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I don't think it's as bad as you think it is I'd describe your looks as pretty average. Try and follow some of the tricks on this channel for making exercises more accessible, the gym is (in my opinion) a place people go to show the fact that there house workouts have payed off not a place to start getting fit. If your hair bothers you I recommend just axing it entirely, own the shaved look. Rock a bomber jacket like this one and graffic tees underneath with media your passionant about for me a guy with average looks and a 40k shirt he cares about on is a lot better looking than a guy with good looks in a suit coat he clearly hates. Because the first guy knows what he likes and isn't afraid of the fact that he likes it while the second guy is scared that he's gonna get turned down and is desperate to impress. Be you, it might not make you more attractive the way a lot of people say but it will make you more fun to be around and that's just as if not more important.

I think you can maybe try to pull a Jason Statham once you've bulked up good, you're going to have a jawline then making your beard look better, combine that with some sharp classy clothing and i think you can pull off a really good look.

The important thing is to keep working on yourself and have motivation and drive to do it.

There are alot of subreddits that can help you with body and style if youneed help with that so look into that maybe.

https://www.bing.com/images/search?view=detailV2&ccid=rxkZy6Sw&id=EF790AB1E0876CBFEEB83F03356B792C475058FF&q=jason+statham&simid=608016956449686419&selectedindex=12&mode=overlay&first=1&thid=OIP.rxkZy6SwCH_L9XkwKXrq...

is this better? first one got banned for link shortener https://photos.google.com/share/AF1QipPzJuJn04KJF_WNlCHVMCEn2JX4nPZKOSU02LNDXPht7zgKcZXcqEzgfE3KkMYQAg?key=dkFHZjRGc09weVpmdFllVVE3bG5tV1RaamdFcDZR

I'll just upload the very few I have on my phone, because it's 1 AM here and I don't wanna wake my roomate up to just take a couple pics 😂 http://tinypic.com/r/9a7iq8/8 http://tinypic.com/r/2dqlhf7/8

I know that your intent was to boost op's confidence, props for being sympathetic... But I downvoted you anyway b/c you're exaggerating. I upvoted Thurmut even if i still think 5 is a tad bit too high.

This sub should be for people who want honest opinions even if they may be brutal.

http://www.myfitnesspal.com/sv/topics/show/1216564-realistic-1-10-attractiveness-scale Going by this i'd say 3-4.

yes she did

https://i.chzbgr.com/maxW500/7328499456/hEB753543/

i remember those buildings

http://www.mobygames.com/images/shots/l/245726-s-t-a-l-k-e-r-shadow-of-chernobyl-windows-screenshot-the-town.jpg

Hard to say, but these are some we see come they a ton at my place of employment Regetta Jewelry Vintage Surf Style men women unisex Double Ring Pendant with Adjustable Genuine Brown Leather Chain Cord Necklace https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00MAQLGFK/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_D27LCbX6XQ5DW

You're handsome. I'd give you a 8/10, off that last pic.

I recommend you take care of your skin. Go to r/skincareaddiction

Find a haircut that works for you too.

Also workout. If you're 6'2, with a solid clean bulk, you'll look like a beast.

I noticed you said social skills. Maybe check out r/socialskills?

When it comes to bettering interpersonal connections, a book I see mentioned often, is Dale Carnegie's How To Win Friends and Influence People. It's dated, so you could probably just read a summary.

Best of luck.

I’d say a 4-5 but you’ve got some solid potential. Given your high hairline, I think you should definitely give the buzz cut a go. No one likes hearing it, I’m well aware, but I think in the long term you could pull off a buzz cut and beard similar to Jamie Dornan here:

https://www.shutterstock.com/image-photo/los-angeles-feb-2-jamie-dornan-571043773

Pretty much everyone here has recommended that you lose weight, but hear me out. Being a mechanic isn’t easy work, so I don’t doubt that you have a solid amount of muscle underneath. In that regard, you’ve got an advantage over anyone starting out scrawny. Focus on food rather than exercise. Counting calories and putting up with 3 weeks of hunger (you should get used to it after that) is your best bet.

Once you get a feel for what works and get into a better physique, you’re gonna need a wardrobe overhaul. Fashion is key, so the gentlemen over at r/malefashionadvice could give you help. Best of luck.

Without knowing your height and weight it's hard to give you a number of how much weight to lose. You should shoot for a BMI under 30 to no longer be obese. This will increase your longevity, but a BMI under 25 is best. This may be difficult with thyroid issues, see what your doctor says, but getting under 30 should be doable with the right diet.

https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/obesity/in-depth/bmi-calculator/itt-20084938

The good news: Based on the changing room picture you hold your weight very well. You have curves and you hold a lot of weight in your breasts. Many men will find this attractive.

The bad news: The photo taken at the convention? shows your waist protrudes to your breasts or potentially beyond which puts your proportions out of sorts.

Your good features are your smile, eyes and breasts. There's a very attractive person in you. Your smile is genuine and seem like a good person. You just need to drop some weight to bring it out and accentuate it.

Since u have more of a round face go for rectangular or square glasses frames. And for eyebrows and beard I recommend electric trimmers like this face groomer there are cheaper options. If u have anymore questions I’m happy to help.

7/10 = you are gorgeous, but your foundation is a shade too dark and too yellow for you and your hair could use an anti-frizz serum like this or this

Use red light therapy to regrow hair. There are a lot of alternatives but this is the most popular product on Amazon. It worked for my doctor.

iRestore Essential Laser Hair Growth System https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01B29PCUU/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_i_9DN7J6E93C5EXTEXQTFF?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1

No, it's not about the color, it's about the style.

It could be a red shirt and you'd still have the same issue. The shirt needs to have more to it than a T shirt.

By putting a little more effort into clothing selection, it gives off a vibe that you care about your appearance. Same with the hair, by leaving it ungroomed, it says "I can't be bothered".

Here is a shirt that says "I try". I found this via googling "mens linen shirt" even though it seems like Amazon says it is a cotton shirt.

Maybe you could get the hair on your nape cut off and the hair on your sides cut down closer to your head. At the top you could keep the layers, but have it cut down shorter so that there isn't as much volume towards the front like there is now.

This picture gives a decent visual of what I mean

I haven't given many men hair advice so I don't know if that suggestion will help at all, but there's a subreddit r/malehairadvice that you could probably get advice from too if you want to post a picture there.

Just a few weeks ago you said you just became 18, then recently you were 17 again, flirting with a minor.

So not sure ... https://imgur.com/czPfe87

I also vaguely remember that you said you were Jewish, but I'm not sure about that.

Anyway, I gave you a 9 before.

http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/1216564-realistic-1-10-attractiveness-scale

According to this rating scale, I would rate you a 3/10 or 4/10. Maybe you aren't the most unattractive person on the planet, but you aren't above average either. Maybe a little below average, actually. Not to sound mean but if you want my honest opinion, I would probably be disappointed if I were set up with you on a blind date. I'm not attracted to you. I'm not sure what advice to give you to help you be pretty. Maybe someone will see past that. Good luck to you.

I've moved recently to a major city and I've been trying my luck on tinder, with no success so far.

I've always figured I was slightly above average in the looks department, but now I'm not so sure. I found a girl on reddit who was nice enough to take some pics for me. So what am I out of ten and which are the best pictures?

What came up looked like a bloodbath between Lady Gaga and a super feminine, genetically modified, cologne-heavy model trying to cosplay all the Scooby-Doo characters at once.

I'm no fashion expert but I don't think I've ever seen people with those outfits. Most of the hair looked normal yet incredibly trendy.

I was expecting something like this, this, or Tom Cruise.

https://www.amazon.com/Tifara-Beauty-42-pack-Flexible-Curling/dp/B0182XCOGE/ref=mp_s_a_1_1_sspa?crid=37H2LAMA0LKAH&keywords=foam+rollers+for+hair&qid=1640971077&sprefix=foam+rollers+for+ha%2Caps%2C137&sr=8-1-spons&psc=1&smi...

I found the ones I used! Soft texture so you can sleep on them, it was really pretty but maintaining was a wreckage. She ended up only washing it twice a week, it was a whole ritual of sorts

It's interesting.

I know someone else said "fivehead", but... that's not quite it. The peaks up near your temples are just high... I think? Maybe if you don't wanna do bangs, you could hide/de-emphasize with a style like so -- not a great picture, but you get the idea...?

Your eyes also are set a bit close together, but I think maybe restructuring the hair will help with that, also, if you're not into spending a ton of time mastering the makeup thing. If you are, head over to /r/MakeupAddiction, they're awesome.

But here's the thing. Even if you do nothing, you'll still be super cute. You have good skin, decent bone structure, good hair and seemingly a super sexy body, and your eyes are downright seductive.

Rating: 7.7 (the 7.6 dude is WRONG), with potential for way more, if you can find a way to sort out the illusion of a large forehead (again, I think it's as much illusion/presentation as anything else).

I'm a straight male, so take this with a grain of salt. I actually rarely comment on other men (mostly because I'm not convinced I'd be much help). However I felt compelled to click on your post because I think people underestimate how much the artificial / software softening / beautifying effects of smartphone cameras & apps really harm rather than help. In your case, the image on the right almost makes you look like a muppet, where as the image on the right makes me feel like you'd be real competition at a bar. I suspect you look best with a bit of facial hair... the way that Diego Luna looks best with a bit of facial hair. But I'd never know for sure because the muppet look is really impacting my ability to tell.

an alternative to the man bun 24/7

Hm, I take it back, it was just my superficial impression from the title and something about your appearance. You're definitely a bit of a baby face! A cute babyface, 8.5.

BTW, are you a licensed RD?

http://www.indeed.com/salary/Registered-Dietitian.html

Pretty good numbers.

Not a photographer, just someone who likes all sorts of art. I think there are plenty of places where you can find other photographers to critique your work, so long as you reciprocate. Some of it goes on at /r/itookapicture and there might be other subreddits too. Flickr used to be the place to go for this, here's an article but it's a few years old and the communities may have changed. Here's another more recent discussion of Flickr groups on reddit. Look around, I'm sure you'll find something.

Definitely a solid 8! You're so pretty, your facial features are very proportional. I really don't think you need plastic surgery tbh. The second picture is unflattering due to the lighting and clothing style. It's not anything about you specifically.

To me, I think the biggest issue is that you're wearing clothes (and maybe colors) that don't flatter your body or face.

Your chin doesn't seem very recessed to me. The mauve top suits you so well! Typically a shirt with that high of a neck would make a weak chin immediately obvious. No angle would save you -- I'm speaking from experience.

The only thing I noticed is, you do have a rounder face, so your jawline and cheekbones are not as defined. Some people find that more desirable than a square or rectangle face, so it's really subjective... But if you want a stronger jawline, chewing gum really helps develop those muscles, so you might want to give that a try.

As for your body, if you wanted to look a bit more fit/athletic, then toning up would help. If you have broad shoulders (hard to tell for sure from the pics), it can be easy to over-bulk in that area, so be mindful of that.

• Body Type Calculator -- there are simpler body type guides available too. I found that getting my specific measurements and using this calculator was the best method though.

• Zenni has a really good guide on finding your face shape.

Then try look into what clothing styles and colors work for your body. I really think that'll help more than you might expect. I've never commented on one of these and honestly feel weird doing so, but hopefully some of my advice helps!

And you look great, but you do have a little weight to lose in my opinion...not a ton, but some.

Check this out: https://www.omnicalculator.com/health/ideal-weight

Based on a number of formulas and your height/gender, your ideal weight is somewhere between 110-120.

Actually this girl looks incredibly similar to Missi Pyle https://www.bing.com/images/search?q=missi+pyle&FORM=HDRSC2 who also happened to star alongside Helena Bonham Carter in 2005's Charlie and the Chocolate Factory. If she were to lose weight and dye her hair blonde she's be a dead ringer.

Well she's Jon Voight's daughter and she looks a lot like him imo. To me she looks like a tranny with her coarse facial features and long midface, deeply set eyes, enormous cheekbones and chin. In fact I've seen actual trannies I'd consider a lot more attractive. I get that lots of guys think she was a goddess when she was young (she's obviously monster ugly now: she looks like a middle aged tranny), but ugh. I so don't get it. To be fair she is the opposite of my type. Some guys like more mature faces with larger, stronger more masculine features. I like cute little baby faces with small closely spaced features. I guess the girls with big heads and faces are lucky that there is no shortage of guys with tastes opposite to my own.

I'm a dude, I'd fix ya up with my sister though do 6.5 or so. (again i'm a dude and have no idea how to rate other dudes) except Sean McGuire dude is a 9 with beard and a 4 without it.

you don't need to buy the lens for the frame just buy the frame with regular glasses in them its much cheaper typically you pay X for a frame + Y for the lens, what you do is just pay X for frame alone and that's that. i made it simple for you by adding in the arithmetic ... jk lol..

and if you want a longer hairstyle...i'd suggest getting the bun look, it looks great on asian guys with a clean cut, and even better with a thick defined chinstrap/stash here are some links of what i'm talking about if you plan on growing it:

http://weheartit.com/entry/group/26836153

https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/236x/ff/f4/6b/fff46bca23b8b70e15d2446a04d37895.jpg

personally imo for asian men, it's either a clean cut look at a moderate size hair length for a typical asian look, or a very well kept pompadour, or a bun outside of those it's risky SOME asian men can rock long straight hair...but thats super risky but if you can rock it you'll literally slay pssy...you can do what you want with your hairstyle ofcourse but i'm just telling you what imo looks very attractive for asian men.

You are so cute!

When your hair is still sort of damp after a shower, bend over and comb your hair forward (work a little product into your hair if you want), then gently twist your hair and guide the twist up into a bun on the top of your head. Secure the bun with a bobby pin and let your hair dry like that. When you're ready to show off your beautiful hair carefully take out the bobby pin and let your hair down.

Maybe try this product? Amazon.com: BIOLAGE Styling Airdry Glotion | Multi-Benefit Spray For A Glossy, Finished Look | Paraben-Free | For All Hair Types | 1 fl. oz.: Premium Beauty

And if you ever decide to tweeze/shape your eyebrows, only remove hair from the bottom line of your brows. just enough to clean up the line. If you need help deciding where to remove hair, go to a place that threads eyebrows because those women are usually very good at shaping brows.

*also, you'd look so cute with light bangs. like kelly stamps bangs.

I haven’t tried them myself yet, but I think it’s straight-forward and you just clip them on! I plan to get this myself as I was told that bangs will look good on me too.

You look like a football (soccer) player in the bottom right. No homo you look handsome in that photo. Top right photo you look like

IF you're scared of going to the barber then just shave the beard . beard and body trimmer 20 dollars on amazon here . the reviews indicate that it doesnt last too long but it will work, you can probably use a normal razor if you manage to shave your beard. From that point you can just go to the barber, tell them its quarantine hair.

Not going outside since March is a pretty big deal. You should go see somebody because that's got to be depression right there. If you can't see someone then listen to/watch "healthy gamer gg" on youtube. Somewhat interesting to listen to, and good to reflect on.

You're going to be attractive if u ditch the beard. You need to actually do that though, and then see someone for depression. When I was looking for friends I just played basketball at my university gym it didnt really work but there some people I played with until a tank of a man elbowed me in the face. Then I played alone for a few months cause I got my braces off a few months prior and wasn't risking a round 2. Also I fucked up my ankles from jumping all the time.

If you want to know how I did it I just acquired a basketball and played in the gym on my own, dont worry if ur dog shit a lot of people are. After a week or two of showing up I would get asked at least once if I could join someones game, I wasn't good but people need an even number of players and you don't even have to initiate anything, they come to you. with the coronavirus just go find some outdoor nets if indoor isnt an option. And bring your own ball

Bro your ratings are all over the board. Maybe the girl you approached thought you were a 5. Keep approaching and eventually you find one that thinks your an an 8. You're solid.

It can also cause problems if you come off as shy or unconfident. I know because I am shy a lot and it affects how people view you while you are like that. But there are other times where I will act confident and humorous and then people in that scenario see me differently. So don't give up and the next time you go for it try and psyche yourself up in order to smile and just be cool. Keep trying and you will be able to project confidence naturally.

You should look up the book Models by Mark Manson. I wish I had found it when I was younger. It's a great book and it lays a lot of good information out very clearly. Get it!

Same guy here- you are nowhere near physically unattractive. You're nothing special but if you've tried everything with no luck- it's all mental. You lack confidence.

This is what I was hoping to find except I thought I was going to see a 300 pound old guy. You have potential.

I recommend reading Models by Mark Manson and The Power of Habit.

Edit: Looked at other pictures you posted, and you need to LIFT. HEAVY. WEIGHTS.

Way to skinny and average to be some kind of pimp.

If someone is going to judge you based solely on your eye lids .... I don’t think that is the kind of person you should care about impressing. You should buy this book:

https://www.amazon.com/Subtle-Art-Not-Giving-Counterintuitive-ebook/dp/B019MMUA8S

Perhaps you could try an eye mask? Othan than that though, very cute.

Thanks a lot, so nice of you :) I used a regular curling iron (https://www.amazon.de/Clatronic-3392-Lockenzange-farblich-sortiert/dp/B004PVULG8/ref=sr_1_42?s=beauty&ie=UTF8&qid=1482951648&sr=1-42&keywords=lockenstab)

This is the pomade / dry wax you want. It lasts me 8 months, and costs only what one haircut does. Don't skimp on the product - this will help you complete the look in a way that American Crew products can't.

https://www.amazon.com/Davines-This-Strong-Unisex-Ounce/dp/B00GB8MWNS

OK, seems you want to increase the curvature of your butt, above it seemed you were saying you wanted to reduce it because it was massive.

Bret Contreras ('the glute guy' corny name but a highly respected trainer nationally and a PhD (or a PhD candidate) ) is one great place to start.

His book here would be your Bible -http://www.amazon.com/Strong-Curves-Womans-Building-Better/dp/1936608642#productDescription_secondary_view_div_1462669142756 though you can get pretty far starting with just a few of the exercises he tends to recommend and using good weight / reps for your goals. You can check his site or his YouTube channel for 'hip thrusts' and start perfecting your technique.

The real question is are you motivated enough to follow thru with a good workout 3 days a week plus good nutrition. Do you have access to a gym as you need and access to good food and the time set aside to follow thru. That's where many people fail. If you want more specifics, just hit me up.

Yea you definitely need a face mask. May I recommend the Dead Sea Mud Mask. My longest streak was 2 weeks without acne because of this stuff.

4/10. But there are changes you can make. The glasses in the first picture are weird. I like the blonde hair on you better, but it's kinda thin. Maybe biotin would do something for you? I think if your hair was a little longer and thicker it would really do you justice. You have nice eyes and a very sincere smile. I'm not a fan of the polka dot dress. The top in the first picture looks nice. I can't tell if maybe you're a little over weight? Your cheeks are red, maybe a little foundation?

Thanks, appreciated. I've actually got no idea on proper skin care, but I started using this a couple days ago:

http://www.amazon.co.uk/LOreal-Expert-Energetic-Extreme-Charcoal/dp/B006SXDA7S

Not sure if it'll help over the long term but worth a try.