The shy ones are v skittish and will flee at the first sign of danger.
Good luck!
You dont get it do you?
They're real people and just like most of us men we wouldn't want to meet each other IRL what makes you think a femcel or any woman in general should go out of their way to meet with someone from reddit of all places and not to mention the dangers of meeting strangers from online into your real life
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Go to meetup.com or your local reddit meetups to meet people
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When I was a kid, I thought only babies take baths. Once I learned how to shower, I think I literally never took a bath again from the age of like 7-8 until adult.
That is until I got into a bad motorcycle accident. Now I love baths. Heat was a big part of my physical therapy and works great for soreness. If only it didn't feel so wasteful, I would take baths every day!
It's a great way to relax too (especially if hung over but I quit drinking). It's also the perfect time to listen to ebooks or chill and listen to some philosophy.
Baths are wonderful! You can even buy something like this to cover your overflow drain and make your bath even deeper! Add some essential oil, epsom salts, and candles, and you've got a special night!
Be careful not to let the tub overfill or splash out!
The better story is that there is a book called God Loves Sex. But this simply boils down to this: the level of intimacy must match the level of commitment. So I would never be comfortable with kissing on a first date, but I also wouldn't be comfortable with only kissing someone I've dated a year. There's ways to show your sexual feelings without penetrative sex.
Strong sexual attraction is part of my definition of soulmate. I see a soulmate as someone you could have a relationship with for 50-60 years, which is at least in the companionate zone during hard times and in the self-expressive zone when the going gets easier. It's possible to have a relationship like that without sexual attraction if both are asexual, but since most people aren't asexual, physical attraction is part of being soulmates (a lot of relationships fall apart because of sexual incompatibility). I don't see it as being about shared hobbies, that's kid shit. It's about being able to solve problems together, get on with each other and like each other at least most of the time, over the course of a lifetime. It's surprisingly hard to find a connection like that.
A couple years ago when I was really struggling, I used this website and chatted with someone from England who happened to be a fan of the same obscure artist I was really into at the time.
May have saved my life.
(it's free, but they are not particularly trained).
** Visiting the site again, I see they have a paid option to talk to licensed therapist as well.
I love how you still responded after so much time had passed :)
The River of Doubt is what it's called, an excellent book imho.
I was fortunate to have an opportunity to learn how to work on cars when I was younger. While I never had any desire to be a full time mechanic, I hate paying shops more. Newer cars while complex, they still can be done by the DIY mechanic. A good two way scanner will go a long ways. For $100, I recommend the blue driver as a good one way scanner. I use it with my ipad to do any kind of diagnosis on cars. I'm still shopping for a good two way scanner to do any kind of testing/diagnosis. Link: https://www.amazon.com/BlueDriver-Bluetooth-Professional-iPhone-Android/dp/B00652G4TS/ref=sr_1_3?ie=UTF8&qid=1542056166&sr=8-3&keywords=blue+driver
anything by terry pratchett is amazing!
if you're looking for something a bit more life / philosophy related, you have GOT to read man's search for meaning https://www.amazon.com/Mans-Search-Meaning-Viktor-Frankl-ebook/dp/B009U9S6FI it has a very good reason why it's a classic and a book everyone should read at least once.