I meant as in be the op for one :'( I goto Orange Coast College and Irvine Valley College.
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I'm behind the guy in the beanie. Also shout out to Daniel Jerome for making the dope choreo!
Maybe "Asians and Friends San Francisco Bay" on meetup.com? Yea, there's a bunch of rice queens in that group (well, in this city overall, really), that may or may not be your thing.
The thing about SF is that 1) there's lots of gays, 2) there's lots of Asians, and 3) there's lots of gaysians--so really, anywhere in the city (except maybe the Mission and the Tenderloin) could be explored to get a sense of the "gay vibe."
Badlands and Toad Hall, while not primarily gaysian, also have a strong gaysian presence too most nights.
The strongest non-club, general "gay vibe" I get, IMO, is hanging out at one of the many coffeeshops in the Castro, even though there's a lot of straight people there nowadays too.
Have you tried community groups? Meetup.com groups?
I find that developing relationships from social groups far more rewarding. Even if you don't date, the socialisation is important for any future relationships that you may develop.
Don't use grindr for dates... If you're serious, use match.com or okcupid or tinder.
Just get out there and date... ASK them questions, listen to what they say, ask follow ups. Guys/People love to talk about themselves.
You'll learn what works and doesn't work for you. You'll have some REALLY bad dates but you'll also have some great ones. Just enjoy the experience. You're young, just have fun (not necessarily sexual!)
The one I really like is from the Face Shop, K-beauty brand. It's light on my skin and works pretty good. It's pricey on amazon, but you can find it like for $20 on other sites.
1984 by George Orwell. That book was very...very scary. Stephen King books don't even come close :S
Of Mice and Men by John Steinbeck. Beautiful tale about friendship.
How To Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie. I recently tried applying some principles of the book. Hopefully it'll work :)
Have you ever tried this stuff?
It works like a charm for me. I can't use the lactaid brand stuff because I'm allergic to one of the inactive ingredients. I usually use 1 of the capsules if it's just a little bit of cheese or something, but if it's something like ice cream or pizza, I'll take 2.