It sits around the base of your cock so it doesn't really affect jacking off. The one thing I will say is that you want to keep your pubes trimmed if you're using a silicone ring. Pulling that thing off with unkempt pubic hair can be pretty painful lol.
Edit: this is the one I use. I like it because it can be used in a few different ways and seems to be pretty high quality.
It was this toy. But again, I didn't need nor like the telescoping/thrusting motion of it- just the vibrations. It emits vibes both in the head and the against the perineum. There are probably other models out there that simply vibrate.
Everyone's body is different and responds to different shapes and varieties of stimulation. While I have most of the Aneros models, this one- combined with some THC- definitely unlocked some amazing feelings:
https://www.amazon.com/Thrusting-Anal-Vibrator-Vibrating-Stimulation/dp/B09NXFH8X2/ref=sr\_1\_49?crid=AP8MAKK3F5CG&keywords=thrusting+vibrator&qid=1668376579&sprefix=thrusting+vibrator%2Caps%2C245&sr=8-49
It was this toy. But again, I didn't need nor like the telescoping/thrusting motion of it- just the vibrations. It emits vibes both in the head and the against the perineum. There are probably other models out there that simply vibrate.
Everyone's body is different and responds to different shapes and varieties of stimulation. While I have most of the Aneros models, this one- combined with some THC- definitely unlocked some amazing feelings:
I really like this plug set. Small isn’t of much use, medium takes me to super o’s sometimes, large is on the big side for me personally but can also be fun at times.
I really enjoy the medium one when having sex with the wife. It hits the spot perfectly and stays in without any effort. You can really relax and go to town and enjoy the sensations without thoughts of it coming out. I’ve (only once) had multiple back to back wet orgasms while having sex with it in. Hoping that someday I’ll find that magic again.
https://www.amazon.com/Comfortable-Long-Term-Silicone-Training-Beginners/dp/B07RK98NH6
The charger for the Syn V is utter shit, the connection is really flaky. Since I started using one of these to charge it, I've had zero problems.
Fun Factory USB Universal Power Adapter | Magnetic"Click 'N' Charge" USB Adapter/Charging Cable https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00FG3EHIC/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_glt_i_ZS6GCHGWEQHTS8FRQ98M?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
I had a similar issue, my Syn V never really charged well from the get-go and it only got worse. Luckily I discovered that this charger works for the Syn V, in fact it works far better than the original ever did.
https://www.amazon.com/Fun-Factory-USB-Charge-Cable/dp/B00FG3EHIC
I use cold-pressed organic shea butter bought in pharmacies. It is necessary to knead the necessary quantity in a small spoon until the butter is homogeneous and unctuous, it takes between 2 and 4 minutes according to the batch.
At the beginning, I even made suppositories of 3 grams using a suppository mould bought on a cosmetic products site. But I eventually gave up this method and only lubricate the massager now.
Ich verwende kaltgepresste Bio-Sheabutter, die in Apotheken gekauft wird. Sie müssen die benötigte Menge mit einem kleinen Löffel kneten, bis die Butter homogen und cremig ist, das dauert je nach Charge zwischen 2 und 4 Minuten.
Am Anfang habe ich sogar 3-Gramm-Zäpfchen mit einer Zäpfchenform hergestellt, die ich auf einer Kosmetikseite gekauft habe. Aber ich habe diese Methode schließlich aufgegeben und schmiere jetzt nur noch das Massagegerät.
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Check out Amazon for a 3 plug curved silicone trainer set (I have this one: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07RK98NH6/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_09G8TS71PEMCW39SWH66)
The smallest is useless really, middle is perfect for me, biggest is fun too, but goes too far in.
Use with some water based lube will really help you along your way as having something that you can insert and just relax and observe the feelings and different contractions I think really helps you find pleasure.
The key is relaxation, focus and a mindset of acceptance of whatever pleasure you receive without expectations. Nipples are a real catalyst for many along their journey.
Personally, I use this app, but it is just a simple squeeze/release.
For learning on to separate the two, I recommend the first lesson of mindgasm as it explains it really well, but the short version is to identify both and just practice. With my regular kegel exercises I will just add occasional "squeeze with both but only release one of them" stuff like that.
You can buy the plain psyllium husk fiber. Anthony's Organic Psyllium Husk Powder, 1.5 lb, Gluten Free, Non GMO, Finely Ground, Keto Friendly https://www.amazon.com/dp/B06XXN9CTG/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apan_glt_fabc_FZTAT0VXWB9JVEX46EPZ?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
There are some good items on Amazon. Not vibrating, but I got this recently and it's pretty good. https://www.amazon.com.au/dp/B0094VBMJ4/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_glt_fabc_NJ4BN82B3M8CQ4E2N2CA?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
There are plenty of vibrating ones too.
I'd think an Onda would be better for a woman's gspot....
https://www.amazon.com/Lora-DiCarlo-Robotic-G-Spot-Massager/dp/B0872JR9PJ
Go to their website to check out the video of how it works.
This looks like the one I bought, but they don't make anymore. :(
I get this:
Organic Shea butter (1 lb) USDA Certified, Raw, Unrefined, Ivory From Ghana A... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07S9H5BYG/ref=cm_sw_r_sms_api_glc_fabc_cf85Fb63NTXCG
I melt both in a hot water bath/ double boiler, mix well and pour into a jar for use.
I'm in the same boat. But God is it fun trying. I start my sessions off with the Aneros Helix as well. But I move on to other toys from there. The second toy is often my California Exotics Booty Rocket. A half hour with this usually produces about 10-20 PO's of increasing intensity. There were two I had last night that I thought were turning into super O's but turned into three contraction O's that were quite intense and enjoyable. I almost always finish with my beloved lol Utimi vibrating prostate massager. When I first start putting this in, I let the fat part sit right on my prostate. Even without the vibration, I'll have a series of PO's that are quite wonderful. Once I push it fully in, OMG the sensations and feelings that wash over my body. I got so close last night three different times. I felt like I was out of my body almost. And as you've figured out yourself, when I was able to really relax in that state of heightened excitement, it almost happened. At least three times my lower body was throbbing and jumping. So close.
I started playing with toys anally about three years ago. It always felt good but I had no idea the sensations that lay ahead. Hopefully I'll get to that super O but if I don't, no biggie. I'm having a lot of fun trying. Below are links to the two toys I mentioned. Good luck on your journey
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00725VDW0/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_UNLPCb57TPCS5
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01EMYJPWS/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_-OLPCb9ZFB348
The bad boy did nothing for me. I like to start with the Aneros Helix. Looks smaller than the prograsm. Then I'll move on to a toy a little bigger, such as: California Exotic Novelties Booty Call Booty Rocket, Black https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00725VDW0/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_gsdGCbRPVS09M After the booty rocket I'll use my absolute favorite: Utimi Vibrating Prostate Massager Anal Plug Butt Plug Anal Vibrator Sex Toy 10 Speed Silicone USB Charging Vibrations https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01EMYJPWS/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_StdGCbMQ8F0XS
By the time I'm done, 45 min to 2hrs, I'll have experienced over 20 Prostate Orgasms of varying and building intensity. Good luck. It's a fulfilling journey but it doesn't happen overnight.
They are all good, I have every model and usually switch it up every thirty minutes often ending with a eupho syn ride at the end. That or this which drives me wild https://www.amazon.com/LAmourose-Pasante-Rosa-Vibe-Rouge/dp/B00GYSF5OI
I use the Pipedream Products Classix Prostate Stimulator http://smile.amazon.com/dp/B002QLMBHG
I just lay on my back on the bed, legs spread wide, usually with a pillow propped under my ass, and I use lots of ID lube, I don't just insert the stimulator and leave it in there, at first I just slide it in and slowly work it in and out just to get myself "opened" up for it, and then make sure it hits the prostate, after a couple a minutes, I feel the O's are about to flow I speed up the pace till I'm ramming it in and out of my ass, almost all the way out with tip still barely inside and I slam it back it. After the first orgasm, I just jack hammer it non stop, and the orgasms just roll for as long I keep fucking my ass with it lol.
The only reason I stop and take breaks and orgasms stop is when my hand gets tired. I usually only stop after I've had at least 10 orgasms which doesn't take more than 20-30 min. Then I start it up again and pretty much bang out mind blowing orgasms all night.
Because of the Amazon Prime specification: Lubricant Launcher, Blue https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0052Z8VAE/ref=cm_sw_r_awd_zMUtvb0F06V01
Cleanstream Water-based Lube - 8oz https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00656GCN2/ref=cm_sw_r_awd_0MUtvb1MF3RT7
I've had good results with both combined with coconut oil from your local drugstore, where it is usually cheaper than Amazon, particularly with coupons and sales. (They usually don't specifically mention it in ads, so you just need to check the store. I got two jars for the price of one at Walgreen's, for example.)