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Thank you so much!! This would be the one!!

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If she doesn’t like the ones that you’ve gotten her, they might not be the right texture. Maybe try matching the texture of the clothing she’s chewing?

They make cloth chew bands. I have one. They’re nice. You can find them on amazon. Also a site called stimtastic

If it’s just that she’s needing stimulation and it doesn’t have to necessarily be chewing, see if there are other stim toys that she would like?

I know this is basically useless information because it’s what you’ve been doing anyway, I’m sorry.

There may be one other thing. When I get the need to chew sometimes, it’s not because of stimulation. It’s because my gums or jaws are hurting and I don’t know why, and chewing/moving my mouth makes it stop and distracts me. The urge to make it stop may be stronger than the urge to not get her clothes wet.

If there are musical toys she likes to hum along with or sing or make noise, or a song she likes..maybe play that, see if she’ll try that?

Of course, this is all just guesswork on my part, because that’s applicable to my situation, but might not be to hers. So please don’t take what I’ve said with absolute authority. You know your daughter better than anyone else.

For cloth related stim toys on amazon , just try “cloth chew band” and I think a store called the therapy shoppe has some?

Also stimtastic for more rubber based chews and stims is good. Hope this helps.

Edit: here is an example

Fun and Function 2 Blue Chewy Wristbands, All Ages – Give Kids a Chewing Option Other than Clothing, Stretches to 4.5” https://www.amazon.com/dp/B077LW7QGY/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_r6DsCb5RT04A4

I have autism myself, classic autism, and I had to even quit many educations because it just didn't work. Even though the teacher's told me they knew everything about autism. With the last education I did the schoolwork really well, and I was the student with the highest grades of the whole school. But the socializing part of it was just too difficult. Especially when I had to do an internship. So then my education fell through again after trying and trying so hard.

Now I devote my life to my art, and also to raising awareness about autism. I started making videos in which I share my experiences as an autistic person. My goal is to help people understand what goes on in an autistic mind, and how they can create a more autism-friendly situation.

If anybody is interested in watching my videos, here is the link: https://www.patreon.com/remrovsautism?ty=h

When I was younger I had a book called Amazing Mazes (or something like that at any rate) that was just filled with mazes (unsurprisingly), except they were all works of art showing people travelling through these surreal landscapes made up entirely of labyrinths.

It was a good book.

Edit: Found it on Amazon. Goodbye weekend.

Amazon has dimmable strips of LEDs for <$20 eg and it might look better than leaving xmas tree lights up if think you can mount them in a way that looks good to you.

However, just finding light sources that are dimmable for her room will be fine eg led lamp, it just needs to be not be so relentlessly bright all the time.

In a related vein, blackout curtains (and allowing her to control how open they are during the day) are crucial.

Ha ha, same sentiment.

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What about a book? Good-bye Tonsils There are a few other books related to this one on Amazon.

I don't really have any suggestions other than this, but hopefully someone else can offer help. Good luck!

DO NOT WAIT! request an IEP and they have to schedule one within 30 days.

Read up on IDEA an your (and your son's) rights. IDEA is federal, but state and district regulations may provide even more protections.

You are completely right about them retaliating. I'd contact the superintendent of schools immediately and ask for his response in writing, including an apology, a purging of this suspension from the record, and an action plan from your school's administration detailing how they will prevent this from ever happening again. They'll do it.

Don't be angry, don't be scared. Be educated, and assert your rights calmly.

My daughter was expelled at age 6 because I thought the school was on my side, because surely they obey federal law, right? Wrong. Nobody is on your side or your son's side except you.

I suggest the NOLA guide to IDEA and autism, it helped me understand and gave me the legal language needed to turn things around for my family. Here's the amazon link: https://www.amazon.com/Complete-IEP-Guide-Advocate-Special/dp/1413320341/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1475534293&amp;sr=8-1&amp;keywords=NOLO+guide+special+education

https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.oh1000.limitedvolume&amp;hl=en_US It appears that you can do this on android, however android is not quite as user friendly as Apple products admittedly. Android allows for customization of the launcher that you will start apps from as well though. For example Big Launcher is often used for people who have vision problems or need a simpler layout with much less distractions. http://biglauncher.com/ Maybe if you have an android phone you can try some of this out. :)

The author publicly admits he did no research on autism before writing the book, because he believes imagination is better than research.

I think it's a good story, but it's a really bad representation of autism.

As a kid who was diagnosed with ASD at 11, I want to say that school was totally unbearable for me. The world was too intense, and the environment unstimulating at the same time. No-one seemed to care about this. Furthermore, they failed to understand the simple concept of me not being able to handle most sh*t others had to put up with. Henry and Kamila Markram said it best! They have a beautiful explanation, I couldn't stop smiling when I first read this. Even now the article still makes me happy.

You'll never be able to force him to like school if he doesn't. The best thing to to is accommodate him, so as not to traumatize him. My own childhood has left me with emotional damage to the point where I rarely have emotions, and it likely had to do with people forcing me to do things when I literally did not understand what was going on. I hope the article helps, and I highly recommend further reading :) Best of luck to you!

For people considering ABA, I would look at the following sites as part of a complete view of the issue.

http://juststimming.wordpress.com/2011/10/05/quiet-hands/

http://www.indiegogo.com/The-Loud-Hands-Project

A lot of people have had really negative, abusive experiences with ABA. I know that isn't the case in every situation, but it's something to look out for. I also question some people's motives.

Sounds rough, to put it mildly. The only immediately practical thing I can think of, in the absence of earphones/noise cancellers, is seeing if you can persuade them to let you play some white noise to drown other things out.

White noise, though, isn't especially useful for me. I prefer soundscapes that don't have too much "information" in them, but that are a bit more recognisable.

I usually go via here: https://mynoise.net/noiseMachines.php With the time/clocks ones being my favourite.

If you can minimise or mitigate things that cause you stress whilst in the hospital (beside, y'know, the hospital situation itself), then I guess you'll have a better chance of getting everything else lined up & resolved properly. Baby steps, so to speak!

And, for me, not being able to ignore noises is a huge annoyance for me. But having some incessant ticking/clanging of my own choosing seems surprisingly helpful! :D

Hope things start to go your way soon!

I used to use kitchen timers and a visual schedule, and intermix video games with tasks that needed doing - half an hour on one, half an hour on the other. Now I tend to use apps and have my day's schedule set out. At the moment I use TimeTune which allows me to set up different "Day Schedules" that I can toggle on and off as I need them but I may try Accomplish because it looks like it can combine a To-Do list and a short-term calendar which is the kind of thing I respond well too.

I respond very well to structure, routine and schedules so this sort of approach works well for me, but everyone is different.

Nice. There's an app too that might work for you. Has tons of zen like games. My kids love it lol.

https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.JindoBlu.Antistress

Also, there are magnetic rings which can spin around each other.

And maybe the easiest to dump everywhere: a piece of rope and learn some knots. This is my goto. A thick piece of rope is best. Somewhere around 0.4mm in diameter at least.

I just got a pair of these that I've been enjoying. Sony buds tend to work well for me. Decent sound quality for the price and their tips have always fit me. But if they don't fit you, you can always order packs of tips online. Hanging wireless earbuds around your neck is a game changer. I can never go back to fully wired 🙏🏼

I found this toy as a copywriter researching interactive children's toys, these numbered eggs seem pretty fun: https://www.amazon.com/Prextex-Number-Matching-Easter-Yellow/dp/B07ZTW5Y83/ref=pd_lpo_1?pd_rd_i=B07ZTW5Y83&amp;psc=1

Also might want to consider getting him a magnetic board and some number magnets that he can shift around and place in order as he likes.

Consider getting different sets with different color shades/textures/finishes to make them more visually stimulating.

I guess you’ve probably already seen this but in case you haven’t

https://www.amazon.co.uk/All-Cats-Are-Autism-Spectrum/dp/1787754715

You don’t say how old your son is, that might change what’s useful for him.

ETA: I self identify as autistic and have read the updated version of this book and found it to be generally quite good. I haven’t tried using it with my kids yet to explain it to them but my oldest is only 5 (though I suspect is also autistic).

I agree. I really enjoy this sub. I cautiously offer the following recommendation.

Read "How to handle neurotypicals: A field survival guide for the neurodivergent" by Abel Abelson. However, a few cautions:

1. He is a bit enamored with his own intellect... which makes it cringy at times.
2. The book sometimes crosses the line of ASD superiority... which is a great perspective to understand, but it may be likely to cause problems if fully embraced.

With those cautions stated, this book was significant for me to better frame and navigate the differences between the ND and the NT people in my life.

Hope that is helpful in some way.

There are a couple of books on Amazon UK.

I Think I Might Be Autistic: A Guide to Autism Spectrum Disorder Diagnosis and Self-Discovery for Adults https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/0989597113/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_SCPIxb4TH3Y4Y

and Sensory Issues for Adults with Autism Spectrum Disorder https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/1849056617/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_ODPIxbG8DPSRT

Both have kindle versions.

It's on Amazon. You're in luck if you don't mind getting it on Kindle. I'm having a free book promotion from Tuesday (12/12) through Sunday 12/16. You can download it free of charge at the link below. Please keep me posted. -Paul

https://www.amazon.com/Fishers-Autism-Trilogy-Paul-Nelson-ebook/dp/B01N2NTZVH/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1513025563&amp;sr=1-1&amp;keywords=fisher%27s+autism+trilogy+kindle

Asperger's was overdiagnosed--one of the main criticisms with DSM IV is that Asperger's Syndrome became a bucket for odd behaviors. The DSM IV criteria poorly matched originally described cases by Asperger's (where his met autism). I want to clarify the first link is using hypothesis testing with p values and so an abstract really won't say as much as one would prefer especially with notable fallacies being quite prevalent in those. DSM V sacrificed sensitivity for specificity. There will be a decrease in diagnosis, even in Asperger's cases, and the amount has been debated. Recall that Social Communication Disorder has been added, which hopes to catch those that fail to meet the criteria of repetitive and routine behaviors--an inevitability of the stricter criteria.

What's more telling is more recent study that looks at the results of the revision thus far and less a prediction:

Abstract: http://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10803-016-2942-y

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Do you mean things like Trello and Notion? Because that sort of thing already exists, and I'd say they're already very accessible to autistic people

Restless Leg Syndrome?

https://www.webmd.com/brain/restless-legs-syndrome/restless-legs-syndrome-rls#1

https://www.ninds.nih.gov/Disorders/Patient-Caregiver-Education/Fact-Sheets/Restless-Legs-Syndrome-Fact-Sheet

I have made quite a few more videos. About elementary school, post elementary school, about sensory issues, about my pencil drawings and breakdowns, and I'm planning to make many more (I just started this project a month and a half ago). Some of them are free to watch for everybody, the ones on YouTube, but you can watch all of them on my Patreon page, for 1 dollar a month.
https://www.patreon.com/remrovsautism

You said you like playing board games, do you have a local board game shop? They often have open game nights. If that sounds like too many people, there are websites like Board Game Arena, where you can play games with people online. If RPGs like Dungeon or Dragons is something that interests you, you can find a group on Roll20.

I think slowing finding friends outside of your siblings will be healthier in the end. Even if they're just internet friends, you can still get a lot of enjoyment and social time, without having to rely so heavily on your brother and sister. In fact, building healthy relationships with other people may give you a better model for how friendships are supposed to work.

Almond milk, too. Yum! And Whole Foods supposedly has some delicious lactose free cheese that my sister (lactose intolerant) says tastes the same and acts like regular cheese.

Corn Dogs are a delicious abomination but they're pretty common as options at a State Fair, for example. They're hot dogs (Franks), surrounded by corn meal, and then fried. http://allrecipes.com/Recipe/A-Plus-Fair-Corn-Dogs/Detail.aspx

ABA is the only empirically based intervention for autism. Speech, OT, Pivotal Response Training, none of these interventions have dozens of peer reviewed journals and thousands of published studies, backed by science, to prove their effectiveness. ABA does.

ABA doesn't have to be long hours, however early and intense intervention results in the best outcome for children on the spectrum. In America, typically, Speech Therapy is provided in 1-2 30-45min. sessions per week. It's not very intense.

There's something called Sensory Processing Disorder. It's not a fully recognized disorder, but it seems to provide gap coverage for people who aren't exactly autistic per se, but clearly have some sorta issue with "typical" interactions.

And just to be clear, your kiddo makes good eye contact, seems to be able to use their imagination, no repetitious activities of any type, comfortable in different environments, standard response to sights, smells, touch, hearing, etc? Do they seem to grasp basic cause and effect? Able to anticipate things, like associating setting the dinner table with eating and food?

Yeah updating to a newer OS stresses me out too, I almost cried when my dad upgraded to '98. You can make 10 look more like 7 though. This is what I use http://classicshell.net/

My dad also has an 80 year old neighbor who hasn't moved on from DOS and went on a massive rant when I asked him about it. I'm 99.9% sure he's diagnosed autistic.

Scratch is an online and free project from MIT which is great for teaching kids about programming:

https://scratch.mit.edu/about/

Our 7 year old has played around with it for a bit it would definitely be appropriate for those 7-12 just getting introduced into formal programming.

Active Noise Cancelling Headphones, HROEENOI JZ02 Bluetooth Headphones, Over Ear Wireless Headphones, CVC 8.0 Microphone Deep Bass Headset, 40 Hours Playtime, Foldable Adults Travel Work PC TV Black https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08T67XB4T/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_glt_fabc_N845M24KM1E3819K217Y?_encoding=UTF8&amp;psc=1

I use those, they're surprisingly good for the price point. Not as good as BOSE I'd bet but waaaay less expensive.

Connecting With The Autism Spectrum is my go-to for people wanting resources. It's basically Autism 101. It's written by an Autistic author too. It's short and very reader friendly at only about 100 pages without citations.

First of all, great art! Second, I literally had to put a patch on mine about making eye contact. It seems everywhere I go, people stare my service dog down. I had to get this patch: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B073QKKBD8/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_image_o05_s00?ie=UTF8&amp;psc=1 (It seemed to let me paste an image, but then didn't, so I did a link instead. Sorry.)

I searched "I love math and cats" to see if a funny gif/pic would come up and found this, maybe knowing it exists will be nice for you?

No, it’s a plastic thing you can buy, they sell them at drugstores where I live. Let me see if I can find a picture.

Edit: https://www.amazon.com/Cool-Protection-Stand-Comfortable-Breathing/dp/B088CT535G this is just a random Amazon link, but this is what I mean!

With my 4 year old daughter we started when she was 2.5 and she can now read simple sentences and books, but that didn't work with my 3 year old son so we did this book set when he was 2.5 also

You will want to check with your GP to rule out other causes, and research health insurance coverage for testing. Mine covered it, but many don't. Then, you will want to schedule an appointment at a covered provider.

The process takes a lot of time (10 months for me), and can be costly. They will also discuss some other possibilities that may be scary (brain tumors and schizophrenia were discussed in my case). Don't give up though, knowing can make a big difference in quality of life (and will improve later medical care).

This book was recommended to me after diagnosis, but may help you: https://www.amazon.com/Think-Might-Autistic-Diagnosis-Self-Discovery/dp/0989597113/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&amp;qid=1611200312&amp;sr=8-1

i got a kit to build a marble roller for christmas, it’s fun to build and fun to mess with. if he’s into building stuff like that, it could definitely be a good option https://www.amazon.com/ROKR-Toys-Magic-Decoration-Assembly-Christmas-Grandfather/dp/B079KVV67L

Keeping my fingers crossed that you can track down a few in the wilderness! Closest I could find was the Amazon listing (though out-of-stock) https://www.amazon.com/Kids-Preferred-Carters-Plush-Elephant/dp/B00Y3V0FKC

Maybe knowing the official name of the toy will help. Have you contacted Carters?

Very interesting. I've not read this perspective before about preventing stimming being counterproductive to learning, though I've read plenty about it being emotionally damaging. I'm currently reading Thinking, Fast and Slow so seeing it framed in terms of the ideas in that book resonated with me too.

I'm not on the spectrum myself but I do stim when I work - I shake my leg up and down under the table, much to the annoyance of my workmates. I hadn't considered this might actually be beneficial to me but I'll be sure to bring it up next time they tell me to stop!

I carry two similar cards (one is a registered scheme with local constabularies and emergency services, and the other is from the National Autistic Society). I can end up losing the ability to communicate coherently so they're invaluable to me.

I also have a fantastic Emergency Chat app (on Android - created by a fellow Aspie Redditor). I really recommend this to anyone who also has difficulty with verbal communication in situations. Both the title and message are configurable.

Perhaps contact Verizon and discuss a zero minute contract option, or some form of call barring at their end. There are apps for the iPhone that can lock it down, but I've never tried them: http://www.makeuseof.com/tag/lock-childs-iphone-access-hide-apps-ios-restrictions/

I hate it so much. Then people that share it think they're being helpful, but it actually just contributes to harmful stereotypes about our capabilities.

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This article summed up my frustrations pretty well.

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https://www.huffpost.com/entry/kodi-lee-americas-got-talent-ableism_n_5cf0096fe4b0e346ce7aa94f

That's ok! Sometimes medication is the right choice. I don't think we have many good ways to treat anger outbursts like that. And they are definitely a problem for him and others.

Have you tried doing your own research in scholarly journals on this? It can be very enlightening. You might find something that your doctors don't know about. The fastest way to search a lot is with Google Scholar, imo. You can learn a lot just from the abstracts, but you'll need a university to get access to journal articles themselves (because of the corrupt journal system).

Here's one search: http://scholar.google.com/scholar?q=uncontrollable+anger+autism&amp;btnG=&amp;hl=en&amp;as_sdt=0%2C23

Everything I have encountered in public education settings echos the beliefs that early childhood interventions are key. IMHO, after a little Googling, it seems the question is moving from "should we" to "how can we best" implement early interventions.

&quot;It is encouraging that debates over how much and what kind of early intervention children with autism should receive have largely replaced debates over whether such intervention merits any particular emphasis at all.&quot;

Firefox has a reader mode that reduces the page to text https://support.mozilla.org/en-US/kb/firefox-reader-view-clutter-free-web-pages

Also, it's most likely ads, so AdBlocker https://adblockplus.org might help out to start. It'll let you manually block the images as well is that's a feasible solution for you (just right-click and block element should be in the context menu maybe under the extension sub menu)

Thank you very much for your very encouraging words!
I have quite a few more videos on YouTube and even more on my Patreon Page: https://www.patreon.com/remrovsautism?ty=h

I have never tried airbrush actually. I might try some time :)

To be honest the only "autism memes" I've seen are things like AspieBot which I don't think are offensive at all. I'm not saying offensive ones don't exist, I just haven't seen them.

You're misunderstanding life changing events from the insurance perspective. They're listed here: https://www.healthcare.gov/coverage-outside-open-enrollment/special-enrollment-period/

What you're talking about us surgically what the insurance won't cover. Limited open enrollment is their protection against someone getting minor coverage until something bad happens and then switching to better coverage. Insurance only works if pay into it when healthy.

Do you know what causes Autism? Cause if so, collect your Nobel prize.

Also, it's categorized as a disorder

Oh, so there's a funny thing about the history of hoarding, this Prezi (check out the "Historical Moments" bubble in particular, and the stuff that comes after that) is the best breakdown I'm aware of off the top of my head and can thus post without risk of going down an internet rabbit-hole...

(Basic takeaway there though, was that, yeah, the idea of "hoarding" did used to be about wealthy people hoarding even more wealth and then people hoarding communally-needed resources during times of scarcity like WWII -- and this was seen as socially condemnable -- but then during the course of the 20th century it shifted to a public health and mental illness framework which hadn't really existed before, and the miserly-greed sense of it mostly faded away.)

I use this site. (It looks like an ad, but you can use it free.) It's meant for fiction writing, but it's been helpful for my nonfiction as well. You set a word count or time goal, and if you don't consistently keep writing, it has a built-in consequence to encourage you.

Naturally it has to be edited afterwards...but it's a lot easier (for me at least) to edit something already there than try to write it perfectly the first time.

If he loves water like our kiddo does, there might be some good options here and not all are expensive but could provide hours of relaxation and entertainment.

https://www.walmart.com/search/?query=water%20table%20toy

Check out these stock ones https://www.freepik.com/premium-vector/colorful-infinity-symbol-collection_2454399.htm

Try to replicate one of them or any other icon/logo that looks professional and that’s how you’ll learn fast. If you need any help or suggestion feel free to dm me

add dad with autistic son here so firstly well done and great attitude keep going, ask for help if your autism is holding you back. focus and get grades as good grades help overcome a lack of social skills or other issues that your autism impacts you with. going all the groups your interested in as well as you will get to know people, say rock climbing or debating whatever your autism strengths are play to them and ask for help, good luck....

Marine Biology is cool look up a British guy used his autism as a strength

https://www.bbc.co.uk/iplayer/episode/b09b1zbb/chris-packham-aspergers-and-me

No. Here's an example for a cypher I could use would be for every website I would use the following rules:

1. Type the first 2 letters of the website using lower case.
2. Type the last 2 letters of the website using upper case.
3. Type the current year but instead of using numbers hold down shift so that it generates symbols instead of numbers.
4. My current age.
5. The first letter of each word in a simple phrase that's easy to remember using lower case. For example "Life Is Good Man" becomes ligm

So a password for this website [www.mywebsite.com] is:

Password: myTE@)!(29ligm

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So if I were to memorize this 5 step cipher I'm generating a unique password for every website that should be updated once a year. These passwords would be strong against brute force hacks. And the only downside is that if a hacker were able to figure out my cipher they could use it to try to get into my other accounts. But I use different ciphers depending on the type of account, for example my financial accounts don't use a cipher but a randomized password using a program called keepass

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https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07DF9GVK9/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&amp;psc=1

It charges quietly, it does make a loud beep if its stuck somewhere and when it docks, but you can set the time for it to do its cleaning and I just set mine for while I'm asleep because I'm the only one in the house with Auditory Sensory issues.

Forget two different people; I have these competing needs going on in my own mind! I have ADHD (hyperactive and inattentive) and am autistic, and I have to negotiate these boundaries all the time within myself.

Both sides need to be treated with respect, and compromises will need to happen, but without losing the essence of the core identity of these distinct parts of me. Personally, this required a lot of time with a therapist for me. There’s not a straight-forward, one-size-fits-all solution.

Between people who have competing needs, I think it’s all about identifying and negotiating healthy, flexible boundaries. These can be difficult to navigate, so I suggest looking up assertive communication strategies and use that as a “blueprint” for communicating those boundaries. My favorite recent book on how to identify and navigate healthy boundaries themselves is this one.

I don’t think any of this is a science. It’s more of an art form, where each of us ends up having our own style. I think that’s what makes navigating differing needs and boundaries so hard... not just for autistics, but for all humans.

I have these and they're great. Not 100% noise cancelling, but very close. They charge quick, and hold a charge for over 75 hours by my count. There are newer versions than mine, but I'd recommend. I never use the mic, so I can't comment on that. The sound is great, never had any issues with the Bluetooth connecting straight away.

Knowing why (https://www.amazon.com/dp/1938800079/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_glt_fabc_20TMAX1R5VEYNYVR6V7C)

NeuroTribes (https://www.amazon.com/dp/0399185615/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_glt_fabc_RC2ZXZEG6VFT1BSRRBBG)

Hmm if they don't wanna get the plush maybe try a maternity pillow. I've been debating getting one because of the comfort and cuddling with it. They look like this and look so comfortable.

My favorite ones are apple AirPods Pro. They’re pricey, but they work great, and block better than my over-the-ear Beats somehow. I like playing ambient sounds or white noise through them if I need extra sound masking.

But you may also get good results from some simple silicone ear plugs, too. I’m going to try that next. I even found some online that let a small amount of sound through, if you still need to hear your surroundings but need an overall reduction. Seems like they’d be good for work, or home, or any time when you need some peace but still need to hear a bit.

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08TCH6CVB/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_736TZVCBXGYWDAPSW8T5?_encoding=UTF8&amp;psc=1

Neuroclastic. Written by Autistics for Autistics.

Connecting With The Autism Spectrum is a good Autism 101 book.

Connecting with The Autism Spectrum is my personal go-to. I find it it be a very approachable book. It's only about 100 pages without citations and is written in a clear, concise, direct manner without being demeaning. Plus, the author is Autistic! I've been in the community for about two years and it actually taught me a few things I never knew.

I just got these (which are on sale). I am also scared of silence.... They're nice, and don't provide complete silence.

https://www.amazon.com/Sony-Noise-Cancelling-Headphones-WHCH710N/dp/B085RNVJ3P/ref=sr_1_5?dchild=1&amp;keywords=sony+headphones&amp;qid=1611271477&amp;sr=8-5

For your earplug recommendation, the Howard Leight Light Sleepers ... GREEN box, (lightweight) not the original version.

a bunch in packs here:

https://www.amazon.com/Howard-Leight-Honeywell-Disposable-LPF-1/dp/B000RMFGGY/ref=sr_1_7?dchild=1&amp;keywords=howard+leight+light+sleepers&amp;qid=1611025268&amp;sr=8-7

As a follow-up. The theory of different colors for reading has pretty much been debunked, but he may be able to focus better on different colors. Here is a pack from Amazon that has clear and different colors.

No, they don't. They attenuate 35db of sound - it makes things super quiet. I got mine through Amazon.

A link to the ones I use on Amazon

Hope this helps!

Might be a dodge, but I think any book that can tell how to reduce anxiety or manage stress would have value.

NeuroTribes has some history of our condition, and might help you feel better about having it.

Mozart and the Whale is kind - of romantic comedy, but is available in book and video, and true.

The Curious Case of the Dog in the Night-Time might show a little of what it is like to be an autistic kid, but maybe not much about practical advice for parenting.

Temple Grandin has written several, which seem to be mostly about what it is like being autistic, and maybe some of the strengths.

Cutting-Edge Therapies for Autism might be worth a look, but last I saw, had little with which to compare costs and benefits.

You also might want to check out SPARK, which will do a free DNA test, and give Amazon gift vouchers for participating in their research.

Try face shields instead: they don’t touch the face but still protect you and those around you. I got these 2 for my son, but I use them too because I have huge sensory issues with the texture of paper masks:

R20 Protective Face Shields with Clear Vision, Adjustable, Lightweight and Anti-Fog For Eye Protection. Made in The USA (2 Pack) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B086SB6Y7J/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_7eLfFbNZPCE8X

Mascare SG4 1 Plus 4 Food Handlers Anti-Fog Transparent Face Shield https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07ZPG9TPD/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_giLfFbC5B8FDC

I do that too. I've been struggling to cut down on it myself over the years, still working on it.

Some good suggestions in this thread so far, most of which I already try to do anyway lol!

Have you (or anyone else in this thread) already tried Cognitive Behavioural Therapy?

You could try having a look at the link to this book. Overcoming Depression by Paul Gilbert. It's aimed at depression, obvs, but it's one of the best instruction manuals for CBT that I've found...

https://www.amazon.co.uk/gp/product/1849010668/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1634&amp;creative=6738&amp;creativeASIN=1849010668&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=litbroboogro-21

Edit: Forgot to say - Good luck cutting down on your day-nightmares

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Sounds weird, and I hope it could be done without someone thinking badly of you or something, but mine go for dog toys. Especially that soft limp "faux fox" with the squeaky ball inside it. When it eventually developed a seam rip, I confess that took advantage of the repair operation to conduct a squeakectomy...

Edit to add: This thing. https://www.amazon.com/Ethical-Skinneeez-24-Inch-Stuffingless-squeaking/dp/B0018CIDTE/ref=sr_1_3?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1538067282&amp;sr=8-3&amp;keywords=dog+toy+fox

I second darn tough socks. I also hate the feeling of seams on socks. Darn tough are very cozy and comfortable and I’m sitting here at work pushing my toes to the front of my socks trying to feel the seam and I can’t. I’m not sure about the female equivalent socks I use but these look about right. Light cushion is their thinnest, cushion is a good everyday sock and full cushion is thickest and best for winter. I hope this helps. I absolutely love my socks and have turned 5 people on to them who have all now got rid of all their old socks and only wear these. I realize I’m starting to sound like I work for them I swear I don’t lol.

I highly recommend An Early Start For Your Child With Autism. It's the guidebook for the Early Start Denver Model, and it was a great help with speech. Also, look into non-verbal forms of communication. We did signing and some pictures first. We still use pictures with my son on occasion, even though he speaks fully now. There's this idea that verbal communication is the best way to communicate, and that's simply not true for everyone.

Assume competence. When my son started speech therapy at 15 months, he showed no understanding of words. Later, we realized that he understood words that he showed no understanding of before.

Here's a little write up I did of some of the speech lessons I learned from the ESDM.

The most important thing I've learned though, is to find out what interests your child and use that for speech. What does your son really like? Any toys he prefers? You said Superwhy. Are there any songs from the story that could help you connect? (Daniel Tiger is great for this). How does he react to pictures of characters from the show or figurines?

I'd also get a new ABA therapist if your current behavior plan isn't working and they haven't developed a new one.

I have a nearly 3 year old son with autism and I've found the book An Early Start For Your Child With Autism invaluable for helping him develop good communication skills. It breaks down everything so that it's easy for a parent to understand and follow, and was developed by the UC Davis MIND institution and has been well studied with great results.

I also like the book Engaging Autism, which is based on the Floortime method, although it is designed for children a little bit older. Between the two, I'd start with ESDM, although they are complimentary and there's no reason you can't do both at once.

I have two 34x52" protectors by Priva for my 9 yr old. They are slightly more narrow and a bit shorter than a twin, so you may want to get a bigger size. I ordered mine from Amazon and they have several sizes and fitting types. I have found them to be actually waterproof! It is saving a lot of wear and tear on our mattress. The ones I have are not fitted around the entire mattress, so you may need a different configuration. Hope that helps!

Things vary greatly depending on what state/country you are in.

My best advice is to know your rights, and know the law. When I was starting out I bought a book from Barnes and Noble, and then did hours of reading and research online. A case manager from your county's Disabilities Department (or MHMR, or whatever your state calls it) can also help, but remember that he/she has the state's interests to protect-- he/she is not a neutral party.

I mostly have experience in Pennsylvania. We moved to Ohio a few months ago. so I'm still learning the ins and outs here.

Some US government advice: http://www2.ed.gov/parents/needs/speced/iepguide/index.html

This is the book I started with. There may well be better books out there. http://www.amazon.com/Complete-IEP-Guide-Advocate-Special/dp/1413320341/ref=sr_1_3?s=books&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1430825688&amp;sr=1-3&amp;keywords=IEP

Good luck! Stay patient! Stay strong!

If you have specific questions, feel free to PM me. Or if you just need an internet hug or need to vent.

I mentioned this in a thread earlier today, but you may want to check out this book. It's meant for parents of kids with Down syndrome, but I think it would work well for autistics too. Lots of diagrams, and the text is very straightforward. Just make sure you read it beforehand so you can show him the parts he needs to know. (No reason to get caught up in the details of menstruation or anything else irrelevant.)

My brother is on the spectrum so his financial independence has always worried me too. It led me to create my startup (ReAble). We recently released our Wallet app that visually guides people through the process of making a cash transaction seamlessly and safely. It adapts to unique challenges faced by the user like reading comprehension, dexterity, even things like color sensitivity. It also keeps you as a parent aware of all purchases (time, location, price, and a picture) in real time so that there is still accountability. We're giving out free 1 year subscriptions for the next month. We know this only covers one aspect of financial independence, but we are working on other applications of our unique interface to address things like banking accessibility as well. If you'd like to try it out we'd love to hear what you think about it, here's the playstore link:

https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.reable.wallet&amp;hl=en

technically there is this, swiftkey symbols, but it is limited and I don't think I found it too good when I pondered upon it after I first heard about it.

https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.swiftkey.symbols&amp;hl=en_GB

My communication is fine though. I'm the annoying, loud and obnoxious type and also highly sexual frustrated and always laughing and not thinking before I speak. So an app like this isn't very useful for me but I can see how it would be.

Good luck with it :D

You might try loop earplugs. They filter out the loud noises and the distant conversations but still let nearby conversations get through at a comfortable level so that you can still communicate with coworkers and bosses. They are also inconspicuous and just look like jewelry. I use them at home when my kids are being too loud but I still want to be able to talk with my wife.

https://www.amazon.com/Loop-Experience-Pro-Earplugs-Accessories/dp/B0968HFSMH/ref=sxts\_rp\_s\_a\_1\_0?content-id=amzn1.sym.baab4206-64c6-4030-8499-88f2f76870e3%3Aamzn1.sym.baab4206-64c6-4030-8499-88f2f76870e3&amp;crid=33KD6Q7R593EM&amp;cv\_ct\_cx...

Hi op I’ve just googled that book. Is it the one about mercury?

It might be an ok read.

There is a description of the book if you scroll down.

https://www.amazon.com/Age-Autism-Medicine-Man-Made-Epidemic/dp/0312545622/ref=nodl_?dplnkId=ecc28cf2-5d6b-43c8-a71a-1623a257d1bd

theres these acrylic clear blocks from amazon here

they’re on my christmas list! they look so fascinating, i’m sure he’ll love them

Everyone is different, but my wife started with something like this so we could see what we like:

https://www.amazon.com/Sensory-Fidgeting-Package-Anxiety-Infinity/dp/B0B4W9N1XX

These are my favorite though. I almost always have a 6 link length in my pocket:

https://www.amazon.com/Yeetec-Sensory-Puzzles-Fillers-Favours/dp/B092PDTZ89

A set of 280 colored pencils! (I don't even show all 280 in the picture, there are many grays and browns too, and they also have 12 metallic colors and 12 neon colors which weren't shown)

Found some on Amazon:

here

I think this may be the one they have

https://www.amazon.com/BESTEN-Floorless-Indoor-Privacy-Drafty/dp/B07FD6JK68/ref=mp_s_a_1_5?adgrpid=121891699853&amp;gclid=CjwKCAiAhKycBhAQEiwAgf19eoBhqrrsVu6UKO_rxVfZCQIsYxlcggDPDINZxgE7Dsi1826vn4Ky2hoCTmwQAvD_BwE&amp;hvadid=521152679913&amp;hvdev...

Have you gotten the Anatomy Coloring Book too? It sounds like it would be something you'd enjoy; it's both fun to color and very helpful for learning different systems. Here's a link to it on Amazon.

Until then:

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B075F9FV9Y?pd_rd_i=B075F9FV9Y&amp;pf_rd_p=72255690-0c34-414f-8ce9-39b891076bd4&amp;pf_rd_r=P6R8VQQD5Y75RSC79ZZW&amp;pd_rd_wg=ARIo8&amp;pd_rd_w=prhCK&amp;pd_rd_r=c15b5d07-bc02-4765-956b-3d02235b2b68

This has been really hard for my son, but we found one that works for him. It's this brand: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01M9BRYDL/

The unflavored version is basically just slightly sweet without any other flavors present. It is sweetened with Xylitol which is very toxic to dogs so make sure your dogs don't eat any of it.

> a fully submerged teaspoon

may I introduce you to latte spoons? Tablespoon handle, teaspoon size head. We got them for coffee but I use them to stir big cups of anything, also eat oatmeal and other foods with it.

ProTip:

If you don’t mind looking foolish when at home (not out and about, as they may come off), try wearing them on your face like a chin-strap.

In a ‘U’ with the bar designed to go behind your neck, instead either in front of your chin or under your chin, with the sound bits where they usually go.

It sounds dorky, but seriously it reduces the pressure even further and extends wear time considerably.

You can even sleep in them this way (I literally do).

The stupidly expensive (nearly $180 MSRP; Cyber Monday sale $143) latest-gen top-of-the-line ones are even MORE comfortable, for even longer.

Not an affiliate link:

https://smile.amazon.com/gp/product/B09BVXT8TJ

Yes! Sooo much! That achey feeling is intolerable. Every time someone suggests headphones to minimize sensory overload in public, I'm like...don't I wish lol. I also can't stand the sensation of ear wax melting or my ears sweating either, so anything meant to make sounds a private affair have been a no go for me.

For a while I was really struggling with ear infections, which cleared up when I completely stopped putting things over my ears (including pillows though).

Lately, I've been using these bone conducive bluetooth earphones like these ones, and I can tolerate them way longer than any others I've used before, although still no more than an hour or so. They're cheapy, and not good bluetooth, but better than nothing.

I've got these; they don't go over your ear at all, and in fact conduct through your skin to your inner ear (meaning you can use them with legitimate ear plugs to block out other noise.) They even make waterproof ones that work while swimming.

I love them so much. Sound quality isn't fantastic. But I can wear them so much longer than normal headphones without discomfort! I keep ear plugs with me, and can use them when I mow the lawn or vacuum, and still hear music (podcasts have to be too loud to be heard over a lawnmower clearly though; even with ear plugs.)

Don’t know where you are but here in Germany every kid has them from time to time. I did too. Here’s what I use:

https://www.amazon.de/Nyda-express-Pumpl%C3%B6sung-2X50-ml/dp/B07DKZZ3ML?ref_=ast_sto_dp

Otherwise, dunk your head (scap only) in alcohol for a few minutes, works too.

Hi :) I use these I have a large chest as well and they aren’t the most supportive tbh, but once I started using them I couldn’t wear anything else. I also only wear baggy shirts because of sensory issues so the lack of support doesn’t matter too much for me.