Amazon. Super fast shipping and a great attachment. The vibration of the wand really comes through this attachment. https://www.amazon.com/Silicone-Wand-Attachment-Original-Rechargeable/dp/B0184E25LU
I've personally had great success with the Video DownloadHelper plugin for Firefox. I'm a chrome-person my self, but it's difficult to find good video download plugins for Chrome as any plugin that can grab from youtube gets banned from the official channels. I think you can download it from here: http://www.downloadhelper.net/install.php
Pipedream's King Cock strap-on harness (with the dildos offered in pair) is easily the best I have ever dealt with in terms of consumer quality strap-ons. Some custom places offer genuinely top-of-the-line quality products, but be prepared to cash out several hundred dollars for those.
This exact harness and size of dildo was the first I ever got and it's still the one I use now, 2 years later. It works great with many toys, even supporting 11" toys I have with no issues.
Sorry she bought the toy and I got it wrong! It’s 9 inches. Here’s the link for those interested. Sorry Wasn’t trying to be dishonest! lol
https://www.amazon.com/Realistic-Louviva-Lifelike-Silicone-Suction/dp/B06ZYJS8SX
*also it’s 9inches total and the harness probably hides another half an inch!
On Amazon! Aiden is 5'10'' 180lb and fit but fairly barrel chested and the mediums fit him perfectly.
https://www.amazon.com/Strict-Leather-Strap-Harness-Accents/dp/B00J3ZJBLW. We have this one, it works nicely. I had to get a bigger metal ring for it, i needed a 2.5 inch, but i found that on Amazon as well. Wife says its comfy.
Joque by Spare Parts, very good harness. Just ordered a different harness from Aslan, excited to test it out!! Get here already!
https://www.amazon.com/SpareParts-HardWear-Joque-Double-Harness/dp/B002DOJR1O
A good harness can make all the difference in the world so if she wants more control I would highly recommend getting something sturdier if she's not happy with the one she has. This is what we use 99% of the time: https://www.amazon.com/SpareParts-HardWear-Joque-Double-Harness/dp/B002DOJR1O
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So, my husband had to kind of make it. He loves his Njoy wand, and got this one because it seemed similar. It worked great with me holding it, so he bought another and a suction cup base. He drilled out the penis shaped end and epoxied in the suction cup base. His new favorite toy!
If anyone knows of a similarly shaped dildo, we’d love to know!
Try stimulating her clitoris, nipples, etcetera in close synchrony with her movements. The intention is that she identifies your stimulation with her movements, so as to give she the illusion that she is getting direct physical pleasure from penetrating you (as opposed to unrelated physical plain clitoris/nipple/etcetera stimulation which just happens to be simultaneous with the pegging).
There has been a case like this described in the scientific literature where a man with very severe erectile dysfunction (because of prostate cancer treatment) had sex like this with his wife. In this case, it was he who was wearing the strap-on dildo. Search for "Erectile dysfunction" in this Wikipedia article. The full text is available in researchgate.net.
that's only the 2nd part, do you have a link for the first one?
edit: found it
MissJessiCCa Dual Motors Wearable Strapless Strap On Harness A-dǔlt Toys Víbrátors Strapless Štráp-õn Ðịldo Double Head Ended Lesbian Double Penetration for Women Couple https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08PFG3PLT/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glc_fabc_yyPaGbF5THBKC
I love this and my fiancé does too. She picked it. Long battery life. Easy cleaning. Smooth. Adjustable.
Sorry for the lag in response! This is the harness: https://www.amazon.com/SpareParts-HardWear-Joque-Double-Harness/dp/B002DOJR1O#ace-9766277718
It's very similar to this one but from Feeldoe: https://www.amazon.com/Strap-Vibrating-Strapless-Silicone-Strap/dp/B01GIPO9B6/ref=pd_lpo_121_t_1/143-6998909-1728109?_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_i=B01GIPO9B6&pd_rd_r=8229425e-1f63-4bcf-b514-edd8f6e8154e&pd_rd_w=F8gr4&pd_rd_wg=QrubR&pf_rd_p=7b36d496-f366-4631-94d3-61b87b52511b&pf_rd_r=FQCE3ZXR4V50DYQ5N8CE&psc=1&refRID=FQCE3ZXR4V50DYQ5N8CE
You need to get a Lovers Cushion
Lovers Cushion - Pink Perfect Angle Prop Pillow - Better Sexual Life - Sex Pillow - Sex Wedge - Japanese Love Pillow - Best Sex Positions Made Easier With This Lover Cushion https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00ELZ4KO2/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glc_fabc_1fRZFb8FG9BDF?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
You tell me 😁
https://www.amazon.com/Doc-Johnson-Classic-Insertable-Ring/dp/B00347A4QG
But after you conquer it, it's addictive... First was a challenge, now is my warm up dildo 😅
No prob!
I got them both on amazon:
I do have to get a bigger ring for the strap on though because it was VERY difficult to get the dildo in there. It worked eventually but I can’t use the dildo without the strap on right now bc I don’t want to deal with the removal. The ring is interchangeable though so a bigger a ring will fix that right up!!!
the dildo is the rebellious ryan found on amazon here
So it seems like Pipedream has made some significant changes to their website and it's now prompting for a login to look at their products, not sure what that's all about. Here is an amazon link to the same shape but the one linked is not the same one, the one we have is their dual density/cyber skin material (I don't actually know what they call it) for the most part I prefer cyberskin, UR3, etc...
It is. There’s enough to mix roughly 20L from one bottle. Super easy to make, it’s sticky and slippery AF and it’s way cheaper than buying the same kind from sex shops. Here’s a link to amazon where I bought ours. https://www.amazon.com/X-Lube-10021-Powder-Lubricant/dp/B00LSUP1I2
She bought the toy and I misremembered when typing the title! Amazon says 9 inches but we haven’t measured it in the harness
https://www.amazon.com/Realistic-Louviva-Lifelike-Silicone-Suction/dp/B06ZYJS8SX
amazon I get off on a woman getting off, seeing her face all scrunched up when she cums, her hands hard on your hips pulling herself balls deep as she has her orgasm. Guys love that almost as much as
No worries at all, we're happy to answer questions about this stuff! That hardness can hold a wide range of different sized dildos. We ordered ours off of Amazon but sometimes it's hard to search for it there since it's "adult content" so here's the link: https://www.amazon.com/SpareParts-HardWear-Joque-Double-Harness/dp/B002DOJR1O
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As far as specifics about it goes, if you want it to last as long as possible I would suggest hang drying it. The first one we bought ended up lasting about six years and that was with occasional machine drying. The one in this shot we picked up about a month ago and we're going to only hang dry it and see how long it lasts.
Also, I wear mine differently than it's intended to be worn, which you can try for yourself to see if you have a preference. Even though this harness is technically a jockstrap style, I pull the bottom straps up in between my cheeks basically giving myself a wedgie lol. I've found that it makes for an even snugger fit and it helps secure the WeVibe Sync vibrator that I use when I'm pegging.
That all makes sense, with the mental side of things. She seemed more comfortable with this black silicone one I had using it with her hand, but it was too rigid, smooth and not enough girth. Didn’t feel that great. Honestly size is one of the biggest things I’m into. Not so much length but girth. Ultra realistic material trends to be my favorite material. Just seems like it slides the best and feels good. Dual density is nice, but they aren’t really made for anal use... the one that got me into it was one like this one: strap on Really liked this one and I think it might work better for my wife but it got kinda small and the bulges are not that big...
She also doesn’t like the idea of strapping something to herself. I’ve suggested maybe trying like a RodeoH panty harness, but there wasn’t really any thoughts or discussion around the suggestion.
Maybe start suggesting sone new toys that are less real dick like and see if she may help with the selection process
We have the Share but are going to be upgrading to the share xl soon.
While it's not a double dildo, if you want really big, check out the ultimate fantasy by bad dragon. We just got ours and it is definitely big. We're looking forward to breaking it in very soon
Sounds like you need an even smaller o-ring. Here's a set of various sizes, one of these should work
We have used many lubes over the years and finally found this one months ago. We were looking for something that wasn't irritating since I have an issue with a lot of lubes. Hubby loves it as well for anal. No strong smell and it doesn't taste bad if you get it in your mouth. Glycerin and paraban free. https://www.amazon.com/Pleasure-Products-Natural-Intimate-Lubricant/dp/B01AKUHDNQ/ref=zg_bs_10786421_3
I have a Tantus Liesure that is a nice warm up toy. https://www.tantusinc.com/products/leisure
I also use a lube shooter get some lube in me. One of these about half full seems to be just about right https://www.amazon.com/Kinklab-lube-shooter-blue-Pack/dp/B00IF2K16S/ref=sr_1_12_s_it?s=hpc&ie=UTF8&qid=1465996903&sr=1-12&keywords=lube+shooter
Second this recommendation. The Tantus Silk dildos are really nice.
They also make a Bend Over Intermediate kit, which is the same thing except it comes with the medium and large dildos. IMO the small one is too short / thin to use effectively. http://www.amazon.com/Tantus-Bend-Over-Intermediate-Purple/dp/B0037F3GEM
It's not always about the length, but the girth. Start small, then work up as you like.
Water-based for silicone toys. Always.
Oh, yes.
My SO hasn't. In fact, quite the opposite. My problem is she likes to dry hump me whenever she sees an opportunity, which I find really funny.
As a side note, always do foreplay to be ready for actually getting fucked. We have the Colt Anal Trainer Kit and use it work up to the dildo.
Also, use lots of lube. My rule is if she asks if I need more lube, the answer is always yes.
We, well the biggest I've taken is either the Dick Rambone (with condom and not the full length) of the 11" King Cock dildo from Pipedream. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00VIKIPS0
The King Cock is my upper limit. It usually ends the night really well for me. Amazing.
Been pegging for 6-7 years. It keeps getting bigger. ¯_(ツ)_/¯
My gf and I use the Happy Valley Tango as well. Probably the best experience I've had thus far.
However, most extreme we've used more than once? This guy It's a real pain (literally) to get going. Once it's in it is unreal though.
Here it is: http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00AN8JNM0?psc=1&redirect=true&ref_=oh_aui_detailpage_o00_s00
The size is 6x8x2 and the ribs protrude a lot. That being said, it's still really fun :)
I eat terribly, awful fiber intake, lots of protein and fat - pretty much a recipe for disaster.
I use one of these.
Fill it up with warm water, and squirt a little bit in, and then push it out into the toilet. I do it about 4 or 5 times. Just enough water for the rectal canal, you don't want to actually give yourself a complete enema. The water will be clear when you're clean.
Do this a couple hours before you peg, and don't start pegging right after eating a meal. You'll be fine.
My girlfriend has remarked that even after pegging for a long time, not even the dildo smells like ass, it's really clean.
It actually feels kind of refreshing anyway.
Non-mobile: http://www.amazon.com/dp/B0037F3GEM
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Doc Johnson Vac-u-lock Platinum - Supreme Harness, Black $26.67 & FREE SHIPPING Doc Johnson Vac-u-lock Thin Natural 7-Inch Dong $9.99 Order subtotal: $36.66 i found those deals in like two mins of searching. I will try to find more for you also LMK if it works out for you :-)
My gf is bigger and we got a "corset" harness from Sportsheets that works pretty well. It's set up to just use a wide based dildo but you can remove the triangle backing piece so it can be used with our feeldoe. It's pretty cheap but the build quality is good. The adjustable straps are about 3ft' so they can be adjusted to about any size.
http://www.amazon.com/Sportsheets-Ss69103-Lace-Corsete-Strap/dp/B003MKKWVW
Actually I meant the bulb syringe like this: http://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Rectal_bulb_syringe.jpg
And not the fleet ones - which are filled with a liquid you don't want inside you because it is a laxative and can cause intestinal cramping.
But you raise a very good point about sterilizing - so I took a look around and found this: http://www.amazon.com/Cleanstream-Thin-Silicone-Enema-Bulb/dp/B00IFHMULM/ref=pd_sim_sbs_hpc_2?ie=UTF8&refRID=0NDGE909QX4C5381776T
Silicone and hard plastic! Quite sterilizable...
It's a cage to lock your dick in. She gets to hold the key and says when you're allowed out for sex, boners, or orgasms.
Cheap to get into and try. Less than $30
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00RL9CI12/
Bonus if she learns to make you cum from pegging while still locked up.