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Use an epilator. Your first few uses will take longer and will be a little painful (not as much as a tattoo), but don’t be a baby - you will feel true feminine hairless skin all over and the maintenance will be easier than shaving and way less frequent. Here’s a link to the one on Amazon: Amazon
Depending on how bad the hemorrhoids are you may need to seek professional medical attention. I get them from time to time as well and they can be extremely painful. They can be caused by "pushing" your poops out too hard, so if you think that is the cause you may want to take fiber supplements or something to make your bowel movements cleaner. This will help your anal play be cleaner as well.
If you are currently dealing with hemorrhoids or anal fissures and they are located outside or around the anus there is topical cream that works very very well to SIGNIFICANTLY reduce any pain or discomfort you may have as well as to shrink them down and eventually get rid of them. Here is a link to a product that I use on Amazon that works extremely well for me.
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B009G6U1AS?psc=1&ref=ppx_yo2_dt_b_product_details
Managed to get rid of some fairly bad hemorrhoids in just under 2 weeks, in my experience the pain relief lasted for about 6 hours so if your out at work or whatever maybe take it with you to apply in the bathroom every once and a while.
Hope this helps :)
I will assume you have your ideas about this topic somewhat in order already if not then go check the book "Help I think I'm a sissy" in amazon. My suggestion would be to check out the Sissy Academy course as it is a guided gradual process into this world
Sorry I misspoke - the Braun is my regular razor - the one I was talking about is the Philps Bodygroom. This one is similar to what I have - https://www.amazon.ca/Philips-Norelco-Bodygroomer-BG5025-49/dp/B078G9BKBW/ref=pd_lpo_194_img_1/131-1830185-1791360?_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_i=B07MJVD349&pd_rd_r=0c914de0-af38-44b6-84cc-d828bbef0e5f&pd_rd_w=9RVgO&pd_rd_wg=Q1mOW&pf_rd_p=55ea5ed7-d8ce-4183-b0cf-37e635680f3e&pf_rd_r=FFM7ZWZ66ZJPQN1QYJR2&psc=1&refRID=FFM7ZWZ66ZJPQN1QYJR2
You can see the extension handle on the right in the main picture. It unfolds and the razor clicks into it. One of the other pictures shows the attachment in use.
Just get this one. Easy to order from Amazon, good price, soft and not to rigid. Just the right size for me.
Do you have a tripod and a remote? I find that helps and opens up the options.
(i have one like this: https://www.amazon.com/Extendable-Wireless-Shutter-Compatible-Android/dp/B07K5QVJV3 that isnt my exact one and i am not affiliated with any shop)
Here is what I use.
I got mine simply from Amazon and I am happy with those I got.
I have got this one, which in reality looks a bit more light than on the pictures, but the quality is nice. If put on correctly it feels and looks quite real.
And I got that one only in purple (which seem to be not available anymore). But I also like that wig and for that price the quality is great as well. Of course you still notice it is a wig, but since its just 23€ you can not expect the highest quality. Yet for the beginning I am happy with those.
If you want to see pictures of them feel free to head over to my profile; I've posted pics with both of them :)
With that being said, while I can't say anything about that store it seems like that wig you chose does seem to be quite good. Especially that you can style it further with heat is a big plus if you ever want to play around with different styles. Only thing that would make me hesitate is that it is a US shop and you want it shipped to europe. Nothing wrong with that in general, but I personally would be too unpatient to wait for that long shipping times :D also it seems like the shipping costs are pretty high.
I think the one I got is 3 1/2” not sure but here is my new one, first ever just for me dildo. I love it, so much nicer to play with
Dīldɔ with Suction Stìck for Women Beginne (M-7inch) 8.3 Inch Fashion Waterproof Huge for Women with Suction Cup Female Relaxing,Personal Tool https://www.amazon.com/dp/B094YKRVVS/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_51QT7D247EBDWCZVK4N7?psc=1
Realistic Dildos Feels Like Skin,Upgraded 8.3 Inch Clear Dildo with Suction Cup for Hands-Free Play, Body-Safe Material and Adult Sex Toys for Women https://www.amazon.com/dp/B094YM764S/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_HM4WGK9EQP4B58CMD9CP?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
I was really hoping for the blue one, but ended up with a flesh colored one. But my sissy pussy love it’s regardless of it’s color
This is my daily (8-12 hours): https://www.amazon.com/Doc-Johnson-Mood-Naughty-Silicone/dp/B00FKD994U/
The X-Large used to come in pink too but I can't seem to find a link to it anymore. The trick is to use a lot of lube before the session. I use a lube shooter every morning filled to the brim, then lube the plug also. As you go about your day, gravity will do its thing and the excess lube works its way around the plug. You'll sometimes start to leak a bit this way if you wiggle too much, but its usually no more than a woman getting wet from being turned on :3
I do still carry lube with me and relube the plug every four hours
The first and (so far) only time I was able to achieve a sissygasm was with this, which is basically a budget nJoy pure wand. It clicked the second time I was using it and I love this one, even though I can't reach a sissygasm consistantly yet. But this is the one that gets me at least close any time I use it.
Once you get a fucking machine it will pull you right over the sissy side, if you're not there already. I have this one Toolbox Lover Machine: Amazon.ca: Health & Personal Care . It is more expensive but has the advantage of being fairly quiet and very easy to conceal. Here is a short video of me using it: Playing With My Toy - Videos - Hypnotube .
Having owned many I can honestly say this is the best so far. The only one I have that goes all the way down my throat. An extremely good value. I've had it for a year, use almost daily and It's holding up very well.
Usually panties in general don’t fit even a small cage in my experience. I own over like 25 non thong women’s underwear.
The only thong that works with chastity is “Sissy pouch” or “Muscle male” style thongs. They are popular among gay studs. Its essentially a normal thong with good size pocket to hold your chastity.
Like this: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07GGY77GB?ref=pd_basp_dp_primary
Hope it helps
- This isn't something I can comment on sadly, as I still have this issue myself.(I plan to get laser done in the next year or two to hopefully combat this issue)
- These are really nice for myself as a person with thicker thighs too Link I'm also 5'10" and they go to about half my thigh. For panties the most comfortable ones I have are Bamboo they are super soft and and overall comfortable to wear. A nice silk or satin panty is amazing too.
- Most I can say here is more lube, try a different lube, or stretch more before hand.
mine's literally how you described it, found it, tho idk if it's safe anyway
I’m going to share this here too.
The last month has been interesting. We didn’t do as much kink related things as we wanted to due to health issues but I kept him denied for the whole month and I finally completed AND published my first novella thanks to him.
I hope some here enjoy it.
I’m still working on my gag reflex, so I’m all ears for more ideas, but I do know about the butt thing.
They make long tapered dildoes for depth play that are soft and will slip in much easier than a dildo with the typical mushroom head. https://www.amazon.com/Flexible-Silicone-Stimulation-Sex-Factory/dp/B08K36RL74/ref=d_pd_sbs_sccl_2_1/143-5888439-9834649?pd_rd_w=NUfhB&content-id=amzn1.sym.1e7a0ba4-f11f-4432-b7d8-1aaa3945be18&pf_rd_p=1e7a0ba4-f11f-4432-b7d8-1aaa3945be18&a...
You can gradually expand that inner ring to make it receptive to bigger, longer toys. Just like you stretched out the first hole LOL. After training my inner hole, I can take my 14” dildo pretty easily now. It’s still a rush though when you pop it in and out, it really is HOLYFUUUCKKKK
I’m still working on my gag reflex, so I’m all ears for more ideas, but I do know about the butt thing.
They make long tapered dildoes for depth play that are soft and will slip in much easier than a dildo with the typical mushroom head. https://www.amazon.com/Flexible-Silicone-Stimulation-Sex-Factory/dp/B08K36RL74/ref=d_pd_sbs_sccl_2_1/143-5888439-9834649?pd_rd_w=NUfhB&content-id=amzn1.sym.1e7a0ba4-f11f-4432-b7d8-1aaa3945be18&pf_rd_p=1e7a0ba4-f11f-4432-b7d8-1aaa3945be18&a...
You can gradually expand that inner ring to make it receptive to bigger, longer toys. Just like you stretched out the first hole LOL. After training my inner hole, I can take my 14” dildo pretty easily now. It’s still a rush though when you pop it in and out, it really is HOLYFUUUCKKKK
The big toy I’m referring to is this here.
I didn’t get any video of it in use unfortunately.
Im going with this one off amazon for starter flat cage but im going to upgrade to a more expensive metal one for long term after that once im used to it.
I only recently made it work but there's a few things that probably helped:
I was in chastity for a whole day and most of the week before.
I got in the habit of rubbing or nubbing with a vibrator to get off. So even if it was after an anal session and I was giving up I at least said I would still rub to cum. I was doing this for weeks before.
I own a dildo and plugs but after trying and failing with long sessions I knew what my body responds to and a vibrator shaped like this worked out.
The actual process was an enema, plug for an hour, then toy myself with a vibrator on my cage and the vibrator angled towards my p spot.
Finally I was watching some some quality hypno videos on a playlist. I personally like the text based ones but pick what sends you over the edge.
Maid outfit! Here's a link to mine: https://www.amazon.com/French-Lolita-Cosplay-Costume-Black-White/dp/B08ZYFC3S3/ref=sr_1_2?keywords=maid+outfit&qid=1665539741&qu=eyJxc2MiOiI3LjQ4IiwicXNhIjoiNi42MiIsInFzcCI6IjUuODIifQ%3D%3D&sr=8-2
I love wearing it
Good girl.
A good sissy has lingerie. The kind for fucking in, not wearing around. As an alternative, Amazon has very inexpensive micro bikinis that look amazing for 15 bucks.
You need toys to open yourself. And to explore your new sissy persona. Dont go crazy big. No Daddy wants to fuck a sloppy loose hole.
I'm planning to!
I use a combination lockbox to hold my keys along with the chaster app. I basically take a pic of the scrambled combo but keep my head at an angle so I can't read the code but can still make sure its in focus. It works great, the combination box is made of strong metal since it's made to not be broken into. It would require power tools to get open. This is similar to what I got: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07NNHVB36 or just search "key lock box"
I have it set up to give me a 15 minute cleaning session every 2 days.
I hope I can find a keyholder soon.
Wow thank you for the info! And also for the advice on using the amazon locker for discretion. I wanted to try the Barlowe's brand PM because I heard good things but they won't ship it to a locker for some reason. Maybe bc glass bottle but idk. I had almost ordered the Carlyle but heard negative comments about 10:1 extract. I finally settled on this bc it seemed to have good reviews: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07N5JSNMC/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_awdb_imm_WS0XJ7HKE2N8KDWQCYRJ
Get something like this and use it to lock your cage. Just send the number to daddy and he'll be able to check that it's the same lock at the end of the month
I got this thong some weeks ago. I feel so sexy in it! I wear it when I use my dildo and it's such a turn-on.
I got this one and was really pleased. You do need to do a little deburring with the included abrasive, but it was comfortable once finished. It's my first cage.
https://smile.amazon.com/dp/B08HXWKQ59?psc=1&ref=ppx\_yo2ov\_dt\_b\_product\_details
I love anything by Lilly Lustwood but my favorites are Modeling for Mrs. Morningwood and Tokyo Sissy Hostess
I wear these everyday and unelectedu unless my pants are literally falling down they don’t show https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07SGCFFSS/ref=ppx\_yo\_dt\_b\_asin\_title\_o08\_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1
I'd say its personal preference and both have pros and cons.
Growing your hair out will look the most natural, but you are quite limited what styles you can go for, either because your natural hair growth limits you or because you can't go for a completely femme style, if you still have a male life.
With wigs you are basically unlimited regarding the style, but the quality wigs can be quite expensive, as with wigs you usually get what you pay for. So if you are on a budget, things may look a bit unnatural, even though there are good looking ones out there that are still affordable.
I personally just let my hair grow basically untamed since Dec 2019 or so and its gotten quite long, but i have extreme curly hair, so it looks okay and I can go without wigs. However I still love wigs, simply because I can go for a cute style. The main one I use almost all the time is this one here and i love it.
But again, in the end its completely up to you.
Here's what my routine is. I shared it in a different post so I'll just copy/paste:
- For 7 days out of each month you will have a sissy "period"
- During this time you must wear control top pantyhose with a panty girdle (Example) over them 24/7, even to bed.
- You will also wear your biggest butt plug for 12 hours each day during this week along with a sanitary pad under your pantyhose which you will change out every 4 hours.
- Before you put your plug in the morning, use a lube shooter to fill your sissy pussy with more lube than usual. It will slowly make it way around the plug and drip onto your pad during the day. If possible, relube the plug the same way every 4 hours to keep things nice and wet.
- If any of your wetness seeps onto your pantyhose, you must change your pantyhose out to a fresh pair.
- This means you will need to bring lube, pantyliners, and pantyhose everywhere you go, and you may need to change your pad in a public bathroom or at work depending on timing.
The idea is that the combo of the big plug, and the restrictive garments will simulate the same discomfort women feel when on their periods, but because it's all hidden, it will be your private sissy struggle throughout the day even if you're outwardly dressed as a boy still.
OK, I went to Amazon and spent way too long looking at wigs.....or maybe the right amount... 🤣
Here are the two I settled on: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09FP4J9V3?psc=1&smid=A3NW3FQJF9R964&ref_=chk_typ_quicklook_titleToDp
They should be here in a few days and I will post pics if how they look!
Like anything, too much can be a problem, but if not abused they are fairly safe.
They may leave you with a headache after your first couple of times or prolonged use. Touching it to the skin will cause irritation. You can use these (https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07QM2GS2H/ref=cm_sw_r_em_apan_i_6X6E726PQ8M1CQ4T5AC6) to avoid that. Some people have reported ED from long time usage. I've used them pretty consistently for at least 3 years and I still get boners.
If that doesnt deter you, they are really fun and definitely great for hypno and sex. You get a head rush and feel your body feels relaxed. It makes penetration super easy and then time and visuals get very blurred.
Cleanstream Pump Action Enema Bottle with Nozzle https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0789WYM5B/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_0MARE9GX1QX3ZN9F629P?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
I use this. A few rounds and I’m cleaning enough to stay plugged for 16 hours with no leakage, and ride my 10ish dildo.
I'm wearing these for everyday wear:
https://www.amazon.de/INNERSY-Unterhosen-Taillenslip-wesentliche-Mehrfarbig/dp/B07NRQP6N2
I think they are comfortable, and at least for me stuff "stays put". Sometimes I have to adjust, but that's the same with normal briefs ´for me. Something with a similar cut and made out of cotton will probably fit you too ^^
No joke this cage is the most comfortable and easy to use. I’ve had 6 different cages and this is by far the best. UTIMI Male Chastity Cage... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B085RB9LRL?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share
Here is the one that is working for me
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B089G6VMKD/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o00_s01?ie=UTF8&psc=1
Finding the right size is essential. I'm very short flaccid and thicker than most cages. That made the other cages uncomfortable.
Comfortable Chastity Device Men, Adjustable Chastity Cage with 4 Rings Sex Toy https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07WGPBPKQ/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_i_J878MJD3P7ZQHXQHXP8M?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
When you get it, be careful, the edges to the lock slide are a bit sharp, not enough to cause any damage, but it can hurt if you get hard before you get everything on
I have this maid's dress and LOVE it.
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08ZYN1VYJ?psc=1&ref=ppx_yo2ov_dt_b_product_details
I also have a few cheap ones from Aliexpress that are rather nice for being cheap too. I don't get to dress that often because my youngster never leaves the house but when I do it's so much fun.
Hm, I don't know, maybe I am just lucky, but I usually just shave and don't get much problems down there.
I use basically this Gillette Venus razor for everything down the neck combined with some cheap ass drugstore shaving gel (the sensitive version though). Then I just shave. Only thing I do afterwards is moisturize everything with some Nivea body milk. And thats it.
The only area where I tend to get some trouble is my neck, but besides that I usually am fine
I have really enjoyed my squirting dildo - it's a great way to tide myself over between real facials :)
I normally use Master Series Jizz lube, and it has very comparable consistency to the real thing, but it's not that great as anal lube (tends to dry out on me).
I recently started tinkering with motorizing the ejaculation - I purchased a small 9v air pump motor, wired it up to a battery and a button, and connected the surgical tubing to the existing tubing on the dildo. It works reasonably well to simulate a good facial (it's actually a bit too strong, I plan on using a smaller battery next time I try it out).
My next project for it is programming an arduino to randomize the ejaculation duration and timing between spurts and offering web control of it - that would make it very exciting for camming!
I have to wear a waist cincher every Monday, all day.
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B000BIDG7A/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_i_T34H47HRYP5ARCY64Y2A
I also often wear one in my monthly training sessions with my Mistress.
I literally went to my Amazon wishlist and checked what was at the top. 😁
Rago Style 9357 – Extra-Firm Open Bottom Body Shaper
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B001YV1WFQ/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_i_E1Q27FRPCYN6BB0H2Z7Q
I use these two products and have had amazing results.
Once I get out of the shower, while I'm still a little damp, i will rub Neutrogena Fragrance-Free Lightweight Body Oil over myself. I prefer the one without fragrance, but they have a few styles.
Then, as a general moisturizer and before bed, I'll use Neutrogena Moisturizing Sheer Body Oil-Lotion
I've tried a lot of brands and types of moisturizer, but these have just been working so great for me.
First off, here's the link to the fucking machine: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B086VZ12MZ/ref=cm_sw_r_awdo_navT_a_QM1FRVE5ZVDA9YH7KDNR?psc=1
I have only used it twice, but very much enjoy it. I wish the toys were longer and thicker, but you can buy additional toys for it. It isn't the strongest nor does it fully replace the feeling of a real person, it does allow you to use your hands for other things ;) it also can get going pretty fast and that feels amazing.
Second, I am curious about the sensory deprivation part you mentioned. What does that do for you? It sounds exciting but I would love to know your thoughts.
Hey babe, great questions!
When selecting your first cage, the most important thing is that it's comfortable, not that it's tiny. Trust me, the longer you wear a cage, the easier it will be to downsize.
When looking at a cage, you want it to be as close to the size of your flaccid clitty as possible, with a preferency of slightly smaller over slightly bigger. The idea is to not restrict your flaccid clitty too much, but to make sure thay it can't get any bigger of you ever start to get hard.
What's more important, though, is the ring you wear at the base. Take a piece of string and wrap it along the base of your clitty, making sure to include the area behind your little sissy ovaries as well. Take length of that string as the circumference of the ring, the use this tool to figure out the diameter. That's the size ring you want.
Having a proper size ring is actually much more important than the cage size, because of your ring is too small you can really hurt yourself! If it's too big, your little ovaries can slip out, and then the cage falls off, and that's no good!
I suggest that you start woth a plastic or resin cage, they're cheaper so it isn't as costly if you measure wrong 've been using a cherry keeper recently, they're available on shapeways, but a holytrainer works really well too (but they're pretty expensive!).
I've been wearing my cherry keeper Headlock cage since October almost nonstop, and I really recommend it!
I hope this helped you, but you can feel free to DM me is you have any questions!
Kisses, Eve
Get a realtors combination lock box. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07T9MC9LC?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share
Use a time release image website to hide a picture of the code you blindly set. It will show you the picture when you succeed at staying locked up.
Emlalock will even let you play games for time.
Well, I can only speak for myself, but I think it feels amazing and the view is incredible. We use a strapon from Utimi and it works well. The dildo that it comes with is actually very nice too.
UTIMI Wearable Sex Strap-on with... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B017VKFRJA?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share
Some people swear by PM saying that it grows feminine breasts. It's a phytoestrogen, so supposedly if you stop taking it, your gains gradually go away. I'm on actual hormones, so I don't know if this actually works or not. Before hormones, I stuffed bras with these breast forms. I liked the triangle shape better than teardrop because they looked and felt more natural on me.
If you are wanting room to accommodate a cage without smashing yourself, I like these cheeky panties made for men (they are Chinese, so go up a size or two). As far as bras, measure around your chest just below your pecs to get your under-bust measurement. When bras refer to "38C" the number is the under-bust measurement, and C is the cup size. Really the cup is only relevant if you are getting inserts or a breast plate, but the under-bust is crucial for your comfort.
these. buy this. use only water based lubricants. i like to use a plastic syringe for lubing inside and using a dildo to train the hole before popping it in. you can find those alongside the enema bulbs on amazon, as well. if you prefer to shop elsewhere, i dont blame you, but these are what i recommend for long term plug play. i can work a day job with the largest one now.
....well one approximation would be to get several of these breastplates, each in different sizes... https://www.amazon.com/Crossdresser-Silicone-Mastectomy-Prosthesis-Transgender/dp/B07YSHF3WJ?th=1&psc=1
At ~700 bucks, that option might be a little pricey though...
I recommend the cylinder locking styles rather than the padlock style. It's less bulky under your clothes and reduces pinching and twisting, so you can wear all day if you have to be manly for work. That link is for my newest one, and I really, really like it so far. I've had silicone coated plastic, hard plastic, and now this metal one. I by far prefer the metal, but I haven't ventured out into the cold for very long.
Now you'll be excited the minute they come in the mail. I was hoping my discovery would get someone to try this out! Just don't get the type with the sheath for a man's cock...duh! I got pink! You will totally feel like squealing! These are ones I got work!
SWIC Latex Rubber Butt Hugger Bikini Brief https://www.amazon.com/dp/B079D95M8J/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_glt_fabc_DDJ9W1V1WSXE5KY4507J?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
I like this one because it's shaped like my favorite thing, it keeps me nice and stretched, and it is smooth and comfy enough for me to wear for hours. It's more girthy than your average plug, and has a wide enough base that it shouldn't slip all the way inside. I'd recommend getting it in black, because flesh colored ones do take stains.
Pueraria Mirifica Bust Firming & Lifting Serum, Premium Made by Swiss Botany for Women and Men, Easy to Apply, Use Twice a Day for Best Results, 1 ounce https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00HRGBAT0/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_NBW3EAXD963Y1RS1G3A4?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
I just buy fake nails on Amazon and use generic adhesive pads for them. You can get something like 60 sets for $15, and 100 sets of adhesives for $8. They are easy to put on, and they are easier to take off when you need to. They have so many colors available that you can really play around with your palette without buying 100+ bottles of polish, remover, etc just to polish and then remove before work in the morning. Another alternative is something like this, that is a little less flamboyant but can still feel quite feminine, and has the same ease of use.
These have a nice pouch for the cage, and they are nice and girly lace. But they run small: I am 5'8" and 150lbs, and the XL fits nicely. Otherwise I just wear multiple flavors of ladies' thongs and hipsters.
I love this type of panties Cotton panties. They are not the sexiest, but you can get them in loads of different colour combos. So you can go more pastels or girly colours verses boy colours to be more discreet. The cotton is thick and supportive, so absolutely great with metal cages. I have other thongs and sexy undies but these are best for day to day wear.
If your heart is set on thong type panties, then look for sexy gaff thongs, and get a slightly bigger size than recommended for the flat look, that leaves room for a small cage whilst giving a sturdy well supported thong.
They exist but it is rare. I was a sissy to a Pro Domme for 10 years or so. She was married and I was her hobby. Literally her husband knew, we all knew each other as vanilla too. We were all friends. She had her hobby, it was a sissy. I had a girlfriend, wife, then divorced. All while her sissy. My wife knew about her and went as far with me as me being dressed outside work at home and chastity. Eventually my wife wanted to fuck other men, I was super excited and for around 2 years she did. So I had no sex and they did. I loved it. She loved it. Then as happens real life hits home, she fell in love with the guy from work she was fucking. And I didn't care because I only wanted to be a sissy to my Mistress. We divorced and that is good. She went on to have two kids with the guy and they are still together. I stopped being sissy because I was 39 and wanted kids, so I pretty much went looking for a woman to have kids with on Match.com. Found one and had two girls with her. She fell out of love with me around 4 years and me her to be fair. We separated and have a great relationship as two humans who love each other and 50/50 the kids. I have now met a sissy guy on here and we have had one date so far. I am able now to be who I am, hetroflexible or some such of bisexual. I can now start to wear womens clothes again everyday when not with my kids. I don't do the slutty here is my bum in some bad underwear stuff. I like to create a fashionable look that is feminine but works for a guy who has a stubble and no makeup. I am me and I dress how I feel. Anyhoo thats my take and life story in a post
Very friendly bunch on clubsissy, which is free btw.
Also there's a mycircle room (just ignore the hypnos if you aren't into them), with usually a very chatty, sex-positive group over there. Mostly UK and US gurls. I've developed some nice friendships there.
Anytime 😘 I recommend this body scrubber and this shave cream and a good quality razor.
I wax areas like my chest and nipples, love trail, nethers, and most of my thighs. I wax because it stays smoother for longer, and also no shaving bumps or nicks. For my arms and lower legs, I use a depilatory cream. Of course I do touch-up here and there with a razor as it seems unavoidable.
Amazon has some free Kindle ebooks for makeup tutorials, they discuss more of the "why" certain things are used, more than how to put them on. Such as using green to conceal red beards, orange to conceal dark beards, etc. They will also detail the specific tools you'll need like brushes, sponges and other applicators. I did find some freebies geared specifically for MTF transgendering makeup and feminizing your face. Then yes, Youtube is absolutely great for the "how to do it" aspect of applying makeup. Some discuss the color theory, as well as the techniques to shape and feminize. Almost all of them are going to provide positive reinforcement for you to be a beautiful girl, which is also as necessary as the "how to"; how can you expect to look beautiful if you don't feel beautiful?
https://www.amazon.de/Spielzeug-Analplug-ButtPlug-Anf%C3%A4nger-Bondage/dp/B07HP61184/ref=mp_s_a_1_9?dchild=1&keywords=buttplug&qid=1634984321&qsid=258-1079438-3671142&sr=8-9&sres=B00Y4XW5IE%2CB07Y1NFQTH%2CB08D8JXR3C%2CB08M8P8R... I have this one, my experiance is that at the beginning it is kind of wired. If you use it often you will get used to it and nobody should notice it. I weared chastity cage and plug while I helped my Patents by something and they didn't notice it. Try it out, find your Limits and go short steps, than you should have no Problems.
If you want to try chastity than don't buy a silicone one, they are very weak. You can try out one out of plastic, on Amazon is one where you can Chance the sice of the ring. https://www.amazon.de/Plastic-Chastity-Device-Bondage-Restraint/dp/B08H86Z86K/ref=mp_s_a_1_2?crid=330PV5IDT6W79&dchild=1&keywords=chastity+cage+male+plastic&qid=1634933946&qsid=258-1079438-3671142&sprefix=chastity+cage+male+p&a... I have this one, is good for short time and to try out chastity, without the plastic parts to extend the cage. But over long time you get prints on the skin and it gets uncomfortable. Metal one are kind of nice to wear, but I had with my one the problem that I don't really get the ring over my balls and ir can roast. Chastity feels good,exciting and kind of comfortable for some time, like if your penis is in someone hand, sometimes it is weird when you sit or lie but nothing extrem or so. What you can do to stop masturbation too, is to analyse when you do it and than to change your habbits. For example, I masturbate most of the time on the toilet after bath, so I decided not to take my phone, with which i Look porn, to the toilet.
I use this standar pink cage https://www.amazon.com/-/es/Healifty-Chastity-calzoncillos-masculinos-dispositivo/dp/B08HMK25KJ I'll give it a thought about the micro or flat. Any cage you recomend?
One more, but this one assumes you have some butt plug experience already:
* For 7 days out of each month you will have a sissy "period"
* During this time you must wear control top pantyhose with a panty girdle Example over them 24/7, even to bed.
* You will also wear your biggest butt plug for 12 hours each day during this week along with a sanitary pad under your pantyhose which you will change out every 4 hours.
* Before you put your plug in the morning, use a lube shooter to fill your sissy pussy with more lube than usual. It will slowly make it way around the plug and drip onto your pad during the day. If possible, relube the plug the same way every 4 hours to keep things nice and wet.
* If any of your wetness seeps onto your pantyhose, you must change your pantyhose out to a fresh pair.
* This means you will need to bring lube, pantyliners, and pantyhose everywhere you go, and you may need to change your pad in a public bathroom or at work depending on timing.
The idea is that the combo of the big plug, and the restrictive garments will simulate the same discomfort women feel when on their periods, but because it's all hidden, it will be your private sissy struggle throughout the day even if you're outwardly dressed as a boy still.
Well I guess in the worst case I can put a cloth or something in my mouth to prevent the noise. I really love the confetti ones, they are so cute. Like this once for example https://www.amazon.com/Louviva-Confetti-Realistic-Silicone-Suction/dp/B06ZZYY8ZM#customerReviews. Maybe I'll have to work up to it, but just have to have it.
Hey, for the, "nothing you chew," that lasts for a week, right? (Not that I've been doing it right...) I just want to confirm I can go back to real food eventually... Considering I've already had Bratwurst and sauerkraut, grilled chicken on salad with veggies and pasta, and cinnamon roll (with coffee, so use the coffee to soften the roll.) I'm worried I'm ragging my tongue, i.e., tearing it. Will get a second opinion when I get home, we're on the road right now. I think the piercing needs to be deeper into the mouth, and more vertical to both surfaces of the tongue.
Also thinking I'll use this as the new jewelry:Fiasaso 16Pcs 14G Tongue Rings for Women Mix-color Surgical Stainless Steel Straight Barbell Tongue Piercing Jewelry Bars Piercing 5/8"(16mm) https://smile.amazon.com/dp/B09331FZ2G/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_glt_fabc_CM76WJ9XATVJ96070ZV5?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1 Bottom row, second in from right. 🙂
Just going to second the statement about going through Amazon over aliexpress. Here's an example that similar in design and has some reviews that point out its flaws.
I’m bit new to chastity so mine is not a super small one. Here is link of the one I bought from Amazon Excellent cage for the price, comes with 3 rings. The cage itself is on the longer side...so it may not be what you looking for. https://www.amazon.com/Utimi-Cock-Chastity-Device-Locked/dp/B075MCMM6N/ref=zg_bs_1243841011_2?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1&refRID=DNA25HM5THJW8SKATV11
I found this fucking machine from amazon, looks like it comes with a set of dildos for $100, doesn’t sound too bad. whats ur opinion on it?
I really liked this one to start Amazon.com: X5 Grinder Latin Realistic Dildo Brown: Health & Personal Care. Its pretty soft and not too big. Makes it great for deepthroating too! Ones that are more firm and/or larger will be better at hitting your p spot and feeling amazing but if you're just starting this will be more comfortable. Just remember to go slow and use lots of lube!
I actually just bought one on Amazon!
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07WHQPWSB/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o00_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1
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It's going to be here on Sunday and I cant wait to lock myself up. it has decent reviews and it's fairly cheap but it's resin and apparently has some uncomfortable edges. If this thread is still ongoing after i give it a couple of days of use I will come back and tell you how it went. In the meantime, there are plenty of reviews on google for some of the ones sold on amazon, but strangely the one that was most recommended isn't showing up on amazon atm :/
Aah, yeah. There is also the burnt hair smell that comes with chemical solutions that I'm not a huge fan of. Another reason I personally go with shaving, but maybe good smelling candles can overcome that :)
This is the epilator I have. It's a little pricey, and very painful to use. I have a hard time using it for very long, but occasionally I use it in focused areas and the results are really good.
I've not had good results with Nair.
This product is similar and works really well for me (your skin might be different). https://www.amazon.com/Magic-Shaving-Powder-ounce-fragrant/dp/B0048ZIFA0/
But nothing beats waxing. I feel bad for people with boy parts. I hear its difficult to get boy parts waxed and when you can find someone who is willing to do it, its expensive. But when you have a vag, waxers are abundant and cheap... typically. Personally, I think this is sexist and possibly lawsuit worthy.
thank you I will check it out. I'm reading this one now I found on Amazon. Not sure how to shorten the link https://www.amazon.com/Sissy-Boy-Feminized-Alyson-Belle-ebook/dp/B07BFLQH4H/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=Sissy+Boy%3A+Feminized+and+Loving+It&qid=1609499422&s=digital-text&sr=1-1
So my girlfriend is trans and also likes a clean bottom so that she can enjoy sex uninhibited and unworried about it being messy.
She's a real pro at it.
- Never enema, always douche. The difference? An enema is a large amount of water that will go past your rectum. A douche is a small amount of water that cleans out the immediate area.
Case in point, before sex my gf will pop into the bathroom for less than 2 minutes and be perfectly clean afterwards.
- Use one firm squeeze of the bulb while standing in the bathroom.
Because if the water goes past your rectum than there's a good chance that now soiled water will slowly leak back down. It's less healthy. It's more painful and time consuming.
Something like this works great for that. When I insert the head my sphincter grasps around it like a plug. Best of both worlds and not very expensive.
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B085VFT1GF/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_fabc_-XuTFb375JWBW
Pueraria Mirifica. DEFINITELY works for me (YMMV) but I never went too far. I stopped because it was getting somewhat obvious. You can get it on Amazon.
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01GEUE59G/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o07_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1
I had the exact same problem but I found a little work around. Using this harness https://www.amazon.ca/gp/product/B073VQ49ZH?ref=ppx_pt2_dt_b_prod_image
Just take the pink form part off and push the cage through the ring and tighten the straps a viola the cage will stay in place.
I love my Njoy Wand (or the knock-off) Tabuy Polished Steel Pure G Spot Metal Wand 7.8 Inch 56g https://smile.amazon.com/dp/B07JNR9NC3/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_ayMGFbX3CWZRJ
For poppers, Amsterdam, Pig Sweat, Brown Bottle, and Monster Clock are my favorite brands. Finding them can be difficult online since PayPal/credit card companies won’t touch them. Good luck!
so, i have found this comfy resin one on Amazon, it comes in 5 different sizes, i went with the small because i have a standard-sized one from a similar mold. im considering picking up the nub, soon, honestly. but i've found it rather comfy for wearing at work under the jeans, and they include a little patch of sandpaper to smooth any seams that might bite ya. ive found it pretty comfy long term wear and easy to clean, i can even sleep in it pretty easily.
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07QW2H7QC/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o06_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1
Try pouch panties, you should be able to find them on amazon depending on the region that you’re in. https://www.amazon.ca/SISSY-pouch-panties-bikini-underwear/dp/B00SQVMLVG/ref=mp_s_a_1_114?dchild=1&keywords=pouch%2Bpanties%2Bmen&qid=1578282594&rnid=5690384011&sprefix=pouch%2Bpan&sr=8-114&th=1&psc=1 For example these
This is the vibe I use Vibe. It doesnt have the best review and sometimes it gives me problems, but usually it doesnt, not too loud, and when I was really horny it was powerful enough for me. I dont recommend it though because it seems I got a good working one and the quality control on these things are bad. Im kind of the similar situation with the noise, but it doesnt sound too loud when it is inside of me and I have a fan going to help drown out the noise. I have started to enjoy the slow rise to the edge instead of rushing towards the end, which is nice. Im an not as disappointed when I dont have an orgasm as I feel quite satisfied already, but still very horny which is nice.
I would suggest starting with a training set, like these: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07BHWT1QX/ref=ox_sc_act_title_5?smid=ATVPDKIKX0DER&th=1
Made out of pure silicone so safe for long-term wear, and super comfortable due to the curved base. The largest one has been my regular daily plug for several years now.
If you're looking for something more like a jacket: https://www.amazon.com/Anself-Womens-Shaggy-Sleeve-Jacket/dp/B076ZQ51HR/ref=sr_1_2?keywords=pink+fuax+fur+coat+womans&qid=1563557858&s=gateway&sr=8-2
... And then this is something more like a "coat" coat: https://www.amazon.com/HHei_K-Autumn-Winter-Sleeve-Outwear/dp/B07KPLJ449/ref=sr_1_9?keywords=pink+fuax+fur+jacket+womans&qid=1563557800&s=gateway&sr=8-9
hope this helped. :)