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VPN's themselves are fine. Using FREE VPN's is not fine. Nothing is free.

There are plenty of reputable and quite good VPN services out there. I use NordVPN myself and have zero issues whatsoever. Speed is great, my tracks are covered, and I can access region restricted content. It's affordable, safe, and indispensable.

Anymore, you're foolish for not using a VPN. Just make sure that you use a legimate one. Any kind of "Free" VPN is stealing your data, has shit speeds, or worse.

If you want an exhaustive list of VPNs and how they compare to each other, I would highly recommend checking out , specifically the VPN Comparison Chart. There is a more detailed and advanced version of the chart but the simple one will suffice for non-advanced users.

YOU GUYS!! This isn’t just shorts and a shirt. ITS A MEN’S ROMPER !! I love it even more. ��❤️

I am highly read up and researched on trauma bonds because I am trying to break the one I am addicted to with my abusive STBXH. I physically wanted to be with him after we had the ugliest divorce, custody and criminal battles. I had to find out what the fuck my problem was and trauma bonds is it. J+D parallel our lives in a lot of ways so let me list the reasons why it’s so strong (from the amazing book The Betrayal Bond: Breaking Free of Exploitive Relationships

1. When there are repetitive cycles of abuse

2. When the victim and the victimizer believe in their own uniqueness

3. When high intensity is mistaken for intimacy

4. When there is confusion about love

5. When there are increasing amounts of fear

6. When children are faced with terror

7. When there is a history of abuse

8. When exploitation endures over time

9. When the community family or social structure reacts in the extremes

10. When there is a familiar role and script to be fulfilled

11. When victims and victimizers switch roles of rescue and abuse

If anyone is interested, I got the greatest longer-length flannels on Amazon a couple weeks ago. They have a ton of colors and they look great with leggings. And they are $12-$20 each. Cheaper than Chelsea’s and probably better quality:

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01MTA76O9/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_IIyZDbSNWEBPW

If you want to start handlettering, here is the Modern Calligraphy Book that I purchased to get started. It is great because it includes the pens that you can use as a beginner! It teaches you multiple ways to write each letter.

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The pen i'm using is a Tombow Fudenosuke hard tip brush pen. I bought it from amazon. It is my absolute favorite brush pen.

They're injections of something other than harvested fat to make your butt bigger. It's illegal. One woman was arrested for putting fix a flat into people. A rapper Cardi B admits to getting illegal injections in someone's basement and feeling like she was about to die here. I know Bri got a legit BBL but she might have supplemented with shots.

Poor Nova. There is book on the pathology of children with abandonment issues. Nova is destined to be the clinger. She will get in a future relationship with someone who is an avoidant personality and she will feel abandoned over and over. Great book

I thought this was chicken and I was like...who buys chicken on Amazon? Then I remembered this really expensive dried ham I saw on there once and then obsessed over it for weeks. (I think it was dried? It came with a holder thing that you could put on your counter! I dont eat meat so this might actually be more normal than I know- but I've never seen anything like it!

Ok I looked it up again. It's ham.and you can buy all these accessories for it! 5J Jamon Iberico de Bellota, Whole Bone-in Ham - 14 to 18 lbs https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00D3P7E4O/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_Px.LDbFCNBYFE

Ham Stand Spain + Knife + Sharpening Steel + Ham Cover + Kitchen Cloth + Tongs - The Original Ham Holder for Spanish Hams and Italian Prosciutto https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01LYZDREB/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_Ky.LDbPZNWN7G

Relive the good ole days...

https://www.amazon.com/Arcor-Strawberry-Filled-Candy-Pounds/dp/B07HKJQ7VH/ref=asc\_df\_B07HKJQ7VH/?tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=241906632927&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=11859267832739851618&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&am...

I found them on Amazon! A little pricey but they look like fun

Kidzone DIY Race #00-99 6V Kids Toy Electric Ride On Bumper Car Vehicle Remote Control 360 Spin ASTM-Certified, Pink https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08BL27DRR/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_2ULxFbW7N60E2

Yeah if it senses a certain amount of weight.. but no worries, because Amazon has these funky little gadgets to stop the beeping, so it won’t annoy you when you get thrown through the windshield.

She's ridiculously dumb, so nothing that she says surprises me.

I wish people could come to a place where they understand that there are certain situations where unless you're in that person's shoes, you cannot and will not understand. People say "Oh I've been depressed before, but I would NEVER do that" That's nice, good for you. I can't imagine how dark things have to be for someone to want to cease to exist and end their life and leave behind people they love and cause them that pain.

This is a PET scan showing the difference between a depressed brain and a non-depressed one.

depressed brain vs. non-depressed brain

Depressed people and non-depressed are extremely different, so no, you wouldn't understand how someone could be so desperate. There is no reason to judge based on the fact that you don't get it or you wouldn't do it, or you can't relate. It's just such a ridiculous thing to think you have a say or opinion on.

I'm thinking maybe it's a reflection from one of those phone mirror light things, like this.

This is a boring answer, but the price is crazy because it's an old out of print edition now only available through 3rd party sellers, who are notorious for jacking up prices on books like these.

A new edition (different cover, publisher, ISBN) is available here at the low, low price of Still Too Much for Debz OG's Bullshit: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1682615340/

Start using Korean skincare products. Start with this. You can thank me in a few weeks.

The craziest part of the entire thing Is that they weren’t even real jellyfish!

Electric Jellyfish Tank Table Lamp with Color Changing Light Gift for Kids Men Women Home Deco for Room Mood Light for Relax https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07BTXVNZV/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_jJA7CbSD7W5HA

There’s a really interesting book about a family where half of the kids (6 out of 12) ended up with a diagnosis of schizophrenia. It was brutally sad and uplifting at the same time?

True story: https://www.amazon.com/Hidden-Valley-Road-Inside-American-ebook/dp/B07TZYFR71/

Written by Robert Kolker, who wrote ‘Lost Girls’ about the Long Island serial killings.

I feel the same way because based on ethnographic research, women in Ashley’s demographic don’t typically marry until they’re in their forties and are finished having children. For a lot of reasons (mass incarceration, prime age male labor decline since the 70s, etc.) men are viewed by young women with low earnings (this philosophy of family structure has become more common over time across characteristics and likely because of lower earnings among younger Americans) to be financial burdens rather than contributors. Along with structural racism and inequality, young Black men with low earnings have an iceberg of undiagnosed trauma, which leads them down dark paths. Women are also sympathetic to their coparents because they recognize these inequalities, but they need someone to bring home the bscon. Motherhood is also seen as a rite of passage for young women with low incomes, and getting pregnant within weeks of meeting is common. Women do have high hopes but eventually accept that they can’t depend on their coparents, and move on. It seems the philosophy consists of “I got the baby I wanted out of that, I’ll find a partner later and have fun now.” Older men tend to be more stable and secure, so several women described deciding to marry a man because he can take care of himself and he doesn’t have a lot of child support debt (which is common). These findings are from Kathryn Edin’s <em>Promises I Can Keep</em> and <em>Doing the Best I Can</em>.

I have a feeling Ashley will follow along that trend. I believe her mom did as well, right?

If you want to read a very spescifc book on how children are treated in their younger years effects them for the rest of their lives; read: The boy who was raised as a dog : and other stories from a child psychiatrist's notebook : what traumatized children can teach us about loss, love, and healing
Summary

What happens when a young brain is traumatized? How does terror, abuse, or disaster affect a child's mind--and how can that mind recover? Child psychiatrist Bruce Perry has helped children faced with unimaginable horror: genocide survivors, murder witnesses, kidnapped teenagers, and victims of family violence. In The Boy Who Was Raised as a Dog , he tells their stories of trauma and transformation through the lens of science, revealing the brain's astonishing capacity for healing. Deftly combining unforgettable case histories with his own compassionate, insightful strategies for rehabilitation, Perry explains what exactly happens to the brain when a child is exposed to extreme stress-and reveals the unexpected measures that can be taken to ease a child's pain and help him grow into a healthy adult. Through the stories of children who recover-physically, mentally, and emotionally-from the most devastating circumstances, Perry shows how simple things like surroundings, affection, language, and touch can deeply impact the developing brain, for better or for worse. In this deeply informed and moving book, Bruce Perry dramatically demonstrates that only when we understand the science of the mind can we hope to heal the spirit of even the most wounded child.

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Didn't she already release this book a few years ago?

Edit: Vapor was released in February 2015. I wonder why she's acting like it's a new title?

I mean, her hand is two colors because of the balance of light and shadows. Her fingers happen to be where a shadow is being cast, the top of her hand is not. Light is coming from the top right corner.

You can see the shadows mirrored on places like Ryan's jacket, under her chin, etc.

I love to hate on the Edwards, but this is a nice picture of the two of them.

As far as a bias-free title, I think it might be a good idea to describe images like you would describe them to someone who is visually-impaired in alt-text e.g.: Latest Instagram Post Of Ryan and Mackenzie.

Then you can either write in the post or comment your particular feelings/thoughts/opinions/etcetc.

If you want to attract more people to the post for more discussion, a broad title is more inviting. Titles hating on "__" are going to attract a large number of people ready to bash and eventually end in a dumpster fire when someone of the opposition comments.

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I wonder if she created this >>shirt on amazon<<

Seriously, though, this is just a peg above her happy ever after quote. "Drama is for nerds" is not witty or cute or funny. Chelsea is literally the only person who thought it was clever and she just ran with it... makes me wonder how dull Cole is if she gets this excited about such a subpar phrase.

Cheaper on Amazon.

Link https://www.dailymotion.com/video/x6k1j0k

(haven't watched it all yet but it seems to be all good) ; ok it does seem to jump at some bits but I'll take that over chipmunk voices lol

The Amazon reviews are hilarious: “this is the worst thing I’ve ever read in my life. It doesn’t make any sense and it reads like word salad. It’s full of lies and is not a self help book at all ... wow, writing is not [her] thing ... also, no one wants a tv show or movie about this pathetic life of lies and failure.” And that’s one of the tamer ones. Amazon link

I got a few tees. They are a cute basic v they put the silly pocket on. Just buy these for $7 on prime, it’s the same shirt.

https://www.amazon.com/Next-Level-Apparel-Womens-T-Shirt/dp/B005WUILSG/ref=mp_s_a_1_8?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1542170452&amp;sr=8-8&amp;pi=AC_SX236_SY340_QL65&amp;keywords=womens%2Bv%2Bneck%2Bt%2Bshirts&amp;dpPl=1&amp;dpID=41JXR%2BePmYL&amp;ref=plSrch&amp...

I will neither confirm or deny that this will be arriving to my home: mini fridge

Ugh I love these whyyyy �� lol I need to chill with the Chelsea hate & admit that her collab drops with Itsy Ritsy are really fucking adorable. If I had the $$ to waste & somewhat liked her/them, I’d be ordering some with the diaper bags now.

ETA if anyone is looking for some decently priced muslin receiving blankets, these are the bestest

I didn't expect this thread to generate this much thoughtful commentary and soul-searching, so I'll share this here: if you're curious about BPD, or trying to understand someone close to you who has BPD, this is the book my therapist gave me that is really changing my life right now. It's written for everyday people who aren't well-versed in psychology and it spends a great deal of time explaining the disorder, explaining how the disorder can impact loved ones, and explaining how to set boundaries and mend your wounds.

https://www.reddit.com/r/TeenMomOGandTeenMom2/comments/puqx45/open_modelo_beer_bottle_in_the_car_during_jenelle/he4r9b5/?utm_source=share&amp;utm_medium=ios_app&amp;utm_name=iossmf&amp;context=3

Edit: hooktube version

https://hooktube.com/watch?app=desktop&amp;v=dIhMoizrKcs

LOL 😭 yes! and someone else said "why is she wearing michael meyer's mask?". personally i thought of this kind

Not OP but Mind Over Mood was the book I used during and after my CBT in university.

Here are the brush pens i'm using!

Here is my nail polish by ILNP!

There's a typo in my video, my Instagram is @erinwritesthings.

Not about TM but there’s a really good book on The Bachelor that gives more insight on casting, producer manipulation, etc that I LOVED and would def recommend to any reality tv fan!

We have a weird shaped bathroom and the door stopper stops the doorknob from hitting the wall when it feels like it, it doesn't help that my children open doors with the occassions karate kick. Anyway, there's this plastic patch that my husband bought that you put in the hole behind the door. It has worked really well for us

ETA like this

https://www.docdroid.net/py03/why-does-he-do-that.pdf

This is a really good book. Read it. It is written about abusive men. It also has testimonies from abusive men. It is a PDF. You don’t have to buy it.

You are brave. You are strong. You are worthy. Keep fighting.

Do not for any reason go and see him alone. He doesn’t have anything to lose at this point. His behaviour can escalate. Call the cops. Demand your space. Do not see him.

Do not blame yourself for the abuse suffered in your home. Who you are truly as a person would have never allowed any of it to happen. He broke you down and tore you apart. The person left was someone just in survival mode. Find your way back to yourself.

You can do this. It will get better.

Post to r/legaladvice or r/relationships if you need some advice. Or some strong support as to why you need to continue to follow through.

There is also good points that hint towards red flags to watch out for in future partners. You are at risk for finding someone that might appear better but is just as dangerous. Find yourself. Don’t find a partner. Please. You can do this alone. You have been alone fighting a predator. You haven’t had a partner.

he said HE found her on fb after the gas station. tbh idk why a as station meetup is more far fetched than a dating website... You think anyone but Germy puts their ass on tinder? She didn't/wasn't desperate enough to sign up to match.com in her early twenties. come on. she pushed for Adumb for just about the entire haul to the gas station

Here’s the link!

I got mine on Amazon. I get compliments whenever I wear them. And they are super comfy and surprisingly durable.

I did a quick Google, having not heard this stat myself, and, on the surface it appears to be true. they have a higher rate of incarceration, drop outs, teen pregnancy for daughters, and suicide. Here's an interview from NPR, and if you Google father absence and youth incarceration you'll find the actual study for that one. There are articles on psychology today and webmd that say the same thing. Now how much these account for other variables, they don't say, so it could be much more correlation than causation, but there are studies on it.

Why do you consider it an MRA statement though? I can understand being skeptical of the info but I didn't get an MRA vibe.

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So happy you’re not in that situation anymore. ❤️❤️❤️ And here’s a link to a free pdf of the book for you or anyone else who’s interested: The Gift of Fear

Enjoy!!!!

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A good quality small/dainty hoop like Chelsea's is harder to find than one would think. Every single one I've bought so far gets bent all to hell just putting it in! I just found these on Amazon and I'm considering getting a few.

Jenelle’s latest video: ‘MY MOM BLOCKED ME.’ — watch through this link instead of YouTube https://www.reddit.com/r/TeenMomOGandTeenMom2/comments/l3p3ju/jenelles_latest_video_my_mom_blocked_me_watch/ https://hooktube.com/1mcVN42l7wY

Highly recommend this:

Face Ice Pack for Jaw, Head, and Chin –Hot and Cold Gel Pack for Wisdom Teeth and TMD TMJ Pain Relief, Oral Pain, Facial Surgery, Dental Implants—Adjustable Stretch Wrap Include Four Soft Gel Packs https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07RPMM54F/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_EVJ1JC7SJN7K0D9HZH70?_encoding=UTF8&amp;psc=1

We used the packs that came with it and others we got from Walgreens and literally wore either ice or heat 24/7 for the first 2-3 days and I’m convinced it helped my pain and I didn’t have to hold anything to my face

You never deserved the pain and the abuse.

You are loved. You are worthy. You are brave as fuck. Thank you for sharing your story.

https://www.docdroid.net/py03/why-does-he-do-that.pdf

If you haven’t read this already you might want to give it a go. It is about abusive men. They 100% abuse because they feel entitled to abuse their victims. They do not lose control, it is calculated and based on the fact they feel they have a right to it. It also has testimonies comparing the abuser and the victim’s perspective of their abuse story.

It also has red flags to watch out for in the future. Victims are at risk of further abuse by new partners because they feel “oh it is better than the last”.

https://www.amazon.com/Cuisinart-CGAA-330-Barbecue-Seasoning-Multicolored/dp/B0858N13JR/ref=asc_df_B0858N13JR/?tag=hyprod-20&amp;linkCode=df0&amp;hvadid=416791930992&amp;hvpos=&amp;hvnetw=g&amp;hvrand=6401919609958442475&amp;hvpone=&amp;hvptwo=&amp;hvqmt=&amp;hvdev=c&amp;hvdvcmdl=&amp;hvlocint=&amp;hvlocphy=9003566&amp;hvtargid=pla-898486846255&amp;psc=1&amp;tag=&amp;ref=&amp;adgrpid=99569067571&amp;hvpone=&amp;hvptwo=&amp;hvadid=416791930992&amp;hvpos=&amp;hvnetw=g&amp;hvrand=6401919609958442475&amp;hvqmt=&amp;hvdev=c&amp;hvdvcmdl=&amp;hvlocint=&amp;hvlocphy=9003566&amp;hvtargid=pla-898486846255

Sadly so…Dream Twenties

I use NordVPN. If you ever use public WiFi at Starbucks or McDonald’s or anything like that it’s good to have a vpn to secure your traffic. Being able to watch Canadian mtv and Netflix is just a bonus ��

They’re fun! Very tedious but cool to see it come together. I got a container similar to this. Trust me, the first time you bump those beads and they go everywhere, you will thank me for this suggestion 🤣

YES! So, it's the same people that do Riverdale, and apparently it is going to be a spinoff based on the Chilling Adventures Of Sabrina graphic novels (which, if you have amazon kindle unlimited the first 5 are free to read), which are super dark and scary. But I guess Netflix snatched it up as an exclusive, so there's still no word if we'll see her appear on Riverdale, which kinda sucks. Except since she'll be on netflix, it'll be a little more "adult" than Riverdale. I'm super excited.

Lol can I just say that I love Salty Saturdays.

Today just now I opened the app all excited cuz I remembered that we do Salty Saturdays now��

Unlike last week I have nothing to be salty about atm tho, my bf is out of town so I have the apartment all to myself and been doing whatever the hell I want, like eating pizza in my bed (he won't let me eat in our bed usually ��) and binge watching Stranger Things. Gonna binge re-watch TMOG from S1 later �� (thank the seven goes for and Private Internet Access VPN)

If anyone is looking for a similar product (but not in a sheet), this one from Amazon is really fun!

Not who you asked, but I found the perfect chill bra. I wear it when I’m on the couch watching tv, doing housework, I can even sleep with it on. I’ll wear it when running errands, just not on really bumpy roads (I need underwire and some tightness to keep things under control).

I went on Amazon and found “Calvin Klein Women's Perfectly Fit Wirefree Lounge Bra “ . I saved it on my CamelCamelCamel account and was alerted when the price went down to $15.

I’m a 34DD, so I got a couple Mediums in red & black. I have washed them each about a dozen times (in a bra bag) and they’re still form fitting and comfy!

We were wondering this before and couldn't find it.

Shein has similar fashion with affordable clothes:

https://us.shein.com/Rolled-Neck-Slit-Hem-Marled-Sweater-p-540008-cat-1734.html

Also, H&M and Amazon.

https://www.amazon.com/Bbalizko-Sweaters-Turtleneck-Pullover-Sweater/dp/B077Z7RB11/ref=pd_sbs_193_3?_encoding=UTF8&amp;pd_rd_i=B077Z64N52&amp;pd_rd_r=0a37e879-b923-11e8-85dd-873fcc9bd247&amp;pd_rd_w=2g28Z&amp;pd_rd_wg=DiMX9&amp;pf_rd_i=desktop-dp-...

I sort of thought everywhere in the states was like this. In high school my main class of 16 girls had 6 mothers? One became pregnant at 13 and straight-face claimed she didn't know she could get pregnant from sex. To this day I still wonder about that. 😱 We aren't too terribly far from where Cate is, so I'm now figuring there is a geographical significance to these parenthood "choices" in the US.

In high school we had a single sex ed course where our inebriated gym teacher told guys that girls are like dirty water you don't want to touch, and girls did word searches and were told to abstain before getting shooed back to the gymnasium.

Thanks for the insight on this everyone. Did any of you have positive experiences with sex education? I think that also plays a factor and the religious views of my city may or may not have an influence on how this topic was handled.

I think it’s more about the abuser’s ability to shame their victim for being the source of the violent abuse. I would say this was for sure the case with JWoWW, he could have led her believe she deserved it for her temper. And that her “new image” didn’t fit the script for her anger. Perception vs reality is very different when your abuser has you isolated.

It was all BS. Her true fans love her as she come and see just happy she is safe. And that’s what women and men who are being abused need to realize. People will come to rescue you. Make have just been waiting for the opportunity. And if you have a shit family and trash friends there are resources available to free you. Take a visit to a shelter, see what options are available. There are people out there who do paid or volunteer work that are paid to save you.

And if you are abuser, get help. There is zero justification for the torment of others.

Awesome book explaining abusive men, it has interviews from abusers. Cold, calculating and manipulative with control over their behaviour in order to stir up anger and justify violent attacks.

https://www.docdroid.net/py03/why-does-he-do-that.pdf

https://youtu.be/DJZteQMj06I

The “exposure” statement is not hyperbole, it’s a legitimate concern. Right now in Sioux Falls, on April 14, there is a blizzard and the windchill is 1 degree Fahrenheit.
https://www.accuweather.com/en/us/sioux-falls-sd/57103/current-weather/330686

https://www.ivpn.net/

This seems like the best one atm to me... it's a bit more expensive than I was hoping I'd be able to find though. You can check out the sub /r/vpnreviews and read some of the reviews there too

I dunno, I looked on actual Amazon. Maybe this list is best-selling of all time?

I finally found the actual book, but it doesn't indicate it's at any best-selling spot, this week or otherwise, and they always do that.

These go hard.

I was going to post about these! I’ve done a ton, I’m hooked. They’re really good to do with like a show on in the background and help give me something chill to focus on when I’m anxious. There’s like a calm order about putting everything in their little spots. I’m almost done with this one

I hope you enjoy them!

Miami Gorgeous from Amazon is affordable and looks decent. I do second coats to get preferred darkness but it goes on as a reddish tint and then deepens nicely.

I was just given that exact argument yesterday.

I don't care if he looks like the damn Hunchback of Notre Dame. If they care for their kids they are going to possibly receive some recognition for it. At very least, they deserve not to be discredited. Discounting him because another person is good too is like not talking about Farrah because Jenelle is bad too.

Want me to clap for Vee? Or Christina? Or any other ones that are barely on the show but do a good job? 👏 There we go. If we had some content posted about them worth talking about we'd talk about them too.

okay

I never said anything close to "it's okay for every child," or that every pediatrician recommends the same thing. I said WE DON'T KNOW. Because we don't.

It is not physically harmful to the child, again, IF he is on Adderall. There are pros and cons. https://www.webmd.com/add-adhd/childhood-adhd/adhd-medication-hiatus-benefits#1

You said it could be "really bad" for Jace, and that's medically and scientifically untrue. Again, IF he is on a stimulant like Adderall or Ritalin. You are wrong and you should stop saying wrong things.

100%

PTSD does cause anger and irrational thought. It does not cause men to systematically over a long period of time abuse their partner. Feeling entitled to abuse your wife is 100% the cause of abuse.

She isn’t leaving cause she is giving up. She is leaving him because he is an abuser. He uses his PTSD as an excuse for abuse. He only acknowledges his PTSD in order to justify abuse. My friends with PTSD work very hard and diligently to protect their families from pain. They 100% work to be non-abusive members of their family. If anything sadly most are more hard on themselves than anyone else. They have guilt and remorse. That dude has entitlement and anger. It’s scary.

I honestly think she waited for the cameras to appear to tape the show. I think she was worried he’d kill her. He talks like a typical abusive man everything is about them and their entitlement. He feels she doesn’t accept his PTSD. She does. She doesn’t accept being abused and having her kids witness abuse. He can control his behaviour in public, he presented well. He doesn’t just lose control with her. He 100% makes the choice to lash out and be aggressive and cruel towards her. He does it because he feels entitled.

Do not get your viewpoint of PTSD from him. He has it but he is also an abusive man. Most PTSD victims are kind souls who are just lost in pain, who lash out on themselves. Hence the high suicide rates. They care.

If this storyline speaks to you please read:

Why Does He Do That? Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men Book by Lundy Bancroft.

Here is a link to it on PDF: https://www.docdroid.net/py03/why-does-he-do-that.pdf#page=3

There is help out there. Reach out. You don’t have to live like this. If you have kids remember he is 100% responsible for all the abuse. You have endured so much. You are brave, you are loved and your are worthy. You can leave.

Everyone in my friend and family circle recommended this book: Oh Crap! Potty Training: Everything Modern Parents Need to Know to Do It Once and Do It Right (1) (Oh Crap Parenting) https://www.amazon.com/dp/1501122983/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_TZDTD2RH68GJ2QZKQ8SF. We’re still probably ~10 months away from trying but I’ve got it ready to read when we’re closer.

We have this one in purple, I bought it on Amazon if you check around the Warehouse I got ours with a damaged box for only $25. I shouldn't be recklessly panfrying and stirfrying in nonstick like I do but the porcelain has survived looking nice still.

Salty bc I’m terrible with decorating. I got this quilt from Amazon and love it but I need new sheets. We can’t have white because Wellbutrin makes me sweat at night.. so I need suggestions. I am leaning towards a navy blue. We have a white duvet comforter but I want to get the sheets figured out before I get anything else. Our bedroom is mostly neutral with darkish/reddish wood doors (original to our 113 year old home). Please help!! 🥴

Oh the waterpik will be amazing the more you use it. I also highly, highly recommend this toothpaste. It will make your teeth feel brand spankin' new, especially any sensitive spots. It has changed my life, I'm serious. I use gum detoxify toothpaste in the AM and this toothpaste in the PM.

This style has worked well for me to secure the hair that hangs around the face, they are hard for little fingers to pull out. I use them for styles like half up/down, at the end of plaits/braids. They may not hold a pony tail alone if your daughter has thick hair but they have been a lifesaver for me to retrain my daughter from pulling her hair out at school.

I feel angry for you!! When I googled "Kratom Possession Tenessee" TONS of people have been charged with drug crimes for having it. That's just ridiculous to me!

Edit: I have had good success with these patches. They used to sell them in the tampon section at the grocery store, but now I can only find them on Amazon. They aren't cheap but I splurge when I'm going on vacation or staying at someone elses house.

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This is the Tombow Fudenosuke hard tip brush pen, my absolute favorite! I bought it here (amazon link)

Pretty sure this is the car.

Amazon.com: The Care and Keeping of You: The Body Book for Younger Girls, Revised Edition (American Girl Library): 8601404233258: Schaefer, Valorie, Masse, Josee: Books

i bought all these books for my daughter when she was that age. made talking a little bit easier.

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I loove this thing! I live in an apartment on the second floor and it fits in a small space. My only recommendation is to put a foam pad underneath. Otherwise, it's great!

You don't need to stoop to such levels. Pornhub made their premium content free during the pandemic. https://thenextweb.com/world/2020/03/25/pornhub-is-making-its-service-free-worldwide-to-cure-your-lockdown-blues/

$14 amazon

Sorry it's a colloquial term for polymorphous light erruption, it can also be called "sun poisoning" but I find that one makes it sound extremely dangerous. She usually only gets it in the spring but that day had been very sunny and hot.

Make him watch this movie. I watched it last night and it creeped me out! Maybe he’ll get creeped out too and he’ll never go hunting again 😂

Oh it's a brand on Amazon called Cynllo. I must have caught them on sale or something, as even the pair I bought is now $24.99. Even still, here is a [similar pair](www.amazon.com/dp/B09G6L8SFS/ref=twister_B09G6MQNMJ?_encoding=UTF8&amp;amp;psc=1) for $32.99.

+1 for jumperoo, my son used it more than his swing, gym mats, tummy time mats combined. We have the fisher price animal black and white one, its gender neutral and if you want to put it in your living room the colors aren't obnoxious.

https://www.amazon.com/Boritar-Blanket-Backing-Receiving-Blankets/dp/B07B4W13KR?source=ps-sl-shoppingads-lpcontext&amp;ref_=fplfs&amp;psc=1&amp;smid=AELDQYR49M97A&amp;th=1 Out of his ten different blankets, this one is his absolute favorite.

The skip hop changing pad is 100% worth the $80. It's like 3 times more than any other changing pad so it seems silly but it's the only one that you dont have to worry about putting a cover on. You can just wipe it down and its waterproof and it's a nice comfortable thick foam. And it stays in place! My son's about to be a year old and he still loves to play with the mobile that comes attached to it too. Its life changing! I saw another comment about changing on the floor which we did do until he was about 2 or 3 months old but after that it's so nice to have somewhere to change them. He knows why he's on the pad and he cooperates way more than if hes on the floor

Then I'd say a reusable high chair/shopping cart cover, the baby Frida medi-paci and snot sucker, one of the backpack diaper bags that are all over amazon. Oh and I bought a silicone face scrubber instead of a washcloth for baths, way easier to get in all their little creases and it works as a cradle cap scrubber too!

And he has a book.

Side note- I got one of (these) high chair inserts for my 8 month old and it contains baby messes pretty well. It helps with my former server anxiety going out to eat. When we’re done I make sure I pull it out carefully and shake it outside. I don’t think it’s much of a hassle, definitely worth it.

I was thinking this costume looked like cheap crap, did they brainstorm ideas and find a chef costume online? They did. $22.99 on sale!

This is the one I bought a few weeks ago and I’ve loved it so far.

I got mine from Amazon and they do make longer lengths, like 108” and 120”

I bought the moss green and ivory so far and they look really nice in person!

i hate myself for actually looking this up

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So I found a couple I think look kind of like it. This one without the suction base, but you get the idea , This second one would probably look more hot dog like in the low light . I think the item JE has is a pretty inexpensive toy that someone sent her.

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From scraping barnacles to showing the one between his legs. This week is pure gold! Gonna have to buy some of those tiny finger hands to hold that little man clit so he doesn’t get laughed off the site.

If you’re interested, this guy gave live trainings at the company I used to work at, and he addresses what it’s like to start at a new promotion position The Pit of Success: How Leaders Adapt, Succeed, and Repeat https://www.amazon.com/dp/1631953826/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_A8MME5Z7K4JV7KCVV3C4

I’m from rural western NC, my family said potted meat 😬 that’s what it says on the can. It looks and smells like cat food to me, no thanks: Amour Star Potted Meat, Canned Meat, 3 OZ (Pack of 48) https://smile.amazon.com/dp/B000LLHNBW/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_FPFSXM05PFZG2RTEKNY3

I eat 1200 and this is the way

RAYA Herbal Facial Peeling Gel (110) | Gentle and Soft Exfoliator for Oily Skin | Helps Minimize Pores and Brighten Complexion https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01AGY64Z4/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_i_N425REN8R3MRF5J2PC8R

Not gritty like you wanted but I swear by this stuff.

Someone should send her these (don't know if they'd be long enough though).

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