What is Reddit's opinion of Pillowfort?

About a week ago I posted the original designs for Yang and Blake along with some fan art of said designs. Today I’m here to post the other relieve of early from that artist. It depicts our lovely Bees in what is a scrapped original first meeting in the a Emerald Forest. Source

The pack isn't finished yet!

You can check the progress logs on my Pillowfort or Twitter though! I'll put the link there once it's done!

You should check out my Sex Ed for Bi Guys series ((sexually-explicit version on Pillowfort / censored version on Tumblr), it's in big part the reason it exists. It talks about sex and dating with partners of various genders, and coming out and mental health when you're a bi guy (including dealing with internalized homophobia and biphobia).

And you're really not to only 30-year-old bi guy who's never done anything with another guy. I've chatted with plenty of people who only figured out or accepted their orientation in their 30s, 40s or older and are just starting to explore that side of their sexuality. I know it can feel like you missed out on a lot, but a lot of people find they're a happier person in their 30s than in their 20s, and it's surprising how much time you actually have to make up for it.

Is any of that helpful?

But Wei Wuxian doesn't have self-esteem issues per-se. He has some issues with how he values himself, but that isn't lack of self-esteem. And he's also an absolute idiot when it comes to navigating non-platonic love-related stuff and reading signals lol. This is I think a good analysis of his character:

https://parlerenfleurs.tumblr.com/post/659745731608985600/wei-wuxians-self-confidence?is\_related\_post=1
https://www.pillowfort.social/posts/2205175

i can’t find the first thread covering their security issues at launch (which was both hilarious and hilariously terrifying), but here’s the follow-up regarding the issues still present at relaunch.

from what i remember of the launch issues, you could change your username to a certain phrase that would automatically logout anyone else who looked at it. or it could hack their account, i can’t quite recall. it was also super easy to break the code and just…look at everything. the site was a bloody nightmare of a mess, honestly.

they also had an issue pre-launch when attempting to figure out their stance on NSFW of underage characters. this was their response to the questions being asked, but it was phrased…a little awkwardly. normal people asked them to clarify what they meant, and the sorts of people who wanted to draw CP flooded in demanding they change it under the guise that pillowfort had promised to never censor NSFW content/be like tumblr. i heard somewhere that they caved to the people requesting no censorship of underage NSFW, but i’ve been unable to find any record of that (even though i do recall that change is why everyone i know dropped pillowfort prior to the launch disaster).

(note: please do not reply to this regarding ‘proship/anti’ discourse; i’m not going to entertain it. thanks)

Congrats on getting laid! I hope the two of you will click and get to see more of each other.

I don't know how experienced you are with men, but you may want to check out my (very NSFW) Sex Ed for Bi Guys series on Pillowfort. A lot of guys found it useful, and it's a good primer for someone who's getting back on track with exploring sex with other men. I also have a censored, SFW version on Tumblr, although it's missing a couple of the articles. Is that helpful?

Me, actually! :D I don't have any place to post up NSFW material anymore either Tumblr done and gone but you can find me on Twitter @ladyshezka or https://www.pillowfort.social/Shezka on mobile, terrible links)

It's not the only animation! I posted the kelp animation yesterday, but there's more animation to be seen on my Twitter and on this Pillowfort post.

I appreciate the interest!

I've just started exploring being bi and it's confusing as fuck. One thing that helped was reading this article. I'm in a similar situation as you in only really thinking about sexually interacting with another man but not romantically right now.

Alright everyone please don’t hate me, but I’ve never played a Final Fantasy game let alone FFVII. I know the premise, but it’s never struck my fancy. Either way, I could see these two being reversed as well, but for the sake of color matching this makes sense. Source

I don't have time today for a longer answer, but check out my Sex Ed for Bi Guys series. There is an uncensored, very NSFW version on Pillowfort, and a censored, SFW version on Tumblr. A lot of guys found it useful, and you'll get good info on dating and having sex with partners of various genders - in particular for someone's first time with another guy - as well as on mental health when you're a bi+ man.

Hey man, I'm so sorry your ex-girlfriend treated you like this: it was deeply biphobic, and you deserve so much better than that. You deserve someone who will love you and embrace you for the polyamorous, bisexual man you are. I'm glad you had a lovely time at Pride; it's times like these that kind show you that you can thrive as the queer person you are.

What kind of help do you have for your depression? You deserve support and you don't have to go through this alone.

Also, come see us on r/BisexualMen; we are a supportive community for bi, pan, and polysexual men. We also have a SFW and a NSFW chatrooms that are pretty active.

You may also want to check out my (very NSFW) Sex Ed for Bi Guys series on Pillowfort. A lot of guys found it useful, and it's definitely not your typical high school sex ed! I also have a censored, SFW version on Tumblr, although it's missing a couple of the articles.

Finally, I'm in a polyamorous marriage with another guy. Hit me up if you want to talk about this or if you want some book recommendations.

Is any of that helpful? Take care!

The others were good as well! I don't usually draw environments, actually, I'm more partial to faces and quick doodles.

I have an obscure doodle blog here - https://www.pillowfort.social/umabbas - but please, there are some NSFW (nudes, not P) drawings, so click with care, especially during Ramadan.

Look at https://www.pillowfort.social/about maybe?

I agree the downvoting is flawed I will often click on the hidden downvoted post because I want to see the unpopular opinion that essentially gets censored.

Source + Alternate Version

I strongly considered so many artworks for this one being a big Ashley/WarioWare fan, I'd actually decided on a final art but it was a little too loli and when I ran it past our glorious mods they denied it

Fortunately I already had this one in mind too, I like how it's pretty close to the OG art style, but she's clearly aged up to a fully adult Ashley... It's cute

Hope you all enjoy this cute introvert witch 😍

> There's something to be said for male nudity being empowering to men while female nudity is almost never empowering to women, the male gaze, and the shredded shirtless axebro archetype generally not being super popular among female players who are into guys, etc.

This right here I find problematic. When a character such as Camilla is sexualised to such an absurd degree, a lot of men no longer find that attractive. But the common argument made against this is "yeah but she's conventionally attractive".

Vaike is in a similar position. A lot of women probably don't find him attractive, but you have to be seriously kidding me if you are trying to say that his design isn't an exaggeration of conventional attractiveness.

Also, Why is male nudity empowering to men? Who decided that it was?

>Would this character make the choice to wear this outfit

In the case of someone like Charlottle, yes. In the case of someone like Vaike, I think you could also argue yes.

>Do I know someone IRL who is like this character?

In both cases, no.

EDIT: And I think I might also add this. Just look at some of the fanart of the guy. You aren't going to convince me that posts like this:(Warning, mild nsfw for both posts) https://www.pillowfort.social/search/fe%20vaike or this: https://imgur.com/a/UQpqsW7 are "appreciating his personality".

Hey man, it's okay to be nervous if you've never hooked-up with a guy - we've all been there at some point. Does he know you've never done this? How comfortable do you feel with him (I guess it might be hard to tell if you've never met in person)? It's okay to try something uncomfortable that makes you nervous, but it should be with someone with whom you're comfortable, with whom you can talk, allow yourself to be vulnerable, and who you know will respect your pace and your boundaries.

My first time with a guy was terrible because we were both trashed and we had no fucking clue what we were doing. So do yourself a favor and don't do that. :P It's only a few years later that I had sex with a guy again, and this time it was much, much better, even though I was a nervous wreck and I was shaking like a leaf. He was a friend I was having over for a sleepover, and it took a lot just to get to the point of asking him if he was down (hence why I was so nervous) - and I was a bit startled when he enthusiastically said 'yeah, of course!' :P But it was a lot of fun: hugged naked, made out, swapped BJs, that sort of thing.

You should check out my Sex Ed for Bi Guys series. There is an uncensored, very NSFW version on Pillowfort, and a censored, SFW version on Tumblr. A lot of guys found it useful, and you'll get good info for exploring your sexuality with partners of various genders. I think you should give it a good read before you end up hooking up with a guy, it will help you feel better prepared.

Is any of that helpful?

Never mind townies, can we talk about festival outfits? Mortimer Goth owes me a new pair of eyes. (Although I've gotta say this one they chose for my main was pretty spot on!)

More than 5 people saw it, it seems. ;) Congrats on your first experience, and I'm glad you had a lovely time. I was also a nervous wreck on my first good time with a guy. But you'll get used to it.

You may want to check out my (very NSFW) [Sex Ed for Bi Guys](https://www.pillowfort.social/sexedforbiguys/tagged/sex%20ed%20for%20bi%20guys) series on Pillowfort. A lot of guys found it useful, and it's definitely not your typical high school sex ed! I also have a [censored, SFW version](https://sexedforbiguys.tumblr.com/tagged/sex-ed-for-bi-guys) on Tumblr, although it's missing a couple of the articles. The series could help steer you through future experiences.

Also, come see us on r/BisexualMen; we are a supportive community for bi, pan, and polysexual men. We also have a SFW and a NSFW chatrooms that are pretty active.

Once again, kudos on your first time with a guy. Is any of that helpful?

Hey Logan, welcome to r/bisexual! We've got lemon bars. ;) You should also check out /r/bibros and r/BisexualMen.

I'm glad that you're finally coming to terms with who you are and that you're getting close to being able to come out as bi. Who are people around you that you expect would be supportive?

Btw, as someone who prefers men and identified as gay for a while (in part because of pressure around me), I can relate a bit to your experience. Feel free to DM me or hit me up on chat.

Finally, you may want to check out my (very NSFW) Sex Ed for Bi Guys series on Pillowfort. A lot of guys found it useful, and it's definitely not your typical high school sex ed! I also have a censored, SFW version on Tumblr, although it's missing a couple of the articles. Is that helpful?

Best of luck to you!

This is my (very NSFW) Sex Ed for Bi Guys series on Pillowfort. A lot of guys found it useful, and it's definitely not your typical high school sex ed! I also have a censored, SFW version on Tumblr, although it's missing a couple of the articles (but not for long, I might finish updating things this evening).

Hey man, I'm glad you're at a point where you can explore your bisexuality freely! You may want to check out my (very NSFW) Sex Ed for Bi Guys series on Pillowfort if sex with guys is still a pretty new thing to you. A lot of guys found it useful, and it's definitely not your typical high school sex ed! Is that helpful?

To be honest, I don't know what the point of the non-rated option on AO3 is... whatever the case, here's my post, and I'll wait to see if anyone objects.

User u/StrayBulletin has a blog and has been kind enough to share a lot of their posts here. I really do think it's a fresh take on analyzing different aspects of Columbine, as well as doing book reviews (wink wink!). I think you would find it very interesting, Randy!

The URL is: https://www.pillowfort.social/TheStrayBulletin

Let me know what you think .

I know some folks who have had success with MeetUp. If you're close to a larger city, there's probably a LGBTQ+ publication and it's possible they advertise a group or a social event for bi+ people. You should also check out our official Discord server to chat with folks there; even if you don't end up meeting someone from your area, it's good to make some online friends who are bi guys.

Another avenue for meeting bi guys close to you is through the hook-up and dating apps. Scruff has a filter for men who tagged themselves bisexual, and many people use the app the make friends and not just for hook-ups; just be clear in your profile that it's what you are looking for. Bumble also has a mode for people who are looking for friendships rather than dates, so saying in your profile what you're looking for might help you out. The post on hook-up and dating apps (uncensored, very NSFW version on Pillowfort; censored, SFW version on Tumblr) from my Sex Ed for Bi Guys series will have more options that could be interesting to you, as many of those can be used to look for friends too.

Is any of that helpful?

There's an Tumblr site called "Sex Ed for Bi Guys" that's very good reliable and accurate information. There's a sister site at https://www.pillowfort.social/Ragabash/tagged/sex%20ed%20for%20bi%20guys

I'm so sorry, bye precious doggy! ❤

I have to tell you about my pets!!! https://www.pillowfort.social/posts/1202643 Tinker dog was a rescue, I got her from the shelter, she's 5. I was going to get a puppy, but she just looked so excited to see me, and didn't care about any of the other people looking at doghos, and she's so cute, I had to take her home! She loves to cuddle and take care of me when I'm sick. Ambrose cat and Porch cat were both strays, but Ambrose was really hurt when I met him, so I had to take care of h i m, I couldn't just leave him all alonley outside! Now he's the laziest house cat ever. Porch cat just hung out on my porch for the longest time as a stray, but he would folliw me and Tinker from the house when I walked her, that kitten is like in love with my dog xD so I had to keep him too. Tinker was really confused and scared of cuddly kitty at first, but didn't snap or try to hurt him, now they're all buddies. :) They're all sweethearts.

Hey man, what a beautiful love story and coming out story. Thanks for sharing it with us! You were very brave to come out with her, and I'm so glad she's supportive of you - she sounds like a keeper! ;)

You may want to check out my (very NSFW) Sex Ed for Bi Guys series on Pillowfort. A lot of guys found it useful, and it is a good way of arming yourself with some knowledge. I also have a censored, SFW version on Tumblr, although it's missing a couple of the articles.

Also, come take a look at the sub's chatroom on r/BisexualMen. They're quite active and you'll find other guys with whom you can connect.

Is that helpful?

Hey, it's great your out to your wife and that she's up for it! You should have an okay time finding a guy to do something with with all the apps.

You may want to check out my (very NSFW) Sex Ed for Bi Guys series on Pillowfort. A lot of guys found it useful, and it'll be good prep for a potential hook-up with a guy. I also have a censored, SFW version on Tumblr, although it's missing a couple of the articles. Is that helpful?

Hey, congrats! I'm glad the two of you had a great time.

Since you seem to be pretty new to all of this, you may want to check out my (very NSFW) Sex Ed for Bi Guys series on Pillowfort. A lot of guys found it useful, and it's definitely not your typical high school sex ed! I also have a censored, SFW version on Tumblr, although it's missing a couple of the articles.

Also, come see us on r/BisexualMen; we are a supportive community for bi, pan, and polysexual men. We also have a SFW and a NSFW chatrooms that are pretty active.

Is any of that helpful?

this is the last time I use this format I swear

I couldn’t find the actual sources of the two fanarts that I used in the last panel but I think I’ve found the right artists. Here are the links to their pages!

Sakura and Aoi fanart: https://twitter.com/shinoasa

Sakura, Kaede, and Chiaki fanart: https://www.pillowfort.social/Scarletify

I've just started TS4 with the free giveaway and honestly, yeah, TS3 is still coming out on top. Let me pattern things you cowards!! Just look at this fridge! (I have a bunch of renos here, if you're curious at all!)

You can find the image on their Deviantart account (https://www.deviantart.com/agentdrago/art/Nightmare-King-Grimm-COLLAB-780319953) where they also give credit to another person (keepitlowkeylove.tumblr.com/) who apparently did the linework. Both their Deviantart account and Twitter Account (https://twitter.com/Agent\_Drago) say that they are inactive but I think they may be more active on https://www.pillowfort.social/AgentDrago/.

I'm not sure! I've never done anything like this before, idk where I'd post it. Maybe it will be on a Google Drive or I'll try to upload it to a popular texture pack site or something.

Either way, I'll announce when it's finished on my Twitter and Pillowfort! I could share the link there whenever it's done

Thank you! The pack isn't finished yet, but I post progress on my socials (Pillowfort and Twitter). I'll share the finished pack there once I finish it. I appreciate the interest!

Hi! I'm ShellyBee and I'm writing a Sims 4 story about a bunch of 20 somethings navigating life and love. It's 18+ for mature content. You can follow me on Twitter for new post alerts. @ShellyBeeMe Note: The site starts last or most current post first so you'll need to scroll down and select the last page to start from the beginning. ❤

https://www.pillowfort.social/TheKenjiverse

Judgement picture by LanxceR

https://www.pillowfort.social/LanxceR/tagged/modeus

https://www.pixiv.net/en/users/30895623/illustrations/Helltaker

https://mobile.twitter.com/lanxcer

Not sure who did the art of the Dancer of the Boreal Valley

It's okay if you're scared to take the next step, it's a big threshold for a lot of people. I'm sure folks here will have helpful advice and you should also stop by our Discord; making a few online friends who are bi can go a long way towards making this less scary and maybe even turning it into something that's exciting.

You check out my Sex Ed for Bi Guys series too. There is an uncensored, very NSFW version on Pillowfort, and a censored, SFW version on Tumblr. A lot of guys found it useful, and you'll get good info on dating and having sex with partners of various genders, as well as mental health when you're a bi+ man.

Is any of that helpful?

Mine too. All her work is gorgeous.

Links for those unfamiliar with her: Instagram, tumblr, Pillowfort (nsfw, +18).

Not sure if this is an actual source or if it's just another image hosting website.

Just in case, here's the artist's Twitter account.

https://www.pillowfort.social/ Pillowfort has been kind of interesting. They are only in closed beta right now but everybody who is in can generate 3 invites a week so it isn't too closed.

It's kind of like tumblr pre-nsfw purge.

I want to get back to writing non-My Little Pony fanfiction. I wanted to write an Animal Crossing fanfic about my starting villagers in my latest Wild World town, but ironically, New Horizons made me lose that train of thought. Any advice?

The last non-MLP fanfic I wrote was this Pokémon Mystery Dungeon snippet.

Now that you mention it, the closest I've written to character vignettes are some scenes in Silent Wings. Inbetween the summarising narration, I'll "zoom in" on a specific moment in "real time", and these can range from a single line of dialogue to entire scenes. I did so because either SockPuppet or Sledge115 told me to show, not tell.

The plot bunny that inspired me to ask Casketbase77 about this was a Legend of Zelda oneshot that's been at the back of my mind for a while. The cliff notes version is that it's a scene from one game, but rewritten in a parallel universe (the Zelda canon has a lot of those), and the point is to show how the characters are different from their counterparts. The reason I want to make it a oneshot is became I can't come up with background details.

I have lists! This is a list of builds I'm using in my main save. Includes links to the Gallery. And this list is very in-process and doesn't include direct links or residential lots yet, but it has a lot listed, as well as some of my favourite builders.

Hello, a fact about me, I love to draw, also I love my pets, may I harass you with pictures of my animals and arts?

https://www.pillowfort.social/posts/1202643

https://img2.pillowfort.social/posts/b8714dca831c_received_3134247153260248.png

https://img.pillowfort.social/posts/584d9414455b_Untitled3_20200131120148.png

Pictures of my babies!!! https://www.pillowfort.social/posts/1184794 My cat advice is if you're feeding dry food and the cat seems to be demanding more despite only eating a few bites, try shaking the bowl so its spread more evenly and you can't see the bottom of the bowl, cats are weird like that. My cat Ambrose likes to not eat unless I watch him eating.

List https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/2BNG2UA6BYGFW?ref_=wl_share

Hey man, I'm glad it went well and that you had a great time!

Since you're new to being with guys, you may want to check out my (very NSFW) [Sex Ed for Bi Guys](https://www.pillowfort.social/sexedforbiguys/tagged/sex%20ed%20for%20bi%20guys) series on Pillowfort. A lot of guys found it useful, and it's definitely not your typical high school sex ed! I also have a [censored, SFW version](https://sexedforbiguys.tumblr.com/tagged/sex-ed-for-bi-guys) on Tumblr, although it's missing a couple of the articles. Is that helpful?

Being closeted makes it very hard to date. In addition to sending a confusing signal about what you actually like, it often gives off a self-conscious vibe to people you’d hope to attract. Consider working on your own shame around your same-sex attraction - once you do that dating gets a whole lot easier. Consider counseling with a therapist who is knowledgeable about LGBT issues, talking to out LGBT people about their journey, and reading stuff for and by bi people — but avoid advice from other closeted folks since they’re still struggling. Here’s a post I’ve seen with some smart points: https://www.pillowfort.social/posts/390704

Good luck.

Hey, I'm glad you're out to your gf and that she is supportive! The two of you should read the book Opening Up together; it's a solid handbook on open relationships, and you'll get good tools on how to navigate one and make it as fulfilling and happy as it can be.

The hook-up apps aren't for everyone. You could check out OkCupid: it's bi-friendly and it's easier to connect with people who have values and interests in common with you. Also, consider attending LGBTQ groups and social activities, maybe with your girlfriend to. It'll be an opportunity to build a circle of queer friends, and once you get that going, you'll eventually meet some cool people you can explore your sexuality with. Does that make sense?

Finally, you may want to check out my (very NSFW) Sex Ed for Bi Guys series on Pillowfort. A lot of guys found it useful, and it'll get you on more solid footing to explore sex with other guys. I also have a censored, SFW version on Tumblr, although it's missing a couple of the articles.

Is any of that helpful?

Hey, having a tender spirit is fine - the world needs more souls like yours, not less. And it's okay to be indecisive in front of big decisions - you are far from being the only person who's like that.

There is a power dynamic that exists between men and women, and it's evident in heterosexual relationships. You don't get that gender power dynamic with another guy, and it makes it easier (other power dynamics can exist there though). I've also struggled a long time with being afraid of coming on too strong with women, because I didn't want to be "that guy" - I still do. But it's okay to think about women in a sexual way; and it's okay to express your interest as long as it's respectful, appropriate in context, and leaves the person room for a graceful exit (bonus points if you acknowledge that women do get a lot of unwanted attention). In the end, it's all about balance.

I'm 41, and I find that finding partners has only gotten easier with age. People know what they want better and they express it more readily. So take what your friends are saying with a grain of salt.

If you want, come see us on r/BisexualMen; we are a supportive community for bi, pan, and polysexual men (cis, trans, and nonbinary). We also have a SFW and a NSFW chatrooms that are pretty active. You might find some support there and make some online bi male friends.

Also, since you seem new-ish to doing things with men, you may want to check out my (very NSFW) Sex Ed for Bi Guys series on Pillowfort. A lot of guys found it useful, and it's definitely not your typical high school sex ed! I also have a censored, SFW version on Tumblr, although it's missing a couple of the articles.

I'm sorry you're struggling right now. Is any of that helpful?

The first questions I'd ask you are:

What are the reasons coming out is important to you?
Who do you need the most to know?
What kind of support do you have around you? Who's in your corner if things go really wrong with someone close to you?

If you mean coming out to your wife, have you thought about writing her a letter? Even if you don't give it to her in the end, it will help you put your thoughts together and decide what you actually want to say to her and how. If you do give it to her, I suggest you do it in person - nothing is more nerve-wracking than not knowing if she's read it already or not.

As for other important people in your life, it's an awkward one-on-one conversation to have, but it's probably the best way to do it; expect surprise, mixed reactions, and dumb questions (which you should be patient in answering). You should also check out this guide on coming out as bi.

As for the world at large, I find the easiest thing (if you are comfortable with that) is to wear a witty button that states your sexual orientation clearly: I used to have one that read "Nobody knows I'm bisexual". It makes you visible (which is a double-edged sword), but it spares you from the constant "should I come out or not".

Since you're newly bi, you may also want to check out my (very NSFW) Sex Ed for Bi Guys series on Pillowfort. A lot of guys found it useful, and it'll help you find your bearings. I also have a censored, SFW version on Tumblr, although it's missing a couple of the articles.

Is any of that helpful?

Hey man, it's a real dilemma. I'm of the school of thought that it pays to advertise and weed out the biphobes, and I personally get involved only with queer women. But there's something to be said about waiting for someone to see you as a human being before you come out to them - that's often how people grow out of their prejudices. Mind you, unless you're from a small place where outing yourself on Tinder means committing to the move, you can try both approaches and see what works best for you.

Since you seem new-ish to the bi thing, you may want to check out my (very NSFW) Sex Ed for Bi Guys series on Pillowfort. A lot of guys found it useful, and it's definitely not your typical high school sex ed! I also have a censored, SFW version on Tumblr, although it's missing a couple of the articles.

Also, come see us on r/BisexualMen; we are a supportive community for bi, pan, and polysexual men. We also have a SFW and a NSFW chatrooms that are pretty active.

I hope you figure something that works for you. Is any of that helpful?

Smiling as you look back helps a lot, and maybe you want to practice your look and smile in the mirror. I'm also a case of I think I'm smiling but I seem to have my serious face on. :P

If you're new-ish to exploring your bisexuality, you may want to check out my (very NSFW) Sex Ed for Bi Guys series on Pillowfort. A lot of guys found it useful, and it's definitely not your typical high school sex ed! I also have a censored, SFW version on Tumblr, although it's missing a couple of the articles.

Is any of that helpful? I hope you find fun people to explore with! Pride season is perfect for that, especially in NYC.

/u/spock2312 is on to something there. Until you both get the support you need and deserve through your respective depressions, it will be very difficult to sort out the other stuff. The most successful approaches to treating depression are a combination of psychotherapy and medication, and it would be an opportunity also to do some couple's counseling to work through your differing needs. Depression can also really mess up a person's sex drive, so it could help you get back on track on a more fulfilling sex life for the two of you.

I have to say though that it's possible that the two of you simply have different, incompatible needs - and that's okay if that's the case. Two people can love each other and realize that they need different things - and in that case, moving on amicably from the relationship can be a wiser decision than waiting for resentment and bitterness to set it. But the two of you should address your respective depressions before you make the final call on that, and possibly read a good book on open relationships to get a better idea of what it actually entails, like Opening Up.

Finally, since you're new to your bisexuality, you may want to check out my (very NSFW) Sex Ed for Bi Guys series on Pillowfort. A lot of guys found it useful, and it's definitely not your typical high school sex ed! I also have a censored, SFW version on Tumblr, although it's missing a couple of the articles.

I'm sorry the two of you are struggling right now, and I hope you work it out. Is any of that helpful?

It's possible both things mean different things to you and that you get different things out of them. And if guys are just a sexual outlet for you, that's okay as long as everyone is on the same page. That being said, sometimes mediocre sex happens, and maybe you got lucky with most girls you had sex with but ended up having so-so experiences with guys. Or maybe you haven't met a guy with whom the chemistry was truly there yet.

You may want to check out my (very NSFW) Sex Ed for Bi Guys series on Pillowfort. There's a post in particular on figuring out your sexuality that might have good food for thought for you - a lot of people found it useful.

Is any of that helpful?

Removed as per rule #3. NO requests for hook-ups or sexting, and NO NSFW selfies, pics, or videos.

r/bipersonals, r/BiGoneWild and r/BiBoners are better places for that.

If you are looking for a hook-up in your area, there are many apps that can help you with that. Here's a handy guide (NSFW version / SFW version) of the ones that are more interesting for bi men.

Removed as per rule #3. NO requests for hook-ups or sexting, and NO NSFW selfies, pics, or videos.

r/bipersonals, r/BiGoneWild and r/BiBoners are better places for that.

If you are looking for a hook-up in your area, there are many apps that can help you with that. Here's a handy guide (NSFW version / SFW version) of the ones that are more interesting for bi men.

I did this ~8 months ago and while the circumstances were not ideal, it ultimately was a good thing. I wish I’d found this resource before hand. Hopefully it will help you. https://www.pillowfort.social/posts/2160100

Removed as per rule #3. NO requests for hook-ups or sexting, and NO NSFW selfies, pics, or videos.

r/bipersonals, r/BiGoneWild and r/BiBoners are better places for that.

If you are looking for a hook-up in your area, there are many apps that can help you with that. Here's a handy guide (NSFW version / SFW version) of the ones that are more interesting for bi men.

Removed as per rule #3. NO requests for hook-ups or sexting, and NO NSFW selfies, pics, or videos. r/bipersonals, r/BiGoneWild and r/BiBoners are better places for that. If you are looking for a hook-up in your area, there are many apps that can help you with that. Here's a handy guide (NSFW version / SFW version) of the ones that are more interesting for bi men.