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Be careful with makeshift dildos. Plastic, wood, and rubber materials are often porous and should not be used without a condom as they can trap bacteria and give you an infection. Food items are even more dangerous and carry a high risk of giving you a yeast infection.

Sticking with external stimulation is safer, especially if your makeshift toy is used over clothing. Things like an electric toothbrush or electric shaver often provide decent vibrations. You can also stop for a back massager of some sort that doesn't look like a vibrator and comes with the easy excuse that your back is sore from too much Netflix or sitting at a computer. Removable showerheads are also a popular choice.

Different for different people. Though, you could try kegel exercises. I've been doing these for several months and have seen some improvement, plus stronger orgasms. Bonus, once you figure them out, the exercises themselves start to feel nice and you can do them practically anywhere. It's all internal. https://www.webmd.com/urinary-incontinence-oab/kegel-exercises-treating-male-urinary-incontinence

There are a couple of books on the topic, this one and this one, there's another by a therapist named Keesling or something. The first one is pretty bad, I haven't read the second one, the Keesling book is better than the first.

There are all kinds handsfree ways to cum. Depends what you’re interested in, because there are lots of options. You can use chastity cages to keep the temptation at bay. You can also use magic wands and other strong vibrators, treating it like a clit (a fun combo with the cage). You can also try e-stim, which is stimulation by electricity (no hands required).

I recommend looking at “handsfree” porn for ideas. There are a lot of people who can cum without any touch, but I imagine that comes with a lot of edging/abstaining.

But to answer your question, yes, you absolutely can cum just from anal. Get some good lube and toys. Silicone lube is great, and stays slippery — but it can’t be used with some toys.

This is a great one for internal stimulation:

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0773GTR7C/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_4vkMFbTWJCSK5?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1

I should also note that these are not things I do myself, but it’s the kind of porn I enjoy watching. 😊

I started doing the same thing at the start of the year. I even found an app for tracking sex and masturbation (https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.sexdiary.safeforsex&hl=en)

I'm 99% sure it's this one

https://www.amazon.com/Automatic-Masturbator-Masturbators-Thrusting-Stimulation/dp/B09MSYFY3L/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?crid=1F8HZX8BNALSS&keywords=auto+male+sex+toy&qid=1671009733&sprefix=auto+male+sex+toy%2Caps%2C139&sr=8-1&ufe=app_do%3...

I bought mine on Amazon. I bought the balm and lotion. The lotion is easier to apply than the balm. Both are good though.

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0013UQQAE?psc=1&ref=ppx_pop_dt_b_product_details

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00PR76VH2?psc=1&ref=ppx_pop_dt_b_product_details

I think the majority of guys remember their first (solo) orgasm clearly.
A lot probably don't want to admit!

I'll admit that I remember the whole experience to my first real cum shooting orgasm.

The years going back to the early 2000's, when I was first getting boners was a weird experience. Like many other people, I got a unexplainable feeling when my boner touched another surface. Whether it be underpants or a pillow. The sensation felt good.

I used to love rubbing my boner with just my index fingers at this age. Never orgasmed, but enjoyed the feeling.

One year, (particularly Halloween) my parent's got this creepy hand toy that I loved. Much like this here

I noticed that the middle finger and index finger on the toy moved in the motion like this and this toy became my favourite pleasure in my early teens.

I had many throbbing moments with this toy, close to orgasm, but never exploded a cumshot with the toy until I was 13.

Then it CUM. Ropes of it!!!

Fucking amazing moment, I still remember clearly the cum blasts in my hair, wondering what the hell just happened!?

There on out was a journey, from using a robotic hand to my own hand, what a ride!

Chances are, those guys don't have that wand on full blast. Even women often have to buy a Wand Speed Controller to get the exact speed comfortable for them. I prefer actually a Butterfly attachment. These things will change your masturbatory life....

It requires a bit of know-how, but you can use virtualbox to create a completely separate instance of windows (or any other OS) on your computer. Every thing is saved on a Virtual Hard Drive file that you can keep on an external harddrive.

Is this the Handy unit you are referring to: https://www.amazon.com/Handy-Automatic-Masturbator-Stimulated-Sensations/dp/B09FFCKFGB/ref=sr_1_1 ? I don't see info about how many inches it can take. Do you have a link for the Launch model? I can't seem to find it. Thanks!

Getting nude, playing with my cock and tease my puckered hole. I Get out my fuck machine and let it take me until I cum all over myself.

Look into this model or similar. Getting fucked by it is amazing.

https://www.amazon.com/Masturbation-Thrusting-Connector-Realisatic-Extension/dp/B08C2BNP1C

I should break it out now.... mmmmm

Look here: https://www.amazon.de/-/en/Space-Hopper-80-bouncy-ball/dp/B091YPW1G8/ref=pd_aw_sim_2/261-6664502-5435616?pd_rd_w=phFLh&pf_rd_p=675549ca-b9c3-4b80-a90c-8eb424788066&pf_rd_r=Z2TSCPPWBRP38ZT5QPDD&pd_rd_r=6caa8347-fed4-48e9-b9fd-9288edcb75...

here you go

I have exactly this brush, the purple one, it's kinda bigger when you see it in person tho

If you have a shower tub that has a ledge all the way around, you can get a bench like this one to sit on while you masturbate. It if it's just a shower, there are other benches you can get. Maybe a nice teak one

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B000AEGCQ2/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_glt_fabc_DRH56R4THKFRKM29RCPC

They can be expensive. and they take a long time to work. It took 5 months for me to get things down to a point where there was a good amount of reduction. I bought the remington model that cost me almost $600. Iv'e used it all over my legs, ass, stomach. So yeah it took some time. I'm very white so I could set that thing on full blast and even did double blasts (one right after the other).

And it only works on Dark hairs.

So I'm left with the grey hairs.

So: I bought this model on amazon:

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01DITG9S6/ref=ppx\_yo\_dt\_b\_asin\_title\_o05\_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

Go to the sub reddit: "prostate_play". Trust me, this is a whole new world of a different kind of orgasm but it takes some time to get your body in tune with it.

Loads of fun !

We talk about special toys and stuff too: i have this toy I like for my prostate massage:

https://www.amazon.com/Stainless-Steel-Solid-Organization-Lifting/dp/B08FX15ZZQ/ref=pd\_ybh\_a\_6?

Yes, there are clit clamps. Sounds scarier than it is, but does kinda the same function as cock rings. Hope that helps.

https://www.womenshealthmag.com/sex-and-love/g26900352/clit-clamp/

https://www.amazon.com/Shades-Darker-Sensation-Beaded-Clitoral/dp/B01M2XM955

Trans man here. When I was pre t I took one of these and suctioned it onto my clitoris so that I could kind of jerk off. Also a vibrator could work as they are very gender neutral.

this one on amazon is only latex, water, and zinc oxide, doesn't look like anything harmful in it plus i can just shave before using it

https://www.amazon.com/Viscosity-Natural-Liquid-Latex-Making/dp/B071DDQHM6/ref=mp_s_a_1_7?dchild=1&keywords=black+liquid+latex&qid=1611917781&sr=8-7#immersive-view_1611917843595

I'll have to try MOVE. Thank you.

Or is it "One MOVE"?

https://www.amazon.com/One-Condoms-One-Move-Lubricant-100/dp/B00CAHXPTO

These are great

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07M67RSKM/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&psc=1&pldnSite=1

Hey I've been looking for some lube and came across FAV also, did you get this one? How do you like it so far?

https://www.amazon.com/FAV-Luxury-Personal-Lubricant-Ounces/dp/B07ZS82MY1/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=personal+lube+for+men&qid=1604314833&sprefix=personal+lub&sr=8-1

Just a suggestion . . . give him a treat, maybe a few treats before you go to masturbate. My granddog loves these treats called " Earth Animal No Hide Beef Chews". They come in a lot of sizes and flavors. That's the Amazon link. When ever we gave him one, he wouldn't bother us for a while . . . 😉😉😉

Your method sounds kinda complicated.

I've used this app (which was designed for "interval training" workouts) for similar purposes, how do you think it compares?

You could try using a timer to help you judge when to masturbate and when to take breaks.

Like https://edgemeplease.com which was designed for the purpose, or this app which was designed for interval training workouts but can be used for edging.

However if you really want to last, you should be more strict with the "stop" than the "go", and still stop before the timer says to if you think you can't keep it up that long without coming.

This app is designed for interval training workouts, but it's very customizable and I think it's good for edging.

The "tabata" setting allows you to have frequent short breaks and infrequent long breaks. Personally I like having it do 15 seconds, then a 10 second break, four times in a row before giving a 40 second break.

Maybe use a digital timer to remind yourself to take breaks.

https://www.edgemeplease.com/ is designed specifically for this, but the fact that it has no configurability outside a few presets is a downside. For better control, you could also use an exercise/workout timer app (I use this one.

Something like this is a good start and there are others similar to it

https://www.amazon.com/Eden-Toys-Tremble-stroker-masturbator/dp/B06XQ2XFT7

https://www.amazon.com/Lêlo-Sona-Sonic-Massager-Diary/dp/B088Z94252/ref=mp_s_a_1_3?dchild=1&keywords=lelo+virbrator+for+women&qid=1600561109&sprefix=lelo&sr=8-3 this one made me realize I can squirt

Pro tip: unroll the condom a couple notches and put a few drops of lube inside. Then lay down on top of a body pillow (This is what it looks like in case you don’t know, you can get one for $10 at Walmart or Target https://www.amazon.com/BioPEDIC-Premium-SofLOFT-Pillow-White/dp/B002IVTEJ2) and hump to your heart’s content. The orgasm will make you moan.

I bought this masturbator on Wish(China Amazon) that messages your balls and dick at the same time (here is a Amazon link to it but if your going get it order it from wish, a 1/4th the price to wait a extra two weeks for shipping https://www.amazon.com/Electric-Powerful-Vibration-Boyfriend-Underwear/dp/B082CQJ5HH/ref=mp_s_a_1_4?dchild=1&keywords=penis+training+tool+male&qid=1586912724&sr=8-4

But anyway I wrapped it around my dick and grabbed a couple rubber bands to secure it in place and squeezed my thighs together to increase or decrease intensity. It was a fantastic orgasm.

I didn't say not to do it in the shower, I said not to do it standing up. If you can sit down in the shower, then that's not the same thing.

If your shower at home is not currently amenable to that, maybe look into finding a shower bench. They're usually seen as a medical device for elderly/disabled people, but it could also be useful for your purposes and it's possible to buy one outright without needing to go through insurance (for example, here's one on Amazon for $30).

https://www.amazon.com/Sexbaby-Stimulation-Masturbator-Lifelike-Masturbation/dp/B01A8L9SN0/ref=pd_cp_121_2?pd_rd_w=cVkTt&pf_rd_p=ef4dc990-a9ca-4945-ae0b-f8d549198ed6&pf_rd_r=7PND2YD4B4Q9JJFN8JSG&pd_rd_r=75a288de-6320-11e9-b7b1-9768eea003d5&pd_rd_wg=btZu4&pd_rd_i=B01A8L9SN0&psc=1&refRID=7PND2YD4B4Q9JJFN8JSG

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Here is the best one I've found so far. I feel like there are so many sex toys for everything, except boobs lol. I'm just a little skeptical about it.

Basically a Japanese fleshlight. This is the one I own.

https://www.amazon.co.uk/gp/product/B01MTOM3LR/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o00_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

First time I used it, my head was in a positive daze for hours. Novelty wearing off an little, still prefer it to masturbation, but sometimes not worth the set up and cleaning.

I kinda want to try and eat my own cum, just shoot into my face and mouth. My longest edging session lasted about 2-3 hours, turned my head away at the last moment.

This is just slightly above your price at $27.95 (USD), but I would highly recommend it: Fleshlight The Quickshot Vantage Adult Male Sex Toy Masturbator, Clear https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0161NZJVY/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_dXwxyb64HC4V3 The open design makes for easier cleanup, imo. It's also durable if cared for properly. My only warning is: if your girth is 5.5" or more, it may make the sleeve too tight to use properly. So take a moment to measure if you don't know!

I ask because I bought my gf some Lelo vibrators and they had a soft coating, are USB rechargeable & are fantastic according to her. I understand the price being a factor, but with no batteries and a better orgasm/experience, wouldn't one save up and get something for maximum pleasure? FYI I bought her this LELO Liv 2 Personal Massager, Classic Vibrator with 1-Year Warranty, Rechargeable, ... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00EOX45LY/ref=cm_sw_r_sms_awd_x_kMleybXRE1H1D

I've mentioned this before & don't want to get in trouble for being too promotional--but my friend who's a meditation teacher has been using "mindful masturbation" in which your focus is 100% on what you're doing and the self-sensation rather than picturing anything external or making up an image as a technique for mindfulness practice. So I don't think it's that odd: it's just reality. Anything you're picturing is made up. You're actually there. So it makes sense that the experience of paying attention to what you're actually doing is better. Anyway, he explains it better than I can. https://www.amazon.com/Mindful-Masturbation-Technique-Mindfulness-Imaginary-ebook/dp/B0147D79VS/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1469819400&sr=8-1&keywords=mindful+masturbation#navbar

I recently got this dildo and I absolutely love it although the tip is probably to big for someone without much anal training something like this would be a good way to start out it depends on the length and girth your used to using though, and I can't stress this enough if you get a silicon toy you have to use water based lube oil can be damaging and silicon lube will make it unusable.

Honestly, I don't think there's any particular technique to the masturbation part. I think it's a mental technique. I helped him with the ebook formatting over the weekend, so it should be available if Amazon approves it.

Again, I haven't read it and am not trying to sell it on Reddit--but wanted to post the link since it's likely to be on the "adult" part of Amazon where the search bar won't look: http://www.amazon.com/Mindful-Masturbation-Technique-Mindfulness-Imaginary-ebook/dp/B0147D79VS/ref=sr_1_1?s=digital-text&ie=UTF8&qid=1440361351&sr=1-1&refinements=p_27%3AChristopher+Elm

I was barely 12. I was reading along with a description of the male sexual response from an earlier version of this book that I'd stolen from the library so my mom didn't have to know I had it.