EVERYONE BUY SUNSTONE RIGHT NOW!!! (:>_<:) That's were this art comes from. Sunstone Volume 1 (Sunstone Tp) https://www.amazon.com/dp/1632152126/ref=cm_sw_r_other_apa_glt_i_FGEDFV2V49RFP2RE7HPP
It's beautiful, lood, and sexy all while being a fun story about different couples/dynamics. Sorry I have to shill one of my favorite artists and they're work.
I have no idea where you got the idea it was a racist term. If you look on YouTube for “down with the swirl” it’s various people talking about interracial dating 🤪
They do exsist, I have this model.
https://www.amazon.com/Pipedream-Fetish-Fantasy-Incredible-Stool/dp/B002HRENN4
The item name would be "sex stool," "queening chair," and "face sitting chair."
They range in prices from inexpensive to more expensive as their comfortability and durability increases.
For everyone here like “I wish this was me”, I have to recommend the book Existential Kink — it’s a (yes, kinky and sexy!) self help book all about the many reasons we end up not having what we say we want, and some (sexy, kinky) things to do about it.
Existential Kink: Unmask Your Shadow and Embrace Your Power (A method for getting what you want by getting off on what you don't) https://www.amazon.com/dp/1578636477/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_NJ9YPR3HY8RKK33YBMES
So if you're looking for something more masculine but still sexy, I enjoy fashion style jock straps. I've almost entirely replaced my briefs with them since I started buying jocks. (2)Xist (my favorite) and Papi are good brands. They're both quality and economical if you wanna buy a few pairs. Plus those two brands are available on Amazon and they come in American sizes, rather than Asian (where you need to go up 1 or 2 sizes).
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00LO0EPQA/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_V1JKFb72825SX
You can also find a good selection on jockstraps.com
Except it doesn't really help. Telling a very lonely guy to just "stop caring" is counterproductive. It's easy to say "just stop caring" for people who have no problems getting into relationships.
Humans aren't solitary creatures. You can say "lol just be happy with literally zero romance in your life" all you want, but it won't change anything. Humans need love. Most humans get sad when they lack such a basic and primal need.
Lack of physical affection is linked with depression. Loneliness has a similar effect on your health as smoking 15 cigarettes a day.
Here you go my friend. As I checked for it, I did notice that this one is unavailable right now :( https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07JMT6V2Y/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o01_s01?ie=UTF8&psc=1
https://www.amazon.com/She-Comes-First-Thinking-Pleasuring/dp/0060538260
Learned a lot from this book. Learn the anatomy and how to read her arousal. Great stuff for msubs.
I know men’s lingerie isn’t the easiest thing to find but it’s the only thing on that account so here’s the link: aishani Sissy Pouch Panties Men's Skirted Mooning Bikini Briefs Girly Underwear Sexy for Men https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07GZMGMK8/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_YEPA7V83JK7ADZCAH76R?psc=1
The book I always recommend as an introduction to erotic humiliation and dirty talk is "Enough to make you blush", by Princess Kali.
Googling around for videos with "POV FemDom" (Point of View) or even "POV Gentle FemDom" you will find videos where a pro-domme stares at the camera and uses dirty talk, that could give you some more ideas.
As for your accent and pronunciation, if I were you I would not worry too much :-) I am also not a native English speaker, and lots of natives find exotic accents quite intriguing (or even erotic) :-D
In addition to the other great advice I would strongly encourage some training and stretching with butt plugs. It will make the actual pegging much more enjoyable.
I highly recommend a graduated set of plugs like these. Start with the smallest, try it a few times over the course of a few days, then try the next largest and so on and so forth.
Oh my goodness poor Julian! I loved the cooking scene, I love cooking myself! I found this amazing awesome kitchen gadget that dices all the veggies for me, saves a lot of time. I dont know if this is the exact one I got but they're all the same thing: https://www.amazon.com/Wisekoti-Multi-function-Vegetable-Chopper-Slicer/dp/B09GMB7SW3/ref=sr_1_116?keywords=vegetable+dicer&qid=1649559447&sr=8-116
When you work 8 hours a day its hard to do a recipe if you need to cut up a lot of stuff. I have a potato bacon soup that would take forever to chop up everything and it takes me all of 5 minutes with this thing, its fantastic!
But yeah, I love cooking, especially with someone else helping, it just feels nice.
This chapter really hits hard because this sounds exactly like something I would do, and my grandmother just passed away last Saturday, (thus why I haven't been as active). We only have so much time and you just never know when things can happen.
Lovely, thank you for writing this.
You already got solid advice from other users. I can only add, if you want more ideas, you could google up some FemDom Point-of-View videos, where the Domme usually talks down to the camera. A search on "FemDom POV bratty teasing" could probably return a lot of results.
Also, here is a pointer to a cool book on the subject: "Enough to Make You Blush".
True, the one I had was a bit annoying at first, it wasn’t tight but it was stainless steel so it was a bit heavy. After about a week it pretty much just faded away lol
Ugh, look who’s talking! And thank you! You can find it here. It’s comfortably oversized, I bought it two sizes smaller than my usual (got it in xs) and it fits perfectly.
You guys should check out The Power, by Naomi Alderman. It's a world where women spontaneously develop the power to deliver electric shocks, like an electric eel. It explores the consequences of women having the (almost) unrevokeable power to hurt, maim or kill someone at a mere whim, and the effects that has upon society. Let's just say, this isn't some sort of utopian matriarchy, and I think the author is on to something there. 'Absolute power corrupts absolutely' and all. I have some issues with the book, but I'll admit it was a fun ride. 5/7 would recommend.
Of course it would! ☺️ If they are lucky enough to get fucked it's only fair that they clean up after... Sorry for being silly... 🙈
Here is the one I have, it is a little big though just so you know... 🙈 https://www.amazon.com/Doc-Johnson-Bust-Vac-U-Lock-Compatible/dp/B00NYZLRPA
Get a bidet. Your butthole will always be sparkly clean!
I love it!! If chipping is a big issue, have you heard of gel polish? It’s a photo reactive resin that stays on for 2+ weeks. You need a lamp to cure it, but it only takes 30-60s. I’m impatient so I love how fast it is. You can find kits on Amazon including 6 polishes and a lamp for $27. example
However, it’s a lot easier & cheaper to find regular polish colors, and the act of painting them is soothing. I get why people like to paint their nails more often. But I thought I’d throw the gel polish out there just in case it’d be helpful!
I do, though it’s important to remember that the offscreen negotiation and communication are huge. It’s like 10% cute memey shit and 90% just doing life. But like, there’s a lot of cute memey shit. It’s great.
It’s also worth noting that a lot more women would be into it if we weren’t socialized that being dominant is bad. I was a “service top” for the first few years but now that I’ve worked through a lot of that repression it was like “Oh I AM sadistic! Who knew!”
One of the things that helped it click for me is the book Existential Kink which I highly highly recommend.
Existential Kink: Unmask Your Shadow and Embrace Your Power (A method for getting what you want by getting off on what you don’t) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07XMG4BWN/
>I'm looking for someone to guide me to eat my own cum...
Don't look any further! I've got the perfect book recommendation for you: Natural Harvest: A collection of semen-based recipes. That way, you'll be eating your cum, all while cooking delicious meals with it.
Source: https://www.amazon.com/Natural-Harvest-collection-semen-based-recipes/dp/1481227041
I'll admit it's not Helpful in the sense your looking for but it is a beautiful comic series about different couples and they're different dynamics when it comes to BDSM. It's called Sunstone and I think all doms and subs should read it.
Sunstone Volume 1 (Sunstone Tp) https://www.amazon.com/dp/1632152126/ref=cm_sw_r_other_apa_glc_i_08DCGVGKC0E8XSZE0BDF
There is a free version if you're skeptical on purchasing but I think after reading a few pages you'll Want to own the books physically.
This isn’t the exact one I bought, but it’s the same concept. She’ll want to wear some kind of underwear or something to help hold it in, some nice latex or tight fishnets, something. Something like this one is really nice because it rotates and as it does, she’ll get into a rhythm with it to push on her pelvis as it pushes on her G spot. Once she’s rippin and roarin, there’s a good chance she won’t care that your done, your taking it until she’s done lol. And I don’t think anyone is gonna complain there.
360° Rotating Wearable Clitoral G Spot Vibrator Invisible Butterfly Clitoris Ctimulator, Wireless Control Dildo with 30 Powerful Stimulation, Rechargeable Waterproof Adult Sex Toys for Women Couple https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07ZCNJXDY/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_5DNP5FVGQ429D05ZNXK6?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
I'm just gonna leave this here ....
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08L45B8MW/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_1rxOFbN6W2PCZ
The author of that blog wrote a book directed at women, exploring their gentle femdom side. It's worth checking out.
I was in a very similar situation as you. Obviously communication is key and I think you know that already. To start the conversation, I sent her a couple of posts from this blog: www.thegentledomme.com ... It presents gentle femdom from the female perspective and the writer (who is here on reddit from time to time) is excellent at showing what it is, and what it is not.
She also has a book out on Amazon that I asked my wife/domme to read, and it's aimed at women who are considering gentle femdom relationships, and I'm sure it's even better and more complete than sifting through various blog posts. But I haven't personally read it. But anyway here's the link: https://amazon.com/dp/B08L45B8MW/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_1rxOFbN6W2PCZ
Best of luck!
Macho Sluts by Pat Califia may be right up your alley., though it goes beyond gentle femdom in parts.
I listened to one called Female Led Relationship Guide by Conner Hayden. It was alright 🤷🏻♀️ I don't know if it will help you any as it's a how-to book mostly.
Do it, you won’t regret it. Gag your little cutie into submission. This one is from Amazon Sauce: Unforgettable Toys - Embrace This Little Guy with Your Passion Ḅḁll gḁgṧ för wömêň ṧêx plḁy öpêň möùth rÎňg böňdḁgê Ḅön-dḁgèrömḁnçè Rèst-rḁïnt Kït Ḅönd-ḁgè https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08B1FNYM5/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_Y107EbX6GSGPN
Here is an example of what I was talking about yesterday: https://www.amazon.com/Under-Restraints-Ankle-Bondage-Fetish/dp/B00UZJK9KM
Also... how did last night go?! What kind of fun can you report back on :)?
Yup! I should probably mention that I'm not a sex therapist, but I first encountered the idea in Chapter 9 of Stephen Snyder's Love Worth Making. Kindle version is only $2.99 right now, or you could listen to it for free if you haven't done a free trial with Audible recently.
So, I found these on Amazon and they look nice and should have enough room up front? But I'm not sure on size. Should I measure my man hips and hope for the best match like that? A medium sounds small at a glance.
Jockey Women's Underwear Retro Stripe Hi Cut, Really Navy, M https://www.amazon.com/dp/B078T689Y3/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_H-YUCbJH03H45