I do actually! I'll give you both! ❤ Thr shoelace was what I was using too but got old after a while 😖
This is the one I'm wearing now - https://www.amazon.com/dp/B085VLMVF6?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share
This is the other I'm waiting on - https://www.amazon.com/dp/B017VYIWQ6/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_glt_fabc_48C26QJ581P5Z7JVACJ4
Somebody posted a link to a strap on Alibaba, but I couldn't tell too much about it on their website. I actually bought some straps and buckles from Amazon, but that didn't work out so well. OTOH, I got impatient and didn't give it the time it needed, since a shoelace works fine for me. Now if I could just find a flat, wider shoelace, I'd be good to go. I also use Lock Laces from Amazon, so I don't have to use a knot, and they let me quickly and easily adjust it tighter and looser: Lock Laces, from Amazon. Maybe not the best solution, but it works for me.
Maybe we can talk K3D into adding a strap kit to his product line?
https://www.amazon.com/Chastity-Guide-Vanilla-Milyssa-Morrisette-ebook/dp/B094D1CQKN
Check this book out. My wife and I read it to kind of help understand the fun of this. It is like $5 and is a quick read. It may help your significant other understand the benefits to chastity for her! Most sources are super advanced and are a little crazy for beginners, but this truly helped!
This stuff has been a life-saver. It's a little awkward to apply around the base ring though, I usually wind up having to kinda smooth it around with fingers.
FYJENNICC Cobra 2.0 Male Chastity Device with 4 Upgraded Curved Arc Rings Black 3D Printing (Standard)
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B516JT2B?psc=1&ref=ppx_yo2ov_dt_b_product_details
this is the link to the device. Any help is appreciated.
What I've found is the pain is actually under-ball chaffing: straining against the cage causes the ring to scooch up the scrotum and squish the balls, and that motion is what causes the excruciating pain.
To relieve, I do two things:
This stuff works for immediate relief of the burning pain
As prevention, apply a bit of lube around the base ring and scrotum before bed; I use jojoba oil but it absorbs and doesn't last all night; Body Glide works much better but is difficult to apply and tough to get between skin and base ring
I suspect a strap (what you see frequently in user photos) may help a lot as well, so your straining erection transfers through the ring into the strap and is actually putting pressure against your hips/back, rather than on your balls
Getting a curved base ring helped a lot too; I don't need the extra ball gap, but the bottom of the ring itself positioned further back (closer to the perineum) seemed to reduce potential pain
I feel your pain bro. Hopefully one of those things helps.
You can wear it 24/7. No issue with cutting off blood flow because the ring size is a larger diameter than what I've measured behind my glans (~19mm circumference). The only issue I've had is if the ring is too tight (less than 22mm), not all of the urine will come out without some coaxing after peeing. I've settled on this ring:
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07FLKJTM6/ref=twister_B07FCQZD5S?th=1&psc=1
Prevent your erection from pushing the cage away from your body: many use a string/shoelace as a kind of waist strap.
Prevent movement of the cage/ring from chaffing: someone already suggested lube (prevent); I highly recommend this stuff (relieve)
Also find a way to work out sexual frustrations while remaining caged - e.g. if you're into it, getting regular prostate massage.
I noticed that the lock itself isn't necessarily specific to Kink3d. A cheaper device I bought previously has a lock that fits in my cobra device just as well.
This model is what I bought from Amazon Canada. Here's the UK link. https://www.amazon.co.uk/Xiang-Ye-Colorful-Breathable-Cleaning/dp/B07X56Q8SN/ref=mp_s_a_1_3?crid=1Q34TVO4BK7X5&keywords=male+chastity+cage+lock&qid=1647151313&sprefix=male+chastity+cage+lock%2Caps%2C176&sr=8-3
This is what I mean. UK eBay has people selling stealth lock & keys https://www.ebay.co.uk/itm/193538431809?hash=item2d0fca1b41:g:CDkAAOSw1hZeSXCk
Took a while for mine to get into it.
Dont force her into it, I guess it wont work.
I bought this: https://www.amazon.de/gp/product/B0024LHRY0/
And showed her how to change the combination. Then I asked her to set the combination to something she would remember (and to take a picture for safety).
(my girlfriend knew what was coming next ... not me ... lol)
After she changed it, close the little lid over the numbers. Dont cheat!
Place the keys inside, close the big lid, turn the thing away from you and open the small lid in a way that you cant see the numbers.
Scramble the numbers.
Hand the key safe top her (and tell her whats inside it if she didnt see you doing it).
Tell her that you dont wanna put any hassle on her, and if she wants to use your little member she know how to do so.
Not to much kinky shit. Just give her the power and let it sink in.
Kitchen safe on Amazon. I believe it will lock for up to 10 days at a time, but you can also add time to a current lockup without unlocking.
Kitchen Safe Time Locking... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00E9J3MLM?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share
this? i'm wondering if leather will chafe more than a shoestring
Genuine Cobra cages are made in the US and are expensive to manufacture. There isn't a cheaper source, but as someone else said, it's definitely worth checking r/kink3dexchange - you might find one in your size in Canada.
Regarding the size, I see in another post you mentioned having this cage and it's too long. This makes me think maybe the Cobra S would actually fit you better. That is not a guarantee, just wondering.
If you want to provide some measurements on here, we can help you try to dial in your best size. In particular, how long are you flaccid? Measuring on the top of the penis, from base to tip, letting it hang naturally.
Yes! And thank you for your input! I have:
1) Holy Trainer Nano, with rings 45 and 40. Cage is a little too big all around, but comfortable for the most part, and I believe the 40 ring is best, but too tight at times; yet the 45 was comfortable but would swivel/rotate throughout the day & come away from the body easily. I could overall start to get too hard in it which lead to the most discomfort / chaffing.
2) in an effort to size for my inevitable Cobra I recently got 2 cheap Amazon ones: 2a) HappyGo 1.77/4.5cm 2b) HappyGo 1.57/4.0cm Both are a little heavy but the rings are comfortable. Cages need a touch of work but length is comfortable, if sometimes too short. There is a little under balls pinching but I think the curved rings of the Cobra would solve that. Both can be found here
I'm currently using the 1.7" base ring which fits around my balls very nicely, however the cage itself is too big for me!
From doing my own research I think I should go for the N cage, and a size 1 ring - potentially even xd?... what do you guys think?
If you do run into chaffing problems, I highly recommend this stuff - it's the only.thing that has brought relief.
The biggest cause of chaffing for me has been erections and too loose hardware. Once I was comfortable with the whole caged thing, I came to understand I had too much room to move and downsized. That resolved all the chafing and pain problems.
I have one of these: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B017VYIWQ6/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o00_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1
The rings are detachable. Snaps make it easy to put on and take off. It's elastic but not too tight. All around winner, IMO.
Not specifically meant for this. I've been using a shoelace that I loop through the ring, then secure the two ends together with a Lock Lace.
That said, I just ordered this harness-ish thing from Amazon: iEFiEL Men O Ring Lifter, after reading someone's post that it worked for him, so I thought I'd give it a try. (Just don't be in a rush for it -- it's saying it's going to arrive between May 14th and June 7th, and I ordered it something like a week ago. The literal slow boat from China.)
I was in the same boat, someone got me this link for cheap HT cages. For $20 each I got a nano and a nub to try. They come in today! https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07VJ9CJYJ/ref=cm_sw_r_u_apa_fabc_crFaGbNGPFGSR?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
I am a loose cut and basically when I am soft I am mostly uncircumcised. I bought one of those Safety Wash Bottles you used to see in chemistry class.
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07T9YWPWM/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o04_s01?ie=UTF8&psc=1
You can mix up a solution you like and squirt some in the cage between your foreskin and head when you need.
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I also find soaking baths keep me cleaner than showers.
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Lastly I get a Q-tip and I put it between the foreskin and the head. Then I spin it between my fingers. This causes it to spin, but also travel around the head of my dick in a circular fashion. I do this a few times. Helps between cleaning keep things dry and fresh. It is good for when you have an itch too.
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Yeah, got it off Amazon, this strap is elastic and slightly adjustable with snaps. See link
iEFiEL Men O Ring Lifter Snap Enhance G-String Bikini Support Underwear Black One Size https://www.amazon.com/dp/B017VYIWQ6/ref=cm_sw_r_u_apa_i_ht.CFbG3XJ9RE