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you're working out, you're gonna sweat. don't mind it as much. Just be considerate of others and wear deodorant/antiperspirant, wipe down the benches/anywhere you sit when you're done using the equipment, and then shower after.

Bringing a change of clothes to the gym seems unnecessary/an extra step unless those clothes are going to be worn after a shower.

If it's REALLY a big concern for you (again it shouldnt be) there are some powders and creams you can apply down under to mitigate the swamp. I bought these for long hikes to avoid chafing blisters to varying success. Monkey Butt and Fresh Balls. Also you could look for moisture wicking undergarments- you're still gonna sweat, but it wont feel as uncomfortable.

tl;dr: wipe down the bench and don't worry so much

I would consider getting a fade haircut to give the appearance of a more full head of hair (it will also hide the grey significantly). Take a selfceare moment and buy some under-eye skincare products like this and make sure you stay hydrated to help your skin and your dark spots. Also moisturize and wash your face regularly. Lastly, make sure you are getting enough sleep - it will help with your overall mood, appearance, and general happiness.

I've had a Wahl and currently own a Remington. Both are fantastic, but you want to get something that's not cheap. I've found over the years that $80 is the sweet spot where things get good: the motors aren't super loud, don't sound "angry", the guards are fantastic, the cord isn't going to get kinked, and they're easy to take care of. Pretty much sounds like what you get at a quality barber, though obviously not as expensive as theirs.

The one I currently use is the Remington HC5850. I'm a pretty hairy dude, and while I have no hair on top of my head, I've used this thing to trim my chest, stomach, beans, pits, and even shape my beard with it (it's down to my navel, but I trim the edges because I hate it tickling my ears).

Here you go!

12 inch 35 Strands 100% Human Hair Dreadlock Extensions for Man/Women Full Handmade Crochet Braids Dreadlocks Medium Size 0.8cm Natual Black Solid Color (12inch,Width 0.8cm, Natual Black) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08LVRZ45N/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_fabc_kMVYFbQ99CYMX

I've shaved that before, I am not tremendously harry myself but enough for it to bother me... Anyway, the problem with shaving is that hair starts growing back SUPER quick and it is prickly as hell, trimming might be a good way to go. Trimmers are hair trimmers/clippers ==>> LIKE THESE

Also, wet wipes are WAY BETTER than any TP you could think of. Check out Costco's

It's your call. I use it when I do heavy shaves. When I just doing quick touch up's I don't. My face doesn't need it as much as my neck. This product is a must for every shave I do, and I highly recommend it! If you buy it from Lee, mention you're a friend of Drew, and he'll toss in some extra samples for you.

I've never tried this, but I've read that if you run your nails across a bar of soap, the soap will fill up the space and block dirt from getting in, and will be easy to wash out later.

Edit: Added link.

https://lifehacker.com/5823574/scratch-soap-before-getting-your-hands-dirty-to-avoid-grubby-fingernails

I buy mine from Amazon. Go to r/beards and r/beardoil for more product info and reviews.

Beard Wash Honest For Men Beard Wash - 100% All Natural Ingredients - Best Beard Shampoo and Conditioner for a Healthy Beard - Hand Crafted in U.S.A. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B017TFONQ0/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_pxR2xb6BH8QHD

Beard Oil (I personally use Grave Before Shave Bay Rum cause the smell is awesome and really comfortable using it) Grave Before Shave Bay Rum Beard Oil 1 Ounce Bottle https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00KAJM2IO/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_vAR2xbQKQS4XN

Norelco Body Groom

this thing has never cut my balls once and have had the same one for years. No special way to hold it or anything, just does the job. This is an updated version but I assume it works the same.

If you're not ready to take the full plunge and shave it all off with a blade (it's totally worth it btw) - then I suggest the Wahl Peanut and Wahl Designer combo pack that sells on Amazon. These are professional grade trimmers. The Peanut will get you an incredibly close shave. I personally use it on my face to trim up my beard when I'm too lazy to have a full shave. The Designer will get you a close shave as well, but also provides the blade guards in case you prefer to keep a specific length.

https://www.amazon.com/Wahl-Professional-Clipper-Trimmer-8331/dp/B00AX942EI

Use a razor for grooming "down there", mate. With wrinkled skin the trimmer catches it and nicks it. Either use a razor or a combination of trimmer for the flat skin below the bellybutton and razor for below. I personally use the bakblade because it's like a razor but wider and it does it in less time. Also use iodine afterwards to disinfect and prevent pimples and bumps.

I have been using this norelco body trimmer. It charges pretty quickly, runs on battery or plugged in, its waterproof. I have been using it for almost 3 years!

https://www.amazon.com/Philips-Norelco-Trimmer-BT5210-42/dp/B017YNUH9E

I love this one: Philips Norelco YS524/41 Click and Style Shave Toolkit https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00ARF428E/ref=cm_sw_r_awd_IC2Pub05Y8PCQ

It does a great job on every part of the body, is completely waterproof and lasts a long time on a single charge.

Mix olive oil with castor oil at a one to ome ratio. Apply to face. Wet a washcloth with the hottest water you can handle without injuring yourself and cover your face with this for a few minutes. When it cools down, releat the hot water and washcloth steps again until it feels right.

Man, my hair type looks about identical to yours, only blonder and a little longer. I never really used any sort of conditioner/product or anything and it would act/look completely different each day depending on temperature, humidity, minutes since my last shower, whether the Chiefs won, etc. Then my brother suggested using this stuff because I was complaining about dry skin on the edges of my scalp. Holy fuck. When I use this shit after a shower my hair morphs into the pure apotheosis of curls; a divine, frizz-less, and radiant display of weightless, perfect spirals that would make Fibonacci weep. It has also done wonders for my modesty.

It could be for some reason it just works for me, and I'm not one to use or endorse cosmetological products, especially not ones that are priced higher than they have any right to be, but you might give this stuff a try before hacking it all off or anything like that.

A good boar's hair brush and some oils will help shape your beard at this stage, and it will keep your beard soft, and smelling great. You've got a great beard for 6 weeks in man, so keep it up!

For oils I recommend browsing Amazon or ask a local barber if they have any oils. My favourite oil right now is this guy.

Also, be sure to check out /r/beards for additional information!

I've been using this set up for years. I just buy a new kit every two years or so. Worth every penny: Philips Norelco QG3330/60 Multigroom https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00ARF42H0/ref=cm_sw_r_awd_RLcQub0FEAVGJ

Get some matte styling product and experiment. If you have no ideas, then find some good photos or videos and try to emulate the styles - your hair looks pretty short so you probably won't need to use straighteners to achieve most styles. I find that this guy does quite a lot of style tutorials, but it's always fun to experiment on your own.

This is what I do and it works for me. I buy antiperspirant and deodorant separately. I put the antiperspirant on before I go to bed and then deodorant after I take a shower. here’s a thing that explains it

I really wanted to know if there was a good product out there for this as well. Just FYI, it the OP is interested in this it's cheaper at Best Buy right now.

The wife love the stubble look best, so I might just give it a try.

Rate the beard chief honestly, wish mine would come out like that. In terms of hair, what do you like? With that beard you’d look good with a fade on the sides into something long.

Like these: https://www.pinterest.co.uk/pin/342906959114003041/

https://www.shutterstock.com/image-photo/portrait-face-close-handsome-attractive-indian-722857132

(Couldn’t work out your ethnicity so I used a couple Indian models as a point of reference for beard/skin colour combo)

Hope it helps

I’m a barber. Been cutting hair for years. Look for the micro needle roller. The Egyptians used to use it. But it actually works. You roll it over your face where you want the hair to grow. And it’s not instant. It does take several months. But it does for sure work. It opens the spaces in the pores and allows hair and hair follicles to form and grow. Here’s the link to the one I personally recommend

https://www.amazon.com/Beard-Derma-Roller-Growth-Stimulate/dp/B07XH63QVM

Shaving daily can help the hair to grow thicker and fuller as well. But this works best in my opinion. I have many clients who use it on a daily basis. And they have defiantly shown results from it.

As far as the unibrow. I line mine up. I use a trimmer, personally I use my andis t outliner. But you can use any trimmer or eyebrow shaver. And google “eyebrow lineup graph” and follow the images you see there. It’s the best way to keep a nice lineup. Good luck to you man!

You can buy the jawzerciser, but I bought this one.

Jaw Exerciser Face and Neck Exerciser,Double Chin Line Reducer Lift Fitness for Face Define Your Jawline Face Slim Jawline Shaper Facial for Men and Women https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08TZZHN56/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_J3NY3RN0K6JD4DV6Z19F

I ended up buying this Philips Multigroom Series 7000 Cordless Wet & Dry with 19 Trimming Accessories and Storage Bag, MG7770/18 https://www.amazon.ca/dp/B073RHH2NG/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apip_KzxibkUYU5hSr

Works great for the price and I’ve used almost half the attachments already. Some of the smaller guards work great for pubes.

OK these should help

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07PD9YV5G/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_glc_fabc_3KM8BQP8WMSEM54GFS1X

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07QM1Z2QC/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_glc_fabc_X1R92895GBVARG555R19?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1

Super highly recommend Viking Fiber cream

https://www.amazon.com/Hair-Styling-Fiber-Men-Hairstyles/dp/B0167IIBQS/ref=sr_1_11?dchild=1&keywords=hair+putty&qid=1615484837&sr=8-11

Use like dime size amount rub it into your hands and just kind use it to put your hair in place. Holds good with out a really spikey or wet look. Would be much better with that style. Just don't put it on wet hair. Holds really well for the day.

I use Mythic Oil. It's kinda expensive but that stuff is awesome and it smells freaking beautiful. I have curly hair once it reaches a decent length so I use Mythic Oil in conjunction of curl cream to give my hair a healthy look.

I had a hair stylish do my hair before and she used it. I then found it again at Ulta and wouldn't stop using it even since. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07FT86M97/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_fabc_YPVHXC84G5XY5C3TX6Y3

look for something similar to this.

I prefer an adjustable guard with no way to mess up. like this

Neither, get Magic Shaving Powder ( https://www.amazon.com/Magic-Shaving-Powder-ounce-fragrant/dp/B0048ZIFA0 ). So smooth downstairs my guy.

Go get another barber that can do textured hair properly. You have a lot of options and you have a nice curl pattern. You could grow It or even add hair. I’d grab some Carols Daughter product and gel and a hair sponge:

BEWAVE Big Holes Barber Hair Brush Sponge Dreads Locking Twist Afro Curl Coil Wave Hair Care Tool (2 Count) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B06XGT1C3Q/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_fabc_rzQYFb8H8NTMQ

Lose the chin strap. Mustache is fine, mustache with full beard is fine, but I personally can not recall a time I’ve seen a chin strap and thought it looked good.

Also try some hair product! American crew is a bit pricey but has every type of shine/hold. Adds some texture/style to your hair. Try a medium hold/medium shine one and move up/down from there depending on what you like. Get it from amazon it’s like half the price of in-store.

here’s the American crew one I recommended, but all of their products are solid

If it's only for simple cuts/buzzcuts on shorter hair, you don't need something that complicated. The clipper you linked to is quite high end and is 100 euro which would be a bit of an overkill.

What's really popular for buzzcuts recently is the Remington HC4250. In the US, it's called the "Shortcut Pro", in UK they brand it as Quickcut as far as I recall. If you're in France (judging from the Amazon you linked), here it is.

See if it's something up your alley. What's good about it are:

• Curved, wider blade - you get quicker cuts that follow the contours of your head. It depends on your head's shape, though.

• Very compact and convenient, including the fact that you can use it cordless.

• Quite a few accessories (guards) to control the length.

Drawback is that it's not as powerful as a Wahl clipper would be. However, if you need only simple buzzcuts on shorter hair, this should pose no problem for you.

If you want something more of a 'heavy artillery' and a corded clipper, I'd go with either Wahl Magic Clip (corded) or the Wahl Elite Pro (for the bonus accessories, barber's cape and all that other stuff.)

The problem is that you're looking for a reaaally close buzzcut. You might have to do a no guard, or at least grab a #0 guard (usually it's 1.5mm and you can bring it a little closer.)

And you're right, the Color Pro sucks, but that's because it's Wahl's absolute entry-level, basic clipper.

Currently growing a beard. I use a DE for cheeks and neck and line the beard up with a 'straight' razor I got from Amazon for about £10. Its lasted 2 years and going strong.

https://www.amazon.co.uk/Shaving-Product-Cut-Throat-Razor/dp/B01GOKPP4A/ref=sr_1_1_a_it?ie=UTF8&qid=1535687021&sr=8-1&keywords=stright+razor

In case you're not familiar, you need to insert DE blades into these, they are not the 'proper' straight razors.

don't ever shave your chest hair. That is literally the worst feeling to touch a man's chest and it's stubble.

Let it grow, dude.

If you can grow a beard, go with it. A bald head with a beard is a great, attractive look. Just make sure you keep your beard neat.

I invite you to check out the HiLée Amazon page for a variety of Organic, natural and cruelty-free options for the bearded man.

[You can get very bitter tasting, transparent nail polish on Amazon.](https://www.amazon.com/Mavala-Switzerland-Stop-Nail-Biting/dp/B0000YUXI0?th=1)

A safety razor is the way to go. A 100 pack of double sided safety blades is about $7. I used one blade for about a week. So blade cost is $3.50 per year. Plus I feel you get a much better shave. Less skin irritation since you don't have 5-8 blades scraping your face.

Blades I use

Razor I use

I've never used JFM so I can't tell you how similar or different they are but I use this

https://smile.amazon.com/dp/B000AS45LC/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_NZJBFbY8KB9AT

I use it on my beard and also my eyebrows and haven't had any problems with it. Of course, my facial hair is incredibly coarse and always itchy regardless, so I'm usually slathering it in conditioning products so that may help too. I do have fairly sensitive skin, but like I said I would assume something in the JFM is aggravating you so you might want to compare the ingredients to make sure you're not just getting more of the same.

As for the conditioning ingredients I use I've gotten the best results using Cremo 30 second beard and scruff softener in the shower, followed by Honest Amish Beard Balm after the shower. I've also tried to cut down on washing my face as often in an effort to not strip the facial hair by using a face wash. I started using a "cleansing face oil" instead to sort of clean my face without stripping so much away. I found that this helped a little with beard itch as well as the skin underneath isn't nearly as dry. The one I use in particular is Palmer's Ultra-Gentle Facial Cleaning Oil. It smells like Cocoa Butter which is great but leaves no scent post shower. You can probably use any, I just use that one because it's cheap and I like the scent. Be warned, a cleansing oil is just that, an oil/combo of oils. So it will not suds up or anything, but it will spread pretty evenly over your face. You will likely need a bit more on the chin/neck area depending on the length of your facial hair.

Hope this helps! Any questions ask away

Use thisand this twice a day for a couple weeks and they'll be gone and your beard will be healthier.

I've found using a thinning razor looks better than trimming because if you do it right it looks less "trimmed".

Regardless of the method (thinning razor or trimmer) it definitely makes your arms look more defined. I often slack on this but every time I do it I get comments on how much more toned I look.

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I use this one:

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00CN2JP5Y/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&psc=1

As others have said, growing back thicker after a shave is a total myth.

Although not perfect I've found something like this to be the easiest outside of getting it lasered:

https://www.amazon.com/MANGROOMER-Yourself-Electric-Back-Shaver/dp/B000HQ0L2E/ref=sr_1_9?crid=2B2K7RBTGG63F&keywords=back+hair+trimmer&qid=1669987476&sprefix=back+hair+trimmer%2Caps%2C65&sr=8-9

Wife and razor is a good option but not everybody has that option.

I've used the bakblade and each time it looked like I was attacked by Freddy Krueger. LOL.

The overall easiest I've found is a back trimmer like this:

https://www.amazon.com/MANGROOMER-Yourself-Electric-Back-Shaver/dp/B000HQ0L2E/ref=sr_1_9?crid=2B2K7RBTGG63F&keywords=back+hair+trimmer&qid=1669987476&sprefix=back+hair+trimmer%2Caps%2C65&sr=8-9

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It's still aggravatingly tedious though so I recently started getting it lasered to (hopefully) be done with it.

I know it can be tough but having pictures with you and others screams "This guy is normal enough" and this honestly seems like kind of the opposite of that. It doesn't help that you're wearing a decent shirt and seemed well groomed but you're outside a house.

I'll focus on your grooming and I'll say your hair is very dry. You need a leave in conditioner and even some other curl friendly products like a shampoo and mousse.

On the note of shampoo, it shouldn't be used every day, maybe every 2-3 days depending on what you do for work. If you're in construction or other labor, every 2nd day, if you're in an office or something a bit less labourful, go for 3 days. You still want to rinse and use conditioner, but that's going to go a long way to helping with your hair.

Yeah, just search self haircut mirror on Amazon! Here’s one

https://www.amazon.com/Grooming-Adjustable-Brackets-Portable-Bedrooms/dp/B095LFN19G/ref=mp_s_a_1_13?crid=38733GFOXX8EY&keywords=self+haircut+mirror&qid=1669073005&sprefix=self+hairc%2Caps%2C353&sr=8-13

I would skip the electric ones..

I was sick and tired of the scissors I was using before going dull or coming loose, so I spent a little more than I normally would on this pair someone else recommended and it's been amazing -> https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00420S236?psc=1&ref=ppx\_yo2ov\_dt\_b\_product\_details

Quite like this one. Battery powered but has lasted like 5 years and still going off the first one.Here for like $17

Tried reddit's recommended mechanical one but prefer the battery one. Mechanical 95% of the time was fine, 5% a bit painful. The toiletree electric one has never really made me feel pain.

What material is your underwear made from, and are your clothes particularly tight? Are you thoroughly drying yourself before getting dressed and have you tried powder instead of antiperspirant (I assume that's what you mean when you say deoderant, or at least an antiperspirant/deoderant). Also check out [[FreshBalls(https://www.amazon.com/Fresh-Body-FB-Anti-Chafing-Deodorant/dp/B00GCEM1Z0/ref=asc_df_B00GCEM1Z0/?tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=242007043651&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=17446353893680960214&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&...).

I hope that helps.

Remember that sweat is your friend, but it doesn't have to stink! <strong>Berlaney Armpit Detox Scrub</strong> works to keep you fresh, dry and odor free, whilst still allowing your body to breathe and release toxins naturally.

It's also important to note that a natural deodorant is not an antiperspirant (as it doesn't contain aluminium). That means you may still sweat when wearing a natural deodorant, but that's perfectly normal and shows your body is functioning how it should!

Are you using a loofah/wash cloth (separate from your regular body one) to scrub? Are you rinsing the areas well? And if you don't have a removable shower head, get one. Make sure to dry off completely before getting dressed. Using a body powder might be helpful as well, and check out Fresh Balls, it goes on like a lotion and dry like a powder.

I hope that helped.

looks like you want something like this. it doesn't harden and is easy just to restyle your hair through the day. It's the one I use. I never liked the crusty hair feeling either after most pomades dry lol but this one doesn't get that way

No. They say that the blade needs replacing. It's all to take your money. Why would a trimmer's blade need replacing? Get this one from Philips instead: https://www.amazon.com/Philips-Norelco-Bodygroomer-BG1026-60/dp/B010XIGBUQ/ref=pd_aw_ci_mcx_mh_mcx_views_0?pd_rd_w=xsaiS&amp;content-id=amzn1.sym.94af6381-06a2-4b66-b860-04718aaeefef&amp;pf_rd_p=94af6381-06a2-4b66-b860-04718aaeefef&amp;pf_rd_r=JR3....

I use the 0.5 mm comb on the armpits and groin area. No irritation and a very close trim.

https://www.amazon.com/Philips-Norelco-Bodygroomer-BG1026-60/dp/B010XIGBUQ/ref=mp_s_a_1_2?crid=BOVJ8DFGR393&amp;keywords=philips+bodygroom+series+1000&amp;qid=1664939019&amp;qu=eyJxc2MiOiIwLjY1IiwicXNhIjoiMC4wMCIsInFzcCI6IjAuMDAifQ%3D%3D&amp;spref...

Use it with the 0.5 mm comb on the armpits and groin area. It looks almost like it was shaved, that's how close it trims.

I'm a hairy Italian dude and always had those angry red spot on my legs. I'd also often get pimples on my ass on the pressure points where I'd sit. Those in particular could be painful, but it was all embarrassing, particularly when hooking up.

For some reason it didn't occur to me to use the Stridex pads I'd used in high school for my face on my body, but the thought finally came through this year and it turns out they have larger pads for body use.

I've been using these since the start of the year and my legs and ass are pimple free. I use 2 twice a day, or after I take a shower, one in each hand, and scrub with the textured side all over my thighs and cheeks. Now I don't feel subconscious about wearing shorter shorts or someone getting close to my ass 😁

Here they are on Amazon

Building self esteem based on esthetics is futile whoever you are. See a licensed therapist and borrow a book on the subject at the local library like: https://www.amazon.com/Building-Self-Esteem-Achieving-Self-Acceptance-Healthier/dp/0990413403

Wow brother, thank you for the help. Really informational for me 👍

I was researching the other day, and i found the Viking Revolution Beard Care Kit . What do you think of this?

I'm just trynna find a reliable brand to start with, as i see that it's not really cheap for beard care, especially the shampoo/conditioner.

Have been doing it for 12 years. You need: 1) a 360 mirror (https://www.amazon.com/Barbering-Co-Neckline-Adjustable-Hands-Free/dp/B0843MV6WF) 2) thinning scissors (https://www.amazon.com/Professional-ULG-Hairdressing-Texturizing-Detachable/dp/B0722K651D/)

The thinning scissors prevent you from make a huge mistake since they dont cut like a regular scissor. The trick is that you plan ahead what hair do you want to get (360 wise) and then use the 360 mirror to cut until you get something you like. Good luck.

• Wet your beard hair slightly.
• Use a brush or comb. Comb downwards, so that your beard hairs all point downwards.
• Use a product to help with this. I personally recommend VO5 Matt Clay. It's cheap and works very well.
• Using a hairdryer can also help.
• Now cut off the very ends of your hair. You won't lose much length at all, just tidy it up.
• To do this, comb downwards and take a line of hair in between two fingers, with a half cm or quarter inch hanging out. You should see that they are all different lengths. Use scissors to cut off the ends and even them up. Repeat this all over and you'll have a neat and tidy beard.
• Take your time. Only take off as much material as you want to.
• You only need to do this every now and then, can still leave plenty of time to let it grow.

Good luck!

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Also, use an electric razor or wet razor to shave your neck, to avoid the infamous 'neckbeard'. Take two fingers and place them above your adams apple, and shave everything below that line, curving it around the sides of your neck.

I too am a very guy, the bidet is THE solution. Yes, they’re a little expensive to get, but you will not regret having one. The bonus is… the next time there’s a toilet paper shortage… you can just laugh. This is the one I got:

https://smile.amazon.com/gp/product/B074MMWZYQ/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_image?ie=UTF8&amp;psc=1

Go Asian. Install a sprinkler like this one. Amazon

Don't know if this counts but i just got some proraso aftershave and it is some of the nicest smelling men products i've ever used. I literally bought 2 and am using one as cologne and the other as aftershave when i shave. This one: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0085UECY2?ref=nb\_sb\_ss\_w\_as-reorder-t1\_ypp\_rep\_k0\_1\_13&amp;amp&amp;crid=1HJUAQCIO9RM0&amp;amp&amp;sprefix=proraso+after

Ayyy bro good on you for the minox, stick on it - It helped me out a ton with some patchiness. If it hurts when you shave tho, you could always look into getting a better electric trimmer to bring you closer to the skin. A cheap one (or one that isn't specifically for facial hair) won't get you any good results. Personally I like the one blade a lot: https://www.amazon.com/Philips-Norelco-OneBlade-QP2520-90/dp/B01D328BG6

Yeah, you could always just practice the muscle movements that your eyes naturally do when you laugh! Once you notice what your face does, you can start to control it manually to a posture you like / find attractive. Practice making that face and you'll be golden.

Sorry to hear about your teeth though homie. I know a lot of people still like seeing smiles though - Depending on the setting though, your best bet might be to learn to love your mouth anyway. I promise you self-love will be more rewarding in the long run.

Assuming that can't happen for you bc I know how stubborn those feelings of insecurity can be, just try your best to find a nice facial posture for yourself. You can always smile with your mouth closed. The first pic you posted has a very nice half smile :)

Wash your face. Take a shower. Scrub everywhere (incl ass crack, butthole, gooch, balls, between your toes behind your knees and ears). Put on some chapstick. Shave. Lotion your face and neck. Comb your hair with a left or right part or use gel to make it look messy. Wear clothes that fit. No clothes that are baggy. Tight, but comfortable. Don't worry if you have a belly, you'll still look better. Just do this every day.

Ignore all the voices in your head that discourage you. Just focus on cleaning and grooming and pretend like you have confidence. Confidence is like sleeping. You have to pretend to be it before you can actually be it.

Learn how to communicate. - This book changed my life for the better. It taught me how to be a good friend. It's short and easy to understand.

Don't do this to get women. Take your focus off of fucking and courting women. Focus on yourself. Find things that make you happy (besides women and sex and porn and jerking off). Start doing those things and then find groups of people that do those things so you can form a friend group.

From there you can network and maybe eventually find a partner. But don't focus on that. You won't be happy in any relationship until you can be happy by yourself.

Therapy is good too. Best of luck.

Or I should say, any sort of product or lighter-oil based thing is welcome!

The ranger oil I use is this. It rocks, if you want a nice thick oil.

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00IB6IAOS/ref=ppx\_yo\_dt\_b\_search\_asin\_title?ie=UTF8&amp;psc=1

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B072ZYGB95?ref_=cm_sw_r_ud_dp_GQ1D5NYXAMD98F40CRVA

This tool helped me a lot, at first I didn’t use it as its a bit abrasive (plus I was skeptical) but I finally started using it morning & night, before and after shaving and combined with Bump Patrol. It made my skin look a lot better and clear highly recommend.

Fuck all that high priced Shìt that barely works I really recommend this it works good had it for months no flaws

https://www.amazon.com/DEW-CARE-Headband-headband-hairband/dp/B071FPRX25/ref=mp_s_a_1_3?crid=CHDOAFZZ0CUK&amp;keywords=cat+ear+headband+skincare&amp;qid=1655152170&amp;sprefix=cat+ear+headband+skin%2Caps%2C206&amp;sr=8-3

Sincerely, your friendly neighborhood transmasc femboy

This is what I use. I can't remember the last time my hair felt this good. Cheap too!

If you’ve tried pumice and foot rasps and they’ve been mediocre at best, check out this specific rasp on Amazon: 2 Blades Pedicure Foot File... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01H4S6AL8?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share

I’ve tried about a dozen rasps and abrasive blocks, callus dissolving gel and more for my thick heel buildup, and this is the only one that actually works. It doesn’t take 30 minutes of soaking and scrubbing like most rasps, just 2 minutes at the end of my shower and I’m good. Highly, highly recommend, from someone with severe heel skin buildup from walking lopsided.

[Philips NT1150(https://www.amazon.com/Philips-Nt1150-Nose-Trimmer-Black/dp/B00TO7K294/ref=mp_s_a_1_3?gclid=EAIaIQobChMI7cv2_pKH-AIVWfLjBx3RIANaEAAYASAAEgLW0_D_BwE&amp;hvadid=580968058552&amp;hvdev=t&amp;hvlocphy=1021925&amp;hvnetw=g&amp;hvqmt=e&amp;hvrand=151580...), I've had mine for years.

Can you send an picture of an example of "scruffy beard"? I don't know what you mean by that.

Use a bristle boar brush to make the beard hair distribute evenly and look straighter. Here's an example of a a bristle boar brush.

Use bear oil to make the beard hair smooth and shiny.

Beards are designed to look bushy and curly. Not straight.

Also checkout /r/beards.

There are men's intimate skin moisturizers and some contain silver nanoparticles, which has been the subject of health concerns. ToppCock is the one I'm familiar with and I chose not to use it. Check out silver nanoparticle or Ag NP toxicity to see for yourself. If you choose to use it, I would be sure to wash it off completely before there is any chance of introducing it to a partner.

CeraVe or Aquaphor Healing Ointments are recommended (I can only speak for CeraVe - it works very well) for the shaft.

For the sack I use FreshBalls and it has never dried out my skin.

Hope that helps.

Hypochlorous acid spray is what I use under my arms and on my balls. This is a reputable brand that I always buy from. Hypochlorous acid a very gentle disinfectant that can be used on wounds, acne, eczema, and areas with odors caused by bacteria… like the balls, dick, and armpits.

I like the brand I linked because they’re cleared by the FDA and they’re at a good price point.

Mario Badescu Acne Starter Regimen Kit https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00FIAXDA6/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_F83AE7QTRRRHKFKEZEN7?_encoding=UTF8&amp;psc=1 This stuff works wonders, but my acne is also highly dependent on my stress. So I’ve had to learn a healthy cleaning regiment as well as meditation :) Edit: I also agree that I think you should just shave and take care of those pores so when it is ready to grow it will be beautiful and healthy :)

Keep but hit it with some castor oil my G

Jamaican Mango & Lime Black Castor Oil (Mango Papaya) 4oz https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00KGD3SBY/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_VTSTE3743WK1WA9VMSS4?_encoding=UTF8&amp;psc=1

Give it 6 months get you some Castro oil

Jamaican Mango & Lime Black Castor Oil (Mango Papaya) 4oz https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00KGD3SBY/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_VTSTE3743WK1WA9VMSS4?_encoding=UTF8&amp;psc=1

You good with no advice cause you consciously trying to be a better you so even with no advice you’ll be iight my dude

Right now i'm using the old spice Original antiperspirant. It seems to do well enough. The scent doesn't change much when it interacts with my sweat throughout the day. I'm also giving Certain dry spray a shot.

I've tried a few womens deodorants but they are a bit too scented for me and don't last. I want to like arm and hammer but that only lasts a few hours for me. I was on the journey to trying baking soda and water. Purchased it at the store, and decided to try out something I found online. But that didn't work either. This brand but the extra strength they used to sell

Using this.

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09XZR8K3S?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_4ZCH03125B38R5K3QKHG

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Good product.

I suppose it’s definitely more difficult to freehand such a tight beard. I cannot recommend this trimmer enough. Really solid construction and very precise cut. The guards are the best I’ve ever used too (body and pubic trimming mostly) Philips series 7000

https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B07HJJ8V75/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_REBEHBRJGX3VF25YX5H6?_encoding=UTF8&amp;psc=1

Van der hagen short handle and Astra Superior Platinum

https://www.amazon.co.uk/Palmers-Coconut-Conditioning-Repairing-Conditioner/dp/B07X13N9PR/ref=mp_s_a_1_4?crid=24GZUXFHPU747&amp;keywords=palmers+leave+in+conditioner&amp;qid=1648807524&amp;sprefix=Palmer%27s+leave+in+%2Caps%2C85&amp;sr=8-4

I use this set always worked for me, shampoo lasts about 2 months, conditioner about 2 1/2 and the spray probably 3 you can buy them individually of course according to your needs :)

Wahl Professional 5-Star Balding Clipper with V5000+ Electromagnetic Motor and 2105 Balding Blade for Ultra Close Trimming, Outlining and for Full Head Balding for Professional Barbers - Model 8110 https://www.amazon.com/dp/B000VVT94G/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_XCBFKMNVPRWE313MHMW2?_encoding=UTF8&amp;psc=1

What I use. Worth every penny.

Towel dry completely. Use a clay paste to lightly fluff your hair, I recommend this one. Just make sure the air doesn’t dry out your hair before towel drying.

Andis Profoil Lithium Plus Titanium Foil Shaver 17200, Black/Gray, 1 Count https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07NJ61YYW/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_i_Z5BTE4VH8C44435EFQ5M

That one is nice. This is the one I use..

BaBylissPRO Barberology Cordless Metal Double Foil Shaver https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07KPNBKBZ/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_i_ZREKKCFMB8V6ES6X8R13

It’s not the same as his but I use this one:

Philips Norelco Oneblade Pro Hybrid Electric Trimmer and Shaver, Black, QP6510/70 https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07PBSJ265/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_i_ES85BT0K73HR0E6QZCM3?_encoding=UTF8&amp;psc=1

r/curlyhair has a stickied post that was super helpful for me when I started. There's a simple guide on getting started with what products to use in and out of the shower and it covers everything. It's actually pretty cheap but getting the hang of the routine can take some time. My only recommendation is to get the Aussie Instant Freeze gel instead of LA Looks just because it dried my hair out. I'd also recommend using a diffuser on a hair dryer but that's more just to save time when drying.

The only concern with coconut oil is that it can be kinda heavy on your hair. Based on how thick your curls are it probably won't be that much of an issue for you but it's something to watch out for.

Gold Bond Men's Essentials Talc-Free Body Powder 10 oz, Refresh 360 Scent, Wetness Protection https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08W5GNXBG/ref=cm_sw_r_sm_apan_glt_i_8T63MMPHGCN63JX0PGZB

I see tons of gold bond body powder options for same and next day delivery. Above link is the one I used in VA when temps hit 110.

All you really need is something nice and simple like this: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07XSC5TW4/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_glt_i_BK0ND5P7QHAH2D4C4A0C?_encoding=UTF8&amp;psc=1

Likewise, an automatic trimmer with a guard too, but I prefer the precision of the scissors.

Source: I have a well trimmed mustache.

Are you washing everywhere and then drying completely? Balls, shaft, taint, and crack?

You can also try Fresh Balls or other powder.

You also might want to check for an infection.

Best of luck to you brother.

Tried a lot of curl products. this one has been great

when i was starting puberty and hormones were raging to the sky, i had this great idea that it would be "hot" (as in it would turn me on) to put a candle right below my balls and make my balls feel the warmness of it. (i think it was a fetish of some kind. you know like the people who drip candle wax on their skin. haha. i was weird.)

anyways, so i did it and my ball hair caught on fire and it stung so i quickly pulled away. this was like 10+ years ago but even now, lowest part of my sack is hairless and smooth. it must have like burned the whole hair thing away. O.o true story bros~

for nose hair, i use this... very cheap and effective!!! http://www.ebay.com/itm/New-Nose-Ear-Face-Hair-Trimmer-Shaver-Clipper-Cleaner-/130506449528?pt=LH_DefaultDomain_0&amp;hash=item1e62ca6278#ht_2856wt_1270 i bought 2 and both still work after many years!!! just replace battery obviously

I totally understand why it would be embarrassing to deal with. Along with sweat there is a chance of odor. I always wear black shorts and shirt to gym for that reason and I usually don't sweat that much.

Here's a couple links to check out if you haven't already.

I entered "Cure for excessive sweating" in Google.

https://www.webmd.com/skin-problems-and-treatments/hyperhidrosis-treatment-11#1

https://www.healthline.com/health/hyperhidrosis

Before putting on underwear, make sure balls, taint, and crack are completely dry...especially if you intend to use powder. also consider trimming.\\ Wipes like these can be a huge help throughout the day to freshen up.

Good luck brother.

Sorry about that. I didn't notice I messed up the link. The double foil shaver is the one my barber uses and recommends.

Yeah, shampoo use will strip your scalp of oils, that's what it's meant to do, which is good in a way, but can be a bit of an issue if done every day cause your scalp needs those oils as well.

A conditioner/hair mask will still clean your hair and not strip those oils, which will help with keeping your scalp from drying out, which will result in better results for growing out your hair. Some people use conditioner, I prefer a mask personally as there's usually better benefits to a mask over conditioner.

For that issue of oiliness, pick up dry shampoo. It's meant for whenever throughout the day. If you find your hair is excessively oily, hit it with some dry shampoo, it'll absorb it and give off a nice scent! This is the one I use.

I use this mask. It's got a nice scent, not too overbearing.

You look pretty young so I think over time if you want to keep the long hair, these small little things will ensure you keep the hair you have and will keep it looking healthy and great. I started this kind of stuff later in life in my early 30's but it was funny when I was 25, people thought I was 35, now I'm 34 and people think Im 25. So this stuff just is great for keeping a great overall look you can be super confident in.

I bought this one:
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0741BYXK5/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o07_s00?ie=UTF8&amp;psc=1

the silver guard makes it that it gets really close without nicking the skin. You could use that and then if still want to get closer, just use a good old razor and soap/shave cream to get rid of the rest.
The sideways clipper also makes it so much easier to navigate the nether regions

I don't know too much about product but I swear by this product.

It's a wax I saw on a post where an Asian male was using on his hair. The seemed to have long light hair and this wax held it so nicely in shape. A little goes a long way. I love it so much. Maybe look into it. There's several kinds but I like the punk one. Has great hold.

Gatsby Spiky Edge Moving Rubber... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B06XXWB6Q9?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share

1.wash your face /beard before shaving. 2. Make sure you using a sharp razor , or that the blades on your trimmer are lubricated. 3. After shaving use rubbing alcohol on the shaved area 4. Use this product after a save or a haircut. Morning and night before bed. Stopper-2-Treatment-Strength-Formula/dp/B0000532PW

You need the deodorant & antiperspirant. The antiperspirant will make you not sweat.

If you want to stick with Brut, then get this one.

This stuff is a lifesaver for keeping my bald head and face shine free. Just a little dap rubbed all over keeps me good most of the day.

The hourglass looking attachment? Do you mind pointing that out? Thanks.

https://www.amazon.ca/Multigroom-Accessories-Technology-Lithium-Ion-MG7770/dp/B073RHH2NG/ref=sr_1_5?keywords=philips+multigroom+series&amp;qid=1640620512&amp;sr=8-5