If you are in the US and your wife is working with the disability services office faculty will only know what accommodations she qualifies for and not the actual diagnosis. Finding peer notetakers can be VERY challenging - especially if it is done on a volunteer basis and they are not paid (a very common situation). Students receiving notetaking as an accommodation can often talk with their faculty to obtain supports such as T.A. notes or power point slides ahead of class. Other alternatives include a program such as Glean, OneNote, or Otter.ai (as someone else mentioned) - or other apps/programs that will help with recording or transcription.
Many students (not just those that receive accommodations) struggle with notetaking and it can be helpful (especially if your wife is unable to connect with a class notetaker) to learn some strategies about how to take effective notes. There are many, many resources online and her school might have an advising center or other support center that can help with those skills.
I would buy one of those inflatable mattress toppers that helps stop bedsores and general soreness for those stuck in bed for a bit. This is a really decent price, too. Vaunn Medical Cloud Air Whisper Quiet Alternating Air Pressure Mattress Topper with Pump Twin Size 36" x 78" x 3" https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07W9HK237/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_M22Q76HMHHRZ5J7TADZT?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
Theres lots of apps out there for this sort of thing. The one I like to use is awesome because you can customize entire phrases or just single words.
If you're the creative type, try putting it into a work of art. Paint, sculpt, write...whatever works for you.
If you're able, volunteer. Volunteering has made me feel like I contribute more to society and am generally less useless (I think we all feel this way from time to time). Plus, I get to help homeless animals. I don't do much of the physical stuff but almost all nonprofits need help in their offices and they're grateful for the help so they let me help whenever my schedule allows.
Take a class. If you like to learn, sign up for a class online or at the local university. Something you were always interested in but never learned. History, sewing, graphic design...doesn't even have to be for credit. You can find TONS of free classes on websites like Edx and Coursera.
All I can think of not knowing your limitations but you're not alone in feeling like you do and there are definitely ways to let that inner energy out!
> she also pees only in one spot, right at the front of the box
Have you seen her doing this? Is she getting into the box to pee or just 'pitching it over the side'? If she doesn't get in the box, it could mean things like, box is too full, not enough litter, sides of the box are hard to get over, or even 'doesn't like the texture of the litter you picked.' Cats are little princesses about stuff like that... but it can be an easy fix if you figure out what it is.
What do you currently use to make it easier for yourself? You said you have trouble kneeling, I know they make a lot of devices to help with this for mobility-limited gardeners: https://www.amazon.com/Smartxchoices-Folding-Multi-use-Gardening-Kneeling/dp/B073GXMDC9 this one even folds up so it's out of the way when you don't need it. It can be a seat, or if you turn it over a padded riser to make it easier to kneel.
Things like litter genie or puppy pads work, but they're a money pit.
Just a few things (from experience):
wall-mount soap dispenser is very helpful (we got the SimpleHuman one, here's an Amazon link: https://www.amazon.com/simplehuman-Single-Shampoo-Dispenser-Stainless/dp/B002RBW7Y2/ref=sr_1_6?ie=UTF8&qid=1526353853&sr=8-6&keywords=simplehuman+soap+dispenser&dpID=31nhhjkWX5L&preST=_SY300_QL70_&dpSrc=srch)
watch out with floor covers, carpeting may be difficult to navigate with a wheelchair
Good luck to you!
If I'm not mistaken, you need to set it up via the app or directly on the internet as mentioned over here on Amazon. Perhaps it's only a one-time setup though. I'm going to check it out myself :)
This is the bar. It adds height to the handles, which I need. I bought a little hook that attaches to the bar and I hang things from either the hook or directly from the handle bars. I’ll look to see if I have pictures of the chair, it’s dismantled in my car right now.
At some point I realized that I had to cut my losses and move on from dwelling on the thing. The anger and disappointment have not disappeared completely, but it has become manageable. I've found things that I enjoy in life and I try to make the best of it. When I do the 'if only' thing I know that am fighting against reality and it's a waste of energy. I have found taoist literature like the Tao te Ching and the basic writings of Zhuangzi helpful, as well as 'Man's Search for Meaning' by Viktor Frankl.
Seconded. Check out The Disability Studies Reader (i think it is in the 5th edition now).
Also: Deaf Gain by Bauman and Murray. Here's a review: https://www.academia.edu/15773665/Deaf_Ecologies_A_Review_of_Deaf_Gain_by_Bauman_and_Murray_2014_
This is the one I used - http://www.thingiverse.com/thing:526926/#files
Download the .stl and then upload to shapeways. I scaled mine down 50% before printing mine at home. Don't know if they let you do that or not.
I saw these online and thought they were cool. They have a much bigger base for added stability. They come in several different sizes and they're less than 100 bucks.
Dynamo Sport Swings Lightweight Crutches Are The Best For Recovery. Big Shock-Resistant Grippy Feet Give You Confidence & Comfort. Anti-slip Back Strap Reduces Slip-outs/Falling (4'6"-5'2") https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07P1D2K88/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_glt_fabc_FJ3XEDHC09WD3AXA0658?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
These are the hooks I attach to the bar. I don’t hve pics of the actual chair with the bar, hook and bag on my phone that doesn’t have my sister in them, so I won’t post them. The bar also works great for a person who needs a mobility aid (I need a cane, but use the wheelchair instead).
The reusable bags I use are just reusable shopping/grocery bags I just where ever I see cute ones. My favorites are from Vera Bradley. They’re exactly the right size, the handles are the right length. Their durability makes them worth the price. But most stores have some version of them.
There are bags designed specifically for chairs, but they don’t fit all chairs, and can be expensive.
Our extension grabber has been a life saver for reaching without bending. Ours is strong enough to lift our robovac (his name is Vlad the Inhaler) so that we can empty him. As long as we keep cords and stuff off the floor, he cleans no problem. I just tell our Google home device to "start the vlad," but it can be done with an app too.
We also use something like this to clean the shower and windows.
It’s can be expensive if you don’t have the funds but here’s a self cleaning litter box
Of if he hands you a water bottle, open it and hand it back to him. I just wish water bottles had big caps.
A friend of my Dad's had a board with a hacksaw blade built into it. Didn't have a clue what it was, but mounted under a kitchen cabinet. I was looking for a simple nut cracker (couldn't find it) to open bottled water. Gave up on the bottle. Suddenly remembered that odd contraption, need to build one for myself.
Nut crack (not the Christmas one) Amazon example
Here's an example of a mount on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/ALZO-Digital-Wheelchair-Camera-Mount/dp/B00R8LS7KY
This particular one is on the expensive side, but maybe it'll give you some inspiration.
Dry shampoo is not a replacement for regular shampoo. It is essentially baby powder in an aerosol can, which causes buildup and dandruff. I learned that the hard way so you don’t have to lol I suggest you purchase no rinse shampoo, either in the shower cap form as mentioned by another user, or in bottles like these. If you can’t wait for amazon delivery, I believe they’re sold at Walgreens and some Walmart’s.
If you will be using a walker long term I highly recommend you get one with forearm support. They run about 230$ on Amazon. If this is causing serious wrist issues insurance may cover it. If you are looking for more short term solutions and using a regular walker without wheels, add tennis balls. The rubber grips can cause lateral stress on the wrist. You can also get gel grips to add some cushion.
I use medisafe https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.medisafe.android.client
Has all the features you mentioned. I mostly use it for pill reminders though. It also has a feature where you could email a weekly report to your doctor. I don't use it, but it exists.
Tens 7000 ($30) is the most popular on Amazon has worked flawlessly for 6 years for me, my physical therapist also uses them like a lending library. It has 2 channels and is easy to adjust settings.
I totally understand having a resistant older parent, it's hard. You're a good kid (in the adult sense) for stepping up and taking on the role.
This is not my brand (it's long since discontinued) or any recommendation of a seller, just an example.
https://www.amazon.com/Drive-Medical-Transfer-Adjustable-Backrest/dp/B002VWK0T6
It's your basic 4-legged (two in, one out) transfer bench with a back and a bar on the inside. No sliding or otherwise moving parts.
If you face the seat so the user is facing towards the drain be advised you might want to set the front legs taller than the rear as the drain end of the tub is usually deeper. This will actually level the seat. It took me a while to figure this out as to why I always felt pitched forward, turns out I was and I don't have the right muscle control and balance to deal with that. Whatever you do make sure it's stable and able to handle the weight of the user. Right now I have a shower seat in my shower stall that supports 400 lbs. Do I weight 400 lbs? No, but I like that the thing is ROCK SOLID.
Like the floor of a tub the bench needs to be cleaned regularly. Even with a factory non-slip surface or a mat it can get slippery. If left unchecked to get scummy.
What about a height adjustable aero ic stepper exercise box like this where you can add or take away height as required? https://www.amazon.co.uk/Sport24-Adjustable-Exercise-Platform-Equipment/dp/B08TBQ3R4M/ref=asc_df_B08TBQ3R4M/?tag=googshopuk-21&linkCode=df0&hvadid=482072841077&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=9413178441512598209&hvpone=&hvptwo=&...
Not sure this helps but I remember hearing the saying 'The good go up, and the bad go down' in relation to using your good leg going up first when going upstairs and your bad leg down first when going down
> ferrules
have you tried Slipnott Ferrules?
not only do they grip the floor at any angle but they last a lot longer as the stick pivots and not the rubber on the floor, you won't need a spare set for 10 times (or a lot more) the amount of times longer than the regular basic ferrules
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I have no idea what the VA will cover but yeah it's a thing!
Search hands free book stand, there are a lot of them!
Wow they've really come up with some new stuff. I can't stand, so I wouldn't know, but if I could, I go this loofah mat
It's arable, so it dries easy, and it's cheap enough you can replace it every 6 months to a year if it starts getting nasty.
I have this BeneCane and it's good bc it's adjustable and also foldable/collapsible. I'm getting stickers and stuff to personalize it and I got another strap too, so I can make it more girl-in-her-20s-with-balance-issues and less elderly-looking.
My experience in getting help is always hit or miss. I get deliveries during my flareups and some people are (over)eager to help, some just go “oh ok” and do it, and others get irritated or even irrationally angry at the mere prospect of providing assistance beyond pulling bags out of their vehicle.
I would invest in a little dolly with big wheels that can be manhandled up a few stairs. This is the one I have, and it works well for me in a pinch.
>If we had a shower stall, I'd probably be fine just buying a chair for him to sit on and a non slip mat for the floor.
I would never want to make an assumption in the case of safety like this that could cause a life altering accident.
If he's going to use the toilet rail getting in and out of the shower please make sure you get one that is bolted to the toilet. Something that stands alone is likely fine if using the toilet (because a person is putting their weight on the foot plate connecting the rails) but something like that if grabbed from a different angle could tip. The ones that bolt on are as easy to install as a toilet seat.
Your father in law is already weak from injury and older. A preventable fall from substandard safety systems would be tragic.
If you are going to remove your glass shower enclosure this is the kind bar I would put on the tub.
A transfer bench would likely be safest in this situation if FIL can sit well. He'd simply sit on the bench, and scootch across while putting his legs into the tub. No standing or balancing required. A bonus is that it is easily taken apart and stored. Depending on your glass shower situation you may even be able to leave it in place and just throw up a curtain iside if you use the transfer bench.
Being ambulatory as well, but using a Powerchair due to my shoulder, I understand the feeling. Ignoring others judgement is something that will take time but it is more important that you care for yourself than try to convince others. I don't know what your budget is but something like the smart drive might help you a bunch. Hope this helps.
I do have a more standard cane, but it's adjustable and I believe might fold too? (link)
I'm dazzling it up to look more, well, me lol. Pick a color, adjust for height, decorate and store
there's lots of stand to pee devices or female urine collectors on amazon, like this one (https://smile.amazon.com/gp/product/B0B9XQ2FNT/ref=ox_sc_act_title_1?smid=AD78RNJS9UPCS&psc=1)
That might be easier than a bedpan? I hated bedpans bc I had to arch my back to get it to slide under. I have csf issues too, solidarity friend
So, a super cheap option would be to build a frame, or look at Kayak covers or specialized umbrellas that could be mounted. Mind you the kayak cover would need a little modification.
Depending on the model of chair you have and if you are handy, you could construct a frame from PVC piping and sew up a cover, but they it'll end up costing more than the kayak shade or umbrella.
Check out some wool cloak-coats. It might help! Wool is pretty warm. https://www.amazon.com/Yimidear-Winter-Women-Poncho-Jacket/dp/B07L6VQLDH/ref=sr_1_14?crid=1BEM0EZJA4R2Q&keywords=cloak+coat&qid=1666376293&qu=eyJxc2MiOiI3LjEwIiwicXNhIjoiNi4xOSIsInFzcCI6IjMuOTgifQ%3D%3D&sprefix=cloak+coa%2Caps%2C18...
Kids in chairs have varying lap sizes. most of them are too small for anything to fit on.
I would suggest something like this:
SSLine Rolling Sofa Side Snack Table Portable Laptop Computer Desk Stand with Wheels, Height Adjustable Mobile TV Breakfast Tray Bedside Slim Coffee Table, Wood Desktop with Metal Frame
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https://www.amazon.com/SSLine-Portable-Computer-Adjustable-Breakfast/dp/B07L96NPKF
Buy these, as these are the best crutch tips around and they will help you to not slip.
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Thomas Fetterman Tornado Gel Cane & Crutch Tips
https://www.amazon.com/Thomas-Fetterman-Tornado-Gel-Tips/dp/B004YPTYYA
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As for technique. Try and put your weight directly over the "top" of your crutch tips in the rain. Look for non-puddle spots when placing your tips. Try and avoid slippery painted areas as those will be slick when the rain hits.
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Once you get inside or out of the rain, immediately look for a place to dry your tips ( carpet or welcome mat) before you go inside. Wet tips on dry hardwood floor/smooth concrete/ laminate are all very slippery until you get your crutch tips dry.
Ngl this is a big problem for me too. Luckily my little guy is only 10lbs full grown so he can't pull me to the floor.
I generally avoid using forearm crutches with him bc it's just too much of a hassle. For a cane I just use a crossbody/waist clip leash I got on Etsy and keep him on the opposite side
Easy Walk Harness is good for preventing pulling which also helps, my trainer also recommended the Gentle Leader but my guy it's just too small for it to fit properly
Also, we're generally working on not pulling but between my disabilities it's hard to and I don't have the $$$ for a private trainer all the time
I got this one in sparkly teal a few years ago, it’s great!
well, there are basically two ways to "stabilize" your pictures: optical image stabilization (a small motor keeps moving a lens to compensate the movement of the camera) or simply by using a very high shutter speed (only capturing a very short moment, so the movement won't matter).
as both of these are very different and depend highly on the extend of movement they should "compensate", I would recommend trying both in a shop. get your hands on a professional SLR with stabilized optics. the higher prices canon/nikon lenses with optical stabilization should show you what's possible with this method. if you're happy with the results, you can look at consumer products and just try them in a shop.
i love the stabilization of my SLR lenses, but only use them to compensate for minor movements.
oh, one tip I can give you but I'm not sure if it works in your situation: take a screw nut and tie it to a rope about 3/4 of your body size. tie the other end of the rope to your camera (I use a bipod plate like this that gets screwed into the camera: http://www.videoslr.de/media/j10_s55_c0014-slider_stativplatte_von_unten_ausschnitt_p530.jpg) now step on the screw-nut (which only is there to keep the rope hanging down) so that there is enough tension on the rope (you have to pull up the camera a little bit). this tension can compensate for a lot of shaking and I use this method as a light weight tripod. See also http://www.cnet.com/how-to/diy-the-string-tripod-aka-stringpod/
Just a clip? Try one of these: https://smile.amazon.com/dp/B0B827XWW1
The advantage is, the keys are on a spring loaded leash so you can use them without taking the clip off, reducing the chance of losing them.
I've been happy with this one. It is sturdy and doesn't buckle, and the head rotates. It doesn't have tremendous grip strength, but certainly clothes, bottles, small packages: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B001B13PC2/
They also make a longer reach one (this is 32"), and I see a "heavy duty" one listed also. But you don't want it so heavy it's difficult to use.
XIIOmerta has the best advice, but
Ive been using a cane from amazon for while, definitely make sure it is the right height for you, that will help with shoulders.
I use https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B004D0E80G/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&psc=1 , wrapping it around the handle , which has helped a ton with hand hurting.
It took me some time to get use to using it now I cant go w/o it.
Good luck and God Bless
I think a lot of people wouldn't think to hook the walking stick like that, most would try to put it on the front & it would slide off. I have seen people use broom holders like This
It's also hard to tell from the photo but while I think the current rails would be good for helping somone who is unsteady on their feet balance, it looks too high to help them rise from the toilet. If it was opposite the toilet it would be useful to help people pull themselves up but only being one side wouldn't be very helpful to most with weakness. I can also see people trying to use the counter top to lean on, so I hope it's well attached to the wall.
The most helpful addition I can see would be railings on both side of the toilet lower down, to help those with a weakened lower body. A common addition to elderly Pelles homes is a toilet frame like this
2-Pack 32 Inch and 19 Inch Grabber Reacher with Rotating Jaw - Mobility Aid Reaching Assist Tool
Congrats.
I gave up on tying shoes years ago because of the cramping/pain it causes in my hands, so now:
Buy shoes that use velcro.
For my boots, I use zipper inserts so I don't have to worry about it.
These have been quite sturdy for me to use: https://www.amazon.com/smartCRUTCH-Forearm-Crutch-Degree-Rotation/dp/B085YG157N/ref=sr_1_6?keywords=platform%2Bcrutches&qid=1663268851&sr=8-6&th=1
I second the suggestion to buy a cheap microwave if possible and to ask for a fridge “for medication”. It will be super useful and worth the money. Also to recover from your surgery you need good nutrition and plenty of protein, living on instant ramen etc will not be good for your recovery.
Instant oatmeal is quite nutritious and can be done with hot water from a coffee machine or kettle.
Cheese, tuna, jerky, canned beans. I’m in
Lots of ready made food (canned/shelf stable) can safely be eaten cold even tho it might be less appetising than if warmed up.
You may have to order online rather than grocery delivery but there are “just add water” meals that are more nutritious/varied than just ramen. Search for “just add water” online. “Ready to eat” is also a useful search term.
You can get things like shelf stable chicken salad e.g. https://www.amazon.com/Bumble-Bee-Lunch-Chicken-Salad/dp/B015KFDV0K/ref=sr_1_3?keywords=just+add+water+meals&qid=1662812072&sr=8-3
Or ready to eat tuna meals e.g. https://www.amazon.com/Wild-Planet-Organic-Peppers-Tomatoes/dp/B08YT2WLV7/ref=sr_1_2?crid=CXLSGC386ZPM&keywords=Tuna+meal&qid=1662812326&sprefix=tuna+meal%2Caps%2C151&sr=8-2
They might not be the tastiest but you could also look online for MREs.
I bought one from Amazon UK to my grandma. It was really light weight and foldable electric wheelchair. The battery life is good, no complaints. Then I also recommended the same for my friend in Paris for her grandmom, thanks to seller to deliver across EU and UK thru FedEx. It's called Mobiplus X3 electric wheelchair
Mobiplus X3 Electric wheelchair Amazon UK
Mobiplus X3 Fauteuil roulant électrique Amazon FR
PS: this is not affiliate link.
I bought one from Amazon UK to my grandma. It was really light weight and foldable electric wheelchair. The battery life is good, no complaints. Then I also recommended the same for my friend in Paris for her grandmom, thanks to seller to deliver across EU and UK thru FedEx. It's called Mobiplus X3 electric wheelchair
Mobiplus X3 Electric wheelchair Amazon UK
Mobiplus X3 Fauteuil roulant électrique Amazon FR
PS: this is not affiliate link.
I use these eyeliner stamps to get the winged look.
Winged Eyeliner Stamp - The Flick... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07GM317JJ?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share
After I stamp each eye, I use the opposite side of the pen to draw the line to about the middle of my eyelid on the lash line.
It just makes it so much easier.
I have grip issues, though I would guess you'd more problems than me.
I use a couple different things for bottles. This work pretty well for a range of stuff: https://smile.amazon.com/Arthritis-Bottle-Opener-Twist-off-different/dp/B018KFII4G
Can't find a picture of the other thing, it's a plastic thing that goes over the bottle cable and has a bar sticking out. You just have to place it on the top, and push on the bar.
No helpful advice beer bottles or cans. Don't drink bear, and while I've had issues with cans, never found anything that really helped beyond a quarter for a pry bar. Some of my fingers are pretty good, so doubt I can help there.
I would help, but won’t be perfect. At least the cards are looser in their pockets.
It's awesome, comes fully assembled, and the 'tall' option is tall enough that I don't have to hunch over when I walk with it. Not too heavy- I can pick it up/load it into a trunk myself as long as it's not a terrible pain day for me. Honestly it's not as awkward to use a mobility aid as you might think. It made going on walks and joining friends outside way more possible for me, and it comes in handy around the house too like when I'm cooking and need to rest.
I have had these locking style pill boxes before. They are more childproof then most. But keeping the whole pill organizer locked up is likely the safest option.
https://www.amazon.com/Organizer-Prescription-Medications-Accidental-Spilling/dp/B003P4VZ4I
I'd suggest a lockbox then like what others are suggesting. Just write Medicine on it in big letters and leave it where you'd normally keep your organizer.
I looked on Amazon just now and found this, maybe it would work:
Lol it’s my time to shine lol, as someone who uses an afo and has wide feet
There’s a brand called propet that skills shoes for all sizes. They sell them on Amazon in Canada but not sure where in your country.
I have this in 16 xxwide
And after taking out the insoles it fits my afo just fine.
If you mean wheelchair gloves, these Chiba Argon Kevlar gloves are my favourite. They’re expensive but every single other pair of gloves I’ve had have been destroyed within 6 weeks (including the global leather sure grip gloves), and I’ve had these since April with nothing apart from a tiny loose thread so far. They have lycra sections so they fit my hands nicely, and the padding + Kevlar material over the palms protects my hands.
Grabbers are awesome tools for this! You can get them pretty cheap in pound shops or bargain/discount shops, just sending this Amazon link so you know exactly what I mean: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Green-Jem-Lightweight-Reaching-Rubbish/dp/B002R0005Q/ref=asc_df_B002R0005Q/?tag=googshopuk-21&linkCode=df0&hvadid=269126795226&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=3385973940015827648&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqm...
Sweeping or anything else is going to be pretty tough with both crutches and if you can't stand at all without them, I'll be honest and say I typically wait until days I can navigate around my flat to clean up, and if I do have to when I need them, my condition means I can bend and stand periodically while kind of letting the crutch hang loose on my arm and slide out while I reach for things. I'm really hoping other people will have more useful tips for you!
What's your grip like? These things take a lot of practice but can be great depending on your specific needs. They're ambidextrous by design.
This is the woman running the event and from the looks of her book she is definitely not an advocate for disabled people https://www.amazon.com/Disabled-Workforce-What-Never-Anticipated/dp/1544708599
It's like this. Ryobi has a similar brush as part of their ONE system but I'm not sure how heavy it'll be with the battery. I'm hoping that if I get something like Ryobi's it'll have more scrubbing power.
Mine's something like this except jackson. Has a short sledge, on the front, a ripper on the back and a pry on the bottom:
https://www.amazon.com/Stanley-55-119-Fatmax-Fubar-Utility/dp/B0039M17MQ
They seem to be calling them "Demolition tools" or "Utility bars" now. I got it after Sandy. Itll go through a wall. They used to just call them wreckers, wall rippers or "wrecking tools".
Apparently they dont make mine - "The Pulverizer" anymore which is for concrete demo work apparently.
https://www.amazon.com/AMES-Companies-Inc-Pulverizer-Demolition/dp/B002IKM6XO
It's not the greatest but how about something like this? https://www.amazon.com/Pieces-Inflatable-Cushion-Portable-Wheelchair/dp/B0956LRY2Z/ref=sr_1_15?keywords=inflatable+toilet+seat+riser&qid=1654042766&sr=8-15
It adds 3.5" in height and toilets on planes are 19" high.
Have you seen something like this?
it delends on how much function you have in your right leg and to what extent you want to use your left leg. if you have orthopedic shoes to compensate the difference, you might be able to ise a regular bike, but since you asked for a modification. you can remove a pedal and arm fairly easily. you might need to saw it off at the base, depending on your bike. I would recommend contacting a local bike shop. depending on the function and specificly sideways movement of your right leg and foot you can use a clip in shoe and pedal combination. I would recommend moutain bike shoes for this, because you can get the clips inserted into the sole for easier walking/transfer until you can get back into your regular shoes. this will allow you to use the right leg for a full rotation of the pedal (up and down stroke) for tze left leg you can improvise a footrest in the design for transporting kids that mount to the frame. any design for kids will not meet your weight tolerances, so you will need to improvise one from a tube clamp with rubber spacing and attaching something fitting to it. basicly this but in stronger and with rubber in between the iron of the clamp and biek frame: contact a hardware store for tolerances and everything else https://www.amazon.de/Clamp-Signs-Clamps-Posts-Spacing/dp/B071WGBBKB/ref=mp_s_a_1_56?c=ts&keywords=rohrschellen&qid=1652707561&s=diy&sr=1-56&ts_id=2076960031 mount at an appropriate hight. Balance will probably be weird, but you might be able to get used to it. it will also put more stress on the right leg than usual, so look after your bodys boundaries for that and/or contact your doctor
I strongly recommend this book Crip Zen by Lorenzo Milam
He passed last year. He would have loved your post
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0917320034/ref=dbs\_a\_def\_rwt\_hsch\_vapi\_taft\_p1\_i1
Also you mentioned doorway ramps, depending on your need these are a relatively inexpensive and non-permenant option. They are available in various heights to fit your requirements
Crush them up maybe? (Mortar & pestles work well for that. You can get ceramic ones for around $10 on Amazon.)
Then either mix it with a drink of choice or put the power in your mouth. (I use a shot glass to dump the powder on my tongue.) Then quickly chase it with water.
Install a real browser:
https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=org.mozilla.firefox
And then an adblocker:
https://addons.mozilla.org/en-US/firefox/addon/ublock-origin/
Any browser without extension support is 15 years out of date and isn't safe to use on the modern web.
Multifunctional Walking Stick, Strong and Durable, fine Workmanship, Non-Slip and wear-Resistant, Suitable for Assisted Walking, Handicraft Collection. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09XK62S9V/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_i_FRZHZWJ32P1SH7CSE15H
Thanks. All that biz makes a difference to the answer.
Normally, for those with limited leg use, this is a trickier thing. Since you're ambulatory, you have more flexibility. You're similar to me (ambulatory with mobility aid, good or partial dexterity). I used to just keep supplies with me at all times in a go-bag on my scooter, including a kit of wipes, some nitrile gloves, water-free sanitizer, a few disposable absorbent bed pads to place on the commode, and a few gallon-sized zip bags. Normally, I'd start out the day with quality pull-ons, but in the event of an issue out in public, in order to not have to fully disrobe in a stall, I'd either tear or cut them off, stick them in a zip, clean up as best I could, then use non-brief-style protection like these to get put back together and rolling again. It was always a pain to try and use pull-on briefs out in public, because they near-always required me to take off my shoes to get into them.
I have a Nova Sugarcane and they have a lot of different looks that are super cute and practical! They have soft handles and can stand on their own! I have the peacock one (NOVA Sugarcane, Walking Cane with All Terrain Rubber Quad Tip Base and Carrying Strap, Proud Peacock Design https://www.amazon.com/dp/B081J123Y3/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_WHWYE3ZBFPCH188N8ADZ)!
Op I have been where you are. I really couldn’t find much, there was one place in Winnipeg that made pretty stylish ones but they are all sold out and are too short for me.
In the end I found a cheap brazos cane on Amazon. They are an American company that makes some very nice canes and walking sticks. They may not be what you are looking for though. I have two and they are both very sturdy and I get complimented on them a lot.
I got this one from Amazon
Maddak Universal Built-Up Handle (Pack of 4) (746300000) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00BSF7YC8/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_i_PE7PQEMPJXG2XGH2CQRB?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
What about these? Slip-on grips. Ridiculously, they're 4 for 20 :/
Congratulations! I've had mine for several years now and it definitely comes in handy. A few tips that may or may not apply to you. I'm in Massachusetts and it's illegal to drive with it hanging so I had to get used to removing it and hanging it when I parked. Also, people will break into cars to steal them so I always put it away when I park at home. I bought one of these plastic Placard Protectors for about $6 from Amazon and it has helped with the wear and tear. Happy parking!
A link to what I’m describing - although this may be a little small for what you have in mind
Desktop Soldering Tool, Helping Hands Soldering Third Hand Tool Tabletop Clamp Base with 3 Arms Helping Hands Crafts Jewelry DIY Arts Craft Hobby https://www.amazon.ca/dp/B07QCJQRDF/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_YF8JGDZYWHYFPAJZP7S9
I've got carbon cane, the best ever. Very light ad strudy.
Ladies Fashionable Soft Touch Derby Cane Black Triple Wound Carbon Fiber -Affordable Gift! Item #DHAR-9075408 https://www.amazon.com/dp/B002MR27CS/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_i_RA7Y04FJMDDP9KBDBW3V
How do you push? I also seem to push differently than most, using more of my hands, wrists and fingers just on the rim -- I never touch the wheels. Since the wrist pain started coming in I've tried to use my arms and shoulders more (especially uphill) with more of the meat of my hand making contact with the rim, but habits are hard to break after 22 years. It doesn't help that I had an additional spinal fusion a couple years ago from waist to pelvis (so now I'm fused from mid-back on down), so I've lost that "alley-oop" movement of my torso that helps propel the chair, and can no longer bend forward when going up hills.
Just looked at the Flexrims and HOLY CRAP, $1,345?? Did you buy them yourself, or did you get insurance to pay? The pushrim covers are in my price range, though - only $55 on Amazon. These would be great, also because sometimes I go out in the rain and it's hard to keep a grip when the rims get too much water on them. Even my gloves don't help.
And I got my wheelchair tech coming over soon, so I'll ask if my axle can move that way. If it doesn't, would a thinner cushion Thanks for the tips!!
I would put a magnet in the front of the drawer runner to keep it from closing completely. Like this MIKEDE Super Strong Neodymium Disc Magnets with Double-Sided Adhesive - 1.26 inch D x 1/8 inch H (8 PCS) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07WHS424B/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_Q55R4AS4NNEBDYHDDPQC?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
It really depends on how much more height he needs.
I used a tall sized 4 wheeled walker and it still wasn't tall enough so I bought 2 of these
Added about 2 or 3 cm which isn't a lot but the only thing I could think to do.
Also if you happen to live in Alberta, Canada I would be more than happy to donate my tall walker to him.
In the short term -
I'd get a martengale collar - it can be safely adjusted so that it's big enough to slip over his head but tighten up slightly if there's any tension on the lead.
Unlike a slip or choke collar, it can't tighten up past a certain point (so it can't choke or strangle the dog), but they're a great pick for people who have limited dexterity. They function just like a flat buckle collar form a training POV.
That link is to Chewy but just searching for martengale collar will get you lots of options, including lots of individual makers on Etsy and similar sites.
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If you're set on sticking with a buckle collar, I'd work on building a stronger sit for your dog including when you are touching and messing with him or other distractions similar to while you are putting a collar on. (I'd do this even if you swap to the martengale, because it's just much nicer to have a dog who is super cooperative for stuff like this, but it won't be an instant fix, especially with a puppy with limited attention span and self control.)
If you want a concrete example. As a dual cane use that just broke his hand (which moonlights as a leg) because of fucking ice. Take this: https://www.amazon.com/Cane-Attachment-Prong-Canes-Crutches/dp/B0009STN2E and make it so I can flip it up from the handle part of the cane without having to balance on 2 legs and one cane, flip one cane upside down, use my hand which is supposed to be balancing me on my down cane to flip up the spikes and then repeat with the second one. It’s not a good design.
For reference of what I am thinking of. These are outriggers https://enablingtech.com/collections/superlite-outriggers/products/superlite-outriggers-custom-titanium the bottom ski part flips up and down with pressure from the drawstring at the handle, which releases the holding mechanism and a spring system does the rest. To get them down you pull the string to release the holding mechanism and push down to move them and then release the string to put the holding mechanism in place
You could get something like this and put it at the end of your bed and then place your laptop or video games underneath.
so something like this https://www.amazon.com/NOVA-Folding-Walking-Foldable-Adjustable/dp/B00PKAAKLE but with an offset handle, without the foam handle and with a quad tip (like this https://www.walmart.com/ip/Collections-Etc-Stylish-Multi-Design-Nova-Quad-Tip-Walking-Cane-Black/43247594)?
Well, I'm an Elder Goth and found myself unable to walk without aid recently. Skip down for my suggestion, if you like! My SSDI is for my mental health issues and has me below the poverty line, so the PT and any other stuff I need for my decade long pain is not covered.
I only just started refusing to take the "lose weight/do stretches/take OTC" stuff last week, when my brain glommed that I slowly became house bound and am now almost bed ridden. (I have diagnosed RA, OA, Bastraaps/Kissing Spine, was told "probably Fibro" @ 7 years ago). They'll run blood tests to see how far known things have progressed and rule out others. Already did that for Lupus and such, but....
Not exactly what you asked for, but I bloody love them! They are lightweight, have quick releases to slide into smaller/larger side, different tips for different surfaces, (I live in a city and I'm not hiking), colour options, wrist straps, contoured hand grips and you could wrap the top third of the canes in car wrap/contact paper/duct tape/whatever/crystals! I'm an artist, so that's a whole side gig, I suppose.
Also, being broke AF, these so fit my I'm $200 in debt "budget" by the time I pay my bills when my check arrives! Jump off and look around:
I got this one from amazon, if you use Amazon Smile it donates $$ to a charity of your choice w every purchase: https://smile.amazon.com/dp/B08T5T8KXL?psc=1&ref=ppx_yo2_dt_b_product_details
Mine's blue, and I got a mermaid "key fob" strap off etsy and I'm getting a "cane do attitude" sticker made as well
I use a manual wheelchair, and I break it down (take the back wheels off, take the cushion off, put the back down, and put it all in the back seat of the car. I keep a camping stool in the back seat of my car; it's really light and easy to pick up and fling in and out of the car with one hand... I take the stool out, transfer from my chair to the stool, break down my wheelchair, and put my wheelchair into the car from a seated position on the stool. I then stand up and fling the stool into the back seat, and then get in the front driver's seat. I hope that make sense. Does that sound like something you'd be able to do?
I would recommend Snugz liners. I used to have the same issue as you, and these make a huge difference. No more red nose in the mornings! You can get them on Amazon.
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07L6MHSXQ/ref=ewc_pr_img_1?smid=A331CI0NCZ54M3&th=1
Sorry I can't help with most of this (not in the UK), but try to get better with money and get a handle on your finances. 250£ a month of not much, bit with not a lot of other expenses there's no reason it should all be gone at the end of the month.
(Think of all the crap you need to pack up when you move out, what would you take/leave behind? Don't but anything you'd leave behind).
Look at youneedabudget.com and especially the way their software works.
https://www.youneedabudget.com/ultimate-get-started-guide/
Take one of the daily free online video workshops https://www.youneedabudget.com/free-workshops/
And sign up - the first 34 days are free so you can test it for a full month.
Ask questions in /r/ynab
If you stick with it, it will really help you manage your budget (being sick is f***ing expensive), stop wasting money on things you don't really need, and start saving little by little so you can move out and into a place where you hopefully will get proper non-drunk care.
It's so good to have a little money saved so you can hire movers, and can survive for a few months without any income. Check local rules for the maximum amount of money you can have while receiving government money, there probably is a maximum that you probably won't reach, but you need to know this.
Okay, I see what's going on. The /r/ in the link is messing things up. I can't change that, maybe try copying and pasting it into the address bar? I'm sorry if that still doesn't work. https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/NNC8LMS
So full disclosure: I wrote this, and this is my personal blog. And it's brand new.
I got into a little bit of an argument with this person who argued that saying the word cripple was a good thing for disabled people and to not use it is "wrong". So I wrote that in rebuttal. I want your guys' opinion on it.
I would also appreciate (if you would), to fill out this form regarding the word:
Bring in one of these Independent Bowel Movement Stimulator Tool https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07Q8NTZGS/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_i_04CEXGB96W0RZRAVDPCB?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
It’s a tool that help quads do their bowel program. Not being represented by actors in TV shows is not even in the top 100 of things that suck about being disabled
As The President of The Disability Chamber of Commerce what we have found when we are training employers to be Disability confident it is exactly what you mentioned in your post( You can't just ask for accommodation you have to present solutions as well) What we are finding out is that most employers just are not disability confident and have no clue on what to do. please support us in training employers to become disability confident by purchasing a disability confident t-shirt unity is a strong thing for employers to ignore.
I actually wrote this bill myself, here it is on Facebook-scroll down to see it and on my WordPress blog.
There is pen reader that read the text you are highlighting.
I actually used them in elementary school. It was OK but the technology wasn't there yet. I'm sure that the user experience is much better.
Here is the link to one of them.https://www.amazon.com/C-pen-FBA_7350085370028-C-Pen-Reader/dp/B015OL7VNS