This is barely an article. It's from Whisper and more of a collection of anonymous opinions. Get an intern to gather up some similar opinions, give it a lame title and a stupid blurb and you got yourself some shit-quality clickbait.
Reminds me of the plus sized women, and overweight men headline.
For anyone wondering link
Barely even that. I tried to look for a source, and the best I got was a collection of whispers.
IIRC, the article is a lot more thoughtful than what the headline implies. It's about women who are overweight and struggling with the fact that they don't find similarly overweight men attractive, even though they recognize it's not exactly fair.
I'll see if I can find it, but I think it was a kind of obscure article and I swear this image has been circulating for the better part of a decade now, lol.
EDIT: here it is.
It's not even really an article, it's just quotes from random women. Some feel conflicted about their preferences, others not so much.
So I looked this bad boy up on Google, and the ladies on this site don't seem to be praising her. More like ripping her a new one... "that's why you're a girlfriend, not a wife", "that's so wrong", "get a vibrator". There's almost nothing there to suggest women are praising this sort of behavior.
Analogy: it's kind shit post on Reddit that gets thousands of upvotes despite being debunked in the comments.
Here's the link.
Jätän tämän vaan tänne, ja nyt voidaan uudelleen ihmetellä miksi ei ole löytänyt kunppania
It has all the ingredients to outrage your average Redditor.
It includes several things Reddit tends to hate with a white-hot passion – overweight women, women with preferences that the Redditor hasn’t personally reviewed and approved of, people (usually other women) defending the latter two.
The euphemism “plus-sized” being used to describe women, then “refusing to settle” for “overweight” men?
The actual article (if you can even call it that, it’s really just a paragraph followed by a collection of anonymous quotes) does refer to “plus-sized men”.
Also some of the women refer to themselves as “overweight”. They also mostly refer to “big” or “bigger” men.
But let’s get all worked up over the title and make sweeping generalizations about women.
Also it's "plus sized" for women and "over weight" for men.
Plus-Sized Women Admit They Aren't Attracted To Overweight Men
You know this was women doing this.
“Plus-Sized Women Admit They Aren't Attracted To Overweight Men”
There are good women out there? Sure, good luck in divorce court buddy. Let me know how that works out.
>we as men want to date good looking women with a education and money but we except women to settle
Oh, really?
Who's trying to go out of their league huh? Apparently me asking a woman not to weight MORE THAN TWICE what i weight is me asking a woman to settle for someone beneath her and I'm a fucking disgusting mysoginist hypocritical incel. Noted.
What about education? What fucking man wants a an educated woman? A moron, that's who. I've got two degrees and about to defend my Ph.D. Thesis, guess what i would require of a woman if i wasn't MGTOW? My bar for her would be for her not to base her life around horoscopes. I guess I would be asking her for settle for someone CLEARLY beneath her in mental faculties. Noted and fuck you.
The one about money is just lol. You want a woman that makes as much as you or even more? Good luck being anything more than a boytoy. But apparently asking women not to be fucking leeches sitting on the sofa all day long doing nothing but messing around with their smartphone is asking them to settle for less than they deserve. Noted. I guess Bezos, Musk and Gates should have just worked harder, because they're clearly hobos that didn't earn enough money.
Ok, so i looked into the source of this article. Found Here
The actual title itself led me to believe it was a misinterpretation of a scientific article, but no.. It's just trashy journalism (blogging?). Whilst I disagree with the practice, I don't see how this belongs here on /r/TumblrInAction. Line 2 of the article even uses the phrase, "plus sized-men". I'm replying here of course to the title of this reddit post, and not the content of the article. Many of the 'meme' images used in the article even refer to the women/themselves as overweight.
The fact that this is even something that you are considering... speaks to the BULLSHYT that is working & living in America. You are preparing to birth a WHOLE ASS BABY, and planning to take NO leave?! GIRL. What?
I was thinking "This gotta be just a made up picture"...
Im gonna try and read it...
I think I will end up like the victims of "The Ring" video if I read it until the end.
Wish me luck 🤣
And to the people in denial that this is an actual thing.
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"Plus-Sized Women Admit They Aren't Attracted To Overweight Men", acho que isto diz tudo
Have you ever seen this picture that was all over the place many years ago? There's something to what you tried! My neuro explained that their current best understanding of a migraine is that a constriction of your blood vessels causes (can cause) an aura, then rapid dilation brings on the pain. I've also heard it described as blood pressure problems in the brain, which would explain why BP meds are helpful for some in preventing migraines. Ice/cold helps constrict those dilated vessels while heat on the extremities dilates vessels there, drawing blood to the extremities and, presumably, away from the brain. Anyway, glad it worked for you!! Nothing wrong with weird if it works!
LibLeft reminds me of that one article everyone saw that called women “plus sized” and men “overweight”
It's pretty much exclusively for fat chicks.
Source: am fat dude.
Well dont you stick out like a sore thumb
Its the rule of thumb, always use protection when your using power tools
(If his wife or a nurse ks nossing him around) Man, your really under her thumb, huh?
Your all thumbs... well, you used to be...
(Do a quick hasty drawing of him durimg/after accidemt) here, its a thumbnail sketch i made for you
Or my personal favorite: http://whisper.sh/whisper/05251bb8be5b2bde63fe03ca314d3c496faf13/Thumbs-up-forwar-amps
Literally just Google the headline and you'll find it
It's just a bunch of confessions on whisper
I'd like to speak to a manager haircut.
Thank you for the tl;dr. I still won't do them myself. Didn't you hear? I'm a lazy millenial.
The article confuses Ethereum's Whisper protocol, with the controversial app Whisper that wasn't so private: http://whisper.sh/
Perhaps a new name for Whisper is in order - Umbra, Blur, Fog, Mirage, Puff, Murmur, Mutter, Phantom, ... ?
I always get annoyed when this is posted because everybody just takes it at face value and nobody checks the source.
Here it is. They're mostly using "plus-size" for women and "big" for men, but all terms are used pretty much interchangeably.
Not stolen from these comments- posted on Whisper back in 2017.
http://whisper.sh/whisper/054917cfc0f7a0fc1d33966e3fc143d4dfdc9f/Listening-to-Hamilton-on-shuffleSong-1-2-3-4-5-6-7-8-9Me-Its-the-1
To be fair, it doesn't seem that there is an "article" on this. If you note in the image, there is no byline, no website, etc.
When searching the title of the post, the only thing that comes up (other than forum discussions about the image from OP) is a post from a website called whisper.sh. The post is just a bunch of those anonymous "confession" images, so there is no actual content to it, other than the anonymously made images.
And in reality, there are a few of them that say just what you are saying, and there is one that says to them it is about the intent to get in better shape.
I wouldn't exactly call this "fake news", but I think it is worth pointing out that there isn't really an "article" about this, just a bunch of images put together.
>We did have sex maybe 2 or 3 times in 2011 and 1 time in 2012. Every time she had a couple of drinks and the mood was right. The last time in 2013 we had sex because we wanted kids, and luckily for us we had a baby in 2013.
I don't want to say "WTF did you do THAT for!?!?", but WTF? She'd already revealed the DB to come, and THEN she gets pregnant? She Baby-Trapped you.
She successfully posed as normal libido JUST LONG ENOUGH, and she thinks she has you properly shackled. You get to say yes or no to the "Shackled and trapped" part; she's willing to have sex ONCE more in your life, to get that second baby.
As the schmuck who got trapped exactly that way (I have no idea how Bitchy Wife #1 got pregnant that second time...) I can only recommend running NOW while you still have a chance. She will NEVER again want sex. If you like sex, you'll have to ~~divorce~~ leave her and cut yourself free.
Good luck!
This original article was about a few women who feel bad for not being attracted to overweight men. This whole comment thread has turned into a rally against (overweight) women. A bit of critical thinking wouldn’t go amiss.
Based on what? When I look for a source for that claim, I find this, which claims it's not true, this, which says it's true, but has no citation and is literally just a meme or something, and this, which amusingly just throws it to cdc.gov, not an article or study or anything. Am I missing something?
pls watch the video because its more helpful than me (im not fluent enough and also am dont fully understand the grammar). also i only know about that english concept because of an old meme, i dont think many native speakers pick up on that either way lol.
>Thank you for your honesty. That’s really the headspace I’m in as well.
It's no fun that's for sure as I was cheated with added dead bedroom on top of that.
>http://whisper.sh/stories/ddf80a60-292a-4821-9f9b-f0a2ef8c875e/The-Brutally-Honest-Reasons-Why-Guys-Refuse-To-Date-Single-Moms > >https://www.yourtango.com/2017302953/13-reasons-why-its-totally-okay-not-date-single-parents > >https://www.parenting.com/blogs/mamas-boy/christine-coppa/guys-dont-want-date-single-moms
Well for me they are wrong, as I married a single mom. So I wouldn't exclude them at all as they are people and just like me are a packaged deal. So don't be bringing your self down reading stuff like that.
Unfortunately, it didn't archive the full thing correctly. You can see the full article here. Non Archive link
EXPERIMENT RIGHT HERE
Can everyone have a look at the 2 images below, they both have photos of Tom Hank's as Forrest Gump, along with the caption. This is exactly what the caption says:
"Mama always said life is like a box of chocolates. You never know what your gonna get." -Forrest Gump
And this..
Lets see if this alters at some point. This has happened to me before on more than one occasion, it can flip in a matter of seconds sometimes!
Inspired by posts like this:
This site is hilarious how did I not know about this until now?
Kind interesting when you look at the article/photo series (here), that most of the women admit that it's just their prference and would prefer to be slim themselves (something you could find in lots of men as well), but for some it clearly seems that they think they deserve something better without changing themselves, which is... obviously heckin valid! Fatphobia in men should be ostracized and a punishable crime!
And this "article" is from whisper of all places. Unverified and anonymous people just posting their opinions and that's taken as fact.. SMH
> " Plus-sized women aren't attracted to overweight men"
This one?
It's worth noting, because I think that's the focus here via the headline in many of the comments I see here, that most of people actually talking about this in the collection of 'whispers' refer to the other sex In the same terms as they do themselves, with one or two exceptions.
In conclusion: Men are not angry because they "can't have every woman". Thats a weak deflection. Men are angry because a lot of women have standards that are completely detached from what they themselves have to offer. And it makes dating miserable for everyone, including women.
Most women are simply not ready to have that discussion, which is why I keep hearing these weak arguments that completely miss the point.
:) I will link what i found on whisper about the girls. It was posted 3 yrs ago. whisper
Its Interesting how many people think the opposite, I've been told it was a crime of opportunity so many times. However, the police have not said that it was certainly a stranger. The police also believe he has ties to delphi. I wonder if the rest of the audio has something that makes them believe that.
I like the name btw. I'm from texas as well
Here is the source:
Most of them struggle with their preferences, and feel ashamed. No need to fatshame
Unfortunately scar formation is a very generic process, and especially many years down the line it's going to be difficult or impossible to distinguish a cigarette burn scar from a bug bite that you picked at because it was itching. In fact, just now when I was looking for reference pics for cigarette burn scars, I came across this from someone who has that issue:
I picked up a scabies infection last year and had an allergic reaction to it and had swollen round nodules all over my legs that itched like crazy, and they'd definitely have scarred like that if I hadn't practised great restraint and kept my scratching to a minimum.
Nobody thinks twice about me having scars though, which is just as well since I've got a nice collection of them. I've even got one on my septum where I fainted and whacked my face on the toilet while taking a piss.
You are not going to be as excited as you think. This isn't even an interesting article, I just cropped out the picture to use as a reaction image
Edit: not even an article, just an image with words on it.
Daily Mail is a tabloid but the Whisper App is real.
If you don't like Daily Mail, you can look at it straight from the source
The actual "story", if anyone is interested.
Although, its not journalism or a study of why that may be the case, its just Whisper. 'Nuff said.
> sex isn't on the table at the moment so pregnancy doesn't look too likely either
Remember the condom when she goes into "hysterical bonding" and wants to "make up" - by getting pregnant.
That's a terrible title. It doesn't take on Facebook, or Twitter. It isn't going to put either of them out of business. It's more like a location dependent Whisper.
Also, it's supposed to prevent NSA eavesdropping, but its called EaseDrop.in?
Meh, I like chubby girls and I've always been thin. Currently working on getting fit. It's not just fat women that get shamed though, especially when articles get published with titles like Plus-Sized Women Admit They Aren't Attracted To Overweight Men. Overweight people in general are shamed, but it's pretty obvious the fat acceptance movement isn't for "plus-sized men". Obesity in general isn't seen as a health condition that requires treatment, but a moral issue that requires condemnation. It's not a good thing, nor is it helpful, but we don't have to pretend fat men don't get shit too.
Most of the women and girls I know show vastly different levels of empathy when it comes to men and women... I was talking to this girl about a guy in our school and I just mentioned that the guy has great abs and the girl's first reaction was, "ohh but he's so short!!". We weren't even talking about the guy's height. Sometime later I showed that girl this meme and she got extremely offended and said how insensitive it is to say that. One other girl I know posted an embarassing video of me online without my consent I told her not to do it... randomly touches me on the butt sometimes just to annoy me. I swear she'd never in a million years be okay with a guy doing that to her yet she has done that to me and feels no remorse. A girl I know from school has a tiktok account and she posted a video of an old guy changing that she secretly recorded because she thought it was funny. I confronted her about it and she told me the guy is old so he probably doesn't care. Would she be okay with someone doing the same to her? Of course not! She's a girl. I knew many female teachers who felt it was okay to physically hit boys but not girls. Look at this headline btw. It's a clearest example of how common it is for women to show different levels of empathy when it comes to men and women. In my experience that's like most women. I've rarely seen women and girls who treat men's suffering and women's suffering equally and with equal empathy.
I think cause he kind of looks like him and also cause his solo stuff is always kind of so bad it's good.
By this, I don't mean it's unfair for women to not like fat boys, it's absolutely fair, since we men also look for a fit body in a girl, but just look at this, this, I believe, is an example of a double standard in physical beauty: http://whisper.sh/stories/09e9086b-03de-4087-ad5b-7f003ce2c312/Plus-Sized-Women-Admit-They-Arent-Attracted-To-Overweight-Men
That one took me about 5 seconds to find and I remember seeing others.
https://i.redd.it/m853f4c7nyg01.jpg image from one article I remember infuriatingly reading a couple years ago that was so bad I actually saved the same picture.
Hey can you please censor the g-word? Also i can show you my sources (the bible), so you can learn how bad g#mes truly are.
How could this be created without satanic influences: http://whisper.sh/whisper/0539e5481741b56aaf35ad742e9ed0a6a1bb04/The-Witcher-3-As-a-satanist-for-over-15-years-this-has-the-most-Satani
Where do I see this? Practically everywhere.
The body positivity movement is almost exclusively female for one, and while women are allowed to have preferences for whatever body shape they want for their partner, its either fat-phobic or misogynist for men to have their own preferences.
Besides, plus-sized women aren't attracted to overweight men. Note its the men who are overweight (read: obese) while the women are merely plus-sized.
But the connotation used for the headlines by these kind of reporters will always be more negative when referring to men, when compared to the connotations for women.
Eg. This article that OP posted and This Article where they use Plus Size when referring to women and over-weight when referring to men.
Caro: I saw the scuffed white floors I saw the ABSOLUTELY BONKERS eye makeup I saw the attempts at viral tiktoks I saw the throwback Oxbridge posts I saw the May Ball invites I saw the snake oil grift putter out in less than a month
And I most of all I saw: http://whisper.sh/whisper/0534d1be56f852d9b5a28918e208f14ad1abb4/Heres-the-attention-you-ordered-
Idk where it was from I just searched up “do all skittles taste the same” and looked through images http://whisper.sh/whisper/054057a9c5dc17a01db06ddddf29bfe1b519ec/Fun-factskittles-are-actually-all-the-same-flavor--The-color-and-fact
This isn't accurate. This doesn't account for all women. The men here that think this justifies them calling women fat bitches and ugly are wrong. Skinny or not, we're all humans and deserve respect.
Edit: it's not even an article or study. Fuck off.
She a bitch and a hoe, do some sit ups.
Ofcourse she uses shame at the end.
But just asking can you send me one link, where men get supported outside of body positivity, bc that doesnt really apply. http://whisper.sh/stories/09e9086b-03de-4087-ad5b-7f003ce2c312/Plus-Sized-Women-Admit-They-Arent-Attracted-To-Overweight-Men (just look at the wording)
Yep. Fat women are allowed their preferences (they are, just like everyone else) but they cry FaTphObiA when Johnny Sixpack refuses their advances.
No unless you are sexist then it’s overweight. Read the title of this story http://whisper.sh/stories/09e9086b-03de-4087-ad5b-7f003ce2c312/Plus-Sized-Women-Admit-They-Arent-Attracted-To-Overweight-Men Why are women plus while men overweight
Body positivity is for fat chicks only.
Source: Am fat dude, have never experienced the smallest quantum of body positivity ever.
From fat chicks themselves: http://whisper.sh/stories/09e9086b-03de-4087-ad5b-7f003ce2c312/Plus-Sized-Women-Admit-They-Arent-Attracted-To-Overweight-Men
Lol women do have standards about a man's body. Height is something no man can control nor can he change and most women will not budge on that issue. Even when they are plus sized they don't like overweight men
The difference being women are not chastised for not wanting short men and mask it as vetting or being selective while men have their preference and subtly reveal it disgustingly.
And I'll say again. Is it ridiculous? Depends on the person. A person not wanting an Amazon as a partner is pretty weird (to me at least) but every 5'4 man would trade for your options in a heartbeat.
Do I have to say not all?
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Lol : http://whisper.sh/whisper/05afc20271c45c467a8cb655900f54824fb806/Would-you-date-a-guy-who-is-submissive after being told time and again by feminism that women shouldn't be submissive to men and it's shameful to, some, out of shame/resentment/bitterness, decide to claim to be "dominant", and people out of political correctness, pretend to believe it.
Who among these examples identifies as a fat acceptance activist? They call themselves "plus sized" and "overweight". That's not the same.
overweight women are featured on magazine covers. Even Calvin Klein. Overweight and short men are the butts of all jokes.
Also : "Plus size women" do not want to date plus size men.
Here. Its just overweight women admitting to not being attracted by overweight men and feeling bad for it. They also comment how they dont expect others to like them either because they're overweight themselves.
Still people try to turn this into something from r/fatlogic
Here is the best example of the hypocrisy women get to be plus sized men are always overweight or fat.
You still have interests, and can still communicate. My advice applies. http://whisper.sh/stories/58b17bb6-2451-4032-b528-939e9a11def2/20-People-Reveal-What-Its-Like-To-Date-Someone-Mute
Here's the archived version if anyone prefers it.
I looked up the article out of curiosity. It is basically an amalgamation of random plus-sized women commenting on their personal dating experiences.
I didn't have any issue with any of their views. All of them were very reasonable. They were honest about who they did and didn't find attractive, but they didn't say other people couldn't have preferences either. Most even felt guilty over it, even though they shouldn't. Sexual preferences are fine, just don't expect everyone to be attracted to you. That makes you an ass.
I think I found the source article and women in question actually share how they feel guilty for being plus-sized but not being attracted to plus-sized men. Nobody there is "demanding" anything.
I'm not a panromantic homosexual myself (I'm asexual), but I think there are good reasons why it can be difficult to find others who identify that way, and it doesn't necessarily mean that it's something out of the ordinary. I doubt anyone really knows how common or uncommon it is. But even if they aren't the most visible, they definitely exist: http://whisper.sh/w/MjU0NjE4MTE1
The reason it's so much easier to find panromantic asexuals, for example, is that asexuals basically had no choice but to adopt the "split attraction model" (since experiencing any kind romantic attraction means having to separate romantic and sexual orientation).
But this splitting is not accepted across the entire LGBT community. It's still pretty controversial, and tons of people refuse to accept that it's a real thing, despite people explaining over and over that this is how they experience attraction. That means many people who would otherwise identify as panromantic/biromantic homosexual, might decide to simplify and call themselves bi. I have personally known one such person.
You should be able to find people talking about these kinds of identities in both asexual and bisexual communities. There are plenty where you would be welcome, even if you aren't specifically ace or bi.
I wish you luck and hope you find what you're looking for <3.
I suspect you can find all the sources for that by googling 'humans don't need meat". Here is just one of many.
NB: all heme iron and b vit ingestion involves " exploiting living beings", even in pill form.
I've had this concept in my mind for a long time. The one thing I don't understand is how this angers some people and how they become so defensive over it. Weird as anything, if you ask me.
All my lame one liners are video game related. -Are you NES game cartridge? For some reason, I just want to blow you. -it's dangerous to go alone, take me. Bonus: http://whisper.sh/whisper/051e7d106aa2d875d012ff29c89eaf36ba37b2/I-really-wanna-Pikachu-naked
Exactly. The original source is Whisper, which is a site for people posting anonymous messages about their feelings. It is deliberately sensational, it's how they attract readers.
This guy didn't murder anyone, he just got triggered by tabloid media.
For anyone wondering, this is the article. It's from Whisper. The trash website based on the even worse app. Everything is article says is horrid, with things like "These women open up about dealing with the stigma of being plus-sized and refusing to settle and date overweight men." Why is it that the women are pushing against a stigma but dating men of similar circumstances is "settling".
The posts they cite, however, vary. The first says how she doesn't have anything against plus-sized men, they just often don't take care of their appearance as much she'd like. One chick just says that she likes muscular dudes and can't help it. And most are just confessions of feeling kinda guilty and hypocritical. The "article" is making their small confessions look way worse than they are.
Source -- this is basically just like ten individual people on Whisper who say that they personally don't like overweight men.
It's as if I found ten posts on Whisper of Lebanese men saying they're into footjobs and wrote the headline "LEBANESE MEN ADMIT THEY ARE INTO FOOTJOBS."
Like, come on guys.
I think it might be based on this: http://whisper.sh/stories/09e9086b-03de-4087-ad5b-7f003ce2c312/Plus-Sized-Women-Admit-They-Arent-Attracted-To-Overweight-Men (WARNING: tons of ads, probably even worse on mobile)
But that's not really much of an article, and many of the women who are (supposedly) overweight and no attracted to overweight men are openly discussing how they feel bad about the obvious inconsistency in that, but they can't help the way they feel.
Here's the link to the article. The women don't go about saying "I don't like overweight men and I'm proud of it!". These are probably just some reddit comments
Reagan and Bush, Raegan and bush, these are the words that grant me the Kush
For some reason the ‘plus sized’ vs ‘overweight my discrepancy really only comes up in the beginning. The rest of the time, the women are called overweight (by themselves also), the men are referred to as ‘bigger’ and ‘plus sized’ etc. And most of the women are talking about feeling guilty but not being able to help who they’re attracted to. Before you get too worked up, check out the full article.
kinda like this or something
Idk it’s a little too edgy, but for me I find humor in this kind of stuff.