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Being closeted makes it very hard to date. In addition to sending a confusing signal about what you actually like, it often gives off a self-conscious vibe to people you’d hope to attract. Consider working on your own shame around your same-sex attraction - once you do that dating gets a whole lot easier. Consider counseling with a therapist who is knowledgeable about LGBT issues, talking to out LGBT people about their journey, and reading stuff for and by bi people — but avoid advice from other closeted folks since they’re still struggling. Here’s a post I’ve seen with some smart points: https://www.pillowfort.social/posts/390704

Good luck.

You can get the Psych app. It's free and a lot of fun! https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.wb.goog.ellen.psych&hl=en&gl=US

Feeld is an app for this kind of thing. Be honest and upfront about your non-monogamy.

This book is very useful in navigating multiple romantic relationships.

Oh for sure, it works great. Super long lasting, especially after you figure out your routine.

This is the one I have, but I bet there's even better ones out there

Emjoi Emagine Men's Epilator https://www.amazon.com/dp/B003H3G470/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_glt_i_WYC49059DQATF9X9RW8J

Sure. I may have had the name incorrect. Queen Helene Cocoa Butter Hand & Body Lotion, 32 Oz (Packaging May Vary) https://smile.amazon.com/dp/B000EGOG46/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_glt_i_YGQQ13MZPWE1XJKZMN20

Maybe this book can help you gain some confidence? It definitely walked through the motions in a really particle way. I have to have concrete examples to understand something well enough to have confidence. I think this book was great in that way! It wasn't just saying "communicate with your partner" it said these are the types of conversations you might have and here's language for doing it. There's even a section about talking about having sex for the first time. I hope this helps!

I hate to send people to Amazon but hopefully you can pick it up locally or from another seller.

https://www.amazon.com/Girl-Sex-101-Allison-Moon-ebook/dp/B00TGP74U4

Hey man, it's okay to feel confused. You're discovering a new side of your sexuality, and new feelings like that make you question who you are. It can be exciting too to explore this, but it takes some getting used to.

There are all kinds of things that can explain your changes in desires with your previous girlfriend. A lot of us experience sexual fluidity, an ebb and flow of the gender to whom you are attracted. When you're figuring out new desires and fantasies too, the sex you're used to having can get a bit stale too - what you're not having can end up being more appealing. Odds are that things will level out a fair bit when you get the chance to explore your fantasies further.

You check out my Sex Ed for Bi Guys series. There is an uncensored, very NSFW version on Pillowfort, and a censored, SFW version on Tumblr. A lot of guys found it useful, and you'll get good info for exploring your sexuality with partners of various genders.

Finally, if you want, come see us on r/BisexualMen; we are a supportive community for bisexual, bicurious, pansexual, and polysexual men (cis, trans, and nonbinary), as well as for men questioning their sexuality. We also have a SFW and a NSFW chatrooms that are pretty active; some of the guys will definitely relate to your experience.

Is any of that helpful?

You should read this http://www.librarything.com/work/13912991/reviews/113497188 it will answer your question (short answer: yes) and it will forever shift your perception of bisexuality. I became way more comfortable in my skin and proud after reading it.

Thought about it for 20 years, finally did it early this year, worked out great, turns out I'm a femby! You can shop online until you're ready to go to a store, I'd start with something versatile and forgiving like a skater skirt, and some thigh highs.

This is a VERY popular starter skirt:

Urban CoCo Women's Basic Versatile Stretchy Flared Casual Mini Skater Skirt https://www.amazon.com/dp/B085H75XFV/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apan_glt_fabc_RMNJC5R8KQQNSRCPS7G2?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1

Have fun!

Prince and Knight by Daniel Haack has a simple princess and dragon type story but with the Prince being saved by a Knight, they fall in love and get married. https://www.amazon.com/Prince-Knight-Mini-Board-Books/dp/1499810954/ref=tmm_other_meta_binding_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1615531313&sr=8-1

Julián Is a Mermaid by Jessica Love is about a boy named Julian who wants to 'be a mermaid' like the beautiful (I believe drag queens) he sees on the bus. The illustrations are just gorgeous. https://www.amazon.com/Juli%C3%A1n-Mermaid-Jessica-Love/dp/0763690457/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3DT4AHYETMW1F&dchild=1&keywords=julian+is+a+mermaid&qid=1615531453&sprefix=julian+is%2Caps%2C214&sr=8-1