lelo "Bruno" is basically the same massager, slightly less expensive and doesn't include a remote. Both can often be found on sale with a discount at various sites. LELO Hugo Male Prostate Massager, Black, Remote Controlled Vibrating Prostate Massager Toy for Men https://www.amazon.com/dp/B014ANJ5VC/
Now that I've said that, another favorite (again, more expensive, but a worthwhile investment-and still cheaper than Lelo) is the Lovense Edge 2. What sets this one apart? First, it's completely adjustable to sit in place JUST right. Second, it has a (very popular) app to allow OTHERS to remote control it! It can even be synced to videos or erotic audio using the right software. LOVENSE Edge 2 Male Prostate Massager Anal Vibrator, Adjustable Dual Motors Butt Plug Sex Toys for Men, Waterproof Silicone Vibrating Anal Toys for Beginner, Bluetooth Control Prostate Vibrator https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08BRJPCBG/
Good luck in your search!
Training. Slow and constant training. You might consider a set of "dilators" like this...Start with the smallest until it is comfortable and easy to "thrust" with (if that's your goal). Move up to the next one. Repeat. It may take a couple of weeks at each level before you really start to notice a difference. Unisex Made in USA BPA Free Vuvatech™ Set of Four with Travel Pouch - Made in The USA - Lightweight Plastic - Discreet Shipping https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0754KNHSR/
You might also consider getting the "egg plug" from Square Peg Toys, and just wearing it during the day or overnight. Pick a size somewhere close to what you're already comfortable with. They run slightly large, so you might start small. XL is comparable to the largest diameter toy I've ever done at 6.5" high, 9" circumference, or nearly 2.6" diameter. That said they do make soft and firmer silicone versions. I'd recommend the firmer one if your goal is stretching, but it may be less comfortable to wear for longer periods of time, in which case I'd recommend the softer silicone.
Sounds amazing! Congrats! As for lube, this stuff lasted me a LONG time, and is water based so it works fine on silicone toys. Personal Lubricant. Nooky Lube Natural Water Based Lubes for Men and Women. Made in USA. (32oz) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00NPP8IZG/
I like the "tapping" style ones...like this. Tapping Anal Vibrator Prostate Massager for Male Prostate Health with 7 Thump Tapping & Vibration Modes, Remote Control Vibrating Butt Plug Prostate Stimulator Sex Toy for Men Women Pleasure https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09R47Z695/
You can start off with something simple like this. I have a several of these devices in various forms and each one does a great job. The motions are all somewhat different but they all achieve the same climatic conclusion. They're well built, reliable, have remotes and come in plain amazon packaging.
I hadn't heard the dairy thing, but I'm not a big fan of dairy anyway. I guess it sort of makes sense though since mammals actually don't digest dairy all that well.
Psyllium husk has definitely helped in my case. I use these...Three pills, twice a day. It takes a bit of time to adjust and I was a bit bloated and gassy at first, but that went away after regular use for a while. https://www.amazon.com/Pure-Men-Cleanliness-Supplement-Proprietary/dp/B07CYNYLPB
If you REALLY want a good cleaning before starting a regular fiber routine, a couple of these before bedtime for a few days will do the trick...Be prepared to spend some time on the toilet the next morning! https://www.amazon.com/Pure-Men-Cleanliness-Supplement-Proprietary/dp/B07CYJ8ZXJ
I don't have any connection to this company's products, but they claim to be for this very purpose and seem to work well for me. I might still need a quick rinse before play, but usually that isn't even necessary if had a bowel movement, and things have indeed been much cleaner. I use a bidet seat to help keep things clean as well.
I started the session with a Helix Synn Trident. Then moved to this one:
Wiggle-Motion Dual Motors... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B089LXC3H4?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share
Don’t use your partners unless you are sanitizing it after. You don’t want ass-nasties in her lady bits.
I like to listen to music to relax. I like to move in time to the music. Slow stuff. Little or no words. Electronic Ambient stuff. Of course sometimes dub-step is great. But a different experience. Noise cancelling headphones.
Just forget about the goal and take time to just enjoy the feeling. Move your ass muscles, clench the cheeks, spread the cheeks, just explore the sensations.
Fingers crossed for you!
It’s a “Romi Massage G-spot Stimulate Fetish Plug Bedroom Sleeping Restraint Neutral Masturbation” - lol what a name! Feels very solid, can’t complain for the price.
I got mine from Amazon a year ago, I’m very satisfied, had no issues at all with it. Here’s the link but it’s not currently available:
I’m sure that you can find a similar one under a different brand name. They’re probably all made in the same factory in China.
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This is what I mold ours in. Perfect for slipping into my wife, or myself.