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You can buy larger wipes which are designed for adult use.
But really... you need to take a shower, because otherwise you'll start to smell pretty gross. Even if you don't notice, other people might.
I use BOS Bags that I get from Amazon:
https://www.amazon.com/BOS-Odor-Sealing-Disposable-Unscented-Sanitary/dp/B06Y2T6FSF/ref=sr_1_3?ie=UTF8&qid=1527829825&sr=8-3&keywords=bos+bags
Completely odorless, with opaque-ish plastic. The Medium bags (linked above) fit about one diaper each, and it's like 0.16 cents per bag (for the medium-sized bags at least). Hope this helps!
You must have some kind of safe-search feature enabled or something. [edit or your logged out]
Tumblr is well known for being full of porn:
http://i.imgur.com/vu6UsZB.png [nsfw duh]
https://www.tumblr.com/search/abdl
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It's from a potty training video called 'No More Diapers', the whole first part of which is about how much the protagonist loves diapers...it's pretty great. =) Then he finds his next door friend has graduated to underpants and just like that decides he wants to wear underpants too (the traitor). At the end the song in the original post is repeated but with 'diapers' changed to 'underpants'.
I am so glad you asked, do not use the dryer method. the dryer method is not only dangerous but also really embarrassing. I had the unfortunate experience of trying to explain to the local fire marshall and property management why I had started a fire in a common area. In the end we agreed to disagree and I moved to a different unit that had a washer and dryer in the unit.
I didn’t want to risk another dispute with the property management and decided to find a better solution. I used to do research and development and helped create several products you may commonly use today. With my background and experience I undertook this challenge in finding a way to properly fluff my daipers. I experimented with many different ideas and solutions and ultimately came up with the “hot pocket method”. I know it sounds absurd but hear me out and your life will be changed forever.
Step 1: 30/45 minutes before you are ready to change take your diaper and wrap it in aluminum foil like a hot pocket. I suggest using the Reynolds’s heavy duty wrap ( https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B00OBGVUQM/ ) , I attempted to use the Walmart brand and it resulted in another embarrassing dispute with property management. And let’s be honest if you have even a single fiber of integrity or moral compass you won’t support Walmart. (Support your local small businesses please).
Step 2: Set your toaster oven to broil and set a timer for 17 minutes and place the pocket directly in the center. Again I’ve tested this with multiple products and endorse the Breville BOV650XL ( https://www.amazon.com/Breville-BOV650XL-Compact-Smart-Stainless/dp/B00357YS3A/ )
Step 3: After the 17 minutes has completed remove the pocket from the appliance and allow to cool for 15-20 minutes.
Step 4: unwrap and enjoy
heres the amazon link, says 9500 but im skeptical. also says "in stock soon" and the company is TREST
For the truly paranoid you might add in CryptoMator. That way everything is protected if your account is compromised and even google doesnt know the contents.
Other than that -- Google Drive content is not going to show up on an employee screening.
I found a low-cost, snap-together storage cube system from Amazon so decided to organize a bit of my stash. The cube storage is available here:
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B06XTCD9PY
It is almost perfect for organizing stacks of diapers. Each cube will fit two stacks of size Large diapers except for very wide diapers like ABU Space and Lil' Squirts. If you wear size Medium, each cube will hold two stacks no problem.
In case you're curious, the pictured diapers in cubes are (left-to-right from top):
- Miscellaneous
- TABDLS Carousels
- ABU Plastic PreSchool & Cloth-Like PreSchool
- ABU Kiddo
- Bare Bum (old style)
- ABU Cushies & Fab Sense City Print
- Rearz Inspire Select
- Tena Slip Maxi
- ABU Lavender
- Rearz Lil' Squirts
- ABU Super Dry Kids v1
- ABU Space
The cube system goes together easily and is quite strong. The trick is to press down hard on each joint to get the wall wires to fully snap into the plastic corner pieces.
^P.S. ^No, ^I ^don't ^work ^for ^Amazon.
>After the movie I had drank an entire 44 oz lemonade
My real concern is that's a crazy amount of sugar unless it's a diet soda. If it was regular Sprite, you've had nearly THIRTY spoonfuls of sugar, which is well over three times your daily suggested maximum in about two hours. If you're talking about damage done, doing that regularly is going to affect you much more long-term than some mild embarrassment about pissing yourself.
So... yeah. Some friendly advice, cut back on the sugar :)
I guess it’s up to you. I like diapers more than pull-ups but pull-ups fit an aesthetic for me that I also really like. You can buy and use diapers discreetly, I do it all the time and they generally hold a lot more than pull-ups.
As for diapers that you can wear discreetly, I’d say Supremes from NorthShore are pretty good for that, they were relatively silent and they didn’t swell up as much as the Megamax do (so much that they make me waddle). Tena Supers aren’t bad, nor are Abena for a first time diaper, either, both of those are cloth-backed mind you, so they won’t be as noisy as say, a Supreme, but they don’t hold nearly as much (once again the Supreme isn’t that noisy).
Make sure you get rid of your “trash” as often as possible to avoid smells permeating your room. Personally I use BOS bags, which honestly do contain the smell https://www.amazon.com/BOS-Disposable-Sanitary-Disposal-Unscented/dp/B06Y2XMS1K/ref=mp_s_a_1_4?dchild=1&keywords=bos+bags&qid=1605723302&sprefix=BOS+bangs&sr=8-4 . But you should still get rid of old diapers sooner rather than later.
These bags have good reviews on Amazon but I haven't tried them yet
What I use are these and they seem to work well for me and I like that the are black so they hide the contents inside
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+1 for megamax and maybe the new trest the 9500ml diapers
Here is the plug! I don't recall which size I got, but its not huge so it'll be the small or medium one. I really like it, sort of a pain to get in (ha) but once it's there it's relatively comfy.
https://www.tumblr.com/docs/en/embeddable_posts rather than linking to an image directly - means you keep the captions etc that the original poster created. You're currently likely breaking terms and conditions of tumblr and opening yourself up to takedown notices.
Also not sure why I'd sign up to your site vs staying on tumblr at the moment...
For the skeptics among us, I did some searching, and it appears to be legit. They have also asked in a Facebook community, and ADISC (neither of which I am a member). General consensus from the ADISC thread is the questions emphasize sexuality, and leave no wiggle room in case your answer doesn't fit into one of the choices.
I did not take the quiz.
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I'd have to see them to be certain, but I'd assume that a lot of the Wish diapers are ones Ten@Night sold as part of their Rainbow Week diapers. They had seven different designs, and they did look pretty good. Unfortunately the diapers were not good. They were build to be one size fits all, and they don't fit that well; also, the opaque white stretchy tapes covers the design in the front, ruining some of the look.
A quick look at the results on Wish for "ABDL Diapers", and I see a bunch of Rainbow Week diapers, some of the Neva Ocean diapers, some of the Cute Diapers (which are pretty good and can be had a decent price), and some copies of fairly well known diapers, too.
These will get you close though a different collar
Duck Iron on Patches https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00HYQWKEC/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_MBR37759VCWZH47V9PNW
College kid here! I've said this in another thread, but I'm a big fan of these https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01DJPDGOE/ref=cm_sw_r_apa_i_l0eEEbT2R8FZ7 . While they aren't nearly as good as any premium brief, if you fluff them they'll last a good while. They aren't very thick either, but because they're so cheap (>$1/diaper), I never feel like I have to block out a whole day or afternoon just to get my money's worth. That said, they'll do the job if you do have more than a few hours. These are my go-to as a broke adult. It looks like they're out of stock, but they usually go for ~$25 for 30.
Its mostly text, i saw the book on amazon as well. The preview is all text besides the cover.
Hey! If you all want some awesome diaper tape, I recommend trying out THIS. I usually buy in bulk and always have a roll or two around just for instances like this.
Full disclosure, if you buy the tape using my link or anything from Amazon during that session, I get a small commission. It is greatly appreciated and helps me expand and add even more products to Wearing Clouds!!
I have a bunch of these boxes along the back wall of my closet: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01N0NAV4W/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o06_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1
They're practically invisible, no one would ever suspect anything. They're the biggest boxes of this style I could find, and unfortunately are still pretty small... they only fit 14 large ABU/Tykables each.
Hi, and welcome to our subreddit!
You write that you've been reading about some offputting aspects of this interest. Everyone experiences ABDL differently, so what you read online isn't always going to apply to your partner. Do you have something specific in mind that's a hard limit for you?
Talking directly with your partner about those specifics might help you figure out how you're involved with their ABDL interests. If you don't feel comfortable asking them, you could also ask questions here in this subreddit, and see how other ABDLs respond. We're friendly, and well aware that we're sometimes weird and freaky to other people - don't worry too much about offending! :)
I've also heard good things about the Dream A Little podcast. Episodes #40 and #42 discuss ABDLs introducing their partners to diapers, so they might answer some of your questions
I assume you're an adult - if you're not, you shouldn't be here - so even if you live at home, you should be able to set boundaries. "What's in that package?" "Something private, I don't want to talk about it."
If you think they're going to nose around in your room, then get one of these, and a padlock. You're allowed to have a private life.
I think you pretty much hit the nail on the head -- get a decent backpack. Here's one on Amazon as an example that looks like it would work well for an adult and also be a really stealthy diaper bag.
Let me Google that for you.
Will not make it within two days
I'd suggest this one and if you're feeling a bit adventurous or doing dares then this one.
Amazon is always the answer when in doubt.. just look for the one you're after with the best rating, easy.
Also, with the tip - apply lube to it before hand.
I got my second teddy bear off amazon. His name is Murphy, and he is super fluffy and cuddly. I spent a good amount of time searching for the perfect bear, and this one is a great pick. Just the right size to fit under my arm when I'm sleeping.
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00IUEMZGA/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o04_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1
I saw something on amazon I think it hair removal system but I heard its works wont come back till 6 - 10 months https://www.amazon.com/Remington-iLIGHT-Hair-Removal-System/dp/B005CHHO46/ref=sr_1_5_a_it?ie=UTF8&qid=1517186651&sr=8-5&keywords=hair+lazer+remover
Rearz - Latex Pants fit great, work better than any other plastic pants I have tried, and are comfortable while being worn. They are a bit annoying to put on and to a lesser extent take off compared to other types of plastic pants. You're supposed to use some talc/baby powder on the inside and on your thighs to put them on so they slide on easier and avoid catching your leg hairs. Once you get them on they work great, but they do take a minute or two to put on rather than the 10 seconds or so of the more common plastic pants. They don't have any seams, so there are no pressure points or ridges that catch things and they are entirely latex so no part will wick moisture into your bed or other furniture. I know they come in at least yellow or pink, but I don't know of any in this style with designs if that is important to you. They are entirely latex (or maybe artificial latex), so they should fit well with whatever body shape you are. I've had them for a few months and they haven't leaked yet and they have often caught liquid that came out of my diapers. You can find them elsewhere, but I got mine from amazon. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07F5ZBVSM/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o09_s00?ie=UTF8&th=1
I've mentioned in another post, but bedpads are a great thing if you want to avoid laundry. It helps too making sure any other bed companions are cool with them. They legitimately helped me build more confidence with nighttime wetting
Going through some MASSIVE stress right now caused by anxiety and I've been doing the following to manage it.
Breathing exercises
Listen to music, or change the type of music I'm listening to. Sometimes Peaceful music is what I need, sometimes I need grindcore.
Anxiety app on my phone to help my brain process the anxiety or thing I'm stuck on. Takes about 10 minutes to do a session.
Eat properly and at reasonable intervals to keep my body happy. Unhappy body == more anxiety.
Hangout with friends after work and do fun things.
Exercise, just basic cardio can help ease anxiety.
Video games that aren't stressful for me.
Watching re-runs of TV shows or re-watching movies. I can't find the source right now but something you've seen is more calming than a new TV show since you're brain doesn't have to think about it as much and there won't be any surprises to put you on edge.
ABDL Stuff -- wear a diaper to bed, use a pacifier, hug a plushie, play with toys, etc.
Play my bass, guitar, or drums. Sometimes write some weird music.
Talk to your GP (doctor) about the stress, they may recommend a therapist/counselor.
Meds -- Depends on the source, don't self medicate, see a doctor
A big one for me was finding people in my social circles that were toxic and limiting exposure as much as possible.
Stay off social media as much as possible.
There are more things but those were what came to mind and it is already a sizable list.
I understand that you can't hate the people you socialize with for being the way they are. That would make you very lonely. I can imagine they too pretend to hold views socially that they don't hold privately. That's herd mentality at work :) No offense taken here.
It sounds like you don't want to look for a partner with similar professional and kinky interests because you are afraid of failing?
I think you are underestimating your ability to find someone compatible if you try. It looks like there is up to a couple hundred clusters of closely related fetishes. (source: https://www.theguardian.com/science/the-lay-scientist/2015/apr/30/porn-data-visualising-fetish-space).
According to the Guardian article's data, humiliation and bdsm are among the top-40 most popular. I'd argue that a spouse who is open to either of those would be more open to you being a DL. You don't need a 100% kink match to be happy.
Anecdotal counterpoint time:
While I don't work on Wall Street and don't have the immense social pressure that you feel, I successfully found a type-A partner in my industry who is also a DL. We met at a kink party less than a year after I started participating in my local ABDL community. Fast-forward to many years later, we get to socialize frequently with other ABDLs in our industry and have an informal diaper cabal of sorts within our industry. I can't imagine there NOT being a secret Wall Street diaper cabal wielding influence behind the scenes. You need to find them!
In the local ABDL community, I met people who wouldn't give their real names. It wasn't a big deal. So I'd suggest you go meet your local ABDLs with no expectation of finding a partner. Just get to know some people and add them to your rolodex for no other reason than to widen your social circles. It'll give you a new perspective if nothing else.
I wear diapers 24/7 and cloth/disposables 60/40%.
I don't know any of the absorbency ratings of the diapers you're looking at but it sounds like you have a good starting point. You can always add cut-up and folded hand towels to your cloth diapers to add more absorbency.
I used to wear disposable underwear as liners in my cloth diapers to make clean-up after getting stinky easy. They worked well to let the liquids pass and catch the solids.
Over time I realized I prefer the feel of the cloth directly on the skin, especially when I get stinky. I stopped using the underwear and started using an enema attachment in my shower to clean off my diapers after I got stinky.
Like a garden hose, I can place a finger over the opening of the enema attachment and create a high pressure stream that can pressure wash the mess right off the cloth diaper. It works super quick and is oddly satisfying at how clean it gets the diaper. It's like it never happened.
TEN@NIGHT Adult Baby Brief Diapers ABDL One time Incontinence Diaper 7 Pieces (Purple) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B084YW2L9C/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_QWX6FYH633X2F3GB9SX7?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
Hope this helps.
Have you considered internal deodorizer, I've used these before and they mostly work, might knock it down to a point you can tolerate it. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0057JD2HC/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_glt_fabc_J1WT4P4JAW36NDKS9RQX
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0769KN3WV/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_fabc_io3bGbEFEXQC9
This comes with a skirt, but I'm reasonably sure it's not actually attached to the onesie. The nice bit about that is that, if your waist size is at all similar to your kiddo's, you get a skirt for you and a sailor onesie for him.
I remember in my now deceased grandparents house I found tons of packs under the guest bathroom sink, I think I wore 7-10 at once. I've always been after that bulk between your legs I'm excited to buy this with some Christmas money :)
It's not exactly what you're asking for but I use this app for tracking my accidents, it's not as babyish as I'd want but it's definitely a step up from excel!
This is the one I use, and I like it.
I also have a pink one, but it nice to see my cock squeezed into this one.
I got it from Amazon but I'm wearing a really soaked Abena M4 underneath it. lol
I found a onesie on amazon the other week and it might be what you are looking for. https://www.amazon.com/Littleforbig-Onesie-Diaper-Crotch-Pajamas/dp/B071ZVT7TV/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1500959227&sr=8-2&keywords=littleforbig%2Bonesie&th=1
Amazon. They’re essentially the pull up version of the M3 or L4 (but obviously, being a pull up, they can’t hold as much as a regular diaper).
Super discreet, but can hold a TON as compared to other pull ups (their website says 2200 mL). Yesterday I used wet all day with 0 issues, and still had room to spare in the evening. It’s pretty much like having a slightly below premium diaper on all day, in the amount it can hold. It did swell up quite a bit towards the end of the day and there was a slight bulge, but nothing crazy. They’re amazing.
https://www.amazon.com/Abena-Abri-Flex-Premium-Protective-Underwear/dp/B001NZF9MK
I've used pull ups on and off through the past six years, I may be able to help. As far as designs go, I haven't been able to find any, granted I also have for a good portion of time used ones I could get on the store.
I highly recommend "tena incontinent underwear for woman", and they are on amazon! ( https://www.amazon.com/TENA-Incontinence-Underwear-Protective-Medium/dp/B003TLY3CI/ref=sr_1_1_sspa?s=hpc&ie=UTF8&qid=1523479712&sr=1-1-spons&keywords=tena+womens+pull+ups&psc=1) Plus their prime. They're just plain white, but they work really well. (So well in fact, that as someone with legit bladdar issues/issues wetting even if I'm not being little, I wear these on days I absolutely cannot wet myself/leak). Plus, if you want them to be prettier, you could design them yourself (My daddy and I have found having me decorate them with markers is a fun little activity- just make sure they're dry before you put them on or else they'll smudge.
I've been using walgreens brand (of the adjustable pull ups) and personally, I find they leak pretty often. Always tends to leak with me, depending on how I'm sitting/positioned, and the drugstore brand of just pull ups are generally meant for small wettings. So yea... highly recommend tena, they hold a lot and you don't notice them under clothes. If i remember correctly, they also have a good leak guard which personally makes me feel younger.
Anyway, sorry I went off on some tangents... I just want to help where I can. Hope you can find something that works well for you and that you and your daddy have a great time! (edited to fix the text wall I unintentionally made)
They're all pretty good. "Best" is subjective, so I doubt you going to get a satisfying answer.
From the hard-to-get side, consider Little Rascals and/or Playdayz. As far as I know, there isn't a site to get these domestically here in the US. Rearz and Daynite Care have them, but they are Canadian sites -- shipping and postage add a good bit to their price. However, on Amazon the price includes shipping and postage, whether you are a Prime member or not. I've tried the Little Rascals, and they are similar to Safaris.
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Yeah! a fold up memory pad from amazon!
edit: looked up more options! "Cot pad" "sleeping pad"
And THIS looks perfect!!!
I'm with this guy, just get a basic saline enema from any drug or grocery store.
If you're shy about buying in person order one on amazon, It's $1.89.
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0014CXESI/ref=twister_B07DFVR1QN?th=1
Edit: After realizing a size full XL mattress is probably a better choice, I’m rewriting the rest to simplify things:
I’d prefer a size full XL mattress sized crib that looks like this one: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07Y41K48D
It’s important for me to be able to take off the rails from at least two sides, preferably all four ends, to convert it to a regular adult bed fairly easily.
Try amazon smile to donate to a charity of your choice automatically at no cost to you!
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Huh, that's weird. They do on their website, but they do seem to carry a lot of weird shit on their website that clearly never goes to the brick and mortar stores.
Hi there seems to be a lot of intertwined issues that you mentioned.
I think for the ABDLpart, there is a good book I personally like that talks about acceptance, to be more accepting of our ABDL part. It's called You're Not Broken: Dr. Rhoda's Guide to Strong Self Worth for AB/DLs, https://www.amazon.com/Youre-Not-Broken-Rhodas-Strong-ebook/dp/B09KMD8RDM.
There is nothing wrong with ABDL as a kink.
This is the thing, I never understood if they truly were tied with the creeps at Star diapers or not. I looked into manufacturing abdl diapers, and the print they use is available in several different places.
I've not had an issue with them the last time I ordered, HOWEVER with the recent issues I will not be ordering from them again until I start hearing some positive contact. I tend to buy large orders and have no interest in rolling the dice as an international purchaser.
When I first read the title, I thought it meant that Carousels were being sold on Amazon Prime Now! That's a niche market waiting to happen: ABDL diapers to your door in two hours!
I use an prepaid digital Credit card. The only downside is deposited fee.
I use Skrill
Regarding ODU, they had a lot of problems with shipping from Australia and thus moved to a US shipping company. So maybe(don't know) PayPal was making the transaction harder to process and skip it.
I recommend this podcast episode interviewing Rhoda Lipscomb, a sex therapist who's had a number of ABDL clients and wrote her dissertation on infantilism. Because the show itself isn't about age play, she's explaining the topics to people lacking familiarity with them, and the fact that she's not an ABDL herself may lend the objectivity you seek.
https://player.fm/series/family-affairs/004-adult-baby-diaper-lovers-abdl
I wouldn't be too concerned about any kind of marketing spam. I have never any from an Amazon seller , however if you wish to be a little more anonymous https://privacy.com/ will allow you to create single use cards and use any billing address.
I would definitely go with the Rearz Alpaca. When I put one on I could barely close my legs (which is surprising because at first glance they don’t appear thick, but they genuinely surprise you and give you a real bubble-butt.) You will waddle. (Plus as a little bonus the thickness also makes them super absorbent. I’m talking 12+ hrs.) The Rearz Elite Hybrid is also very thick if you want a plain white alternative.
If you like rearz, may I suggest trying their other sample pack on amazon. It gives you 6 diapers and 2 stuffers. For about $32.99 (Which since that’s about $4/diaper it’s about the same price as wearingclouds.com.) Plus since it’s amazon you know the shipping is just the plain cardboard box. Also, you might wanna check out the site myinnerbaby. They are a tad bit more expensive, but their variety is unparalleled. (Better than wearingclouds.) And shipping is discrete.
Try Amazon, also, these refills for Dekor diaper pails also work, I recently ran out for my Akord pail and had them laying around.
https://www.amazon.ca/Munchkin-Miracle-Parent-Tritan-Bottles/dp/B07FVHXV47 it's in the US amazon as well im sure for .co.uk to Munchkin Miracle 360 Cup Parent Pack, 24 Ounce Tritan Spill Proof Water Bottle
Go for krinkles specifically the ones sold by North shore they send you a little sample pack and mine always arrive within 2 dayshttps://www.amazon.com/dp/B07M5H5VXP/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_glt_fabc_D0CBHEBAKF3MZR11G5TE?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
I use Member's Mark Adult Washcloths. They are the size of northshore xl wipes but at a fraction of the cost and they smell better.
My best bet has been Amazon and it just takes a lot of digging. This for example goes to size 16 which would be a woman's small. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08Z8GFH7D/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_awdb_imm_CBVZ76XN6E0W2FQAY6MK?psc=1
But the best place is Aliexpress! I've ordered so much from there and all very inexpensive. The catch is you got to spend the time to make sure you are not getting low quality AND anything you buy takes like 2 months to arrive but it does get there eventually
The pink are the best imo, it's kinda a shame it's hard to find good pink abdl diapers... These definitely satisfy that though. You'd probably like the plastic pants i found too here
This is my diaper pail, love it, I have two one for the nursery and one downstairs in the living room. Dekor Plus Hands-Free Diaper Pail | Gray | Easiest to Use | Just Step – Drop – Done | Doesn’t Absorb Odors | 20 Second Bag Change | Most Economical Refill System |Great for Cloth Diapers https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00F55P1WW/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_4RF8YMAN2DE1G9KCFTK3
I got it from Amazon futurino Women's Sweet Cat Paw Embroidery Pleated Mini Skirt with 2 Suspender https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07X7WDR83/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_XJG7XRYGBXNZRAFQ4JZC?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
You’re getting an outpouring of support here so I’ll just echo that Abena, Tena, and Northshore are all top notch - if you can get them in Korea. If you’re okay with standard diapers, these are one of the most comfortable diapers I’ve ever worn. I’ve never had leaking issues, they can hold a pretty fair bit, but they’re also very soft and not too bulky, and I find them incredibly comfortable. If they have them available in Korea, I highly recommend them. They have a plastic variant too, though I personally prefer the cloth back texture. That’s kind of preference thing, so you might have to test and see what works best.
They make a pull-up variety too. They’re a little less protective, and might sag with too much, but if you need something more “convenient,” they’re pretty good too. Still comfortable and still hold a decent amount.
Good luck, truly. I cannot imagine what this must be like, and the strength you must have to be able to take care of him. May you bring light to his life, and find solace in yours.
I know a lot of people like the rearz ones, but honestly I don't really like them more than some of the nuk bottles. I find the nipple smaller in my mouth than the nuk (as far as I can tell, the nipple itself isn't really bigger than a baby one? Someone else may be able to confirm or deny that. I also prefer the shape of the nuk tho)
I really like these bottles https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00GVM3RGK/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_fabc_020cGbPAFG46C?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1 (you can get them other places, I've even gotten some at walmart before, but I recently ordered those ones and so the link was handy) with the largest/fastest nipple they have for them (https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07YMHYDG1/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_fabc_D50cGbDTFR3M9?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1 )
Warning if you (or anyone else) order the bottles through that link: no design is garunteed. People complained about getting hearts/elephants when they thought it was going to be the other. I didn't care and ordered anyway... And got dinosaurs lol. I don't care and like them all but if you care I would prob use a different link.
Also: I know that on ebay/etsy you can get adult sized nipples (and possibly bottles, but don't quote me on that). I got one but honestly don't prefer it because I had to do the hole myself, but I can't figure out how to make it vent like my other (nuk) bottles do.
I haven’t braved downstairs yet but I’m on my way.
This is what I have and it’s my favorite new toy:
Braun Epilator Silk-épil 9 9-880,... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07ZHZK8TP?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share
If anyone knows where to find something like this in xs let me: https://www.amazon.com/Romwe-Adjustable-Pleated-Overall-Pinafore/dp/B081XXGZTC/ref=mp_s_a_1_4?dchild=1&keywords=overall%2Bdress&qid=1608254159&sr=8-4&th=1&psc=1
Try out THIS SELLER on Amazon. Fast shipping and they have a whole wide selection of panties just like the one's you posted. Hope this helps!
You can make them into stickers yourself by buying a sheet of double tack at an art supply store. It's basically a giant piece of double stick tape--you peel off the front, stick post card to front, cut out stickers, and then peel off back and stick to whatever you like.
I've never seen it for more than 2-3 dollars for an 8.5 x 11 sheet, but here is a big sheet on amazon so you can get an idea of what it is like: https://www.amazon.com/Grafix-Double-Tack-Mounting-Sheet/dp/B0027A5HEU
Can confirm, these diapers are great! I actually just ordered a case from Amazon for myself lol
Amazon has a few: I have this one but the fur can get pretty matted after a while. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000EXRSI0
I actually got a ~5 foot tall teddy bear from kmart recently (not very expensive either! like $30) but I'm not sure if they're common for that store to stock.
I recently bought a Magic Wand (Model HV-260, formerly made by Hitachi, I forget the name of the company labeling them now. It's the exact same device, but Hitachi wanted to distance themselves from the association.) off Amazon, with a speed controller, for $60. Honestly, we don't use the speed controller. We (my gf and I) have been extremely happy with it.
You can get one w/o the speed controller for $45, and if you mark it as a gift purchase, it won't show up in your public amazon lists/history.
I always buy the lavender or aloe baby powders, I love the smell of them and have never been a fan of the 'classic' baby powder scent. Late one night I stumbled upon these baby powder air freshener things on amazon and didn't do nearly enough thinking before pressing the order button.
So I got them in the mail and opened them up and was immediately disappointed. It was the classic scent I've never liked. I just accepted my loss and chucked them in a drawer. About a week later my room was stinky cause two boys in a bed can stir up a smell. Anywho I was like fuck it and opened one halfway and stuck it in my vent. Waking up the next morning to that scent was heavenly!! I'm a convert and I now have one in my car, one in my backpack, one in my room, one in my storage container of clothes. They're all over.
I highly suggest them Wonder Wafers 25 CT Individually Wrapped Baby Powder Air Fresheners https://www.amazon.com/dp/B004VRLC8M/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_wnk6Bb3FBTKQ4
Her name is Dashie and she’s been with me for about 6 years now. But she has a lot of siblings happily romping about at the amazon warehouse. :) Wild Republic Jumbo Wolf Plush, Giant Stuffed Animal, Plush Toy, Gifts for Kids, 30 Inches https://www.amazon.com/dp/B000EXRSI0/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_f9ljCb2ECYZN5
Hey op, did you know there's an app out there called "AI dungeon" ? the app allows you to generate a completely AI generated version of (almost) anything you throw at it. You can write out the fantasy in a way like this: "you are a cat from Virginia who recently was fed tuna" (second person writing) although fair warning, you will have to make heavy use of the remember feature along that it may go off topic a lot. And typically... Pretty gruesome...
Hope this helps!
I really like big foam puzzles when I'm little. I'm so proud of myself when I finish them. :) Also I love coloring and putting stickers EVERYWHERE. I really like this sticker book. If it is nice outside during this time of year where you live, sidewalk chalk is always super fun. Oh, and bubbles!! Also, if you're feeling big enough to put this together, this might be my favorite toy for littlespace. And Lincoln Logs!!!
Small or larger, still comes out. Small ones go in like a glove but always end up falling out. Bigger ones will go in with a little help but still fall out. This. https://www.amazon.com/Trinity-Vibes-Fill-er-up-Piece-Purple/dp/B0084FXAQE
Doesn't need to be abdl. I use one that's marketed for kids. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07K71HTWN/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_cEVjFbE5HM14T
This one is 9 inches long. You'd have to clip it fairly close to your face, from your collar for example, but it'll do the job.
Buying cloth diapers are good most are pocket so they don't have to much bulk unless you want to add pads that won't get used. my 2 favs from amazon
https://www.amazon.com/s?k=Ecoable&ref=bl_dp_s_web_19831315011
The largest baby diaper you can get shipped to the US is the G.OON Super Big, from Japan. They occasionally pop up on Amazon. Although the only listing there is kinda pricey. They don’t have stretcy sides, so the fit is limited.
The largest baby diaper in the world, to my knowledge, is a Kuwait brand named ‘Darlings’. These show up on eBay on a rare occasion, but they’re usually really expensive.
Looks like a general exercise mat. Here's one on Amazon, and here's one from Dick's Sporting Goods.
Not that anything is wrong with it, but it appears they just took another stock item and called it a changing mat.
Ok, here's some examples so far.
Found a colour and shape game. Almost 4, maybe 5 stars, good to train that little mind about colours and shapes. https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.rvappstudios.shapes.colors.toddler
Found a mermaid dress up game, but girly. Dunno if it's your thing, fem or not. https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.gamesforgirlsfree.mermaiddressup
Hope these two are good, so far.
Relay for Reddit. It's an Android app.
I have no idea what a KBDL is. Just FYI. I'm glad you learned that lesson, but that post makes it sound like you still think that way. Especially given it's in response to someone suggesting that being gay is some moral perversion on par with pedophilia.
Browsing incognito doesn't mask your IP address. Use a reputable VPN, like Private Internet Access, or NordVPN and change your IP location to some random place before visiting sites like that.
Note as well that even if you use language involving diapers, especially certain brand names, in apps who share their data and metadata with third parties (Kik, Snapchat, Google Maps, Gmail, etc.) you may still receive targeted ads in unexpected places.
Amazon my friend.
While not specifically ABDL I think it beats the other in terms of aesthetics by miles.
Redditor for 8 months. You've been waiting to make a book related post with this username haven't you?
Well I'm a big reader. I'll read just about anything although most of the time I'm reading fiction, especially fantasy.
Right now I'm listening to the Witcher series on audible. I'm on the last one "The Lady of The Lake".
I'm also trying to read more nonfiction. Specifically stuff that I think might help me in real life. As such, I just finished reading "Think and Grow Rich" by Napoleon Hill and now I'm reading "Rich Dad, Poor Dad" by Robert Kiyosaki.
I found these Organic Farm Buddies you might like on Amazon https://tinyurl.com/s2lucg9 and https://tinyurl.com/txqbdng. One is a teething rattle and the other is a teething blanket. The ones shown are a fox but they have other animals available as well.
Good-quality adult diapers are still expensive - Abena M4s at their cheapest in-bulk are still at least $1.20/diaper - whereas you can get a 7-pack of mens' underwear from Walmart for $9 (also about $1.20/ea) - so replacing your underwear every day costs the same - so wearing new diapers every day doesn't save you any money over normal underwear, it seems.
checkout ali express, rather than spending tonnes on one from a top end retailer, they can be had for as little as £20 if youre willing to wait 15-20 days for it to arrive.....
Fetlife would be your "best" bet.
There are ABDL Specific sites but they don't have the numbers. If we bring up the numbers for /r/AskReddit We see their Uniques rang from 750k to over a Million a day. /r/abdl has 8357 subs (at time of writting) and reddit is ranked 7th on Alexia for the US (23rd Globally) so us here on reddit are a tiny population. So yeah going to fetlife would be your best bet.
BUT Fet is also full of lots of "Do ME!" and "fantasy talk". I've known domme's on there looking for live in maids, they got a ton of replies but none that followed up.
Now you should be easier to accommodate as your not looking for someone full time, but you will still get a lot of people who will talk the talk, but won't walk the walk. So just be careful and try make sure that you and your little are going to be a good fit first :-)
Also, saying where your from is a good start :-p For all I know you could live down the street and could have a little one on your door step in 10 mins (Actually i'm stuck waiting for a plumber) Or you would be the other side of the world which would make it a little more tricky to take you up on your baby sitting service :-p
Anyways. Good Luck; Have Fun, Be safe :-)
There was this awesome girl up in Canada went by the handle Bby Tanya but it appears her tumblr is no longer active :( I wonder what happened to her, I loved her Disney princess cosplay!! If anyone has any news about her, please please let me know ^__^
Minimum order quantity is key on alibaba most orders you have to buy so many it's not worth it. Alibaba is intended for businesses to sell to business. Its probably too much hassle for an individual to get them directly from a Chinese manufacturer through Alibaba since you also have to worry about quality.
Better to look on aliexpress. Its owned and operated by the same company but its intended to get businesses that do direct sale to customers that have no or low minimum orders. The prices are higher since you are not buying in massive bulk but still very reasonable ($0.5-$2each for 100+ pacifiers on alibaba vs $4-6 each on aliexpress vs $10-$30 each for 1 from US re-seller). Shipping is typically included but ships by boat so expect 1-3 week delivery time.
Hello diaper friends! Tomorrow night, I am going to have a livestream on YouNow to celebrate Valentine’s Day. I will invite some viewers as guests to talk about their origin stories, scariest diaper experiences, favorite/worst diapers, adorable plushies, and more.
I want to help shed light on the many stories that brought all of us to our love of diapers and the many reasons for us to stay together. It will be a night of new friends, old friends, surprises, and a possible giveaway.
https://www.younow.com/SeanPalladino/channel
I plan on starting around 8pm EST. I hope to see you all there! :-)