https://www.amazon.com/Mighty-Patch-Hydrocolloid-Absorbing-count/dp/B074PVTPBW
No worries, there is time!! I highly recommend hydrocolloid acne patches (can even just use hydrocolloid bandaids if you have them laying around). They literally help my pimples reduce in redness and size overnight and I've struggled with acne for yearsss. It's safe to use (considering hydrocolloid is commonly used to help heal cuts and surgical wounds), so even if it doesn't work as well for you (as it did for me), it won't make the acne worse. Good luck girly! Either way, your wedding day smile will distract everyone (and makeup can do wonders) :D
This is really cute! Maybe if you market them as "wedding memorabilia" instead of wedding gifts? There are a LOT of couples who love these things and that way you would have a better chance of the recipient being one of those couples!
I have no idea how hard these are to make or if a larger size is doable, but maybe you could make a shadow box as well? I know many brides want to assemble a shadow box of their bouquet and invitations and whatnot. A personalized shadow box could be a hit! OR what about a smaller version that could go inside a shadowbox?
Or- have you seen those guest book alternatives where the guests sign a heart and drop it in a box? I wonder if this could be made into a variation somehow
Ginger Ray Drop Top Wooden Frame Alternative Wedding Guest Book-Boho https://smile.amazon.com/dp/B01B80XOQM/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_frsRCbS7AT7RH
Disclaimer: I am not a person who collects personalized things, so I could be way off base. I am also not crafty like this whatsoever and have no idea if anything I just suggested would sound remotely feasible or desirable to a reasonable person
Ok hear me out bc this sounds weird... my friend used to do pageants and always had to make sure underwear lines weren’t showing and she wore the underwear version of sticky boobs. Like sticky underwear with no straps. Something like this: https://www.amazon.com/DODI-String-thong-panty-Strapless/dp/B07BNZ6NG7
I’m not sure if it would show but may be worth a shot!
I got the jackets on Amazon. I took them to a local shop that does embroidery and asked them to put “Ring Bearer Security Services” on the back and they were able to put a little badge on the front. I’m super happy with it! They were adorable!
> but also a little relieved
Having a party with your family will be great for you, and honestly you made the right decision - and it seems like you already know that.
Calling off a wedding is embarrassing and expensive.... but not as much as a divorce and a shitty marriage.
You deserve someone who will fight for you. A marriage is a partnership. You did not have one, and it seems like he didn't want one.
Have a great time at the family reunion! And on the trash the dress note, a lot of people are doing the color wars thing. Why not ask all your guests to bring some white clothes from walmart or something and go to town!
Vagina straws they are kinda horrifying looking lol but they probably be hilarious for what you want to do. I found them on amazon Pussy Straws - 8 Pack https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07F179SWH/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_1HJDX0T26A72T00ARGMD?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
I just received my dress from an Etsy store this week. I had such a breakdown when I finally got the package opened. It. Is. Beautiful. And I'm so sad I was by myself when I saw it. Haha. I bawled and hugged it and tried my best to get it on and zipped up correctly. I'm on my phone and can't link photos and stuff right now, but I'll edit my post tomorrow. (The dress shop is in China, and I was nervous about that. But, the shop owner was so kind, communicated clearly and quickly with me during the whole process, and never made me worry!) I ordered the dress 2/11, I think, and got it on 2/25. From CHINA! And the quality is extremely professional. I'm very impressed! (I'll get some links and photos added soon!)
Edit! - Here's the shop: sposadress And here's the dress: my dress!
I don't have any photos of me in it yet, and I haven't taken any good ones of the dress in hand, but I can promise you that it is super professionally sewn, and so beauuuutifullll!!!
I wanted to mention, too - I am a plus-sized bride. I was nervous to even try on dresses because there just aren't as many options for girls like me, especially that are affordable. But she made this dress exactly to my measurements that I sent in, and even including express quick shipping, I only paid $230! That's incredible to me!
Respectfully, I don't think that's quite right. Appropriation comes when simply not giving credit to the original culture, by accident or even a lack of awareness. Most times, it's not intentional nor done with bad intent.
The term appropriation has become politicized, but it's not a huge deal- wearing cultural clothing or music and being inspired by others is great as long as it's acknowledged- after all, we live in a global world and we should celebrate all cultures. Here's a [definition]https://dictionary.cambridge.org/us/dictionary/english/cultural-appropriation of appropriation, it's an easy mistake to make.
I do not mean to discourage anyone or take away from the beauty of this wedding. I am Indian, and I support the inclusion of our traditions in western weddings. I think the use of colors here was stunning, and mentioning the original culture would not take away from that. Like one might mention a handfasting ceremony comes from paganism, one could mention this tradition comes from Hinduism. I hope this makes sense.
I certainly don't have the figure that the model has, but I was happy with the fit. Check out the customer reviews with pics on Amazon. That helped me envision what it looks like on.
Alvaq Women's Summer Casual V Neck Bridesmaid Lace High Low Party M... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B06XFHGKY8/ref=cm_sw_r_sms_awdb_AW2Izb8JAPS84
Ugh, then a long sleeved dress, and tights should be about right. Tall boots and fleece lined tights if it's cold.
Depending on your bodytype this dress from Amazon is really pretty and fits true to size.
I ordered my wedding dress from this Etsy shop. It's in China, and I was super nervous but all her reviews were great so I went for it. It arrived like 4-5 weeks after I ordered it, and it is almost perfect. I love it, I'm SO excited to wear it, and I would totally order from this woman again. My two issues, though, were...
It needs a wee bit of altering at the nape of the neck, but otherwise fits perfectly. I was pretty much counting on having to get it altered (since I didn't try it on and this woman has never seen me). I'm actually super impressed with how well it fits, considering!
The other issue was that it arrived with a bit of a stain on the back... I emailed the woman about it. There is a HUGE language barrier, so I couldn't really make sense of her response but I got the impression she thought it was from the marking pen. I didn't want to screw around so I spent $50 to get it professionally cleaned, and now it's perfect.
So! There's my two cents. I had a great experience and would do it again, but there are lots of bad stories out there. In my case... I figured I was "wasting" <$200 if it didn't work out so I took the chance.
I would do a lovely necklace that they could each wear the day of the wedding. I love the little gemstone ones with the initial leaves on Etsy, like this one.
They're a little pricey (for 10) but they're something they can wear forever instead of a cute little gag gift that will end up at the bottom of a box somewhere. This is what I was planning to do for my bridesmaids back when I was having a "real" wedding, but I'm still planning on giving them as gifts to my new sisters-in-law.
ROQ Classic 8mm Tungsten Carbide Wedding Band Ring for Men & 3 Silicone Rings for Work/Sport/Hiking – 8mm Dome Style https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07SNRXGLR/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_HD2SRYQX14MZ1RV2AM4Q?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
This was a huge effort on myself folding 1000+ cranes as well as other paper craft efforts I've been working on. It took me 17 days to fold all 1000 cranes since the paper set I purchased on amazon comes in 17 colors. I did 1 color a day and put the folded cranes in sandwich baggies since I wanted to string them in a rainbow effect.
Origami Paper, Star Patterned Paper in an Assortment of Colors - 1005 sheets, 2.75 inch square https://www.amazon.com/dp/B001EJO21E/ref=cm_sw_r_awd_3jb2ub0B6MTJK
After that all was done, I really slacked since I lost motivation for a bit stringing the cranes and adding beading for some dazzle factor. Sat through last night to get through the last half and just made the last 18 strands as I did 25 cranes per 40 strands.
Worth the final result! Also, I can eat on my dining table again haha.
I got one of these to help and it’s been perfect so far. I like that it’s totally adjustable and not permanent. If anything it can help you decide if you want to get it resized or not.
I traveled for a wedding a few months ago and used this for my bridesmaids dress https://smile.amazon.com/dp/B0778PWB54/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_glt_fabc_N02NZMPZ46ASD6FXERVQ
Definitely carry it on, don't check it. Not worth the risk!
Amazon $9 :)
I love all inclusive resorts. I've been to bunches of them and they are AWESOME. Everyone's there to party, the beach is constantly primped and so is neat and clean (lots of beaches get very polluted very quickly, lots of plastic in the ocean these days) and there's tons of sports available, generally for free or a small extra charge. Totally worry free vacation, but expensive.
My favorites: Couples in Jamaica (have heard bad things about Sandals, do not want) This is great if you're into watersports - Scuba, sailing, snorkelling etc is TRULY included. Secrets Silversands Riviera Cancun (they also have locations all over Mexico) Probably the most luxurious looking resort I've been to. Gorgeous architecture, pool is beautiful, awesome shopping and restaurants.
The Reef Resort in Grand Cayman - beautiful beaches and amazing access to reef.
This link is to a resort list in Costa Rica. http://www.tripadvisor.com/HotelsList-Costa_Rica-All-Inclusive-Resorts-zfp7799113.html
That budget sounds just about right for an all inclusive in the Caribbean but terrible for Hawaii. So money!
Second the wrap dress! Check out Coralie Beatrix on etsy, her pieces are great.
I needed a dress for a wedding (not a bridesmaid) at short notice and she sent me one she already had constructed, really was beautiful. One of the cheapest options for wrap dresses and also has multiple options for length and color. She also sells tubes to go underneath the dress if you don't want it to go too low. Good luck!
Getting married this Friday... (Breathe)
Got my nails done like this. They're perfect for a Halloween wedding where our colors are purple & orange.
Everything is done except the cravats (Victorian neck wear).
I'm just trying to stay happy/positive... Our cat passed away very suddenly this past Tuesday & I'm trying not to let all the sadness overwhelm me. I know it's not the same as a human, but it's our 5th death (3 family members, 2 cats/furry babies) in 3 years and a week and a half before the wedding was just not a good time (death is never at a good time, but I digress).
traditional chinese wedding is a red gown. like chun-li, but in red.
also americans sometimes wear red wedding gowns, or you could wear white with accents.
quick google came up with this
http://pinterest.com/heatheness/not-white-wedding-dresses/
Amazon has some very cute $25-30 maxi dresses - won’t last you forever but they last me multiple summers
I’m in Canada but I got this one and I love it. it’s so soft too
Vionics! Found them on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07X2S9D3T/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_glt_fabc_J778D8PX9GNHQ2ZWZ059?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1 I pretty much only own vionics due to some joint issues I have. They're amazing 😊
Are you into the “something blue” tradition? If so, I think blue shoes are great! The first pair are gorgeous. I think open toed shoes will be perfect for the short dress.
I noticed all options have ankle straps. Is that something you want or just a coincidence? For short dresses, I’ve noticed ankle straps tend to “cut me off” and make me look shorter. A pump might be more elongating.
The shorter heels will be more comfortable but I am all about changing into slippers, flats, or sneakers at a wedding, even as a guest 🙂 so I would say the higher heels shouldn’t necessarily deter you.
Here are some options you might like, similar to the first one: Option 1 Option 2
I think the only thing you should even consider doing right now is reading a wedding planner or doing some research online. Your tastes may change dramatically in 5 years.
No idea exactly what you need it to look like but I found one on Amazon for $22!
It's also on prime so you could potentially get it in 2 days!
Edit: Heres another one but without the torso part. Also on prime! Amazon is your friend.
I am invited to a Sunday 4pm October wedding (in New England). My SO is the best man. I had picked out a dress that my SO suggested might be too short for a church wedding, and suggested other dresses too (all were very Jessica-Day from New Girl (aka zooey deschanel) and work appropriate, or floor-length, a bit more formal).
When I picked out some floor length ones to buy (thanks Amazon! 3 dresses for $75, and I would have returned 2), he changed his tune and said floor-length is too formal.
Help me! What length should I be going for here? Bride and groom dont have their act together (forgot to send invites and dress grooms party until late), and are not ettiquette conscious, but other guests will be.
Edit: Floor-length dress I got excited about (in navy) - https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00X0VD53U/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_tiq7xbQ0F2RAV
I went off-registry for my friend's Bridal Shower recently. They're also big travelers and having a destination wedding, so I got them a scratch-off world map like like this one on Amazon. They really liked it!
Thank you! Amazon! SWEETV Teardrop Pearl Earrings for Women,Bridesmaids,Brides -Rose Gold Dangle Earrings for Wedding,Bridal,Prom https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07GPTTY6Y/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_Y5qMDbX67PPYJ
Amazon! And they are super comfy!
Edit: here's a link! https://smile.amazon.com/LUXMAX-Womens-Kitten-DOrsay-Pumps/dp/B081N8VB9Y/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=luxmax%2Bkitten%2Bheels&qid=1590720660&sr=8-1&th=1
From another quarantined engagement lady, these guys have been a lifesaver:
So much better than the gauze and tape monstrosity I was wearing until the ring shops open back up!
Congratulations!!
Here’s the link!
When I ordered it I was able to send in my measurements to be made custom to me!
I recommend ordering it in a color that has prime delivery so you can determine if you like the style of the dress on you before you commit to the color you really want. That way if you don’t like it you can have the free return option available to you. Also, you might have to pay shipping like I did to get it in the white color. The champagne color is gorgeous tho
I cannot for the life of me do a French manicure by hand, but it's actually pretty easy with the guide stickers! Something like this: https://www.amazon.com/Orly-Half-Moon-Guides-Count/dp/B00FMVR802/ref=sr_1_6?keywords=french+manicure+guides&qid=1553784133&s=gateway&sr=8-6
Ah, good ol' Johan! I've been checking out his ring designs because my fiance wants this one!:
https://www.etsy.com/listing/125122567/titanium-ring-with-gibeon-meteorite?ref=favs_view_2
Meteorite and dinosaur bone... quite the pairing :) lol. Let us know how yours are when you get them in!
We got married at a concert hall (a music venue) -- MUCH cheaper than any other venue by FAR. It was the exact feeling we wanted and it saved us a TON.
I searched for caterers for months and was always VERY up front about our budget. Took a while, but we found one who was amazing and worked with our budget (he went $45 over... but he checked with us first).
We did a LOT of DIY and purchased tons of stuff from etsy sellers (to save time and money).
Also -- a friend of ours did our invitations - he has his own freelance design business He'll give you a GREAT discount if you said you heard about him from someone on reddit. (he LOVES old movie posters -- btw)
We also found a paper warehouse that had a store -- we spent $90 on ALL the paper for our save the dates, invites, reply cards, and thank you stationary (that includes the vellum we purchased for an insert and the sealing wax).
PM me if you need any help -- I'm an event planner (not weddings... but... corporate events... although it's basically the same thing!) ha!
Cheers!
It really depends on the season and what you're interested in. Costa Rica has stunning beaches, and it could be a great time. You'll want to be pampered, but you'll also want tons of stuff to do -- so a secluded resort compound might not be so great. Just avoid rainy season!
This hotel is meant to be great: http://www.tripadvisor.com/Hotel_Review-g309274-d1233483-Reviews-Hotel_Plaza_Yara-Manuel_Antonio_National_Park_Province_of_Puntarenas.html
> literally everything you can imagine or would need, plus some
> I am wondering if I can negotiate the price down a bit by eliminating some of these things
It's best to outline exactly what you want assistance with, but also listen to them when they say there are things you may want help with. But absolutely don't feel bad for saying you don't need help with a, b, c.
They are pitching a package, all of your vendors will do this.
As for some of the things you've mentioned here - there are some serious serious advice in wedding groups on Facebook. If you have not found them already in your area I highly recommend them and read the posts and comments, recommendations and vendor posts.
Check out this notion template you can use for planning.
Also I see a lot of bride's recommend using the knot or wedding wire (they merged idk what happened on the couples end of things) but they have a wedding planning timeline or something like that. Sorry for being vague on that last bit.
If you want fresh flowers, http://www.costco.com/bulk-flowers.html is a great place to buy them in bulk very inexpensively. Just remember to buy fillers too (greenery, baby's breath, etc.). You can also get very cheap vases at Michael's if you have them locally. We bought roses for our bouquets, and they arrived on time and lasted for almost a week. You might also want to make a test bouquet before you order to see how many flowers you really need for each vase.
I kind of picture this happening https://giphy.com/gifs/disney-cinderella-f4cH0FXbUmogg. And suddenly my FH and I will know how to dance.
Probably going to be more like this https://giphy.com/gifs/MdTp3Q4rB4RTa
> She wants to go to the spa and I am interested in fine dining.
First thought for under $4,000 would be a cruise or an all-inclusive resort.
Would probably be worth talking to a travel agent first, as they will know what locations are on sale right now and what areas are being effected by the weather. Also, flying to an all-inclusive would require you both have your passports, and those can take 4-6 weeks to get. Groupon has a small selection of air-inclusive trips for less than a grand per person.
Cruise ships leaving and returning to the same port do not require passports, but do require state ID and a birth certificate. You can take a 5 day cruise on Carnival out of Charliston SC for about $950 per person for a balcony right now, $375 if you settle for an ocean view instead.
I suggest using thumbtack.com. You set your own rate range and photographers send you quotes. You could choose "portrait photography" and do a couples' shoot or you can choose "engagement shoot" or even post to both. There is a section for extra details where you can explain your situation. I found my caterer this way.
I got my girls monogrammed tote bags with their names and initals on them in wedding colors from etsy. This store made them and shipped them really fast. I also gave them earrings from this etsy store, and they made some of them clip on for my non-pierced girls.
That is STUNNING on you!! :D I love seeing more and more of us taking that gamble and going with Etsy...and when dresses are made to your specific measurements, they truly fit like a glove!
I bought mine on Etsy as well: https://www.etsy.com/listing/156953618/romantic-pleated-bust-floral-waist-puffy?ref=favs_view_3
And it arrived just a couple weeks after I bought it (even though it was estimated to take 2-3 weeks to make and 3-4 to ship/arrive) and I am IN LOVE with it!
Around 10 years ago I stayed at a hotel called Silver Seas Resort in Ocho Rios. I absolutely LOVED it there. The sunset was perfect and they even have a really awesome concrete pier thing to have a wedding on. I have sworn that if I did a destination wedding, it would be there. When we stayed there, the hotel was almost empty because all the other tourists opted for Sandals, or whatever the all-inclusive Americanized resort was down the road. Here is the TripAdvisor page for it: http://www.tripadvisor.com/Hotel_Review-g147312-d218559-Reviews-Silver_Seas_Resort_Hotel-Ocho_Rios_Saint_Ann_Parish_Jamaica.html
Yeah, hotels in NYC are ridiculous! I stayed at this Williamsburg apartment. The host was super cool and had tons of tips for getting the most out of the neighborhood. Highly recommended!
I found the same dress on Amazon with glowing reviews.
I found this book very helpful and certainly not expensive
There is also the associated website A Practical Wedding.
Thank you! If you can't tell, blue is our favorite color, lol.
The earrings were from Amazon, but seems like they're currently unavailable :( Here's the link: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01HG8NIAC/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_glt_fabc_FRRK4GJY25NSX4H5A369?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
Flattering Me Longline Bridal Bra Bustier
This is what I wore and I highly recommend it. I did a lot of research prior. The sizing is a little funny, but if you go to their website, they have a calculator based on measurements. I also had a low cut, low back dress with straps that wouldn’t allow for a bra with straps. If you want, I can PM pics of my dress so you can compare it to yours.
Love your cottage core vibes!! I think "accessorizing" it will help dress it up, but keep in theme!! Like a flower crown would be so cute!
As far as shapewear, amazon sells bra cups that are pretty easy to sew in! (E.g, https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00YQ7VOYE/ref=cm_sw_r_sm_apa_fabc_0QDW5XE54M1EFSFF9E42)
I got this one and I absolutely love it! I'm sucker for anything agenda, journal related so I had to have a planner just for wedding stuff.
I was debating posting a picture of it, and then I saw your question!
I actually got the shoes on amazon! I've heard some real horror stories about buying wedding stuff online, but literally everything I have was bought that way and I've been really successful and lucky. I bought the shoes here and would highly recommend the seller, they were lovely. The shoes are great quality, comfortable and even come in a range of colours with a very generous length of ribbon.
Here's an amazon dress I considered buying as a bridesmaids dress for my best friend's wedding. I LOVE this dress and think it would look awesome on all bridesmaids no matter their size. ;) Given the price and rating, you can't really do anything wrong with this.
Other than that: Have you considered renting a dress? That might be another easy and cheap option. :)
Yes! Lights always look nice, even if they are Christmas lights. I have copper LED string lights on my porch that I got on Amazon -- and they are great if you have a bigger budget... but Christmas lights are fine!
No worries :) I'm not sure if boots do to be honest, I know the ladies who work behind the till will show you what you'd like, but I've never asked for colour matching there. My local Boots doesn't stock UD, which is why I go to a big Debenhams close ish.
I used a beauty blender for years, then a silicone beauty blender, now I've recently switched to a random £6.95 brush on Amazon - best decision I ever made! It works very well with the particular foundation I used, even better than UD's own ones. Maybe I was using the other tools incorrectly, but the cheapo brush was a game changer for me :)
I hope the link at the bottom works? This is the description to the one I bought if not:
DUcare Foundation Brush Kabuki Make Up Brush Flat Top Makeup Brushes Perfect For Blending Liquid, Cream or Flawless Powder Cosmetics - Buffing, Stippling, Concealer
https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B01EFKBF4A?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share
This doesnt seem to be available on amazon rn but hopefully something similar is. I bought it for my engagement shoots and that sucker literally held on for over an hour while underwater in my dress! Ive worn it six or seven times since then and it works great every time. I went to a wedding yesterday and tore up the dance floor hardcore in a dress thats open back/sides and the thing held tight the whole night. I actually had multiple women tell me they were jealous of my dd+ boobs that were perky while braless to which I thought LOL
Tidetell Adhesive Bra Strapless Self Sticky Silicone Invisible Push-up Bra for Backless Dress with Nipple Covers Cup DD Double Thickness https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01CY5BWWI/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_hBicDbC5WXF14
I got this dress off amazon for my backyard mini wedding a month ago and it was perfect for me. They have it in multiple colors too!
Nemidor Women's Full Lace Plus Size Wedding Maxi Dress https://www.amazon.com/dp/B013T9PO9A/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_9TFWEb4HG7AXA
Thank you!!! I got it off Amazon! PrettyGuide Women's Evening Dress 1920s Sequin Deco Mermaid Hem Maxi Long Ball Gown Coral Pink S https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07Z7BKF99/ref=cm_sw_r_sms_apa_i_pTRCEb1XWWB84
Is this kind of what you're looking for? https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.groundupworks.partyphotobooth
I haven't used the app, but it appears to be able to use Google Cloud Printing to print your photos. If you can get the printer you've got setup with that service, that could be an option.
My best friend's wedding was just this past weekend, she had these little pearl pins that looked wonderful in her hair- she did a similar "low bun" style. Might just spruce up your hair a little more with these scattered about.
Get these.
I've never ordered from them, but I use Trustpilot to check out other people's reviews of websites. There's only 5 reviews for Lunamis and they were all negative
I would get hammock straps for a tree, or arbor straps and just loop the fabric through. Guying straps are made to be tree friendly.
I think it's fine, however the cleavage is a bit much imo. I wore a dress with a deep V cut (not as deep as yours though) and I bought this thing from Amazon to make it more decent looking.
https://www.amazon.com/Braza-Cami-Lace-Camisole-Black/dp/B001N7FI06/
I got rid of the strings on that camisole triangle thing and just used fashion tape to keep it on my chest; one at the top of the triangle on each boob and one piece of tape down the middle to make it stay put. Didn't have any issues with it falling off or anything!
Agreed (websites are kind of a pain) but mywedding.com wasn't too bad -- but I don't see anything wrong with printing the poem on a nice piece of paper, folding it, and labeling it "registry information" on the outside fold. Maybe a stamp or label?
This Guy is a friend of ours and did our invites -- he's just starting as a designer and has incredibly low prices -- but he made the most beautiful invites ever!
Good luck!
Can’t figure out how to share my photo… but I got these from Amazon and an arch from Facebook marketplace. Less than $200 and it was beautiful! Resold for $150 so I only actually spent $50 Ling's moment Artificial Wedding... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07WSM5KM1?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share
My mother in law got me this one: Ultimate Wedding Planner Organizer Binder
It has a ton of information in it and has been extremely helpful.
Some advice that I got that really worked out: Sit down with your fiancé in the beginning and both come up with a list of 2 most important and 2 least important aspects of the wedding.
My important 2 were the rings and the dress. His were the rings and having a venue with on-site accommodations. We were able to set our budget accordingly so these things were taken care of and still went overbudget on the rings. Luckily, we saved a lot in our unimportant categories.
My unimportant 2 were the flowers and the cake. His were the photographer and the flowers. We saved a lot of money by not having real flowers. Instead, I made my centerpieces using Christmas wreaths with fake flowers and lights. We are going to give them to guests after our Christmas themed wedding.
Maybe a hooded cloak and some gloves
Sort of like this
These are cool pants Teal ASOS
Or these on Amazon? Teal Amazon
Or you could do a teal shirt with a black suit and black tie??
Is her dress a ballgown? If so, she could def hide one of these under her dress! There’s also ones with wheels. Total game changer, way better than crutches!!!
You could use the shrink wrap covers they sell for making wine at home or at a wine shop.
Bird Cage as a veil. It’s so ugly, it ruins the whole look. It could be a beautiful bride with an amazing wedding dress but with that on the head…
Instead of actual butterflies you could do a butterfly confetti cannon. It looks just as nice (or nicer honestly) and you are not hurting animals.
I've heard stories of butterflies being dead, eaten by birds as they are released... bad vibes for a wedding.
A triple slow cooker.
It's $100, so not realistic for everybody, but for somebody who hosts A LOT, this was the perfect gift. I've been using it for almost 10 years now.
A couple friends and I are going to try these as shapewear isn't working with our dresses. Haven't tried them out yet but fingers crossed.
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01BK2MXII?psc=1&ref=ppx\_yo2ov\_dt\_b\_product\_details
Here are some options--choosing at least a couple should guarantee the right look:
not sure what your budget is but just bought this for my reception dress and looks pretty similar: https://www.revolve.com/mobile/katie-may-ellle-mini-dress-in-ivory/dp/KATR-WD111/?d=Womens&code=KATR-WD111&utm_medium=email&utm_source=transactional&utm_campaign=TRANS_REV_ORDERCONFIRMATION_ORDERCONFIRMATION_20220707&utm_conten...
I think you look fabulous! But I completely understand. I asked a seamstress to add some flutter sleeves to my dress since I am also self conscious about my upper arms (which are bigger than yours. Yours look great to me, very normal). You said you hadn't found a good "just in case" wrap yet, so what about something like this? It gives a nice flutter sleeve look in front, but connects lower in the back in a pretty way with most of the back more open with lace- https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B09VBF75YL/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&psc=1
As long as your fingernail doesn’t totally fall out, you might be able to put a short/natural press on nail (like this - you can file it down if this is too long) on that finger. If you just use one of the stickers that comes in the package, it’ll probably fall off in an hour or two.
I suggest you get one of Meg Keene's books. It will walk you through the process step by step.
I ordered it from Revolve! It’s the Rachel jumpsuit by Saloni: https://www.revolve.com/mobile/saloni-rachel-jumpsuit-in-bright-berry/dp/SALN-WC8/?d=Womens&srcType=dp_coloroption
I think I’ve tried legitimately 30 jumpsuits/dresses and this was the definite winner. It is much pricier than I wanted but the fabric is really nice and major key, not see-through at all. I had some runner ups that were cute that I’m happy to link, too!!!
The pictures are from another website that has it, Tuckernuck.
I'm wearing these heels for the ceremony. They're only 2 inches high and they're pretty thick. They're beyond cute and comfortable. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0711B4H4R?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share
My only complaint would be that they're slippery on the bottom, but that's easily solved if you scuff the bottoms with some sandpaper or put some hot glue on the bottom.
I suggest you get a copy of one of Meg Keene's books. It will walk you through the process step by step. There is also a website A Practical Wedding.
Comfy, lightweight cotton robes. Not the little silky ones everyone buys that say "Bridesmaid", more like these: https://www.amazon.com/Andongnywell-Lightweight-Bathrobes-Loungewear-Nightshirt/dp/B08THW5NM5/ref=sr_1_69?crid=1GOTVBQMUVCF0&keywords=women%27s+polyester+robe+lightweight+knit&qid=1656816876&refinements=p_36%3A500-1300&rnid=2661611011&sprefix=women%27s+polyester+robe+lightweight+knit%2Caps%2C112&sr=8-69
Also a tall bride and the same height as my husband! For my eventual wedding ceremony on the beach (postponed by covid!) i wore flat sandals. But when we had our tiny covid elopement in December beforehand I wore these flats from amazon! https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07S8GMNBF/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&psc=1
They were super comfy
Amazon, Walmart, Marshalls, Burlington Coat Factory, TJ Maxx, Dillard's, Macy's
I suggest you get a copy of one of Meg Keene's books. It will walk you through the process step by step. There is also the website A Practical Wedding.
Also, check the etiquette on things, events, etc BEFORE you make a decision. Etiquette does vary but an example would be that you don't plan a gift-giving party in your own honor. Another example would be that guests invited to pre-wedding events must also be invited to the wedding. Those would include an engagement party if you have one, showers etc.
I suggest you get a copy of one of Meg Keene's books. It will walk you through the process step by step.
Not sure if you will like how they look (despite being clear) but they do sell "shoe straps" like this (https://www.amazon.com/Silicone-Transparent-Invisible-Straps-Holding/dp/B01N4HQE9G/) that help keep the shoes on by going around the foot and shoe. Other shoe straps are more noticeable in various colors and with things like buckles to look like a part of the shoe, and cobblers can also add something like a matching strap permanently on to the shoes. Good luck! Looks like a gorgeous outfit
I think the more silvery/metallic ones will look nicer with that dress.
I know you don't need more options.... but I also have pronated ankles and horrible plantar fasciitis and thought I was doomed to wear sparkly sneakers to get the proper support I needed for my wedding. I then decided to try these $40 sandlas and.... omg they were so comfortable! Same support as Vionic flip flops but softer/more cushion! They do run a little smaller though (shorter and not good for wide feet). I honestly don't care for the style, but I got some faux silver leather cut into a pretty design to glue on top to make them look nicer (rhinestones and various appliqués would look great too). https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09PQLQRF4?psc=1&ref=ppx_yo2ov_dt_b_product_details
Churches almost never let you record from their system (most don’t even have access to the sound board to allow as it’s locked away somewhere. The people working day of just flip a switch to turn it on). The easiest way to get nice sound would be purchasing two of these: https://www.amazon.com/Rode-smartLav-Lavalier-Microphone-Smartphones/dp/B00EO4A7L0/ref=mp_s_a_1_4?crid=2FQY0DQR4RZ87&keywords=rode+lav+mic&qid=1655744129&sprefix=rode+lav+mic%2Caps%2C220&sr=8-4 they hook into your phone and then you can record the audio into your voice memo app. I’d get one for the officiant and one for the groom. If anyone is speaking at the lectern it would be nice to have one there too and wrap the lav around the mic. Make sure the phones you use are on do not disturb! Then you can sync them with whatever video you capture!
If you want to prevent tanning, I think you might just have to go full out ridiculous and wear something like this to cover your face and neck along with a long sleeved shirt and sunglasses when you're out in the sun. If you're trying to tan but evenly and possibly safely, I would suggest wearing a really high spf sunscreen with a bandeau top swimsuit (or the straps down as you said) and limiting the amount of time you're in the sun in each instance.
Can you do a little basic hand-sewing? Or does anyone you know feel comfortable with a bit of sewing? If so, you can try stitching some pretty applique fabric to extend the neckline. Or cut the front part out of a lacy camisole like this one and stitch that into the neckline. Aim for a nude or coordinating color, but double check with the bride first. Also, if any of the other bridesmaids had to have their dresses hemmed, maybe there is some extra fabric you can use?