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I do think it's wrong for you to not stop. I don't think it's wrong for you to NOT want to stop. You made the commitment to marriage and that comes first. I was married in a poly/open/sharing relationship for 16 years and the only way it works is if you put the primary partner first.

Now if you have grown and change and now want to be/stay poly, you need to talk about it. But before you go into the conversation flip it 100%. He's met an awesome attractive younger girl, built like she walked out of dreams and he's loving every minute he's spending with her to the point of making excuses so he can.

How would you feel? more so, if he continued behind your back how would you feel? Using "You wanted this now I like it" is a bit of a cop out excuse. Don't throw the fact that he shared and encouraged a fantasy with you to shame him. You will start to build up the walls of communication between you if you do as well as resentment. This will turn into a quid pro quo situation of "well I let you do X so you HAVE to let me do Y " that is not healthy.

Empathy and understanding are really critical in this kinda relationship.

I would recommend reading The Ethical Slut ( https://smile.amazon.com/Ethical-Slut-Practical-Relationships-Adventures/dp/1587613379 )

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Some people at r/SluttyConfessions have found that certain elements in stories tend to send the karma that they receive for a post soaring; thus they try to find ways to insert those particular elements into their tales. This is particularly obvious with 'fake' stories: lies posted here just to accumulate a lot of karma quickly; that's what I mean by 'exaggerated for karma-gaining effect'.

Nothing outlandish here but this is a great option to consider. The size is large and filling without getting overwhelming. The soft exterior and firmer core make for a pretty realistic experience and they allow the thing to work well when suctioned to a horizontal or vertical surface. Would love to hear if it's enjoyed beyond our household.

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Then get a mouth open gag. He can then put whatever he wants in there and it’s difficult for you to talk. If you’ve seen that new game where they have the mouth wide open gag they have to wear you’ll know what I’m talking about. You can buy a good one from a shop or the cheap plastic ones and make your own. Warning! If you tend to clamp down your jaw or grit your teeth during orgasm or other time DO NOT use the cheap plastic ones as they will break and you will get injured in your mouth. Quick search returned this one on amazon. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00IF48Q6I/ref=sspa_mw_detail_2?psc=1 Many other types available Play safe

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Here is something good, all so covered and yet revealing all at the same time. https://www.amazon.com/Harness-Lingerie-Elasticity-Bralette-Halloween/dp/B07R4GZ6VJ/ref=sr_1_4?crid=27GD73JV5PBOQ&dchild=1&keywords=strappy%2Blingerie%2Bfor%2Bwomen&qid=1597792167&sprefix=strappy%2B%2Caps%2C191&sr=8-4&th=1

It's the Satisfyer Curvy 1+

I bought it off Adam&Eve but it looks like it's not listed there anymore. But it is on Amazon (sold through the store) and on the actual Satisyer website.

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That’s one of the first ones I got it’s soft and pretty average in thickness and nice in length. I’d recommend it for your first

I was asked this in another comment, here was my response: I don't have any specific recommendations. While I'm advocating the use of a VPN, I don't personally use one. There are a number of tech sites that review various services though and it looks like most of them agree on the top three being ExpressVPN, NordVPN, and Surfshark.

I don't have any specific recommendations. While I'm advocating the use of a VPN, I don't personally use one. There are a number of tech sites that review various services though and it looks like most of them agree on the top three being ExpressVPN, NordVPN, and Surfshark.

My wife and I would strongly recommend one of these to consider for your next purchase. She’s never had a better orgasm by herself until we got our first one. We have 2 now. One for when we travel that has a remote and her original. Sometimes amazon will offer discounts on these toys as well.

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Sorry for the German Amazon link, but I’m sure you’ll find something like on your local Amazon site

https://www.amazon.de/Realistischer-Squirting-Wasserspr%C3%BCh-funktion-Sexspielzeug/dp/B08GKQ3ZBM/

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What about one of these?

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I have a couple brand new videos - this thing is amazing! Works better than any sex toy I've ever had.

Write what you know Is usually a good advice.

High School stories with the senior students. Parties. Something simple to begin with.

Bottom line, you got to get those fantasies and experiences out of your system BEFORE you get into a committed relationship with most men.

I wont lie, Id love to be in a threesome too, and check that off my bucket list before I get married again. But I dont want it to be with my eventual second wife involved. Theres just a line there I dont want to cross. What happens before a relationship is what it is, and if you know what they did before you, you have to decide how much youre ok with based on what you wished you could have done as well. Im no saint though. I just got reprimanded from Match.com because the proclaimed church girl who had way too many pictures of her twin in her profile got offended because I messaged her asking if a threesome with her and her twin sister was an option. Kill two bucket list items with one fun shag. LOL Sorry if youre taking my advice to heart too much. Im just looking out for my fellow man (who doesnt share), and Id want a random internet guy to talk my girlfriend off the ledge, rather than tempt her to push harder for it and kill the relationship with something it sounds like he'll never be comfortable with.

Depending on local forecast, for emergency cover I'd recommend a pea coat. Looks sleek and warm. Or if your looking to go cheap and light. Emergency Heating blanket. S.O.L. Survive Outdoors Longer 90 Percent Heat Reflective Emergency Blanket https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00266H5VI/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_glt_fabc_S0C93AQA8V2ZN489KXPS

Have fun!

Okay good to know. The base was pretty harder to grab onto and while I wasn’t afraid I’d lose it, it was kinda hard to penetrate with much consistency

Here’s how it looks for context: https://www.amazon.com/Sanford-Corporation-Sharpie-Marker-Chisel/dp/B004E3NTO8/ref=sr_1_1_sspa?crid=2YRIYDOYC2HK8&dchild=1&keywords=thick+sharpie&qid=1631370812&sprefix=Thick+shar%2Caps%2C210&sr=8-1-spons&psc=1&smid=ASE...

I was going to write out a pretty lengthy reply to this but younbeat me to it. Brilliantly said. And OP Come As You Are is an invaluable book on what u/EasilyTempted has been describing.

Ironically, too much of a focus on wanting to orgasm (combined with an anxiety at not being able to) is the perfect recipe for not reaching orgasm.

Less is often more 😉

>took a lot of practice! I have to force myse

Waterproof Sheets?

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Oh, sweet, that's lucky. I thought it may have been a specific package or something.

I use an Njoy Pure Plug for public adventures, it's comfy and never scares me that it's going to slip out unexpectedly. The TPE plugs I have are definitely NOT safe to walk around with, unless you get a thrill from one randomly popping out of you (hey, no judgement, lol). I hear good things about the metal bejeweled plugs, I know they're super popular now. And pretty!

Girl, get a personal massager. The hitachi is the most famous one, but it's actually a pretty common tool for backaches. Some have a different shape so they don't look so suspicious, like this one here.

My favorite: https://www.amazon.com/Pipedream-King-Strap-Harness-Flesh/dp/B015KG0QIY

They’re just absolutely amazing!! I love the material and the quality is reeeealy good + they have multiple sizes of dildos that you can insert 🤗 oh and also this specific one ties right over the clit of the person who’s straping so orgasms for both parties involved 😉

I really really think that you would enjoy it considering what you wrote in your original post, 150% recommend to buy one. At least give it a try, this way you’ll at least know if you like it or not.

Why haven’t either of you gone to visit the other?!? That or have a kinky conversation about group sex, and maybe try to open your relationship?

As an older married adult I can tell you that while it might not be easy at first, it’s totally possible to happily have multiple partners without it being hurtful to anyone. It’s not the norm, because of our Judeo Christian programming, but outside of that construct humans had completely normalized all manner of sexual fun without sadness or jealousy.

Here’s a great and short read that I would recommend anyone read about human sexual history. It’s not spank material, but a mind-opening look at humanity:

https://www.amazon.com/Sex-Rules-Astonishing-Sexual-Practices/dp/1633535932

I was thinking a more rubberized one like this: https://www.amazon.com/Master-Stuffer-Fisting-Hand-Dildo/dp/B07M8NR5TH I understand it’s not the same but might be a nice warm up and with the fingers going to a point hopefully it’s easier to ease onto 🤷

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This sis a basic anal trainer set that my mother and law got for us, it has 3 sizes and is silicone. It works as a starter for most people once past the finger stages, just get a good water based lube and remember that the lube does absorb into the body and needs to be reapplied almost hourly.

Yes start slow and make sure ti use lube as well as to cleanse and for gods sake trim and file the nails. Just a suggestion if you wish to listen to someone with a ton more experience with anal.

You need a womanizer or something similar. Little lube, that toy on your clit and happy orgasms will probably follow.

Amazon listings for stuff like this come and go, but I had one that looked exactly like this that was pretty powerful: https://www.amazon.com/Pulsatile-Wireless-Rechargeable-Waterproof-Frequences/dp/B081Q4K2N9/ref=mp_s_a_1_25

There are cheaper ones, but you generally get what you pay for. The Lush 2 is really a pretty good deal. I imagine you could find someone to purchase it for you, pending negotiation.

I can't recommend this enough. Especially the party thing. Honestly, the difference between people who are slutty (boys too!) and those who aren't, is how social you are. Go to the maximum number of social events that you can manage. Ask people about their interests (what classes they're taking, what movies they like, what jobs they've done before and want to do... in fact, someone wrote a whole book on the subject), and flirt and be open to the advancements of others.

This absolutely worked wonders for me in the years I was practicing it the most.