Congrats on getting laid! I hope the two of you will click and get to see more of each other.
I don't know how experienced you are with men, but you may want to check out my (very NSFW) Sex Ed for Bi Guys series on Pillowfort. A lot of guys found it useful, and it's a good primer for someone who's getting back on track with exploring sex with other men. I also have a censored, SFW version on Tumblr, although it's missing a couple of the articles. Is that helpful?
You should check out the By The Bi podcast. I've listened to a couple of their episodes, and it's a bi guy and his bi girlfriend who are into something similar to what you guys are seeking.
There are definitely avenues where you guys can explore sex with other people. "Swinger" scenes and kink scenes tend to have a split between the straight scene and the queer scene. If you guys look more for queer events, you'll have an easier time. The Internet also makes it easier to bypass actual events. But rest assured that there are people out there who are looking for things that are compatible with what you guys want. Have you guys explored any avenues for this so far?
Hey man, I'm glad you're at a point where you can explore your bisexuality freely! You may want to check out my (very NSFW) Sex Ed for Bi Guys series on Pillowfort if sex with guys is still a pretty new thing to you. A lot of guys found it useful, and it's definitely not your typical high school sex ed! Is that helpful?
I just started using a home laser device.
I have only just started using it on my shaft but I already see a difference. I plan on moving to the under region in a couple of weeks. It says it works better with a lighter skin / darker hair folicle combo.
Smiling as you look back helps a lot, and maybe you want to practice your look and smile in the mirror. I'm also a case of I think I'm smiling but I seem to have my serious face on. :P
If you're new-ish to exploring your bisexuality, you may want to check out my (very NSFW) Sex Ed for Bi Guys series on Pillowfort. A lot of guys found it useful, and it's definitely not your typical high school sex ed! I also have a censored, SFW version on Tumblr, although it's missing a couple of the articles.
Is any of that helpful? I hope you find fun people to explore with! Pride season is perfect for that, especially in NYC.
It's possible both things mean different things to you and that you get different things out of them. And if guys are just a sexual outlet for you, that's okay as long as everyone is on the same page. That being said, sometimes mediocre sex happens, and maybe you got lucky with most girls you had sex with but ended up having so-so experiences with guys. Or maybe you haven't met a guy with whom the chemistry was truly there yet.
You may want to check out my (very NSFW) Sex Ed for Bi Guys series on Pillowfort. There's a post in particular on figuring out your sexuality that might have good food for thought for you - a lot of people found it useful.
Is any of that helpful?
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I dislike closeted people for their irresponsible way of living I get it I no longer have friends and family I’m at square 0 now in my life (living with my mother at age 27 but I told her there is no relationship between us just necessity from me to her). Do I regret being alone? No, not at all. Was it easy? No, not at all. I came out of the closet as gay at age 18, and as bisexual at age 26. What hold me in place of not committing sucide? Genuine spirituality, and sticking to that spiritual pathway (no religion involved), all of that because I was sexually abused twice by uncle and grandmother during childhood, and grow up in a homophobic and dysfunctional af family. Today I’m dedicating this year to study ethical hacking. I’m working and studying, is about time I set myself finally free from my origin family once and forever. During the process I healed several mental and physical illnesses, yep that’s the power of genuine spirituality like forgiveness. What I like about you is that you are honest about your situation, just add to that responsibility and you’ll be just fine. Go to therapy to work through your internalized homophobia. I recommend this book. The name is cheesy but it was written by a professional psychologist with years pf experience working with gay men (I know both of us are bisexual, forget that point. The book is so good.) become the bisexual man your before you make your children and wife pay the price of your irresponsible way of living (denial and confusion). Either men or women you must love they as a bisexual man, less than that will only cause suffering to you and those around you. Be responsible, be brave.
I'd definetly not reject you. 😉 You've got beautiful eyes, a gorgeous beard, and look at that chest fuzz! You're right to show it off in that pic, it's an asset. I have a hairy chest too and it took me years to accept that a lot of fucking people were into that, and that I didn't look like a twink. But seriously man, you're objectively handsome.
There's a taste aspect to looks - some people will like what they see, some won't. It's okay, and the sooner you make your peace with that, the better you'll be. You're far from being average looking, but even for an average looking person, here how it works: many people will find an average looking person plain, but some people will find them ridiculously hot nonetheless, because they've got what they're wired to want to fuck with. Unless there's something really wrong with a person's appearance, looks are rarely the reason a person is not getting laid, although getting turned down semi-regularly is normal.
Also, I'm sure I don't need to tell you that, sadly, but you'll run into racism; all of my friends of colour have that happen to them more than once in a while (especially my friends in the U.S.), and that sucks. 🙁
I don't know how new you are to pursuing guys, but you may want to check out my (very NSFW) Sex Ed for Bi Guys series on Pillowfort. A lot of guys found it useful, and it's definitely not your typical high school sex ed! I also have a censored, SFW version on Tumblr, although it's missing a couple of the articles.
Finally, we're getting r/BisexualMen off the ground as a supportive community, and we have a SFW and a NSFW chatrooms. Feel free to join us there also!
So I'm sorry buddy turned you down, but I'm sure you'll get much better opportunities in the future. Is any of that helpful?
Hey man, congrats! It's hard to embrace your own bisexuality and even harder to come out to someone dear to you. It took courage and you were brave to do so! Also, I'm glad you got the opportunity to explore and that it was a good experience!
You may want to check out my (very NSFW) Sex Ed for Bi Guys series on Pillowfort. A lot of guys found it useful, and it's definitely not your typical high school sex ed! I also have a censored, SFW version on Tumblr, although it's missing a couple of the articles.
Is that helpful? Good luck with everything!
Seriously cannot recommend this book enough. Take your time and make it a priority. Meditate and journal everyday.
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I went through a very similar situation with being groomed and sexually abused by a neighbor when I was growing up. He was in high school and 6 years older than me when it started. It's difficult and confusing to work through, I will give you that.
My best friend (also a bi manscaper) turned me on to the Philips OneBlade for everything down there. It's electric and gives a close shave, but doesn't have a flat blade that can actually cut you (which I'm deathly afraid of! I always joke with my wife "What if I slice off a ball?!?" LoL)... Here's the link to it in Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01D328DH8/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_nk5yCbGHF0EHH
Good luck with whatever you end up doing!
This is similar to the one I have. I'd just check out an online store or your local adult store to find one you like. Amazon actually has a good sexual wellness section.
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