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Woman here! Could be a couple of things. Just like your penis hardens and lengthens, a vagina elongates and loosens when aroused. So try more foreplay and maybe start slower to warm her up. It's either that, or she just has a shorter than average vagina(or hence the page, you just have a longer dick), in which case you have to be very conscious of your depth. There are toys to help with that. Theres a ton of other brands and styles to choose from, but I thought I'd link one just to show.

I have a vibrating cock ring I haven't pulled out of a drawer in a couple years. it will clip an inch off. I will give that a shot, but I am worried it may engorge me further. I will report back.

Hey man, I feel your pain. Fortunately I discovered this powder a few years back that I swear by. Not only does it keep your junk from smelling nasty, it keeps everything dry and smooth.

I wear it year round and my junk loves me for it. Hope this helps!

Balla Powder

Nice, I'm similar size to you so not super big but I enjoy the tenga flip zero.

2 options to get around this issue:

1) Use a snatch grip to move the starting position to above your package. Also move the activated fibers further out on your upper trapezius.

2) start from the power position, or hang clean position. Don't stand up out of it, keep your back at the same angle. This will also hit your upper back more than your upper trapezius.

The only other option is to use a stand in deadlift bar. Similar to this, but I would not buy this one: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B086CF5CCZ/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_awdb_imm_3CTS3SRM7JG22BMBK638?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1

Fellow BigBallProblem sufferer here.

Your balls shouldn't be uncomfortable during sex, at virtually any size really. I've compared mine to be larger than large eggs each before and the only time I've felt uncomfortable with them is during a time that I wore tight underpants and caused some torsion issues.

If there's pain go see a doctor, ASAP.

If there's no pain and you're just inconvenienced by them then I unfortunately have no solution other than say invest in a scrotal supporting underwear with a hole in the front like this one: https://www.amazon.com/Tonus-Elast-Suspensory-Scrotal-Support/dp/B018BIR65Y?th=1

I don’t know that people like to stare. I do nothing to hide my bulge and honestly the people saying there are crotch starers out there I think are full of shit or are wearing Speedos to Panera.

That said, pants with a high and or short crotch and one of these should do the trick: https://www.amazon.com/Sannysis-Fashion-Underwear-C-strap-Bracelet/dp/B00W4MKNYA

There’s a basic sequence

• flirting

• seduction

• sex

And if you try to skip the first two and aren’t a natural, three will be harder to come by. This guide can help:

How to Succeed with Women,

https://www.amazon.com/dp/0735204357/

Do a search for "metal cock ring" and you'll find sites like this https://www.amazon.com/Spartacus-Metal-Cock-Chrome-3-Pack/dp/B002JVWZQU

I guess you've never used a cock ring before. I would recommend starting with a set of stretchy silicone rings or a leather one with studs. Those can be put on and remove easily. For a metal one, you need to know what size you like, because when you are hard you can't remove it.

I bought these to wear as support for a few days after my vasectomy. Also wore them later to avoid be getting hard in public at this thing I had to do. I think it'd help if you wanna wear something super tight all the time. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B071CGGP35/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_glt_fabc_CX28ZN148DMXQRDRJHNV?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1

Looks like these are to help with fertility, which is cool but I’m sure the sales would be hotter with a bigger set of clients.

Amazon Link

Those aren't the same thing at all. Drag queens are just guys who like to dress up as women. They still consider themselves men when they aren't in costume.

What happened with your gf is probably not a rare phenomenon. Many girls are thrilled/enthusiastic about size at first, but the soreness/time needed for foreplay might be a bit tiring to them after a while.

Research seems to somewhat suggest this: https://www.researchgate.net/publication/279192722_Women%27s_preferences_for_penis_size_A_new_research_method_using_selection_among_3D_models

In the above study, girls preferred a bigger size (6.4x5) for a one night stand, and a slightly smaller size (6.3x4.8) for a long term relationship.

Anecdotally as well: size seems to matter a lot for hookups, and less for relationships.

I find Gary Majdell swimwear the best. I ditched my board shorts about a year ago. They are available on amazon and not expensive at all. For instance I have a couple colors in these but there are solids as well.

I should've added earlier that Duolingo is a language learning/practising app/site. So it just put a smile on my face imagining loads of people around the world repeating "Größe ist alles, size is everything" to themselves over and over :).

This is far from the only example like this too, so at least one Duolingo employee likes to deliberately slip suggestive remarks into the lessons and exercises :).

Swam competitive for years. In terms of speedo's I use a drag suit (double mesh one) never had my bulge embarrass me.

https://www.amazon.com/Arena-Square-Training-Black-X-Large/dp/B01CSNXYFO/ref=pd_di_sccai_6/146-8799964-3517020?pd_rd_w=iyDwD&pf_rd_p=c9443270-b914-4430-a90b-72e3e7e784e0&pf_rd_r=R9A7TXBPWEZGMWCYP6MH&pd_rd_r=b3490497-f432-4ac6-8191-9b25d40240d8&pd_rd_wg=j1PHf&pd_rd_i=B01CSNXYFO&psc=1

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Just an example: of one of them.

This YouTube video. And this forum post. It's surprising simple.

I wear boxer-briefs and I still do the same thing. If anybody complains, I just ask them if they would like to readjust me next time.

Honestly, I hope that this kickstarter doesn't fall through. These jeans would be amazing. Big dick + big ass = big problems.

If you examine the relevant scriptures, you see that circumcision is not incumbent upon Gentile Christians, indeed, not even recommended. So much for certain erroneous religious remarks here.

I am American, was circumcised as a baby, for hygienic reasons, as is common practice here. Obviously no one asked me, but I cannot say I have any regrets about it.

https://www.mayoclinic.org/tests-procedures/circumcision/about/pac-20393550

Isn't Manscaped just drop shipped china wares with a huge marketing budget? Paying influencers and YouTubers to peddle 5 dollar shavers.

I have one of these https://www.amazon.com/Philips-Norelco-Bodygroomer-BG7030-49/dp/B07H41JQVR

Works wonderfully and it's not overpriced. And yes I know it's made in china as well.

2 things. Firrst: Wear padded bike shorts in place of underwear. The pictures show the shorts inside out—keep the pad inside when you wear them. I wear these and they work well. Something like these

Second: get a women’s saddle. I’m not kidding. It’s a trick that a couple friends figured out. They’re way more comfortable because they’re shorter and have a little channel carved down the middle. Expect to pay a couple hundred for a good one. Go to a local bike shop, they’ll know what’s up.

Well, here's mine. They were inexpensive, nice fabric, supportive, and very comfortable. They are here on Amazon if you think those look like what you may like. A friend recommended them to me, and I quite like them.

Please listen to your wife. Having a dick shoved it into her cervix is painful. You need to listen to her saying she's hurting and find a way to pleasure her in the bedroom, not cause her pain. She has communicated this point to you several times it sounds like. That's why she's not having sex with you more often. Try different positions from a Kama Sutra book or website and don't just deep dick her for your own sexual gratification. A girl I was with couldn't take mine past just a few inches so I put my hand over the base of my dick while I fucked her. Look at amazon for a dick donut/doughnut that suits your size and use several of them if need be. They're still called cock rings or cockrings but they have some added thickness.

https://www.amazon.com/Stretch-Cockring-Atomic-Jock-Oxballs/dp/B00HEPGCO2/ref=pd_sbs_121_2?_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_i=B00HEPGCO2&pd_rd_r=7TXKE1ZG547TBSCZQEGA&pd_rd_w=ypZ6A&pd_rd_wg=1vixo&refRID=7TXKE1ZG547TBSCZQEGA&th=1

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00MBQAPGU/

this is just an example of type of product u can find. u can find single-serving packets like this sold as medical supplies.

don’t let the name or packaging fool u. it’s the same as all other water based lube. i promise, u can’t tell the difference between this and the stuff u find in colorful bottles next to the condoms at the pharmacy.

Circumcised penises are shorter.

I have a friend who's suffered tearing and bleeding at his circumcision scar during sex. There's simply no way to know how much a baby's penis will grow, so judging how much skin to cut off is a crapshoot.

Hey be nice now.

The science I've found on this I've posted in the FAQ under question #4, which all comes from endocrinologists, puberty doctors. He is right the science suggests statistically significant growth stops after 16.

I've also stickied a strawpoll on this subject in the past and found that people tended to claim they stopped growing at a later age than the science would suggest. So there is a bit of a discrepancy between what the science suggests and what people claim anecdotally. However most people still claimed their penis stopped growing in their teen years.

They make a thing that I would venture to be labeled as a dick donut. Basically a donut sized silicone ring that goes around your base.

I paid ~13 for it on amazon.

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07G26J9ZR/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_glt_fabc_VYDB391WPHC2TERDGX6G?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1

I honestly suffer this pain as well! I’ve not flopped out and been noticed yet but it’s a struggle to be comfortable and secure. I’ve started running again too to help with the covid added pounds and when the wind kicks up, with tighter shorts running past the play ground makes me super uncomfortable. To all the guys that say let Em look, we’re blessed: I get it. But I’d argue theres a time and place when your single and it’s all hotties on spring break you want to take interest and Its a different story when your married and have neighbors and kids.

The shorts that claim there so great it’s like wearing nothing at all- yeah those don’t work for me. I feel totally exposed. And compression is a gift from GOD when the seam line is designed like a pouch and NOT directly down the middle of my stuff. But it’s hot where I live and the idea of running naked but secure bc of shorts design is the real dream. But to date I’ve not found any shorts with liners I can run in comfortably. So I’m one of those dudes that wears the mesh athletic runner jock under them and while not perfect it’s the best thing I’ve tried. Here’s the link on Amazon:

https://www.amazon.com/Road-Runner-Sports-DuraStrength-Supporter/dp/B07HH1S7NG

This goes back about 15 years, purchased the product from an online sex toy shop. Apparently you can still buy it off Amazon. clone a willy if I remember correctly you make a plaster cast of your dick then pour in a rubber polymer.

Don’t have it anymore, but as I recall it was pretty stiff and not as pleasurable for her as the real thing.

The ring and strap are an attached set. This is the one I bought. Not from amazon though lol. Not sure about the sexy factor, I tested it by myself and haven't had the chance to use it with my wife.

I've heard that the mysize 64 is pretty good, if those are too tight for your preference bump it up to the mysize 69.

Here's a link the mysize 64's on Amazon

I use a skin safe electric razor, it’s amazing honestly. Usually electric razors are horrible on sensitive skin but this one has never cut my sack! It’s well worth the $69

Philips Norelco Bodygroom Series 7000, BG7040/42, Showerproof Dual-sided Body Trimmer and Shaver for Men + Case and Replacement Head https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07H3CKT12/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apip_ljrImLKzcbgtt

I would say it's unusual. Here is an orchidometer, a tool used to measure testicle size, you'll notice that the chocolate egg is larger than the largest measure on the device. As I said before, it's possible to have a condition such as a hydrocele which can make (usually) one testicle appear larger, ranging from egg size (like I have) to beach ball size and larger (when it needs to be surgically treated). The other testicle is damson plum sized, which is the normal size, I think. Technically both testicles are about the same size, but the one with hydrocele appears bigger because there is a pocket of fluid surrounding it, kinda like breast implants in women.

Since you’re new to them, start with silicone rings so you can take it off if it’s too tight (something like these. Once you’re comfortable with them, you can consider a nice metal ring; Primal Rings are excellent, but you’ll need to follow their sizing guide.

These, not these

Joggers are stylish, sweatpants are not.

Oh okay I understand!

Here's how an erection happens:

You get aroused-> Your nerves release nitric oxide (NO)--> NO is taken up by the Smooth muscle--> c-GMP is formed which relaxes muscles allowing blood to enter.

Sidenafil works by reducing the breakdown of c-gmp. But, it doesn't always work. This may be because the NO production itself is low.

So you can take supplements/drugs which can raise the amount of NO or reduce its break down:

http://www.lmreview.com/articles/view/managing-erectile-dysfunction-when-viagra-doesnt/

Here's good article summarizing it (imo it's good). Also, it doesn't mention one thing that is a combination of Garlic and Vitamin-C suplements together work very well to raise NO levels. (shown by research)

https://www.researchgate.net/publication/238295701_Cellular_effects_of_garlic_supplements_and_antioxidants_on_high_blood_pressure_in_humans_pilot_study

another bonus of raising nitric oxide levels is that being an antioxidant, it helps to either halt or even reverse in some cases age related degradation of the penis (i'll try to find the studies for you if u want)

I never said I have the ideal penis size. My views on ideal penis size are based on this study:

https://www.researchgate.net/publication/279192722_Women%27s_preferences_for_penis_size_A_new_research_method_using_selection_among_3D_models

It's just a start in terms of actually quantifying the "ideal penis", but it's better than the anecdotal stuff being thrown around and better than the studies that show how many women prefer larger girth over length, without ever being asking to quantify said girth or length.

The point is that, IF this study provides any kind of accurate window into your average woman's preferences, it suggests which size penis (length and girth) women are more likely to prefer and which size women are less likely to prefer.

It could be the study falls short in one way or the other, but it's the best I've found so far.

I really don't understand how you think I'd be more likely to find the right woman if there were just 10 women on the planet than if there are 10 billion. I'm probably missing something.

How to Make a Shruggy on Reddit – A PSA No One Asked For

¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Reddit uses markdown to format text. One element of markdown is if you type a couple _s or *s, the text between them gets italicized.

So you'd think shruggy's face (ツ) would appear italicized. But another element of markdown is if you type a \ before a character that formats text (_ in this case), the _ acts as regular text, not affecting the formatting at all, and the \ disappears.

That's why when you type ¯\_(ツ)_/¯, it appears as ¯_(ツ)_/¯. The (ツ) doesn't get italicized, but the \ disappears.

You need to type a second \ to get one to appear. The first \ doesn't appear, but it cancels the formatting effects of the second \ and allows it to appear.

Problem solved, right?

Nope. ¯\\_(ツ)_/¯ appears as ¯\(ツ)/¯. One \ shows up, but the _s disappear and the (ツ) gets italicized.

We need to cancel the formatting effects of the _s and let them appear as regular text. So let's type a \ in front of each _.

Finally. ¯\\\_(ツ)\_/¯ yields the glorious shruggy: ¯\_(ツ)_/¯. The first \ doesn't appear, but it cancels the formatting effects of the second \ and lets it appear. The third \ doesn't appear, but it cancels the formatting effects of the first _ and lets it appear. And the fourth \ does the same with the second _.

Go forth and shruggify reddit. If you feel reading this was a waste of your time, ¯\_(ツ)_/¯.

lmao yeah how the fuck do they know this stuff. Like, its so specific. Mindblowing.

Kudos to whoever designed this bot.

I'm always willing to help out, especially when blowjobs are at stake!

In my area we have a local sex shop called Cirilla's but if you're not in the midwest you may have to shop around or order offline. I managed to find a similar product on amazon for you, they have been very beneficial with some of my experiences. Plus there's a tasty treat in it for you as well!

I’m cut, but wanted a nice smooth head like often only seen with uncut. I read about using retinol products on the penis, some articles talk about the benefits. It’s usually used as a wrinkle cream for the face. Anyway, it works wonders, only 5 days and it’s smooth and more sensitive in a good way. Other than that I just use regular lotion to moisturize.

Here’s the retinol I used (only on the head):

Neutrogena Rapid Wrinkle Repair... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B004D2C4Q4?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share

I have not contributed to this forum so far, but it has been extremely helpful for me. I was looking for an underwear to hide my erections. I read about many brands of underwear on this forum made for higher length, girth, and testicular size.

I am over 7 inches, classified as 'Abnormally Large' by the calculator on BDP. Also, with a girth of 5.5 inches, it is almost impossible to hide erections and it was causing me a lot of anxiety. 

For many years, I was wearing the wrong sized underwear. The underwear was the right size from the waist, but wouldn't hide an erection. Most of my penis would protrude above the waistband. Pointing my penis downwards would be painful during an erection. Not to mention the fact that I do not have a foreskin. Rubbing of the glans on fabric would also lead to spontaneous erections. 

I tried many different types of underwear. It would either not fit me properly, or provide no support to the testicles. I was recently diagnosed with hyperspermia and my testicles feel large, full, and heavy. I was looking for an underwear that would provide me testicular support and also hide my erect penis which comes up to my navel. 

My wife suggested maternity underwear. They are soft, broad at the bottom, and have a very high waist. I tried them and they are really great! The fabric is very soft for my bare glans and is able to hide my shaft completely. Not to mention the fact that they are inexpensive. They may not look or sound sexy as other men's underwear brands on the list, but my objective is to minimize or hide my erections. Basically, make it inconspicuous.

I thought it may be a good idea to share the two types of underwear I recommend for people with my problem:

I use this regularly:  https://www.amazon.ca/dp/B07RKNTCCL

I use this for sports since it has a bigger waist band:

https://www.amazon.ca/dp/B002V9PR06

They are reliable, soft, provide support and cover everything!

You can use Jojoba oil for penis.

https://www.amazon.com/Hair-Intimate-Private-Removal-Cream/dp/B08D67MF73

No Hair Crew Intimate/Private At Home Hair Removal Cream for Men - Painless, Flawless, Soothing Depilatory for Unwanted Coarse Male Body Hair, 100ml

Wind briefs, my man! They help block the icy ball blast. I use these under shorts or thermal tights. Fine room-wise, but I’m not a massive shower, so your mileage may vary.

I use normal soap, whatever is on tap. Afterword I use Fresh Balls by Fresh Body. It helps with sweating and smell. It does have a smell, but it is very light and fresh.

Amazon link: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00D2959I4/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o06_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

I get you completely man. Yeah the Adidas briefs have very little pouch. There has been a lot of "thumbs up" on the Obviously Anatomax (myself included). Nothing is going to hide those random boners but these will keep you nestled in a pouch with great comfort.

Available from amazon. They have 3 different leg lengths. But make sure you get the anatomax (it's the biggest pouch). https://www.amazon.com/Obviously-Original-AnatoMAX-Boxer-Brief/dp/B014JCS9PW/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1503770704&sr=8-1&keywords=obviously%2Banatomax&th=1

I like these:

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00DYNPG8G/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&psc=1

They are very comfy, keep the boys separate, and you can either go through the hole in the front and stay in the pouch, or adjust yourself full out of the pouch for more freedom.

Depending of what kind of clothes you wear these kind could work

You could fill one of those with lube you already bought.

Magnums aren’t big, it’s just a marketing gimmick to make guys feel big.

You can also get the Durex XXL from Amazon.

Condoms for Sex, Durex Xxl Extra... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B086194JZ2?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share

Amazon. And I purchased one in every size to be safe, and because I could use different sizes for different things. Here are the exact ones I got.

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B075WRS46B/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_inOfFbHV9ZTP1

The 45mm is about right for tightness on me.

Yeah he needs to work on what we call Inner Game. It's inner confidence and knowing that he's a high value individual. It does take time. I recommend him to read Models by Mark Manson. That book is pretty much all about improving inner self worth and confidence. /r/seduction is more than just what to say during the proper time. That comes after you've got the inner game down.

https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=dev.cosmos.ninjasnap

Takes pictures of whoever is trying to swipe through your phone and shows it to them. Pretty hilarious cause they either instantly recognize what it's doing or they flip the fuck out wondering how/why you have pictures of them and you get to bitch them out for swiping.

Definitely think this is a good thing to shed more light on, but I don’t agree that a tilted uterus is one of the main causes of incompatibility (even with a partner with a larger penis) or that there’s no need to treat it when there’s pain.

Not saying it can’t be a factor but I think the biggest problem with painful sex during deep penetration is that it can be really hard to know exactly what’s causing it (sometimes impossible without surgery), and often there’s more than one cause. If anyone or their partner is struggling with pain or discomfort, I’d highly recommend ruling out other causes first, as well as looking into things like pelvic floor physio or stress reduction to manage other factors that might be causing issues alongside having a tilted uterus.

I've tried their eggs and they are generally not suitable for long-term use. I recommend an Pocket Pusssy sex egg I recently purchased on Amazon, which I have used more than 10 times and is still intact. I'm sure it's definitely worth the money.

https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://www.amazon.com/Grinding-Professional-Comfortable-Clenching-Whitening/dp/B08V8GFY6Q&ved=2ahUKEwigvPampOf7AhUbmmoFHZwoDrEQFnoECBUQAQ&usg=AOvVaw3G-IGMJV8Zbh6i2dQUtLLM

This works. 4 guards, 2 large, 2 small, boil n bite, so it stays on the teeth. It's like they said up there, unless you want to give your dentist 2 or 3 hundred, I think this is your best, 30 dollar option. Sure, the teeth are still gonna be there, and no, it won't be soft, but it does remove pretty much all of the scrape feeling. It's feels more like a flat surface than a comb. 6 months of use, still going

> ** Pinching Hand** > > A hand with thumb and index finger in close proximity. Used to suggest that something is small, or to gesture a small amount. > > Pinching Hand was approved as part of Unicode 12.0 in 2019 and added to Emoji 12.0 in 2019.

https://emojipedia.org/pinching-hand/

i.e. It's for anything that's small. It's a commonly used gesture to indicate that something was close to being full or completion, or that a quantity is small.

How close were you to giving up? [pinching hand emoji]

Do you want any of this spaghetti? [pinching hand emoji]

Though, like eggplant, which technically just means eggplant this could end up with a different culturally ascribed and implied meaning.

There is some talk here about Separatec and I would like to weigh in as a fan. Great product; comfortable, supportive, and averts stickiness. However, if you fear people noticing you are built like a man they may not be right for you. Women are comfortable wearing garments that support their breasts without fear we'll notice they have breasts, why should we be bashful about our clothe covered bodies?

User u/DarthDujo commented that his dick and balls are too big for the Separatec pouch but I think he might be mistaken. It is true that while we move around, sit and stand, the body is fluid and parts might work their way out of the pouch. This is not because the [stretchable] pouch is too small. My dick and balls (link NSFW) fit very well in the pouch and stay there in large part due to the ring I wear at the base of my dick which keeps my junk squarely in the pouch. Note that I prefer the bamboo rayon material which is very accommodating.

The pouch underwear work better with a ring and the ring is better with the underwear, it is a synergy I discovered and love to talk about. It's worth trying.

Perhaps these are available.

https://www.amazon.com/Calexotics-Stopper-Comfort-Penetration-Accessory/dp/B07G26J9ZR

You can improvise if you cannot find a suitable product. An old dodge is to tie a rolled soft cloth around the base of your penis.

Weird, according to amazon.com (see link below) it's 64mm nominal width, so should be ok.

Did you check the width given on the package? 🤔

https://www.amazon.com/Condoms-Durex-Natural-12Count-Eligible/dp/B086194JZ2/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?crid=2NS3BEPGSIM5M&keywords=durex+thin+feel+xl&qid=1665443233&qu=eyJxc2MiOiIxLjQ4IiwicXNhIjoiMC4wMCIsInFzcCI6IjAuMDAifQ%3D%3D&sprefix=%2Caps...

Are you sure your dildo actually has 9" of insertable length? For example, this dildo is marketed as a 9 inch dildo on amazon. However, if you look at the product pictures, it really only has 6.1" of inser https://www.amazon.com/Realistic-Ultra-Soft-Beginners-Hands-Free-Flexible/dp/B07H794KZQ/ref=cm\_cr\_arp\_d\_product\_top?ie=UTF8

Yeah, but are you wearing underpants? Something like these?
https://www.amazon.com.au/Bonds-Underwear-Cotton-Blend-Guyfront/dp/B079V7NQQB/ref=asc_df_B079V7NQQB/?tag=googleshopdsk-22&linkCode=df0&hvadid=341792533859&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=16437909079299808689&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9069049&hvtargid=pla-672816384662&psc=1

I have seen your profile, including the pictures and clips of your dick.

You do not belong in r/smalldickpositivity. You are above average.

In terms of measurements, I would use a seamstress tape rather than a ruler to get a more accurate measurement. This allows you to measure your girth (and get a condom that fits your dick). Here is an example of such tape on Amazon USA: https://www.amazon.com/Measure-Flexible-Measurement-Centimetre-60-inch（White）/dp/B07MT89MCW/ref=sr_1_5?crid=1HFLXHURKBX2C&keywords=seamstress+measuring+tape&qid=1661974022&sprefix=seamstress+%2Caps%2C96&sr=8-5

If you are concerned about being small and not being able to satisfy a woman, I would personally qualify your dick as being big and more than enough to satisfy me. The percentage of women who are size queens is fairly small (less than 1%). As I mention often on this subreddit, women need to love the man behind the dick in order to worship the dick.

Here's some conical ones

I ended up breaking out of that mentality for the most part. But for shorts recommendations, try these and get a size up (the brand also has 5" and 9" inseams and aren't nearly as slim fit as they claim to be):

https://www.amazon.com/Goodthreads-Inseam-Lightweight-Oxford-British/dp/B077RV5TZ5/ref=sr\_1\_7?keywords=goodthreads+mens+shorts&qid=1660957629&sprefix=goodthreads%2Caps%2C96&sr=8-7

I'd say maybe have shorts that have more designs on them your outline isn't as obvious. I have this pair for that reason.

AIMPACT Mens Swim Trunks Quick... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08H1QNKXK?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share

is not necesary that the condom goes all the way down, just that you have one that fits your girth and fits comftably without it "slipping" out

i was in the rossmann at my local train station yesterday and found some sorted My size condoms there, so i tought that perhaps they had them everywhere

Also, dont be afraid of sex stores! most of them are super kind and will help you find what you need

if you feel too nervous you could allways order the My size test kit from amazon

https://www.amazon.de/My-Size-Kondome-3er-Probierset-64mm/dp/B00625PPHK

Fair question but probably not. The dilators would be much cheaper than the ohnut though.

https://www.amazon.com/Naughty-Kitty-Kat-Vaginismus-Therapy/dp/B075TP7HLN

Here's an example of a kit but you can find cheaper ones or more expensive ones if you so choose.

There’s some definite proven studies especially about its effects on the libido and raising testosterone. I use this variety https://www.amazon.com/Tongkat-Longjack-Eurycoma-Longifolia-Capsules/dp/B07TTDFXFV/ref=mp_s_a_1_3?crid=3ISWEX1VIN0KV&keywords=tongkat+ali&qid=1654781653&sprefix=%2Caps%2C81&sr=8-3

I felt small into my mid-to-late 20s. I still feel small every time I read an online personal ad that thinks 9x9 cocks grow on trees. I feel small looking at gonewild models going to town on themselves with Bad Dragon dildos that are exactly my measurements. I told you, confidence is overrated. I haven't actually read this, but I think this self-help book might help: it's called Fuck Feelings

Do you know what it's like to struggle with a partner who's hurt that you can't fuck, but who you'll hurt even more if you do? Tongue and toys can fix a small dick. We couldn't even get through those.

Your problem isn't the small dick in your pants; it's the small dick energy in your head. It's fucking up your empathy. Take comfort and/or warning in the fact that right now, if I was into dudes, I would reject you for your personality, not your micropenis.

Yes the trick I use is silicone double sided reusable tape. I wrap that around the glans head with tape and under the noose on the extender . It acts as sort of a synthetic callus that keeps the noose from digging into your skin. It isn't perfect but it helps a lot . And since its sticky it really helps things from slipping loose . I've tried using sock fabric , foam and other soft cushiony material but this is the best thing I've found You can find the tape on Amazon here :

Reusable Adhesive Silicone Tape Universal Anti-Slip Double-Sided Wall Stickers Silicone Tape

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07QQQZVXK/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_i_BRGWX7W2YSY96SE47T87

This allowed me to keep the thing on for at least a few hours before needing to take a break and reapply. Hope this helps!

Optimum Nutrition Zinc Magnesium Aspartate, Zinc for Immune Support, Muscle Recovery and Endurance Supplement for Men and Women, Zinc and Magnesium Supplement, 180 Count (Packaging May Vary) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B000GIQS02/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_i_5BVFQ27D9MQH4E9CK852?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1

If you want beachwear suggestions, here are mine

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I bought a Jackits Stroker pad for a guy I was dating with 6 inch girth. He said he really enjoyed it. jackits stroker pad

A padded dance belt hides the details. It makes everyone look huge.

You could add a bra cup to hide the details:

https://www.amazon.com/SERMICLE-Inserts-Massaged-Sports-Optional/dp/B0744M3DF2/ref=sr\_1\_6?crid=2T670WGOB4E0P&keywords=bra+cup&qid=1650420425&sprefix=bra+cup%2Caps%2C97&sr=8-6

I lived in northern USA years ago. Guys that worked outside a lot wore dick warmers. I did a quick search https://www.amazon.com/Gears-Out-Heater-Wiener-Warmer/dp/B01N1L5ZWJ I'm sure there are others.

Been shaving for 26 years now. My advice for everyone, don’t wet shave, use a trimmer where you’d want some hair, and for clean shave there are great machines.

In my experience this one is by FAR the best I’ve ever had. No scratched, no nothing, takes 4 mins. (Seiko Cleancut)

https://www.amazon.com/CLEANCUT-ES412-Cleancut-Personal-Shaver/dp/B001IZZX1C

In the shower, towards the end when your skin has softened up, use lots of soap.

Most importantly, I find female razors better for shaving my body, I’ve been using this brand for years. Total game changer. It’s somehow better at getting around the curves than a face shaver.

Dude I’m a runner and I had same problem! Don’t get some old school jock from the 50s but do get one that stretches. Here’s one I own:

https://www.amazon.com/Umbro-Athletic-Performance-Underwear-Pocket/dp/B095PTWWT3/ref=mp_s_a_1_1_sspa?crid=2E0GHB9P56IHM&keywords=mens+black+umbro+jock&qid=1648073230&sprefix=mens+black+umbro+jock%2Caps%2C97&sr=8-1-spons&psc=1&a...

Might sound weird to wear one when you run but I’ve always found the liners they make in running shorts to be uncomfortable and basically smash. Try a jock for runs 5 miles and under. The pouch stretches and is kinda silly to the touch. The range of motion is great. It’s got a cup pocket which you don’t need but the extra layer of material helps with the concealing/ viewing the little head etc.

I too am a runner and decided to buy these. They have a lined pouch so to speak that doesn't seem to cause issue and helps with bouncing.

AIMPACT Mens Mesh 3 Inch Booty Shorts Sexy Side Split Workout Running Shorts https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08KZLWRP6/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_glt_i_15HVWW57GY37E8GRJKEV?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1

How so? People have written books on this subject. Here's a book on the matter:

Jews Don't Count by David Baddiel:

"Jews Don’t Count is a book for people who consider themselves on the right side of history. People fighting the good fight against homophobia, disablism, transphobia and, particularly, racism. People, possibly, like you.
It is the comedian and writer David Baddiel’s contention that one type of racism has been left out of this fight. In his unique combination of close reasoning, polemic, personal experience and jokes, Baddiel argues that those who think of themselves as on the right side of history have often ignored the history of anti-Semitism. He outlines why and how, in a time of intensely heightened awareness of minorities, Jews don’t count as a real minority: and why they should."

​

https://www.amazon.ca/Jews-Dont-Count-Times-Book/dp/0008490759/ref=sr_1_1?gclid=Cj0KCQiAu62QBhC7ARIsALXijXRgHx78Flmn9e5N0WO8KjR3MBoJNN8aCoD32Eq3kTuxEoHCyx4eGikaAjEnEALw_wcB&hvadid=489731496449&hvdev=c&hvlocphy=9000614&hvnetw=g&hvqmt=e&hvrand=8709122049747994266&hvtargid=kwd-1135191117790&hydadcr=27922_10600279&keywords=jews+don%27t+count&qid=1644945878&sr=8-1

So I’ve made a dildo a few times in the past for past significant others. I usually go with this brand: CLONE-A-WILLY - Silicone Penis Casting Kit for DIY Dildo (Light Skin Tone) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B000NBS2RE/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_i_FZ0718VCQZ9TWH66GMKJ Now as for staying hard, I would recommend a cock ring to keep the blood in while you’re making it. Also have your SO help you out, it can be a fun activity!

I bought these and they have worked well for comfort and attention if you want that added bonus

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I bought these and they have worked well for comfort and attention if you want that added bonus

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>especially since it doesn't really seem to have any benefits for the person being circumcised

Not entirely true.

The American Academy of Pediatrics found that the health benefits of newborn male circumcision outweigh the risks, but the benefits are not great enough to recommend universal newborn circumcision.

Which, I think, says that if you have general health, cultural, and religious reasons for believing in circumcision, then you do have some ground to stand on --- just as one does if opposed to circumcision.

And this list is what they denote some of the health benefits as being.

testicles hang low so they can be cooler than body temperature. It only takes a few degrees to lower sperm count. I realize webmd is a low quality source but you are free to search further from here: https://www.webmd.com/infertility-and-reproduction/features/boxers-vs-briefs-increasing-sperm-count

You're twisting my words. The small dick isn't in your head: but the psychological trauma from those bad experiences is.

What you need is a good therapist. I'm seeing one myself every other week, because I've been depressed to the point of being suicidal at different times in my life. While my situation is different from yours, I understand psychological trauma, and how it can prevent us from developing meaningful intimate relationships.

Judging by your recent post history, you clearly have some shit to work through, and perhaps a therapist can help you find strategies to cope with past negative sexual experiences in order to foster more positive ones in the future.

Or you can continue to wallow in self-pithy and spew misogynistic "incel" garbage on the Internet. In which case you'll be forever alone for sure, but it'll be a self-fulfilling prophecy. Either way, the choice is yours.

Here's one of the first articles that come up on Google when researching how to stop being an incel: Where to Get Help if You're Struggling to Find Love, Sex, and Companionship. I can't vouch for its content. But if you're in college you can most likely get free psychological counseling through your school's medical clinic.

I'm 23 and out of college. I've been looking for practice/getting rejected but I'm having a hard time finding one despite living in a town with 85,000 people. I've been going to things on meetup.com and at every event I go to, I'm the only one under 30 lol

I bought a surgical grade tube that loops through a bead at one end. I wasn't interested in the ring hunting part and this allows me to adjust and remove it quickly.

I've only used it once for masterbation, so idk what to expect from sex.

Utimi Adjustable Cock Ring Set... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B073XQ6SLT?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share

https://www.amazon.co.uk/Oreo-Original-Sandwich-Biscuit-154g/dp/B01787U8SG/ref=sr I used this link for the width

My wife had this same problem, my urologist suggested one of these for after sex and it has significantly lowered how many she gets.

TURMZPY 600ml Manual Portable Bidet Bottle for Travel https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07KN3QY84/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_i_TD3T2YDAV6DA46XZ0636?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1

You wrote your reasons well enough other comments shouldn't tell you to show it off. I am showing it off and loving it lol, but you don't wanna, so, I did buy these for dick support after I had a vasectomy (cause I hate kids):

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B071QY6PT9/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&psc=1

Won't be too comfortable but they'll probably do the job.

Been using this for years in the shower, have never been cut by it. The gel strip on it leaves a slight residue that protects you and rinses right off in the shower. I don’t use shower gel with it - just hold sections of your balls out so it’s smooth to run the razor over and go to town. If you’re especially hairy, trim the big parts with a trimmer first and then use this to get them smooth. I’ve never had a girl complain and have received several compliments about how smooth they are. Don’t be an idiot with it and you won’t get cut at all. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07ZK5VSYZ/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_i_3DK6B9MJT1EMSS0JPWYK?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1

Here is a starter set that has various sizes. Here are ones just for the shaft. I like both. Don’t use them more than four hours.

+1 to David Archy, they are my go to currently. They provide good support, which I like, but aren't crazy restrictive. These are the ones I've been using lately. They aren't perfect, but they're doing the job =P.

Here’s a measuring tape for $1.79 with free delivery from Amazon:

SINGER 00218 Tape Measure, 60-Inch https://www.amazon.com/dp/B000B7Q9FM/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_i_BH7NJEKG1ZJHZSPDWTKX

Won’t work if you have more than 60” of girth

Personally I recommend DAVID ARCHY Men's Dual Pouch Underwear Micro Modal Trunks Separate Pouches with Fly 4 Pack https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00CB77QT8/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_glt_i_Q8KKFWCTY49RRDCC91NB?psc=1

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08H3K93XX/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_C50EMG1F62Q445DP2FGQ would this be an example of it? honestly the bulge sounds better than the constant discomfort i’m currently dealing with so i’ll take what i can get

AliExpress is your friend. If you're willing to dig through it, there are some quality brands for dirt cheap. In the Andrew Christian line, stuff like this for 3$. I'm guessing they got in trouble for having the andrew christian label on these, but when you get them they are the same, or a knock off so accurate that it doesn't matter.

If you like thongs, I've enjoying This

The only down side is the time it takes to get here, generally a couple weeks to a month. But for 3 $? I'll wait.

edit fixed link

https://www.webmd.com/urinary-incontinence-oab/kegel-exercises-treating-male-urinary-incontinence#1

This is perfect for you