What are /r/SellerCircleStage's favorite Products & Services?

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Yeah don't listen to the person telling you that someone finding your rough location & IP isn't a big deal, it absolutely can be. The net is full of psycho crazy people, and some of them can get really obsessed & stalkery and all it takes is 1 person to find our your city for you to get doxxed and your whole life gets flipped upside down. That's the real thing about being secure online- it's not that you're doing anything bad, it's that one determined person can catastrophically fuck up your shit. Get a VPN. I use NordVPN, it covers 6 devices per account (including phones!) And It's stupid-easy to set up & use.

For erasing metadata, you can google how to do it for your operating system, just try like "remove metadata (system type)". Imgur will strip it, too, but knowing how to do it yourself will save you time & give you more flexibility with delivery to buyers.

I think the best way to promote at the moment without coming across as "spam" is simply by having your link pinned to the top of a twitter profile with a photo of yourself - maybe also including an image that shows your schedule for the month (you can make one on canva.com easily).

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So, for example instead of tweeting links daily you're tweeting them once a month and pinning them to your profile instead - then you can post daily photos on twitter, instagram and reddit when you're online mentioning you're "online until ___" or will be "online at ___ until ___" without including a link so it doesn't seem like you're spamming them at all.

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This way you can not only set less alerts to tweet but also avoid being "shadow banned" or muted for posting adult website URLS regularly which will likely lead to reaching more people overall.

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(I was a successful webcam model on myfreecams for 3 years)

I use BiteDefender on App Store. It’s probably available on google play too. It’s a red icon with a bold white B. It’s worth paying for and not worth the free version. NordVPN is also a good one and I will be switching to that one eventually but they are more expensive.

About VPN, how repressive is your country? The average Western country government won't care about your online activity, and all the ISP would see will be you're accessing Reddit, Imgur and maybe Erome. All indistinguishable from average Reddit user (they won't know what subs you're opening, whether you're posting instead of simply reading etc). Worst come to worst your clicked a link from strangers that tells them your IP and your rough location. Oh noes a gonewild posters from random city USA? Big whoop. Nobody cares. Use ProtonVPN if you need to. Be aware Reddit/Imgur can't distinguish if someone else use the same IP for spamming, so sometimes your post got delayed, can't post/comment too often etc.

Now if you're living in repressive countries, then yeah you'll need VPN. In theory your government could've forced/steal from Certification Authority so they can see what's inside any internet traffic (what subs you're visiting, your private message etc), but if your government is that competent, using VPN could attract unnecessary attention. Damned if you do, damned if you don't.

Removing metadata is easy. If you trust Imgur (they're after all, going to hold your picture, knows your IP etc), then you don't need to do anything, Imgur always strip out any metadata from uploaded pictures. If you're sending the pictures as zipped files, using Dropbox, email etc, you can use Faststone Image Viewer or Exif Purge on Windows to batch remove them, or ImageOptim on Mac.

I assume since you're only worried about your IP leaking and people figuring out your location from photo metadata, you've solved your two other privacy risk, namely receiving the payment without divulging your personal information, and sending the items without giving away more information than necessary.

Yup! I think Coinbase services most of Europe at this point so definitely check them out. Otherwise there's a ton of other exchanges that can service Europeans, like https://www.kraken.com/ and https://btc-e.com/, or LocalBitcoins like /u/prismpanties suggested! :)

What about something like this?

Or a cute scarf you already own. C:

I typed "cute balaclava" into Amazon and got some lol-worthy results... It's 5am. I should sleep.

Best of luck, babe!

The most important part is good lighting! I made the mistake of taking all my pics in a basement for the first few months I was posting, and man did it make a difference when I started opening windows!!

Also, once you make a sale via amazon giftcard get yourself a tripod with a remote! You can program the remote to take pics with one button and vids with the other :) It's only $10 for the setup, and definitely worth every penny if you take all your own pics!

I'm on the younger end, but I honestly struggle with using social media for this. Huge part of it is being genderqueer and a person of color, and living with debilitating health issues can do a number on motivation. It is really fun, when you figure it out. I still haven't, I feel like my problem is I did this on Second Life for so long, and doing it on social media is completely different.

It can be daunting learning a new platform, but you'll do great. 'Mature women' is a very popular interest (?) of many people, believe me.

You'll be great. Engagement groups can be amazing, and it's always good to know how to keep yourself safe. ProtonVPN is one thing I recommend to everyone I meet, since it's free and unlimited.

I use IPVanish, definitely one of the best and worth paying for. They don't keep logs and you can pick anywhere you want your IP to read in the world, pretty much. I use it mainly for Darknet stuff, so it has to be super secure and have all the bells and whistles :)

JOI = Jerk off instructions. You can find videos on Pornhub to get a good idea of how it works.

You can use Handbrake (which is free) to clear metadata.

I'm not a UK seller but many of them use adult payment processors like: Manyvids, Niteflirt, Clips4Sale, iWantClips, APClips, and others. As far as other options go you can use: Amazon.UK e-Giftcards, Bitcoin/Crypto, GooglePay/Wallet UK (with other UK users only) and CashApp/SquareCash UK (with other UK users only.)

Once you're verified make sure you join the community at /r/SellerCircle!

yes. unfortunately that is not surprising.
Like I said:

>Also anyone with your number in their contacts will automatically be notified about your Tg account. Even if you don't have them in your contacts.

Tg thinks since they have your number they know you, so it connects them to you. Changing the number on the same account wont help. Since Tg works based on accounts. They will just see your new number on the account.

You will have to delete the Tg account (look through the settings in app). That should limit your damage to what's already done.

If possible make sure you delete the account. If you don't, it'll delete automatically after 6 months of inactivity.

Check out Armory (https://bitcoinarmory.com/), in my opinion it has the best security features of all the desktop wallets. It is a bit of a harddrive hog since it duplicates the blockchain so you'll need at least 60gb available for it right now, but it's awesome for setting up cold storage, multisig, and doing offline transactions! :)

For online wallets, I would go with either Circle or Coinbase, but I would not recommend storing large amounts of money in them just for security reasons. Best used as intermediaries between your bank account and your desktop wallet :)

Sorry, I had to remove this. Adult services is against stripes terms of service, listed on this page here. If you ever work with a service that supports our types of transactions, the community would probably love to support it. I just recommend using something more professional looking than a throwaway.

Suggest Tox

• Designed from the ground to be private with no 3rd parties involved. No central servers. No Big Brother. No rules on what you do with it.
• Automatically encrypted. No eaves dropping between you and the other end.
• Group and private chats.
• Clients for iOS, Android, Windows, Mac, and Linux.
• Text, send files, live audio and/or video.

Cons:

• Not as kittens-and-clouds fluffy as other software.

I'm not affiliated with this lady in any way nor amazon, but this book was written by a dominatrix and CPA and has been enormously helpful to me.

I also use NordVPN, and get cashback on my annual VPN subscription through Rakuten:

Rakuten Canada

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B008HMWC4A/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&psc=1 this one is cheap and works great. You can use amazon brand bags that also work great and make it so much cheaper

Eyy I got paged.

The only Bad Dragon I think worth it for deepthroating is the Chance Unflared. Everything else has such a huge girth to length ratio. Bad Dragon's soft firmness is definitely one of the softest I've dealt with as well. You can also look at Primal Hardwere for their tentacles and ask them for their softest silicone. It's not as soft as Bad Dragon, but it's definitely workable. If you're looking for realistic you have some limited options though. I'm not sure which dildo you got but if it's the Doc Johnson Bust It those are definitely way too hard and the material is just horrid. This is one of the better dildos I've found on Amazon for realistic silicone.

I'm not sure if you have a lot of jewelry or makeup but this one has been a lifesaver for me in a small space!

https://www.amazon.com/Nicetree-Full-Length-Standing-Organizer-Adjustable/dp/B07QPXFZLW/ref=redir_mobile_desktop?ie=UTF8&psc=1&ref_=ppx_yo_mob_b_track_package_o0_img

Just bought a phone tripod with a ring light and Bluetooth camera control off of Amazon, and I have never taken better nudes in my life! Here’s the link: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07GDC39Y2/ref=cm_sw_r_sms_c_api_i_x4FmEbDFD3JQ4

Super cheap too!! SO. WORTH.

VPN? Mullvad (: can pay in cash, been using it for months, unlimited amount of devices, 6 bucks a month!

I do use TOR but not for this site.... I find some things don't load properly. Much prefer Google Chrome for it. I don't really care if my ISP or anything knows I've been on this site, just care if someone with tech skills gets ahold of my IP address lol

I'm not a domme so I can't answer those questions but I'll answer what I can!

Shop around a bit for a VPN, might as well use all the free trials before paying for one yeah? I use TunnelBear but there are tons out there.

I used to try to have a "selling persona" but honestly its so much easier to just be yourself :) I'm just myself with everyone, and that way I don't have to keep track of personas or anything lol. Don't worry about ruining immersion before any payment occurs!!!! Until they pay you, treat them as a potential client, not as a sub yet. I'm pretty blunt/upfront about everything and try to keep conversations business-casual until payment goes through. /u/alittlekink and /u/lolafawn might have better answers to this one though since they are dommes.

Amazon-wise you can have people send an amazon gc to your selling email and then redeem it on your personal one. Or just use your selling email to create an amazon account and don't attach an address to your wishlist. Or attach a PO box as the address. Personally, I have people send me an amazon gc for the amount of whatever it is they're buying me and then I ship it myself.

Giftrocket doesn't tell the buyer what bank account it was redeemed to. I've only used them once but IIRC I was able to deposit it into my selling paypal (which was shut down later that week for accepting it for kik).

Most girls don't have separate bank accounts for selling as far as I'm aware.

I personally do both with a physical key, and with a plastic number lock like this

From my website

> I Hold the Key In addition to the weekly fee, you send me money or an Amazon giftcard to purchase the chastity device and cover shipping back to you. I ship you only the device, keeping the key to myself. You're at my complete mercy with this. Please note that I do not have a PO box, so you can't send me keys to hold onto. This package will still include check ins. Desperate and can't take it anymore? Pay $40 plus shipping and I'll send you the key back whenever you ask for it.

That's outdated though, whoops lol. I do have a PO box now and accept keys through there if the buyer already has a cage.

> Plastic Number Locks I require you to use a plastic number lock for this. These packages include random check-ins to make sure you haven't removed the lock. Check-ins will only be required during your availability. Failure to check in on time, or a removal of your lock without permission will result in you losing the service for the rest of the week with no refund. I may require an additional fee to start over. Too desperate to finish out your chastity or wait for permission? There's a $25 fee to get release without punishment. But you better not unlock yourself before sending the fee and getting the okay; asking for forgiveness doesn't work here. ​

You're welcome :-)

My Foodsaver vac sealer was $80ish at Walmart a couple years ago... I've definitely gotten my money's worth out of it, BUT had I known about this I totally would have gotten it instead. If you do decide to go with the table-top model, I highly recommend Foodsaver over Ziploc (returned 2 faulty Ziploc ones before biting the bullet and spending a bit more on the Foodsaver), BUT use the Ziploc sealing material (the Foodsaver material is hard to cut).

I have a Blue Yeti microphone: http://www.amazon.com/Blue-Microphones-Yeti-USB-Microphone/dp/B002VA464S/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1443136687&sr=8-1&keywords=blue+yeti

I like the sound quality and have gotten positive comments from clients. It is kind of large, but it is a USB mic...