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Another thing, if it has been less than 72 hours since sexual intercourse, you can take emergency contraceptive plan b although since you've already taken a pregnancy test I assume it's been after a missed period so I am sorry if this doesn't apply to you, but it's worth mentioning.

Any health supply store, places like Whole Foods, Amazon has them as well: Theanine Gummies. Amino acids are found in foods (this one in particular is in green tea) our body makes some of them as well: Guide to Amino acids

http://www.barnesandnoble.com/p/disappearance-of-the-universe-gary-renard/1101960662/2693496579808?st=PLA&sid=BNB_DRS_Marketplace+Shopping+betterworldbooks_00000000&2sid=Google_&sourceId=PLGoP24285&k_clickid=3x24285

Keep trying Instagram.

In the meantime, you need to start changing the password on the other services you used it on. That password was leaked in a breach and they're trying it on any website that will let them in. Check out https://haveibeenpwned.com/ to see what breaches you're in.

I'm sure you can, either talk to a body dysmorphia hotline ( Body dysmorphic disorder Hotlines and Resources | 7 Cups Wiki ) or talk to a therapist for advice. You sound really troubled because of how badly people have talked about you, and I hope you believe me, I'm sure you look fine. But please use some of those things I talked about. They can really help. I just talked to a suicide hotline myself and they're very helpful. Anyway, please be ok, and I hope things get better. Have a good day OP.

Do you have any certifications or a hackerrank assessment?

That should be the first line of your resume (e.g. as a subtitle under your name). E.g.

I.D. Kanymore Certified Javascript developer, Hacker rank 88.9

E.g. see https://hackr.io/blog/best-javascript-certification

Also check out /r/GetEmployed/ for help with your resume and interviewing.

Oh man. This absolutely reminds me of Sam Vimes' Boots Theory of Socioeconomic Unfairness:

>The reason that the rich were so rich, Vimes reasoned, was because they managed to spend less money.
>
>Take boots, for example. He earned thirty-eight dollars a month plus allowances. A really good pair of leather boots cost fifty dollars. But an affordable pair of boots, which were sort of OK for a season or two and then leaked like hell when the cardboard gave out, cost about ten dollars. Those were the kind of boots Vimes always bought, and wore until the soles were so thin that he could tell where he was in Ankh-Morpork on a foggy night by the feel of the cobbles.
>
>But the thing was that good boots lasted for years and years. A man who could afford fifty dollars had a pair of boots that'd still be keeping his feet dry in ten years' time, while the poor man who could only afford cheap boots would have spent a hundred dollars on boots in the same time and would still have wet feet.
>
>This was the Captain Samuel Vimes 'Boots' theory of socioeconomic unfairness.

From Terry Pratchett, Men at Arms

What price range are you looking at? Are you able to get your old work boots repaired?

If you're in the States, I wonder if you might be able to find some nice ones on discount at a place like Ross, Marshalls, or TJ Max.

Sketchers is comparatively cheaper than other brands (here's a pair), but it really just depends on what your price range is.

You can buy him old cheap Android phone, and install tracking app. There are different tracking apps out there - some don't use internet and report location by SMS, but there will be no real time tracking. Some use internet and report location constantly, but then you have to buy data plan. Take a look at Kidstrack. It is:

• free

• anonymous

• keeps history for a week

• sends updates every 1-60 minutes

See example of live map here

3M makes a window film. You install it over the inside of your window and your window frame, since frames are drafty too. It really works.

https://www.amazon.com/3M-Indoor-Window-Insulator-5-Window/dp/B000AXXCUC/

If you can't get this in your area, get some sheets of foam or styrofoam and cut them to size in your windows. Then get some double-sided tape and a large sheet of plastic (this is sold at hardware stores for painting drop cloths). Tape the plastic over the entire inside of the window and frame, to create an insulating air space.

You likely have too many competing wifi signals in your apartment complex.

Use an app like this (https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=abdelrahman.wifianalyzerpro) to find which of the 12 channels are being used the most and force your wifi router to stick to whatever channel is used least

I thought about a book that I’ve promised myself I would have read. This or imagine having sex with pregnant Bill Gates.

If you aren't attracted to OTHER people younger than you, I wouldn't worry about it. Definitely stop what your doing, but like other commenters said masterbation is your best bet. Hormones run wild at your age and pretty much anything can give you a boner, trust me, I was there. If you don't have an addictive personality I'd recommend Porn. A lot of people talk badly about it, but in moderation it's a safe sexual outlet, though don't expect what you see in Porn to be ANYWHERE close to reality. If you're concerned your parents would be upset just use a VPN, ProtonVPN has a free version. If you feel you may become addicted, just have some fantasies, but make sure they don't involve your sister.

I'm sorry to hear that things are really difficult for you right now. Please believe that no matter how you feel right now, those feelings of despair are temporary, and will pass. I published a book last month on Amazon that should help you. Basically you can open up your life if you know how your mind works. BEING ME BEING FREE explains everything with simple words and pictures. Change your thinking, change your life! Learn more here. You can do this. You can get better and happier. Good luck to you, ok!

Hi Joe. Welcome to Reddit!

We don't tag anybody or anything (and Reddit is fairly anonymous), but as you've probably noticed, scrolling through the feed generally garners some readers. I know you haven't heard from anyone yet, and sometimes it's just like that, but I hope you'll have more commenters soon.

Now that we have that cleared up...

Secrets can be difficult to keep for sure. Sometimes especially because they're your own, and you really don't want to be alone in what you are going through.

That said, I think it's important to keep in mind that what you get out of confiding in somebody isn't a person that 100% understands and experiences what you are feeling, but rather, this very valuable experience of getting something out of your system, and also, learning to look at a situation from different perspective and gaining insight from it.

One of the best things you can do for yourself is to start journaling. This can take any form you want it to: you can hand-write it, you can doodle it, you can type it, etc.

If you really need to confide in someone and you're not comfortable confiding in people that you are close with, it can also be helpful to reach out to a hotline (not a suicidal one, just a general help one), and to call or text about it.

In a pinch, r/helpme and r/MMFB can help, too.

There's also always 7 Cups, which is a website full of really kind and wholesome volunteers - often students that are looking to go into psychology/psychiatry will volunteer there, in fact - that employ active listening techniques and listen to you vent and help you work through your problems in a private and non-intrusive way. (It's also completely free.)

Best of luck!

Wow, your app sounds a lot like DuoLingo. https://www.duolingo.com/course/fr/en/Learn-French-Online

I am also not sure how you need $20 to develop an app. What is the $20 for? You don't have $20 already? Plus, wrong sub for asking for money. Rule 1.

Sure! A great one that sounds misleading is "think and grow rich" by Napoleon Hill. "Who's Pulling Your Strings" this one is also surprising really helps you understand how people can be motivated and what influences you https://www.amazon.com/dp/0071446729/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_glt_fabc_67EXRSS4CRKVQ4WMKZ3G "The way of the superior man" by David Deida is amazing big help for me. Gets into allot of topics i had no father so this book was particularly useful for me. Last one would be "12 rules for life and antidote to chaos" this one was my favorite. Major changes in my life, to this day I can't help but be amazed by how affective the book was for me. Though I warn you, just because you read, doesn't mean you improve. Allot of people read these kinds books to feel good about themselves but remain in the same hole. The point is to take action. Do these things and test out the ideas. Nothing comes easy. Knowledge is not power, knowledge is potential. If you don't use it, it's worthless. I how you can get yourself to read. I know my life really changed and things are so good in genuinely excited for my future. I hope the same can be said about you. The sooner the better

Same! You are not alone. Also try joining Nextdoor App if it’s available in your area. People on the neighborhood apps sit there and tell u when a cat is walking across someone’s lawn. It gets hilarious at times but it makes me feel safer when I’ve lived in a neighborhood!

Sorry to hear that you’re going through a difficult time, it sounds really tough. I managed to find a website with a directory to food banks around Chicago. Maybe It will help somehow (this is the PDF with the list of food banks and places that offer assistance):

https://mail.google.com/mail/u/0/s/?view=att&th=17b9775678991f06&attid=0.1&disp=attd&realattid=f_ksyqjof70&safe=1&zw

This is the website that I got the PDF from. There’s a phone number as well. The website is easier to use on the phone personally, hence the PDF.

https://www.chicagosfoodbank.org/find-food/

773-247-3773

Went through this in May last year. Walking home one night was jumped and beaten by 2 men in an RV bad enough I had to get stiches in my hand at the ER. The reason was my employer at the time McDonalds had rejected their application and they decided to beat me for it, despite the fact I was in no way shape or form involved in hiring (dishwasher ffs). While I have not yet fully moved on what helped me was the support of family and friends though I wish I hadn't had to threaten to call the cops on my dad if he went out with his rifles to shoot them (hes invested a lot in his collection). They still have not been aprehended but from the records on the morons I was able to pull it will be sooner rather than later. They have several missed bench warrants, and were on 'supervised parole'. And plan on nailing them where it will hurt the most, financially.

Some good already came out of it, and McDonalds in my county and another one that the franchise serves have blacklisted them from the company and any property location, meaning they can't even order food there. Would advise on getting something like a stun gun/flashlight combo such as what I got and tbh use the flashlight the most since its rechargable.

https://www.amazon.com/VIPERTEK-VTS-T03-Aluminum-Rechargeable-Flashlight/dp/B01FHJS2N0/ref=sr\_1\_9?keywords=vipertek+stun+gun+flashlight&qid=1641191759&sprefix=vipertek+stun+gun+f%2Caps%2C138&sr=8-9

Hey there!

First off, it might be helpful for you to hop on over to r/KindVoice if you need somebody to talk to, or if you're in the States, you could always text HOME to 741741, and a crisis counselor will be able to text with you. They deal with all kinds of issues, not just a particular issue like depression, anxiety, substance abuse, violence, etc. A third option is 7 Cups, which is a website you can check out. Your problem is entirely valid, and you are most definitely entitled to being heard out.

Having said that. It sounds like you're facing a big change in your relationship. Your girlfriend is leaving for the Air Force! She's off to do amazing things, but she's going to be far away from you.

That can be rough.

It's a bit late for this, but you've talked to her about this change, right?

You'll miss her. A lot. But that's okay.

As far as coping - being honest about your feelings helps. Write her regardless of whether or not they can actually be sent. Or maybe keep a diary addressed to her.

Do you have something of hers that can remind you of her? Any pictures that you can look at when you miss her?

The important thing to recognise is it's okay to miss someone. Being honest to yourself is the best way to cope.

And remember - it may take a while, but you will see her again!

Keep your chin up. You guys got this!

I mean I can help you but it's in a way you don't expect. It's a mix of mental exercises(Meditation to look deep inside upon your problems. Its not just for Buddhists. Its really good at helping you have a clear mind and peer deep into your problems) and some muscle exercises involving the lower area without lewd stuff. I may be a horny person but I actually use meditation to calm my lewd thoughts since it's a problem due to rampant adhd. So in my case, it was the polar opposite when it came to issues. Granted if you want someone very lewd like you said in the chat. I'm fine asking my own girl(Shes trans and bi so she may like)but as it stands I'm loyal to her absolutely. Here is some articles for you I found on Google from headspace, a reputable source.

Sex and Meditation

Goals and planning with meditation

Gimp is a free open source alternative to Photoshop. Removing the shadow is an easy task using the fuzzy select tool. (tip: You can change the threshold on the go by holding the mouse button and sliding left or right)

1st. I really hope you mean Stocker and not stalker.

2nd. If it has a preview just use the snipping tool to capture an image of the resume then convert the image to pdf.

If it has multiple images use GIMP to put them together. (Gimp is a free Photoshop program) https://www.gimp.org/

Most resume sites force you to buy it but the above workaround is what I always use.

Hello Friend, Do you take lessons for English? What language do you speak? Is it Vietnamese? I am trying to learn German and I find the free App Duolingo very useful :) here is a link to Duolingo English for Vietnamese speakers. chúc may mắn !! https://www.duolingo.com/comment/3311419

Hope you’ve been able to fall asleep tonight, but here are a couple ideas :) if you haven’t tried the ol’ melatonin these are my favorites : Natrol Melatonin Fast Dissolve Tablets, Helps You Fall Asleep Faster, Stay Asleep Longer, Easy to Take, Dissolve in Mouth, Strengthen Immune System, Maximum Strength, Strawberry Flavor, 3mg, 200 Count https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07S4D844Y/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_R4D8TJAFC44BD17HBXZ7?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1 (taste great!) If you have healthcare a lot of them will provide a free subscription to the Calm app, which has audiobooks specifically for falling asleep as well as white noise. There are tons of options for this on music streaming apps as well. If you use Spotify here’s a great playlist: https://open.spotify.com/show/0Jj6DoEoG2R5fWdIEbZ0bd?si=n5UML_d0S4iw-lO211gO2A Things like counting back from 100 work for some people, but if your mind is really racing I prefer going over past positive interactions in my head. Thinking about nice childhood memories or funny conversations you’ve had with your boyfriend can help you get into a relaxed and warm headspace. When you wake up try to take note of how you’re positioned, it can help you get comfortable when you’re trying to fall asleep. Those are my tips as an insomniac! Good luck and sweet dreams

Для початку, є отака програма, де зібрані всі "гарячі" контакти, але замасковані на випадок контролю над телефоном (посилання на Play Market (android), якщо у тебе іос (чи взагалі будь-яка продукція епл), то пошукай додаток WhiteRibbonUA) https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.whiteribbon.WhiteRibbonUA

Далі, коли він приходить під двері, думаю, можна викликати поліцію з приводу "тут дебошир порушує людський спокій, ломиться до нас у квартиру". У моїх батьків якось вийшло викликати поліцію на шумну компанію під вікнами, можливо, на вашу ситуацію теж зреагують. Тим більше, останнім часом все частіше звертають увагу на випадки домашнього насилля. Якщо пощастить з представниками поліції, які приїдуть на виклик — розкажи їм про погрози і спитай, що можна зробити, щоб якнайдовше тримати його подалі (може навіть спитати про місцеву псих.лікарню).

На жаль, в роботі поліції ДУЖЕ сильний вплив має людський фактор, тому можу тільки щиро побажати удачі.

Nothing that adheres to those rules will likely pay your standard minimum wage. However, if you aren't worried about the pay per hour and just need online work, check out https://www.guru.com/

hey there, thanks for the reply. After essentially giving up, I went about trying to find the site the same way I had before: searching for connections between Eastern European cities. Low and behold, I found it. It's rome2rio.com and is a very powerful planning tool for travel. I'll be sure to bookmark it this time!

hey man where you from?

I live in India and i understand a small part of your life I have had some bad parts in my life where I could have used a bro to talk to so you can message and chat with me if you want but i will only be able to respond properly after 19th march for personal reasons and when you said games so if you mean video games then I can help so here is a list of games and how good I am at it if you are interested PM me

. Minecraft Java(ok)

.minecraft windows 10(good)

.league of legends(ok)

fortnite(bad)

i also play small games on websites like pokemon showdown and skribbl.io so I AM HERE FOR YOU MAN

Ps ps https://www.amazon.com/1089-All-That-Journey-Mathematics/dp/0199590028

David acheson my kindle some interest in math that is so hard to come by in regular school. Its a really enjoyable read short and sweet nugget easy to bear.

There is a concept called 'completing the stress response' that might apply here. The idea is that when we get stressed out about something we either do something about it (fight or flight) or we don't/can't (freeze). If we get stuck in the 'freeze' part of the stress response we have symptoms such as dissociation, helplessness, lack of motivation and depression. Having a burst of adrenaline and DOING something with that stress response can break you out of the stuck 'freeze' episode. You can read "Waking the Tiger: Healing Trauma" or the first chapter of "Burnout" for more info.

There's a portable door lock popular on amazon.

You could also get one of the wedge ones with an alarm.

I had to deal with someone who thought it was their right to walk in on me anytime they pleased. Scolding them like a dog (No! Get out, you do NOT walk in on me like that!) seemed to work. Remember, she's counting on you being too scared/shy/submissive to say anything.

I totally get where you're coming from. May I suggest a book? Check it out, a new perspective on the situation may help. Ill pray for you and your inner peace.
The Bait of Satan: Living Free from the Deadly Trap of Offense https://www.amazon.com/dp/1621365484/ref=cm_sw_r_u_apa_glt_fabc_R6YAST5PX6YART2FQST1?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1

https://www.amazon.com/Manchester-Mills-Dreams-Pillow-Medium/dp/B0060OL5LI Well, I found the manufacturer, but maybe I’m wrong... I don’t want to spend 180$ on pillows... to have to replace them.... shortly

Maybe you can try downloading this? : Check out "Gauthmath - Students Must Have" https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.education.android.h.intelligence

It's a Maths app. It might help you.

Maybe you can try posting the problem on Reddit and Quora?

Ask your classmates and professor?

Spray him with liquid ass occasionally when he's not looking, perhaps his locker or bag. It should make him a bit less popular, if he stinks too much for anybody to be around.

Cheap, have your mom buy it if you can.

Also, completely harmless.

Don’t beat up on yourself. You should be proud of your efforts. Try this journal to help you with your journey. Trust me, it’s not your average weight loss journal. Good luck & keep me posted. 😊 Unhealthy Foods Suck! & Diets Don’t Work!

So I'm going to say two things. First: do NOT drink her home made chlorine dioxide. You will probably die. Second: Chlorine Dioxide is used in a specific chemical process to purify water which is what the conspiracy people use to try and validate their insane ideas.

If you just want to try and outsmart her.. maybe buy water treatment drops and just use them to purify water.. tell her it contains chlorine dioxide so it's the same but you know it's safe :D just follow the directions and don't get any on your hands.

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000OR111G

Yes! Something as simple as walks helped me so much!

Just to go off what you wrote: Drinking lots of water throughout the day also helped with cravings. Replace all fluids with water. You can add Crystal light or fresh fruit if you don’t like water.

I recommend a water bottle like this (I have this one): Fidus Large 1 Gallon Motivational Water Bottle with Paracord Handle & Removable Straw - BPA Free Leakproof Water Jug with Time Marker to Ensure You Drink Enough Water Throughout The Day https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0878XXTST/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glc_fabc_mMqZFbQ99HP70

If anti-dandruff shampoos aren’t working for you, you probably need something medicated. Get some 1% Ketoconazole shampoo off Amazon (I use this kind when my seborrheic dermatitis flares up) and a scalp scrubber off Amazon. Guarantee you it’ll clear up in a week.

I like singing, but I'm not any good at it. I like programming.... so I combined them and wrote this Sing Along for android. The first few versions were rubbish, but I keep going and it's getting better. NEVER GIVE UP

JumblyApps

https://imgur.com/a/76BsG3U I am trying to land Lower one exactly on upper one, It collided with space debris on left side, lol.

There is the simulator https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.StefMorojna.SpaceflightSimulator

I'm not sure of the rules on ban evading on Wikipedia but try a VPN.

ProtonVPN has a free version and is really good even on those. I can pull high speeds on the free servers, and it works really well.

Ale sure to remove it from your search history. Clear your tabs. For future reference, use incognito I mode if you're using chrome, and use a VPN. I suggest ProtonVPN. There's a free tier that usually has relatively fast connections, and though I assume you can't afford it, but the higher tiers offer torrent support, higher speeds, more connections and less populated connections.

As for the non technical side, play it cool, just try and forget it. The quicker and more you forget, the less likely you are to hint towards it and crack or something. And most importantly, act normal. Assume your mom doesn't know, but be ready for her to.

Good luck.

Buy some good poison to kill bed bugs.

https://www.amazon.com/Harris-Diatomaceous-Extended-Residual-Protection/dp/B06WD7RL6L

https://www.amazon.com/MGK-1852-Crossfire-Concentrate-Insecticide/dp/B01NAE47Q0/ref=mp_s_a_1_3?dchild=1&keywords=crossfire+bed+bug+concentrate&qid=1598277992&sprefix=crossfire&sr=8-3

Yes you can replace it. It's not too difficult if you have any experience with wiring or soldering.

https://www.amazon.com/HTTX-Soldering-Replacement-Adapter-Headphone/dp/B076JD6C7H/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1522731709&sr=8-2&keywords=headphones+jack+replacement

I felt like this about a year and half ago, then a friend gave me this book https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01JNM8ADY/ref=dp-kindle-redirect?_encoding=UTF8&btkr=1 and I saw things differently, I want to try to do the same thing with you. You don't have to be spiritual to get anything in the book, you can even ignore that part of it if you really want to. Take it like you said this post was, an experiment, it seems you want to help yourself and thats the first step to becoming someone else -someone better- than who you are right now.

Rugs and tapestries. Bright or light colored. Also get yourself a happy lamp. I have one and it keeps my mood up during dark and rainy days.

Example: http://www.amazon.com/Verilux-HappyLight-Energy-Lamp-5000/dp/B002Q2H2JC/ref=sr_1_7_a_it?ie=UTF8&qid=1464659020&sr=8-7&keywords=happy+lamp