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As others have pointed out, there are not many people with disabilities on reddit. The other reason obviously is that their problems are a lot worse. Since it's a lot worse, they have their own support groups, sex-related too. I've read an interesting article about it not so long ago (https://meduza.io/feature/2018/11/12/boyus-chto-za-moi-zhelaniya-menya-osudyat). Society in general tends to see disabled people apart from all the sex thing, it's uncomfortable for average normie to think about. They can't blame disabled people for being entitled or say their problem is personality so they just avoid this theme. There were a heartbreaking monologue from a grownup dude in a wheelchair who was thinking about suicide because of that and still even his parents didn't want to aknowlege he has such needs. All their advices were to pray and to forget about that. So he's venting online only. Another sad thing stated in this article was even among disabled people females tend to have sex and relationships much easier, while for males it is straight hopeless. Article ends with a story of "surrogate partner" Cheryl Greene, a person, who helps disabled people to admit their body, teaches them intimacy and stuff and yeah, has sex with them sometimes if they need to. It made me think if such a "surrogate partner" would be helpful for some incels since there are common posts like "have opportunity to ascend but too frightened and have no skills" and it can also be applied to me. But I have no idea where I can find this kind of help. P. S. sorry for the rant and grammar, just wanted to practice English a bit.
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>The thing to realize is that you are choosing to spend that time online. There is no one stopping you from signing up for a couple clubs and socializing. Like today you can sign up for a basketball league or something. From there you meet people and maybe make some friends. Then you start hanging out and all the sudden you're invited to places Saturday Nights. I'm not saying this is going to get a GF, but rather that this is a step in the right direction.
As a high achieving student at the time, my time at 18 -mid 20s was full of school work. Then I got a high paying job at 25 and the full force of inceldom hit until mid 30s when I had no choice but to travel overseas to meet the only women interested in talking to me.
Clubs? You can forget about seeing any woman more than once after you hit the workforce. The beautiful ones don't even go to meetup.com events more than once or twice.
Don't bash online gaming when that was literally the only thing that kept me sane after meetups that went nowhere, driving to events desperately hoping to meet someone (which led to a car accident), etc. On top of an already full time job. Computer games and pets (I have a cat) literally saved my life.
I dunno if this relates in particular to being incel. But I've found that it describes my life pretty well and also I like Ministry, so yeah.
https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=yOdWHBuFn5M&feature=share
Meetup.com lets you know about a lot of stuff happening in your city, plus if you find a facebook group for your city (especially for your age group or for a category of socializing) you can stay up to date on things. Volunteering is good - farmers' markets (which sometimes have the perk of giving you free food), beach/forest/park cleanups, various charities. If you're any specific kind of nerd there might be an environment for that specific kind of nerd. Taking up some kind of group fitness can be useful as well - maybe not for making super close friends, but definitely for being around people consistently and not feeling like you're just holed up at home.
For a definition this works: https://dictionary.cambridge.org/es/diccionario/ingles/confidence
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Yeah, it's not like it's a different definition for confidence with women.
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Now where to find it is what I believe you want to know. For people like you without much success with women, it might be hard to find said confidence, because you don't have past victories to gain confidence from. But don't worry, you can find confidence by believing in what you are, your own strenghts and also, and this is very important is by not fearing failure. When you stop fearing defeat you'll notice changes in your attitude.
The whole point of tinder is that it's photo based. I didn't even think there was room for anything except name, age and photo.
If you want paragraph-based, personality connections, that's what eharmony and match and shit are for.
Yep. Also the stock email I was talking about? It was this article.
They'd mail it as a cope when you received poor ratings on your photo JFL.
More evidence of photofeeler messing with ratings:
> Thanks to sophisticated artificial intelligence, bad votes are detected and thrown out in real time.
> As soon as some variation of voter fraud is committed (for instance, a user exhibits careless voting behavior), Photofeeler starts throwing out these opinions so they never reach the photo owner.
wtf are 'bad votes' and 'careless' voting behaviour? probably honest low ratings because apparently only trolls would think people are ugly.
Depending on where you live, there could be multiple options:
1- Meetup.com is pretty good for getting involved in common hobbies. The size of the community differs by locale (small town in Alabama will not be as lively as San Francisco), but you might be able to find groups with whom you share interests. Many of them are geared towards getting complete strangers together.
2- Again, depending on your hobbies, look up the local communities for them online. I met a lot of people through my kickboxing gym or yoga studio when I first moved to SF. A lot of groups (hiking groups, jam sessions, DnD or wargame parties) have a website, facebook page, or subreddit.
3- Seek out local volunteering opportunities like soup kitchens or community gardens, if you're so inclined.
4- Finally, if you're religious look for your local community like a neighborhood church or synagogue. I'm not religious, so it wouldn't have worked for me, but it's helped my more religious friends.
Yep. Women will join the ranks of those who will claim that AI and robots have rights and that you can't program AI or robots with "unrealistic personalities or proportions", making the available AI restricted to your usual snarky Chad-chaser who is disgusted by ordinary guys.
They already did this when they found out that guys were trying to talk to Cortana and Alexa as if they were girlfriends
Entitle is a right. Privilege is a special right
So not the same thing...you were not making an argument of privilege you were making an arguement of entitlement....this is why the definition of entitlement has to be clear...
Which is your definition?/..
entitlement
noun
UK /ɪnˈtaɪ.təl.mənt/ US /ɪnˈtaɪ.t̬əl.mə
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[ C or U ] something that you have aright to do or have, or the right to do or have something:
pension/holiday entitlements
Managers have generous leaveentitlement.
[ U ] disapproving the feeling that you have the right to do or have what you want without having towork for it or deserve it, just because of who you are:
a classic case of male entitlement
.https://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/entitlement?q=Entitlement+
Can i be more specific....as its an argument of entitlement.
Which definition of "entitlement" are you talking about?
https://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/entitlement?q=Entitlement+
Hey man- I'm 5.5 52 and white. Just being short appeared to be a detriment..until I open my mouth, I'm funny , smart and kind. People are shallow. Many women have snubbed me. BUT.. I have attracted alot of women because I'm confident , and can carry a conversation. Believe me , you don't need any of these shallow people. BE YOU! Don't blame any physicality. Internet dating is JUNK. Go to MEETUPs. (meetup.com) If you like bike riding or needlepoint, go to those meet ups. once people get to know you, you'll be GOLDEN. I promise.
What are your hobbies? Try out meetup.com or facebook groups. That's how I met my closer friends, I'm into cars so I joined a cars and coffee and things went smoothly from there.
"Reformedincel’s 100 page book on early incel forum history" haha holy shit https://www.docdroid.net/9zPNsCB/tim-may-6-702-am-pdf >!it's only 32 pages!<
I'm reading The Brief Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao and its depiction of Oscar as a hardcore nerd-type incel rings so true to me that it's both painful and somehow a relief to hear it expressed. The first section, Ghetto Nerd at the End of the World, is amazing. Every segment of the book that includes Oscar and his travails and developments is great.
https://www.audible.com/pd/Fiction/The-Brief-Wondrous-Life-of-Oscar-Wao-Audiobook/B01MSZHVY0
Legit, change your profile pic for something you find on thispersondoesnotexist.com, make sure you get a man that is normie or above, and then see if you start getting job offers.
>You can't find studies showing white men are more attractive.
Literally found that in less than 5 minutes of google searching. Lol
> Until now, you only showed me a suspicious online survey composed of mostly white people to support your point. JFL...
I dont' have to because the OKCupid dataset already shows the truth and it has a sample size of tens of thousands, retard.
You only see diminishing returns if you are start to get below average. So under 5’8 you will have more problems. Sexual Partners by height
You still have interests, and can still communicate. My advice applies. http://whisper.sh/stories/58b17bb6-2451-4032-b528-939e9a11def2/20-People-Reveal-What-Its-Like-To-Date-Someone-Mute
Anywhere you might ordinarily meet people or make friends on the internet. Depends on your interests.
Maybe meetup.com to find a D&D or tabletop gaming group.
Random health or fitness forums if you're a gymcel or a fucking vegan or some shit.
A Smash Bros. subreddit if you're looking for friend codes for Ultimate.
Tumblr has plenty of dumb girls, most of them not pretty enough to be super dangerous.
Any place people hang out and talk about and/or participate in a hobby you enjoy.
Looks like the book title makes it seem like an anti-monogamy book. But there was a pro-monogamy article that was a response to Vox's video on monogamy (which was anti-monogamy). The article seemed to speak favourably of the book.
Excerpt from the article:
>Rather than explaining monogamy, the Vox video portrays it as something alien and largely useless. It seems like this particular narrative was deliberately chosen before a frame of video had been shot. The expert they interviewed who got much of the detail right was David Barash, yet he was given the least screen time. I suspect they chose him because he wrote a book (which the makers of the video almost certainly did not read) called <em>The Myth of Monogamy</em>. But once they started talking to him they were perhaps disappointed to discover that the title refers to the historical prevalence of polygyny, and not the polyamorous utopia described by Christopher Ryan.
Well I run a business. I need as much halo effect going for me as possible. Lol
This is the one I got: https://www.amazon.com/QIAYA-Selfie-Photography-Lighting-Rechargeable/dp/B01HXTHPXU
I’m also dark-skinned and the Mac has shitty light absorption. The light makes it much easier to see me. Lol
Not an incel but I do have BPD/cptsd. It's a shitty diagnosis dude, but if you have borderline and take DBT and CBT very seriously you won't be fucked up so bad you can't relate to people forever. Learning emotional regulation and self boundaries when your emotions act out stronger than most people is hard to learn, but if you like actually give yourself any kind of patience and work at it, yeah you can get a shitload better.
If it helps at all, borderline is the single most studied mental illness out there. We know more about it than we know about just about anything else you can need to go to a therapist for.
Consider amazoning https://www.amazon.com/Borderline-Personality-Disorder-Workbook-Integrative/dp/1684032733
Its a solid start on looking into this shit yourself.
You claimed feminism developed radically. I said there is no scientifically researched evidence of that.
Lol and what is this supposed to prove?
https://www.amazon.de/Men-Are-Better-Than-Women/dp/1416953817
There you go. You think one sexist book makes up the whole sex?
The development of feminism has nothing to do with it. I'm talking about the present, not the past.
https://www.amazon.com/How-Date-Men-When-Hate/dp/1250193427
Tell me that book would be published if it was called "How to Date Women When You Hate Women."
What a shock for the gender who came up with this:
https://www.amazon.com/Abundant-Female-Dating-Strategy-T-Shirt/dp/B082PJX7C3
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This is the first one that popped up on Amazon, thoughts?